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2BB4CB3E:
hahahaha
i remember when that answer used to piss me off lmao
(yes or no) cheating has only one meaning
but i understand sha!
reforms for a guys lol
lets face facts the real problem is women!
especially in ur teen years do you ladies know how many guys, you destroyed then!!!!
think its ironic, the same guys come back to bite you when u become adults lmao

czarr:
Women want everything!!!!

KingCheezyPuff:
[color=#0099ff]Let's face facts.
❤ Not all men are players Hoes.
❤and some women don't stick with 1 man either. So......[/color]

2BB4CB3E:
so basically any relationship not protected by the umbrella of marriage
is open season? abi?
we are saying the same thing na!
its only an ugly guy or girl that stays faithful and they do it cause they have no choice!
there was this lady some years back that worked in the office were i did my IT. her ass was massive obviously if not i wont notice, so we talked and hooked up! but we were always making out in her car or outdoors, am patient so i didn't complain as long as i could touch her ass lol, one day i was like, whats up?
am i just a kissing machine or what? dont you trust me or somtin?
and she said that she was married and that her husband was abroad, she didnt want to cheat on him sexually!!
if he was a boyfriend! am sure that she wont have said anything!!!

KingCheezyPuff:
[color=#0099ff] I'm done with this conversation but know we ARE NOT saying the same thing. [/color]

2BB4CB3E:
6 years ago
I was in love
I literally had dreams of me marrying her
I will watch a movie and see a family and imagine her
Or see a romantic movie and think about her
Got so bad! I eventually had to sacrifice my future for her (turned down a life changing opportunity)
because I didn't want to lose her
When I hear a friend say his girlfriend left him because of s*x
I became better
Money I became more generous
Because of affection I will go to the beach write our names in sand
Arrange a picnic basket, cook and take her there
You see eh
I may be many things but when I want to express love I go all out
Every-time I held her or kissed her
It always felt like the first time
When am with her all my problems disappear
I wanted to build a house, wanted to marry her court wedding
What didn't I think
How didn't I love this girl
But......
My family is sort of proud so my sisters were always giving her cold shoulder
I had to spend my money and lie that she got things for them and slowly they liked her
Fast forward to 2years later
Am not stupid
When I noticed a deficiency I always try to make up for it
If I notice that I don't take my girlfriend out often
I will make sure that when we are indoors, she has the time of her life
So I always covered that area, made sure she never felt unwanted
I had a 6feets picture of her in my room "6feets"
There was nothing I didn't do for this girl
If she wanted me to follow her to hell I would have
I DIDN'T CHEAT ON THIS GIRL AT ALL, I DIDN'T EVEN TOAST ANY GIRL NOT BECAUSE I WAS STUPID BUT BECAUSE I WANTED TO BE COMMITED
Then she left me because a guy wanted to marry her (because she is yoruba and am not) and she felt that my mum will never allow us to be together
I didn't beg her! I told her that as long as she is happy, am happy
And I went home
Fell sick, had sleepless nights, was wondering what I did wrong
What didn't I try, if i could sell myself for her i would have
How didn't I make effort, there was nothing i didnt do for this girl wont go into details sha
They took me to a church cause I wasn't eating, pastors gathered around me praying, everyone tot that it was jazz
She went to my house 2 days later and was begging my sisters to beg me that she wasn't happy
That she made a mistake that I didn't beg her when she ended things that she was testing me
that i didn't fight for our love
Funny enough my sisters didn't tell me
My phones were off
After 2weeks I turned on my phone and went back home
She sent me 153 messages I will never forget it
I read each text
Twice
She came to the house talked and talked but my heart was changed forever
You see, when you do everything for someone
And that person hurts you
What really hurts isn't the person leaving you
Is the dreams and plans you had for that person
Being destroyed
took me years to get over her!
when i finally healed i realized one thing you women cry for love, but when you get it you will still destroy it
since then any big yansh i see, express road things

Alvinnado:
hmmmm guy no be only you oooo,as I dey nah I no get heart,a girl destroyed mine back in 2011,I ain't perfect but quiet good.......my heart is precious and ain't ready to shed tears for any girl,so everybody pack well,NO FLIRTING

