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Re: See What My Girlfriend Did Because I Failed To Sleep With Her by mizzbouqui(f): 1:03pm On Jul 18, 2016

henrylowe:
I think she still has a bond with the dude till date

She will surely have

Re: See What My Girlfriend Did Because I Failed To Sleep With Her by Ini9(m): 1:21pm On Jul 18, 2016

blaquemyc:
I inquired if she was still
intact the way I left her and she told me
she was. (Though, I would have confirmed that during cuddling but she
was on her period that day).
How were u sure she was pure if you hadn't touch her before? Cuz she told you so?

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Re: See What My Girlfriend Did Because I Failed To Sleep With Her by Philipsdael(m): 1:30pm On Jul 18, 2016

The thing now is that she is acting suspicious to you because you don't trust her anymore.
Even if u decide to bang her and she start being faithful to you, you will still be having doubt of her fidelity because that hymen u savour to break has been broken by a "Bad Sharp Guy" in less than a month.....
the scar will forever be in your mind whenever you remember her sex life.....and will always threaten your trust on her.
A relationship built without trust is bound to smack Zuma rock real hard.... hehehehe.
Guy, forget all u dey talk say u save her for marriage. walahi u f up. even if na once in a blue moon u dey sex her, e for better pass u leave her. una be Reverend father n sister ?...even some of the aforementioned sef dey straff for out side wella.
Guy, just move on but it seems like you too, you're stuck .... I pity your condition shaa. it can really be worrisome.

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Re: See What My Girlfriend Did Because I Failed To Sleep With Her by czarr(m): 1:30pm On Jul 18, 2016

Just learn from this!
Dazzal... grin

Stop being emotional it doesn't pay!
It really doesn't I can't stress this enough,but life is bleeped up,there is really no happy ever after in "love"..... Stop watching those romantic movies,they are not real bro!...don't do what makes sense when it comes to dealing with women,do what is proven to work!!!....most women don't make romantic decisions based on logic!

Go and learn from guys who are successful with women and stop listening to your mom or sisters version of what women want!!! grin

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Re: See What My Girlfriend Did Because I Failed To Sleep With Her by Pweedyfaszy(f): 1:43pm On Jul 18, 2016

Owk,because she was bleeped by som1else,u dnt trust her n wnt 2 break up..wat makez u fink ur next bae wud be better?
Abeg make i find chair sit down.

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Re: See What My Girlfriend Did Because I Failed To Sleep With Her by theEYe21(f): 2:08pm On Jul 18, 2016

So it you that's loyal? rubbish! undecided

kiddkash:
dump the b!tch they ain't loyal

Re: See What My Girlfriend Did Because I Failed To Sleep With Her by theEYe21(f): 2:09pm On Jul 18, 2016

JustHere2Observ:
I dont understand the fuss, you guys broke up, so why do you feel cheated? Its not like its your property, and she can give it to who ever she likes. She didn't sleep with him while you were dating, besides what's the probability you guys will end up married if you had been her first?

Re: See What My Girlfriend Did Because I Failed To Sleep With Her by theEYe21(f): 2:11pm On Jul 18, 2016

So it is guys that are loyal? Rubbish undecided

Dotwillis1:
ladies aint loyal

Re: See What My Girlfriend Did Because I Failed To Sleep With Her by JustHere2Observ(f): 2:31pm On Jul 18, 2016

Love Machine:
It hurt after you preserve a girl until after marriage,she later give the thing out to a guy who didn't struggle like you to have it.Any girl who get an admission into a university should be dump.

The question is why should you even preserve a girl till marriage? She is not your property, she is not sworn to you. If a girl wants to remain a virgin till marriage, it should be because she wants to, not because one boy is filling her head with promises of marriage, which might not happen sef.
Besides they broke up, what has he been up to during their break up? He didn't say that one oo, its the virgin pussy he didn't Bleep that is paining him.

