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Re: Could My Fiancee's Uncle Be Sleeping With Her? by missKiffy(f): 5:34pm On Jul 16, 2016 |
Codedboy95:Randyhot work on this advice, if she refuse then it's obvious she's dating him, if she accept watch closely her so called "uncles" reaction to you and make sure the uncle knows you are her fiancee, if she doesn't introduce you as such, introduce urself as such and see his reaction. 4 Likes |
Re: Could My Fiancee's Uncle Be Sleeping With Her? by Osiris16: 5:55pm On Jul 16, 2016 |
From OP's response it's clear you know the truth but just don't want to admit. You are saying I don't want to loose her. What advise where you expecting to get here. For you FYI your "fiancé" is an adult woman, she has met the man she is going to marry. It means she has to tailor her lifestyle to what the both of you can afford. Trust me, that uncle is NOT taking advantage of her. She is a willing party. 4 Likes |
Re: Could My Fiancee's Uncle Be Sleeping With Her? by live4ever: 5:57pm On Jul 16, 2016 |
Randyhot: Op, Listen man: I used to have a friend who is a big boy with lots of cash to play around with though relatively young (mid 30s). He introduced me then to a young lady that came to visit in his office and after she left, he told me about her and the story is similar to yours. He's constantly sleeping with her cos of the financial benefits she gets from him up until she got married and introduced him to her fiancé as her "uncle!" He found it so amusing cos the fiancé would come and postrate whenever they receive financial help. They even used his car for their wedding with the fiancé rolling on the floor in gratitude to the amusement of this "uncle". To his surprise, the lady still wanted to keep up the banging after the wedding and he told me that he had to stop it! He shared this secret btw him & the lady with me to show how callous some babes can be; but to me, I saw him as equally guilty as the babe. Op, As a man, the last thing you can't afford to be is naive! Wake Up man! 5 Likes |
Re: Could My Fiancee's Uncle Be Sleeping With Her? by May19th: 6:08pm On Jul 16, 2016 |
smithsydny: Yea thanks ma brother, until next time 1 Like |
Re: Could My Fiancee's Uncle Be Sleeping With Her? by delors(m): 6:11pm On Jul 16, 2016 |
They are both banging each other. Period. 1 Like |
Re: Could My Fiancee's Uncle Be Sleeping With Her? by seangy4konji: 6:14pm On Jul 16, 2016 |
So I v to get access to her phone to hear the voice calls again right Trendy247: |
Re: Could My Fiancee's Uncle Be Sleeping With Her? by Slimberry1(f): 6:21pm On Jul 16, 2016 |
Hmm..He might not be her uncle, but the 'Main man' that even her family knows her because of his display of affection in cash. Let's her agree that he is her 'Uncle' and he is soo strict that he tolerates no guy around her, nor calls, do they sleep in the same room? That she cannot call you back even after cleaning all day? Atleast at night she should be free, if he is her uncle why won't he give his matured cousin some time to herself? So they are always together? Even at night/midnight that she cannot even talk to you. At lady of marriageable age should have some freedom no matter how strict the guardians or parents her. If he is her Uncle her mom has been unable to voice out on his harsh principles knowing such will ruin her daughter. Bro there ia more to this, I do not believe he is her uncle, he is her 'Main Man' don't be shocked to when you hear she is getting married to him. But still, straighten up, make your findings and get the truth of this uncle and nephew of a thing, its a question of your life bro, you can always go underground for your findings without letting her know, cunningly get some info about her 'Uncle' and her family at large from her.. Then do your findings.. But for the main time, just be cool and collect some cash from her tho 1 Like |
Re: Could My Fiancee's Uncle Be Sleeping With Her? by okikiosibodu(m): 6:29pm On Jul 16, 2016 |
