Reminds me of a column in vanguard newspaper way back with the name, romantic story that touches the heart.

vicstar:



• • • • • Am with you on this one he should collect and disembark mahhn, who knows if u forgive her, on tha long run u guys have issues again she might repeat the same act!!


Girls sometimes I feel they don't deserve a faithful nigga!! just barely one month, she gave the whole shiiit out

Women been cheating since day 1 ( Eve) they are necessary evil

O boy..dont waste your time with her.She is not worth it.

Forgive and forget

blaquemyc:
I inquired if she was still
intact the way I left her and she told me
she was. (Though, I would have confirmed that during cuddling but she
was on her period that day).
How were u sure she was pure if you hadn't touch her before? Cuz she told you so?

my guy i wonder o some dude dey dull

JustHere2Observ:
I dont understand the fuss, you guys broke up, so why do you feel cheated? Its not like its your property, and she can give it to who ever she likes. She didn't sleep with him while you were dating, besides what's the probability you guys will end up married if you had been her first?

Well said.

yeyeboi:



Women been cheating since day 1 ( Eve) they are necessary evil

I pity mehn!! That are ignorant of dis fact

But guy u don Bleep up


Well if na me,na to chop and clean mouth I go use am do and send her away,no dulling guy

Dear OP, I'm not sorry for you at all, cos you're refusing to let her go say you love her. And your forgetting love is a two way thing. Your own case is even small compared to mine. I travelled interstate to see the bit-ch and was forming the way u are now that I won't touch her virginity till marriage night, after all the hot romance I carry my full balls back home. Just a phone quarrel o, and we dint talk for 2 weeks, the bit-ch slept with another guy within that time. When she visited me and told me she was no longer a virgin and I checked to confirm it, there and then my d**k soften. I simply told her to put on her cloths and leave. She begged and cried, even offered me sex and tried to wake my dude, but minds made up. I helped her put on her cloth, took her out, called a bike, paid for it and watched her cry as she left. Months later she called and told me she will forever respect me and she wished things were different. Told her such is life. You might think I'm being cold, but I was only doing her a favour, cos the love was not there anymore. I feel your pain though, cos u will forever remember how you're not the one that open that hole, how another guy just come chop ur hustle. My advice, no deceive yourself to call love into this matter. Love is long gone the day you called for a break. Too many Americans movies shar... Just put her on a bike and let her go. Be a man that you are, and ladies will respect you. I have a gf now, and I dint make same mistake, she is looking forward and begging me to come see her soon. It's safer to love a girl that loves you more.

henrylowe:
I started dating this girl in 2013 when she was still seeking admission. I was already done with school managing a little business for survival when she got admitted into the university. My plan was to get married to her if things went as planned.

A year after she gained admission,, she started exhibiting some questionable characters which seemed hard to cope with. She started acting like she was too busy for me, she started replying cold tgo my chat, she no longer cared and a few to mention. Well, I wasn't surprised because ladies often turn a new leaf the moment they get into the university and start having various toasters. Though, I could read these were signs of possible break up due to the pressure from various suitors and perhaps, better offers. I tried to rekindle the fire of our love by having a heart to heart talk with her but all my effort seemed to be a waste.

Her strange attitude, which I could no longer cope with, persisted until I told her I needed a break hoping she would beg me and make things right. To my greatest surprise, she said was cool with it if that was what I wanted . We went separate ways for about 7 months after which we reconciled in April, this year. After a lengthy discussion blaming each other for our unseriousness and childishness, I inquired if she was still intact the way I left her and she told me she was. (Though, I would have confirmed that during cuddling but she was on her period that day)

She went home that day and later gave me a call back telling me she needed to see me the next day in order to make a confession. The moment she said it, I already knew she had lost it but I wanted to hear it from her mouth. She came the next day telling me she carelessly lost to a dude whom she wasn't dating it barely a month after we parted ways. . I was so disappointed and sad that, how could someone I dated for one and half year without touching just throw herself to a man whom met just a month after to defile her.

She cried and pleaded for mercy and since forgiveness is from God, I forgave her even though I found it hard to get it off my chest. Now, I can still see some components of infidelity in her despite trying my best not to reminisce on the past. Though, I still love her but not as before and I no longer trust her like I used to do

Nairalander, don't you think it's too risky to continue with a relationship considering the fact that the TRUST is gone already? Please am I wasting my time with this lady or I should let her go just to save myself from worry and nightmare?

Please your advice is highly needed

@OP how many kpekus you done burst yourself?It goes beyond virginity to make a Good wife bro!!!Just pray and ask God for yours.

henrylowe:
I started dating this girl in 2013 when she was still seeking admission. I was already done with school managing a little business for survival when she got admitted into the university. My plan was to get married to her if things went as planned.

