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I Met This Girl In Less Than 2 Weeks. NOW THIS!!! by IkranDragon: 10:57pm On Feb 20
Hello Guys. Please I need your brotherly advice. I just met this girl in less than 2 weeks.

We are still in the talking stage, this past Val, we exchanged gifts but after that it has been her needing money for this and that.

She keeps whinning about it whenever we talk, we can't even talk for straight 5 mins without talking about her financial needs.

But I always didn't have nothing to say than to keep her hopes alive as I don't offer to support her.

Now, she texted me tonight to lend her 15k to repair her damaged phone. I already told her I am not loaded enough to do that.

How can I skip this issue of money and press on with the game, or should I just leave her?

Please I need your candid advice, I am not so good at this games. sad

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Re: I Met This Girl In Less Than 2 Weeks. NOW THIS!!! by chatinent(m): 10:58pm On Feb 20
I was coming back last week and some robbers robbed me and cleared my account on gunpoint...haven't you been noticing I have emaciated..but baby I didn't want to tell you so you wouldn't think I am dodging all these your bills even as I'll love to assist you but it's fine...God will help me. All I need is prayers.


Must we teach you everything?

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Re: I Met This Girl In Less Than 2 Weeks. NOW THIS!!! by cumoverna: 10:59pm On Feb 20
Guy RUN.
She nor love you

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Re: I Met This Girl In Less Than 2 Weeks. NOW THIS!!! by posty56: 11:00pm On Feb 20
give her the 15k, for her to open up to you about her financial needs immediately she saw you ,means she's an open person.

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Re: I Met This Girl In Less Than 2 Weeks. NOW THIS!!! by excellence44(m): 11:01pm On Feb 20
Green light means go red light means Japa. Just two weeks enough red lights already?
Don't be a SIMP.

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Re: I Met This Girl In Less Than 2 Weeks. NOW THIS!!! by Slynation(m): 11:01pm On Feb 20
If you date ladies with no means of income, then be ready to spend and carry some of her financial needs...!! That's how it works here in Nigeria!!

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Re: I Met This Girl In Less Than 2 Weeks. NOW THIS!!! by Freestainworld(m): 11:02pm On Feb 20
Run for your life, she came to drain you.

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Re: I Met This Girl In Less Than 2 Weeks. NOW THIS!!! by julybaba(m): 11:03pm On Feb 20
If she ask you for money, tell her you don't have.
Also, don't flaunt material things around. Your virtues (honesty, hardwork, resilience, fear of God, etc) is enough to win someone's heart ( females inclusive)

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Re: I Met This Girl In Less Than 2 Weeks. NOW THIS!!! by Nonexisting: 11:03pm On Feb 20
She is a manipulator and sees herself as an investor. She has invested in you with her yeye valentine gift, now she is out to milk you dry. Nigga, run and never look back.

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Re: I Met This Girl In Less Than 2 Weeks. NOW THIS!!! by YinkaOlusesi16(m): 11:04pm On Feb 20
With everything she dey do, you no still get sense.

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Re: I Met This Girl In Less Than 2 Weeks. NOW THIS!!! by Factoryfitted: 11:04pm On Feb 20
You met a girl less than two weeks ago and you are already giving her gifts? undecided

What is wrong with you, man?

Ok, see what you will do - give her the 15k now, then by the end of the month, you buy her a new one. Shey that makes sense? wink

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Re: I Met This Girl In Less Than 2 Weeks. NOW THIS!!! by Nobody: 11:05pm On Feb 20
I wonder where all these una wahala dey commot from and how e dey start. undecided undecided
Na wa ooo undecided

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Re: I Met This Girl In Less Than 2 Weeks. NOW THIS!!! by IkranDragon: 11:05pm On Feb 20
Slynation:
If you date ladies with no means of income, then be ready to spend and carry some of her financial needs...!! That's how it works here in Nigeria!!


But we are still in the talking stage, don't you think it is too soon?

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Re: I Met This Girl In Less Than 2 Weeks. NOW THIS!!! by Jennyclay(f): 11:06pm On Feb 20
Sir, you gave her the first impression that you have money. Now that it has choked you... You're here crying like a baby.

Abi you're Davido... better go and finish what you have already started.

Well, I still wonder where you guys are seeing all these parasites to date undecided.... I mean, I can't imagine myself, begging men for money when I have hands, legs and brains to work for money.

If you don't have the money, tell her you don't have. If she wants to end the relationship, good for her.... Is she crippled?

And you really need to work on yourself. You're indeed a broke man. Now Listen to me.

Broke guys are attracted to broke girls.
Rich guys are attracted to rich ladies.
Hardworking guys are attracted to hardworking ladies.

Uncle, improve yourself, Set standards for yourself.

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Re: I Met This Girl In Less Than 2 Weeks. NOW THIS!!! by JustPowerApps: 11:06pm On Feb 20
Tell her you don't have, and watch her reaction to it. If she is still good with you. Then she's probably not a wrecker, though one can't actually pin point gold diggers of recent, all girls have switched to friend zone scams. It's their newly found niche.