BlackMystery: OP, this lady just said my mind. To be candid, one tends to notice anomalies more, when he is faithful to his spouse but the spouse isnt. I was noticing some thngs about my then Bae (now ex) and I was prompted to make some researches on my own, before I discovered many heart-rending things. Lets me teach you how I bugged her whatsapp (pls make sure you practice on a friend's phone and tidy up all loose ends, cos you can't afford to make mistakes. The con of this tutorial howevr is that she has to be online before you can access her whatsapp info. Also, dont forget to screenshoot, and make sure she dsnt see them. Also try to be subscribing for her if she says she dsnt have internet connectivity ) Many atimes when we know our "Bae" is cheating, we find I hard to believe and seriously hope its not true. I have been in that position and trust me, "e fit kill person through hypertension or high Blood Pressure ". I got my facts before challenging my "bae" (through whatsappweb, and just smile within myself when she tell lies and even swear again without asking her to). A man that marries the right woman will b forever happy, but a man that marries the wrong woman, will be great philosopher A failed relationship is better than a failed marriage. Love with your heart, but carry your brain along. And finally...It is smarter to be single than to be in a wrong relationship https://www.nairaland.com/3060322/how-access-single-whatsapp-account |
Re: Could My Fiancee's Uncle Be Sleeping With Her? by Nobody: 6:58pm On Jul 16, 2016 |
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Re: Could My Fiancee's Uncle Be Sleeping With Her? by princetom1(m): 7:34pm On Jul 16, 2016 |
josite: Dude is endowed, handsome and presentable, he looks like half cast. Lok, but true. That is a comma |
Re: Could My Fiancee's Uncle Be Sleeping With Her? by tonero230(m): 7:43pm On Jul 16, 2016 |
Nwannem, that ikpu na ala gi otu na isi |
Re: Could My Fiancee's Uncle Be Sleeping With Her? by Irishrena1(f): 8:15pm On Jul 16, 2016 |
I don't usually jump to conclusions but this one is strong. I can't just shake out the impression that she's doing ish with him 1 Like |
Re: Could My Fiancee's Uncle Be Sleeping With Her? by 1miccza: 8:25pm On Jul 16, 2016 |
OP sorry to burst your bubble but that man might just turn out to either be your fiancee's other husband or he has been sleeping with her before she met you... Please confront your fears by asking her now before you know.... |
Re: Could My Fiancee's Uncle Be Sleeping With Her? by 1miccza: 8:29pm On Jul 16, 2016 |
missKiffy: Nice one there have you ever tried relationship counselling?? |
Re: Could My Fiancee's Uncle Be Sleeping With Her? by missKiffy(f): 8:40pm On Jul 16, 2016 |
1miccza:Nope, why do you ask |
Re: Could My Fiancee's Uncle Be Sleeping With Her? by predatorX: 8:42pm On Jul 16, 2016 |
in a relationship, 99% of your gut instinct is always right when it comes to a cheating spouse. and to think that you are already calling her FIANCEE. Awwwww You better goan find your own "AUNTIE" too and be cleaning her house shior OP Rule of thumb :WHEN A LADY IS CHEATING, THAT'S WHEN THEY ACT NICEST AND MOST AFFECTIONATE, BUT WHEN YOU START DOUBTING AND SNOOPING AROUND THEY WEE SAY YOU ARE A CONTROL FREAK |
Re: Could My Fiancee's Uncle Be Sleeping With Her? by JMystique(m): 9:00pm On Jul 16, 2016 |
Dude,if the guy is actually her blood uncle, then you need to consider the fact that if they are screwing, that means they've been screwing for a loooooooooong time, he probably took advantage of her when she was underage and she can't break free. This is not the type of relationship you can just tell her 'stop'. She can't, and won't, in oyibo land she'll have to go through therapy and counselling and shii. Forget abt that marriage but try and advice her to get help, cos the guy probably has some sort of psychological hold on her. But I need to ask, are u 100% sure she's @ this uncles house when she tells u she's there? Or she just tells u uncles house when she was to sleep out?If you are sure it's his house then there's definitely something wrong wt that relationship. 3 Likes |
Re: Could My Fiancee's Uncle Be Sleeping With Her? by 1miccza: 9:01pm On Jul 16, 2016 |