A year after she gained admission,, she started exhibiting some questionable characters which seemed hard to cope with. She started acting like she was too busy for me, she started replying cold tgo my chat, she no longer cared and a few to mention. Well, I wasn't surprised because ladies often turn a new leaf the moment they get into the university and start having various toasters. Though, I could read these were signs of possible break up due to the pressure from various suitors and perhaps, better offers. I tried to rekindle the fire of our love by having a heart to heart talk with her but all my effort seemed to be a waste.

Her strange attitude, which I could no longer cope with, persisted until I told her I needed a break hoping she would beg me and make things right. To my greatest surprise, she said was cool with it if that was what I wanted . We went separate ways for about 7 months after which we reconciled in April, this year. After a lengthy discussion blaming each other for our unseriousness and childishness, I inquired if she was still intact the way I left her and she told me she was. (Though, I would have confirmed that during cuddling but she was on her period that day)

She went home that day and later gave me a call back telling me she needed to see me the next day in order to make a confession. The moment she said it, I already knew she had lost it but I wanted to hear it from her mouth. She came the next day telling me she carelessly lost to a dude whom she wasn't dating it barely a month after we parted ways. . I was so disappointed and sad that, how could someone I dated for one and half year without touching just throw herself to a man whom met just a month after to defile her.

She cried and pleaded for mercy and since forgiveness is from God, I forgave her even though I found it hard to get it off my chest. Now, I can still see some components of infidelity in her despite trying my best not to reminisce on the past. Though, I still love her but not as before and I no longer trust her like I used to do

Nairalander, don't you think it's too risky to continue with a relationship considering the fact that the TRUST is gone already? Please am I wasting my time with this lady or I should let her go just to save myself from worry and nightmare?

Please your advice is highly needed

Collect ur share and PIANTE!!!!

I think this is a fragile issue and quite disappointing. Why do will put importance to virginity or not and face the main issue abt marriage whic is compartibility, love, understading, torelance and care. She isnt ur wife so i dont see infidelity in that. You guys have already broken up so stop painting her as unfaithful. Ladies heart is fragile and for she was deflowered in a month is her choose not urs. I want u to sit down and ask ursef, are u a virgin ursef? How many married a virgin and the marriage life is a disappointment and hell to leave in. If you love her and she does love u, and u always feel happy around her, whats importance of virginity. Though u may think cheated but come to think of it, what if she was even a non-virgin when u started so does it mean u wont have dated her. Dear op, come off the archaic think of importance displace on virginity and focus on what matter most.

nnamdiokere45:
collect ur share n disembark

Wicked man!

How sure are you getting a pure girl if leave her.It is not easy for ladies to maintain their virginity nowadays,esp those in the higher institutions.

nnamdiokere45:
collect ur share n disembark

You are a MAFIA...may be a sea man

Guy park well. Shuoo! Expressway is better than narrow way. Another bro helped you clearing the way.
Wait ooo. Are you interested in virginity or disvirginity?

Dotwillis1:
ladies aint loyal

You mean some women aren't loyal. ( there's a difference between ladies and women, you know.)

Laveda:
Eiyaa

Please forgive her if she's really sincere about the whole thing, shít happens, that's if you really love her as you claim..

lady defense. d sister don loose guard ni. move on. infidelity is the only acceptable cos of divorce. she don dey kpake just 1 month after fronting for you?

but poster above, u hash ohh

Forgive her. No one is above mistake. I know a friend with almost same story , in D end she and D guy were able to settle deir differences. Today dey are engaged and happy

henrylowe:
I started dating this girl in 2013 when she was still seeking admission. I was already done with school managing a little business for survival when she got admitted into the university. My plan was to get married to her if things went as planned.

A year after she gained admission,, she started exhibiting some questionable characters which seemed hard to cope with. She started acting like she was too busy for me, she started replying cold tgo my chat, she no longer cared and a few to mention. Well, I wasn't surprised because ladies often turn a new leaf the moment they get into the university and start having various toasters. Though, I could read these were signs of possible break up due to the pressure from various suitors and perhaps, better offers. I tried to rekindle the fire of our love by having a heart to heart talk with her but all my effort seemed to be a waste.