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Re: See What My Girlfriend Did Because I Failed To Sleep With Her by hardbody: 2:34pm On Jul 18, 2016

henrylowe:
I started dating this girl in 2013 when she was still seeking admission. I was already done with school managing a little business for survival when she got admitted into the university. My plan was to get married to her if things went as planned.

A year after she gained admission,, she started exhibiting some questionable characters which seemed hard to cope with. She started acting like she was too busy for me, she started replying cold tgo my chat, she no longer cared and a few to mention. Well, I wasn't surprised because ladies often turn a new leaf the moment they get into the university and start having various toasters. Though, I could read these were signs of possible break up due to the pressure from various suitors and perhaps, better offers. I tried to rekindle the fire of our love by having a heart to heart talk with her but all my effort seemed to be a waste.

Her strange attitude, which I could no longer cope with, persisted until I told her I needed a break hoping she would beg me and make things right. To my greatest surprise, she said was cool with it if that was what I wanted . We went separate ways for about 7 months after which we reconciled in April, this year. After a lengthy discussion blaming each other for our unseriousness and childishness, I inquired if she was still intact the way I left her and she told me she was. (Though, I would have confirmed that during cuddling but she was on her period that day)

She went home that day and later gave me a call back telling me she needed to see me the next day in order to make a confession. The moment she said it, I already knew she had lost it but I wanted to hear it from her mouth. She came the next day telling me she carelessly lost to a dude whom she wasn't dating it barely a month after we parted ways. . I was so disappointed and sad that, how could someone I dated for one and half year without touching just throw herself to a man whom met just a month after to defile her.

She cried and pleaded for mercy and since forgiveness is from God, I forgave her even though I found it hard to get it off my chest. Now, I can still see some components of infidelity in her despite trying my best not to reminisce on the past. Though, I still love her but not as before and I no longer trust her like I used to do

Nairalander, don't you think it's too risky to continue with a relationship considering the fact that the TRUST is gone already? Please am I wasting my time with this lady or I should let her go just to save myself from worry and nightmare?

Please your advice is highly needed

No. You are not wasting her time, you just wasted 3 minutes of my life that i used in reading this. If i say what i have in mind, they will BAN me till the third coming of Mohammed.

Just swerve first, i am vexing.

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Re: See What My Girlfriend Did Because I Failed To Sleep With Her by BiafraBushBoy(m): 3:31pm On Jul 18, 2016

lilyqueen:

If she is truly sorry It's better you forgive and forget. But if she is not really sorry. It's better you move on

Must you quote everything??
Get sense na....

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Re: See What My Girlfriend Did Because I Failed To Sleep With Her by hedonistic: 4:05pm On Jul 18, 2016

Umunwanyi.

Re: See What My Girlfriend Did Because I Failed To Sleep With Her by Nobody: 4:06pm On Jul 18, 2016

JustHere2Observ:
I dont understand the fuss, you guys broke up, so why do you feel cheated? Its not like its your property, and she can give it to who ever she likes. She didn't sleep with him while you were dating, besides what's the probability you guys will end up married if you had been her first?

Your comment is the only sensible one I've read so far and I thought I i'd just chime in a bit.

Is it not cringe worthy the guy acts as if he owns the thing?

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Re: See What My Girlfriend Did Because I Failed To Sleep With Her by theripper3: 4:06pm On Jul 18, 2016

Remind me how old both of you are again?

Re: See What My Girlfriend Did Because I Failed To Sleep With Her by Nobody: 4:07pm On Jul 18, 2016

henrylowe:
I started dating this girl in 2013 when she was still seeking admission. I was already done with school managing a little business for survival when she got admitted into the university. My plan was to get married to her if things went as planned.

A year after she gained admission,, she started exhibiting some questionable characters which seemed hard to cope with. She started acting like she was too busy for me, she started replying cold tgo my chat, she no longer cared and a few to mention. Well, I wasn't surprised because ladies often turn a new leaf the moment they get into the university and start having various toasters. Though, I could read these were signs of possible break up due to the pressure from various suitors and perhaps, better offers. I tried to rekindle the fire of our love by having a heart to heart talk with her but all my effort seemed to be a waste.