2BB4CB3E:
and they will keep saying " not all girls are bad its who you met" pure rubbish

2BB4CB3E:
preach to them! girls in their teens have an unstable mindset, so they tend to always mess things up, guys dont just wake up and say hey i want to be playing with girls! its always a result of hurt and pains, funny part is that women expect men to suffer pain and continue tying lol jokers
i will only love my wife, anygirl i am not married to should not bother assuming!

signed [size=19pt] Sir Yanshious [/size]

torqque7:
Spot on..they are quick to say guys are evil and wicked but never seem to remember how they hurt another guy somewhere else..love a girlfriend at your peril,hell even married women cheat even after doing everything possible to show how much you love them. I had mine after she went for nysc and since then,I love with my heart and brain. Not like I am using what she did to me to judge other girls I meet,NO that's not the case,it's just that I am wiser now and VERY cautious.

As for me,hmm trust and love now are luxuries I can't afford,before I fall in love with a girl,she must prove beyond reasonable doubt that she is worth it 110%

the ONLY woman you should trust is ur wife!!!
for you to decide to marry her alone! she has earned your trust !
as for boo boo and bulldogs lmao
i found a way to date and still protect myself from pains wrote a post about it!

https://www.nairaland.com/3216189/6-ways-protect-yourself-heartbreak

go and download ur antivirus ooooo

2BB4CB3E:
the ONLY woman you should trust is ur wife!!!
for you to decide to marry her alone! she has earned your trust !
as for boo boo and bulldogs lmao
i found a way to date and still protect myself from pains wrote a post about it!

https://www.nairaland.com/3216189/6-ways-protect-yourself-heartbreak

go and download ur antivirus ooooo

torqque7:
Lol antivirus,that has been downloaded Tay tay

Alvinnado:
I dey tell you,girls re wicked,only cuz she get admission before me.

she got admission before you!
dude tell anyone that has sense eh! if ur babe is going to university!
leave her oooo, she will promise and promise but leave her!
the way u feel when the pastor preaching to you is in-front of you,
is diff from the way you will feel when he is far away preaching over the phone!
long distance relationship is like titanic better story

2BB4CB3E:
6 years ago
I was in love
I literally had dreams of me marrying her
I will watch a movie and see a family and imagine her
Or see a romantic movie and think about her
Got so bad! I eventually had to sacrifice my future for her (turned down a life changing opportunity)
because I didn't want to lose her
When I hear a friend say his girlfriend left him because of s*x
I became better
Money I became more generous
Because of affection I will go to the beach write our names in sand
Arrange a picnic basket, cook and take her there
You see eh
I may be many things but when I want to express love I go all out
Every-time I held her or kissed her
It always felt like the first time
When am with her all my problems disappear
I wanted to build a house, wanted to marry her court wedding
What didn't I think
How didn't I love this girl
But......
My family is sort of proud so my sisters were always giving her cold shoulder
I had to spend my money and lie that she got things for them and slowly they liked her
Fast forward to 2years later
Am not stupid
When I noticed a deficiency I always try to make up for it
If I notice that I don't take my girlfriend out often
I will make sure that when we are indoors, she has the time of her life
So I always covered that area, made sure she never felt unwanted
I had a 6feets picture of her in my room "6feets"
There was nothing I didn't do for this girl
If she wanted me to follow her to hell I would have
I DIDN'T CHEAT ON THIS GIRL AT ALL, I DIDN'T EVEN TOAST ANY GIRL NOT BECAUSE I WAS STUPID BUT BECAUSE I WANTED TO BE COMMITED
Then she left me because a guy wanted to marry her (because she is yoruba and am not) and she felt that my mum will never allow us to be together
I didn't beg her! I told her that as long as she is happy, am happy
And I went home
Fell sick, had sleepless nights, was wondering what I did wrong
What didn't I try, if i could sell myself for her i would have
How didn't I make effort, there was nothing i didnt do for this girl wont go into details sha
They took me to a church cause I wasn't eating, pastors gathered around me praying, everyone tot that it was jazz
She went to my house 2 days later and was begging my sisters to beg me that she wasn't happy
That she made a mistake that I didn't beg her when she ended things that she was testing me
that i didn't fight for our love
Funny enough my sisters didn't tell me
My phones were off
After 2weeks I turned on my phone and went back home
She sent me 153 messages I will never forget it
I read each text
Twice
She came to the house talked and talked but my heart was changed forever
You see, when you do everything for someone
And that person hurts you
What really hurts isn't the person leaving you
Is the dreams and plans you had for that person
Being destroyed
took me years to get over her!
when i finally healed i realized one thing you women cry for love, but when you get it you will still destroy it
since then any big yansh i see, express road things