Her strange attitude, which I could no longer cope with, persisted until I told her I needed a break hoping she would beg me and make things right. To my greatest surprise, she said was cool with it if that was what I wanted . We went separate ways for about 7 months after which we reconciled in April, this year. After a lengthy discussion blaming each other for our unseriousness and childishness, I inquired if she was still intact the way I left her and she told me she was. (Though, I would have confirmed that during cuddling but she was on her period that day)

She went home that day and later gave me a call back telling me she needed to see me the next day in order to make a confession. The moment she said it, I already knew she had lost it but I wanted to hear it from her mouth. She came the next day telling me she carelessly lost to a dude whom she wasn't dating it barely a month after we parted ways. . I was so disappointed and sad that, how could someone I dated for one and half year without touching just throw herself to a man whom met just a month after to defile her.

She cried and pleaded for mercy and since forgiveness is from God, I forgave her even though I found it hard to get it off my chest. Now, I can still see some components of infidelity in her despite trying my best not to reminisce on the past. Though, I still love her but not as before and I no longer trust her like I used to do

Nairalander, don't you think it's too risky to continue with a relationship considering the fact that the TRUST is gone already? Please am I wasting my time with this lady or I should let her go just to save myself from worry and nightmare?

Please your advice is highly needed

i can sleep with a girl i met today, just tell her that u love her, u can't do without her, then starting touching her in the boobs from there something will happen

Moral lesson trust no one, am sure the guy dump her that is why she come back to you. But follow your mind and move on with life...

henrylowe:
I started dating this girl in 2013 when she was still seeking admission. I was already done with school managing a little business for survival when she got admitted into the university. My plan was to get married to her if things went as planned.

A year after she gained admission,, she started exhibiting some questionable characters which seemed hard to cope with. She started acting like she was too busy for me, she started replying cold tgo my chat, she no longer cared and a few to mention. Well, I wasn't surprised because ladies often turn a new leaf the moment they get into the university and start having various toasters. Though, I could read these were signs of possible break up due to the pressure from various suitors and perhaps, better offers. I tried to rekindle the fire of our love by having a heart to heart talk with her but all my effort seemed to be a waste.

Her strange attitude, which I could no longer cope with, persisted until I told her I needed a break hoping she would beg me and make things right. To my greatest surprise, she said was cool with it if that was what I wanted . We went separate ways for about 7 months after which we reconciled in April, this year. After a lengthy discussion blaming each other for our unseriousness and childishness, I inquired if she was still intact the way I left her and she told me she was. (Though, I would have confirmed that during cuddling but she was on her period that day)

She went home that day and later gave me a call back telling me she needed to see me the next day in order to make a confession. The moment she said it, I already knew she had lost it but I wanted to hear it from her mouth. She came the next day telling me she carelessly lost to a dude whom she wasn't dating it barely a month after we parted ways. . I was so disappointed and sad that, how could someone I dated for one and half year without touching just throw herself to a man whom met just a month after to defile her.

She cried and pleaded for mercy and since forgiveness is from God, I forgave her even though I found it hard to get it off my chest. Now, I can still see some components of infidelity in her despite trying my best not to reminisce on the past. Though, I still love her but not as before and I no longer trust her like I used to do

Nairalander, don't you think it's too risky to continue with a relationship considering the fact that the TRUST is gone already? Please am I wasting my time with this lady or I should let her go just to save myself from worry and nightmare?

Please your advice is highly needed

Have a probs very similar 2 ur case bro....My advice is 2 start searchin 4 anoda chick...cos dah particular girl has turned 2 a B*tch (no offence meant)...Or beta still ave fun wit her 4 ur wasted tym (u knw wat I mean) nd den let her go. #CaseClosed

You are not a sharp guy

She has seen that and will continie to play you

My advice leave her

You are to weak.... If you are on equal fopting.... And giv her the kondo.... Marry her

If nt just leave her cos she will meet som1 for just a week gove it to him
Meet som1 for jus a day giv it to him
Meet som1 for just an hour giv it to him
Meet som1 for just a minute and................

@op, you cannot get godly reply with the kind of title you have.
Have a nice day.

nnamdiokere45:
collect ur share n disembark

hahahaha Badt guy. But this guy really love that girl sha

Hmmm



Seems fornication is greatly celebrated in this very age.

Hmmm
Seems formication is just greatly celebrated in this very age.

nnamdiokere45:
collect ur share n disembark

What kind of wicked advice is this.


@Op,

This is the best advice ooo. Do quick

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JustHere2Observ:
I dont understand the fuss, you guys broke up, so why do you feel cheated? Its not like its your property, and she can give it to who ever she likes. She didn't sleep with him while you were dating, besides what's the probability you guys will end up married if you had been her first?

hmmmmm.. she can give it to whoever she likes....but d guy dated her and she didn't give him d cookies....heheheheheeee