Her strange attitude, which I could no longer cope with, persisted until I told her I needed a break hoping she would beg me and make things right. To my greatest surprise, she said was cool with it if that was what I wanted . We went separate ways for about 7 months after which we reconciled in April, this year. After a lengthy discussion blaming each other for our unseriousness and childishness, I inquired if she was still intact the way I left her and she told me she was. (Though, I would have confirmed that during cuddling but she was on her period that day)

She went home that day and later gave me a call back telling me she needed to see me the next day in order to make a confession. The moment she said it, I already knew she had lost it but I wanted to hear it from her mouth. She came the next day telling me she carelessly lost to a dude whom she wasn't dating it barely a month after we parted ways. . I was so disappointed and sad that, how could someone I dated for one and half year without touching just throw herself to a man whom met just a month after to defile her.

She cried and pleaded for mercy and since forgiveness is from God, I forgave her even though I found it hard to get it off my chest. Now, I can still see some components of infidelity in her despite trying my best not to reminisce on the past. Though, I still love her but not as before and I no longer trust her like I used to do

Nairalander, don't you think it's too risky to continue with a relationship considering the fact that the TRUST is gone already? Please am I wasting my time with this lady or I should let her go just to save myself from worry and nightmare?

Please your advice is highly needed

Now, did a grown up man write this? Can you take a minute and reread what you have written and see if it makes sense?

I don't understand what you are hollering about because she had sex, you two were no longer an item. Do you think she will turn celibate because she left you. You guys ended things -- ended things! When people end relationships they move on; they do not become monks and nuns and take up an oath of celibacy to respect the feelings of the ex. In an ideal world, perhaps. But we are in modern times when anyone can do whatever they deem fit with their body.

It's up to you now if you want to continue with the relationship or allow your outlandish notions of forgiveness and fatithfulness ruin what obviously gives you pleasure. If you don't, she will go out and find a man who will satisfy her appetite and you would have lost x2

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Re: See What My Girlfriend Did Because I Failed To Sleep With Her by karryn(f): 4:08pm On Jul 18, 2016

In brymo's voice "chop ur own and clean mouth now" abeg oga forgive her if u want to

Re: See What My Girlfriend Did Because I Failed To Sleep With Her by shamecurls(m): 4:09pm On Jul 18, 2016

Send me her phone number maybe I could help you talk to her

Re: See What My Girlfriend Did Because I Failed To Sleep With Her by Lerumo: 4:10pm On Jul 18, 2016

If you don't trust her, let her go. Trust is the foundation of every relationship.

Re: See What My Girlfriend Did Because I Failed To Sleep With Her by jidxin(m): 4:10pm On Jul 18, 2016

JustHere2Observ:
I dont understand the fuss, you guys broke up, so why do you feel cheated? Its not like its your property, and she can give it to who ever she likes. She didn't sleep with him while you were dating, besides what's the probability you guys will end up married if you had been her first?

hmmmmnn assshhhyyyyyyyyyyy ... i fear ladies lyk u tho

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Re: See What My Girlfriend Did Because I Failed To Sleep With Her by JOYOSITA(f): 4:10pm On Jul 18, 2016

I think you should move on, since u can't/ don't trust her anymore.

Re: See What My Girlfriend Did Because I Failed To Sleep With Her by Victorakats(m): 4:11pm On Jul 18, 2016

henrylowe:
I started dating this girl in 2013 when she was still seeking admission. I was already done with school managing a little business for survival when she got admitted into the university. My plan was to get married to her if things went as planned.