lilyqueen:
Being a player is not the best solution.

player ke!
i just want to enjoy big ass and not be hurt!!!
which one is player again

Frankicent:
Ehya ops seriously I felt like crying after reading your post.... you sacrifice everything for her. You got a 6ft gaint frame picture of her..... Yet she didn't value it... Am sure she must have miss does good day she spent with you.... Galz are problematic being..... If you give 100% love she would play you like a baseball... If you reduce your love to 50% Nairalander would hear.... it's cause of this shit I blast two foolish female nairalander. one complained her bf doesn't call her she's curious if her bf still love her..... I blast her and ask if she buys #500 credit to call him would earthquake occur...... See 90% if not 95% are cursed never to find tru love cause, there always confuse......

The 2nd yeye female Nairalander I blast yesterday created a post complaining a dude is asking for her number.... Just ordinary number.... 11 digits that all... Chai the most painful part is the Ops no fine and she no get boobs....


See some galz waste opportunity like trash. for instance she keeps praying to God for a superman. 2years leta GoD grant her prays she met a dude like this ops.. The next tin that comes to her mind nah i don see maga *VexFace* No wonder you see single women everywhere. in church, on mountain, desert praying to God for that man again.
Mean while her time for cookies don pass...

That's the same shit that happen to my ex..... I loved this girl... Was getting too familiar with her.
as a guy I had to reduce the familiarity.... so, I stopped calling her... Mean while, I got exams within that period... That kind of thing a gal would be your last problem...... 1month I wasn't calling her like before.....So one day my very close friend called me to come to his place I refuse.... He noticed I wasn't going to come.... The next time he did was collect my phone and run to his place... Me in needForSpeed mode I ran after him to his place.... I collected my phone.... He told me to wait that I should check on hidden part... Me hawk eye behold it was my ex...Chisos with 3 boiz it look like 3D movie.... I was furious and I went to her... I called her --- What the Bleep you doing her? She no fit talk.....Was angry... I ask who among this dude is her bf she showed..... I wanted to fight the guy..... I think twice why fight for a girl when girl full ground.... I calm down...... The 3guys were shocked like this guy call this babe in there presence... I had to ask her why she didn't tell me that she was tru with the relationship.. She said she never knew I was still interested in her. I ask why she said cause I don't call again and her friend introduce her to this guy.....I insulted her straight and called her names galz hate she cried and I leave there..... The guy friend came to met me why did I do that...... I don't react cause is approach..... I explained everything to him and I leave.. The next day I saw the new bf he was scared he begged me that he had no idea she was still dating.... I smiled and told him "Bro she all yours now, you can F*ck or do any shit you want with her..... I left..... Few month's leta that her friend who devc her came to my place with my close friend and cast my ex ooo....... I laff and said what are friend for..... 2/3 leta have not dated . an single girl till now.... Cause my trust level is so low... I pray i" find that good girl I can cal that special someone till then I"l stick to my plans

not surprised bro!
that's their nature they are never satisfied!
it pains me that you went thru that! honestly!
but trust me you can still date and be careful!
read that!
https://www.nairaland.com/3216189/6-ways-protect-yourself-heartbreak

relationship is a beautiful thing but women eh
sometimes i will be with friends and a girl walks up to my friend and be like ur friend is cute,
my friend informs me and this girl will bomb me with love talk but out of experience,
i will just ignore it! after a while this same crazy in love babe will still cheat! ask her!
she will say "you are too perfect"
keep your trust for your wife! forget everything abt commitment to boo boo or boo dog
play ur game have fun but pour ur love into making money!