missKiffy: I just feel you've got something going there for you which you could explore cos that was a wonderful suggestion |
Re: Could My Fiancee's Uncle Be Sleeping With Her? by TeddyPendergrass(m): 9:08pm On Jul 16, 2016 |
Randyhot: bros, take this from personal experience. I will give you two options. 1. Continue to be a supporting 2nd striker and assistant boy. 2. Get yourself a fiancé because you don't have one as of right now. 2 Likes |
Re: Could My Fiancee's Uncle Be Sleeping With Her? by missKiffy(f): 9:26pm On Jul 16, 2016 |
1miccza:OK, thanks |
Re: Could My Fiancee's Uncle Be Sleeping With Her? by 1miccza: 9:41pm On Jul 16, 2016 |
missKiffy: My pleasure |
Re: Could My Fiancee's Uncle Be Sleeping With Her? by drmikeadams(m): 10:18pm On Jul 16, 2016 |
Curlieweed:?. ;DU smoke weed finish dey advice brother man to go marry one of these indomie oloshos of our 21st century generational ,conjugal, Nigerian girls association of ........ 2 Likes |
Re: Could My Fiancee's Uncle Be Sleeping With Her? by drmikeadams(m): 10:20pm On Jul 16, 2016 |
Some shameless men dey sleep with their daughters,some dey sleep with under age...how much more for uncle..?i laff in Zimbabwe |
Re: Could My Fiancee's Uncle Be Sleeping With Her? by devvland(m): 10:30pm On Jul 16, 2016 |
evegran: Seriously pay her bill....? Is she up for the highest bidder? Like the biggest spender gets the girl? Really? This is the advice we are giving? Our values in this country are so... We'll, what am I saying? What do you expect? No surprise. A country we're individuals have no self-esteem or respect. If a man has to pay a woman's bills to keep her, then how is she different from a prostitute. And how is he different from a LovePeddler-monger. If you can't be with him when he is in lack, then you don't deserve to be with him when he is in cash. Our social values are messed up. That's why a girl allows herself to remain in poverty while she waits for a man to come and save her. I spit on brainless backwardness! 2 Likes |
Re: Could My Fiancee's Uncle Be Sleeping With Her? by Trendy247: 10:31pm On Jul 16, 2016 |
seangy4konji: It can either b uploaded automatically to Google drive or sent to ur email... U can also send dem manually to ur fone tru Bluetooth or flashare |
Re: Could My Fiancee's Uncle Be Sleeping With Her? by Nobody: 10:36pm On Jul 16, 2016 |
devvland:nice write up, ur way up in the league. 1 Like |
Re: Could My Fiancee's Uncle Be Sleeping With Her? by devvland(m): 10:51pm On Jul 16, 2016 |
Randyhot: Nairaland SOS stories are "believe at your own peril". Nollywood productions. |
Re: Could My Fiancee's Uncle Be Sleeping With Her? by Nobody: 12:40am On Jul 17, 2016 |
Osiris16: Well said! |
Re: Could My Fiancee's Uncle Be Sleeping With Her? by vigilantee(m): 8:29am On Jul 17, 2016 |
It's just too obvious my that she's enjoying her so called uncle's dick than yours. Be a man. Set up a committe to investigate this. From what I could infer, u are deeply in love and thereby blind to the truth you undoubtedly know. Make sure u Catch her red handed, if not she might make you feel guilty that you don't have trust for her. I see you end up begging her. She's too smart for you. |
Re: Could My Fiancee's Uncle Be Sleeping With Her? by passionate87(m): 11:05am On Jul 17, 2016 |
brotherly from most of the posts, almost everybody are saying the same thing, dat gal of urs obviously isn't just cleaning up like she said she is,.i think she is hitting it off with her supposed uncle,faced the truth now and quit before it's too late.look for another gal dat would appreciate and cherish u not someone taking u for a ride and continue lying to your face.try secretly investigating her but for me it quite obvious what ur findings would be. pls leave dis gal and move on |
Re: Could My Fiancee's Uncle Be Sleeping With Her? by Fourwinds: 12:31pm On Jul 17, 2016 |
meeenhhh.!!! d kind doggy style wey dat suppose uncle dey give ur babe eeehh..... if u see u go faint |
Re: Could My Fiancee's Uncle Be Sleeping With Her? by Fourwinds: 12:41pm On Jul 17, 2016 |
Irishrena1:forget about conclusion...d so called Uncle dey scatter her kitty cat jareee |
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