A year after she gained admission,, she started exhibiting some questionable characters which seemed hard to cope with. She started acting like she was too busy for me, she started replying cold tgo my chat, she no longer cared and a few to mention. Well, I wasn't surprised because ladies often turn a new leaf the moment they get into the university and start having various toasters. Though, I could read these were signs of possible break up due to the pressure from various suitors and perhaps, better offers. I tried to rekindle the fire of our love by having a heart to heart talk with her but all my effort seemed to be a waste.

Her strange attitude, which I could no longer cope with, persisted until I told her I needed a break hoping she would beg me and make things right. To my greatest surprise, she said was cool with it if that was what I wanted . We went separate ways for about 7 months after which we reconciled in April, this year. After a lengthy discussion blaming each other for our unseriousness and childishness, I inquired if she was still intact the way I left her and she told me she was. (Though, I would have confirmed that during cuddling but she was on her period that day)

She went home that day and later gave me a call back telling me she needed to see me the next day in order to make a confession. The moment she said it, I already knew she had lost it but I wanted to hear it from her mouth. She came the next day telling me she carelessly lost to a dude whom she wasn't dating it barely a month after we parted ways. . I was so disappointed and sad that, how could someone I dated for one and half year without touching just throw herself to a man whom met just a month after to defile her.

She cried and pleaded for mercy and since forgiveness is from God, I forgave her even though I found it hard to get it off my chest. Now, I can still see some components of infidelity in her despite trying my best not to reminisce on the past. Though, I still love her but not as before and I no longer trust her like I used to do

Nairalander, don't you think it's too risky to continue with a relationship considering the fact that the TRUST is gone already? Please am I wasting my time with this lady or I should let her go just to save myself from worry and nightmare?

Please your advice is highly needed

Relationship is built on values and virtues.
Virginity is great and it feels great for a man to harvest the virginity of his wife. However, virginity is not the greatest virtue of a lady so any man who hangs on to a lady because she's a virgin is dating for the wrong reasons.
That said, let's assume that both of you messed up by giving her the room to consider another partner.
If after everything, she's still not faithful to you, she's not accountable to you, she doesn't respect your emotions, she's not committed to the relationship and she doesn't communicate effectively with you, it's a huge red flag that she's already gone...
In which case, the best decision will be to respect her decision... Forcing anyone to love you is a no no because she'll only be there out of pity and not love.
Discuss extensively with her and find out what's her convictions and decisions about the relationship before deciding on what's best for you.
So sorry about the experience though..

You can check my signature for tips that will strengthen your relationship and marriage

Re: See What My Girlfriend Did Because I Failed To Sleep With Her by yeyeboi(m): 4:12pm On Jul 18, 2016

henrylowe:
What sahre are you talking about sir?

Be asking wat share while them Boyz are busy filin the pekuuuss

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Re: See What My Girlfriend Did Because I Failed To Sleep With Her by Nobody: 4:13pm On Jul 18, 2016

did you intend to marry her as a virgin or you are just upset because you were not her first?,so what if she lost her virginity to someone else in a short time?,is she your fiancee?, do you even know her father's house?, all this guys be claiming authority over ladies all in the name of boyfriend, meteeeeew

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Re: See What My Girlfriend Did Because I Failed To Sleep With Her by vicstar(m): 4:13pm On Jul 18, 2016

nnamdiokere45:
collect ur share n disembark

• • • • • Am with you on this one he should collect and disembark mahhn, who knows if u forgive her, on tha long run u guys have issues again she might repeat the same act!!

Girls sometimes I feel they don't deserve a faithful nigga!! just barely one month, she gave the whole shiiit out

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Re: See What My Girlfriend Did Because I Failed To Sleep With Her by manuel80(m): 4:14pm On Jul 18, 2016

nnamdiokere45:
collect ur share n disembark

lol..you're mean cheesy

Re: See What My Girlfriend Did Because I Failed To Sleep With Her by ipledge10(m): 4:14pm On Jul 18, 2016

skywalker888:
The truth is, she already lost before the break up that was why she started exhibiting some questionable characters in order to piss you off. Even though she claimed she met another that she gave it just barely a month after your separation, it clearly shows that lady has no integrity at all.. Just a month? it's funny I must say

see yourself grin

.holier than thou...can stay a year and half without sex?

Re: See What My Girlfriend Did Because I Failed To Sleep With Her by Tenkobos(m): 4:15pm On Jul 18, 2016

Forgiveness is from God so you forgave her? Are you God?

Re: See What My Girlfriend Did Because I Failed To Sleep With Her by rottennaija(m): 4:15pm On Jul 18, 2016

henrylowe:
I started dating this girl in 2013 when she was still seeking admission. I was already done with school managing a little business for survival when she got admitted into the university. My plan was to get married to her if things went as planned.

A year after she gained admission,, she started exhibiting some questionable characters which seemed hard to cope with. She started acting like she was too busy for me, she started replying cold tgo my chat, she no longer cared and a few to mention. Well, I wasn't surprised because ladies often turn a new leaf the moment they get into the university and start having various toasters. Though, I could read these were signs of possible break up due to the pressure from various suitors and perhaps, better offers. I tried to rekindle the fire of our love by having a heart to heart talk with her but all my effort seemed to be a waste.

Her strange attitude, which I could no longer cope with, persisted until I told her I needed a break hoping she would beg me and make things right. To my greatest surprise, she said was cool with it if that was what I wanted . We went separate ways for about 7 months after which we reconciled in April, this year. After a lengthy discussion blaming each other for our unseriousness and childishness, I inquired if she was still intact the way I left her and she told me she was. (Though, I would have confirmed that during cuddling but she was on her period that day)

She went home that day and later gave me a call back telling me she needed to see me the next day in order to make a confession. The moment she said it, I already knew she had lost it but I wanted to hear it from her mouth. She came the next day telling me she carelessly lost to a dude whom she wasn't dating it barely a month after we parted ways. . I was so disappointed and sad that, how could someone I dated for one and half year without touching just throw herself to a man whom met just a month after to defile her.

She cried and pleaded for mercy and since forgiveness is from God, I forgave her even though I found it hard to get it off my chest. Now, I can still see some components of infidelity in her despite trying my best not to reminisce on the past. Though, I still love her but not as before and I no longer trust her like I used to do

Nairalander, don't you think it's too risky to continue with a relationship considering the fact that the TRUST is gone already? Please am I wasting my time with this lady or I should let her go just to save myself from worry and nightmare?

Please your advice is highly needed

@op, I know just how it feels because your story is similar to mine. However, in my case, I was still dating her

Re: See What My Girlfriend Did Because I Failed To Sleep With Her by repogirl(f): 4:15pm On Jul 18, 2016

Soon, people will begin opening thread to ask for permission to use toilet. SMH!

OP, do what is in your mind already.

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Re: See What My Girlfriend Did Because I Failed To Sleep With Her by alizma: 4:16pm On Jul 18, 2016

why do people fail to realize that other people have their freedom of choice to make?

this is a straight forward issue, you decide to keep yourself while she decided to loose it at a time when you were not there.
all I expect you to do now that u guys are back together is to access your emotion to determine whether you can cope with her new status or not and if you can't, free her and stop repeating your mistakes.
you never caught her in the first place before you bid her goodbye and now you have started suspecting again.

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Re: See What My Girlfriend Did Because I Failed To Sleep With Her by nnanna69(m): 4:16pm On Jul 18, 2016

blaquemyc:
I inquired if she was still
intact the way I left her and she told me
she was. (Though, I would have confirmed that during cuddling but she
was on her period that day).
How were u sure she was pure if you hadn't touch her before? Cuz she told you so?

Are You Thinking What I'm Thinking?

Re: See What My Girlfriend Did Because I Failed To Sleep With Her by seunakin231(m): 4:17pm On Jul 18, 2016

Grab ur copy severely for waiting, make way after, that's all.... undecided

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