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Re: I Met This Girl In Less Than 2 Weeks. NOW THIS!!! by IkranDragon: 11:07pm On Feb 20
Nonexisting:
She is a manipulator and sees herself as an investor. She has invested in you with her yeye valentine gift, now she is out to milk you dry. Nigga, run and never look back.

This is my guess. cheesy

E come be like Esu wey go give you 10 naira to collect 1k from you.

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Re: I Met This Girl In Less Than 2 Weeks. NOW THIS!!! by OyeofIkoTuN(m): 11:08pm On Feb 20
Loud it. Met one like that oo on my street,Madonna University chick oo..collected number, came to da crib the next evening..25k things to repair phone..Imagine oo, Oya gimme kiss,mama gimme kiss,lemme lick bress,mama gree..Okay let me proceed to the permanent site,issues of period came up oo instanta and throughout the entangle mama no wear pyant oo. I lock up,escort am..so so phone calls on top the 25k. Okay come and see me ,mama form traveling Enugu that morning ,say make she just branch collect the money for the phone,say she go see me when she return. Mama call me well well when she reach my gate,I just look am from window,throway dey enjoy my p.s4 dey go. Mama block me ooo..olorun


IkranDragon:
Hello Guys. Please I need your brotherly advice. I just met this girl in less than 2 weeks.

We are still in the talking stage, this past Val we exchanged gifts but after that it has been her needing money for this and that.

She keeps whinning about it whenever we talk, we can't even talk for straight 5 mins without talking about her financial needs.

But I always didn't have nothing to say than to keep her hopes alive as I don't offer to support her.

Now, she texted me tonight to lend her 15k to repair her damaged phone. I already told her I am not loaded enough to do that.

How can I skip this issue of money and press on with the game, or should I just leave her?

Please I need your candid advice, I am not so good at this games. sad

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Re: I Met This Girl In Less Than 2 Weeks. NOW THIS!!! by Qatar2022: 11:08pm On Feb 20
IkranDragon:
Hello Guys. Please I need your brotherly advice. I just met this girl in less than 2 weeks.

We are still in the talking stage, this past Val we exchanged gifts but after that it has been her needing money for this and that.

She keeps whinning about it whenever we talk, we can't even talk for straight 5 mins without talking about her financial needs.

But I always didn't have nothing to say than to keep her hopes alive as I don't offer to support her.

Now, she texted me tonight to lend her 15k to repair her damaged phone. I already told her I am not loaded enough to do that.

How can I skip this issue of money and press on with the game, or should I just leave her?

Please I need your candid advice, I am not so good at this games. sad
The only way is to dump that liability for your own good

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Re: I Met This Girl In Less Than 2 Weeks. NOW THIS!!! by Slynation(m): 11:09pm On Feb 20
IkranDragon:


But we are still in the talking stage, don't you think it is too soon?
Omo...seems like you don't know this girls grin As it stands now, to her, you guys are dating oO...This type is automatic grin

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Re: I Met This Girl In Less Than 2 Weeks. NOW THIS!!! by IkranDragon: 11:12pm On Feb 20
chatinent:
You were coming back last week and some robbers robbed you and cleared your account on gunpoint...haven't you been noticing I have emaciated..but baby I didn't want to tell you so you wouldn't think I am dodging all these your bills even as I'll love to assist you but it's fine...God will help me. All I need is prayers.


Must we teach you everything?

I love this scope but don't you think it is too much?

I told her that I have lent a lot of money out this year and I have been managing.

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Re: I Met This Girl In Less Than 2 Weeks. NOW THIS!!! by Slynation(m): 11:12pm On Feb 20
As I dey like this now...the last thing I need in my life right now is problem and extra burden, Keep your kpekus make I keep my preeq...!!

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Re: I Met This Girl In Less Than 2 Weeks. NOW THIS!!! by chatinent(m): 11:13pm On Feb 20
IkranDragon:


I love this scope but don't you think it is too much?

I told her that I have lent a lot of money out this year and I have been managing.

She will still be expecting when they pay back naw. Do everything to avoid billing. embarassed

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Re: I Met This Girl In Less Than 2 Weeks. NOW THIS!!! by IkranDragon: 11:14pm On Feb 20
Slynation:
Omo...seems like you don't know this girls grin As it stands now, to her, you guys are dating oO...This type is automatic grin

Wahala! cheesy
Re: I Met This Girl In Less Than 2 Weeks. NOW THIS!!! by IkranDragon: 11:16pm On Feb 20
chatinent:


She will still be expecting when they pay back naw. Do everything to avoid billing. embarassed

The next script will be that they don't pay me back and I have learnt not to borrow money to friends and family again.

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Re: I Met This Girl In Less Than 2 Weeks. NOW THIS!!! by IkranDragon: 11:22pm On Feb 20
posty56:
give her the 15k, for her to open up to you about her financial needs immediately she saw you ,means she's an open person.

Okay thanks. but I don't think so. She don see golden boy na.
Re: I Met This Girl In Less Than 2 Weeks. NOW THIS!!! by posty56: 11:27pm On Feb 20
IkranDragon:


Okay thanks. but I don't think so. She don see golden boy na.
my reply was sarcastic, you know the obvious thing to do yet you come here to ask , any woman that starts to bill you immediately you guys just started talking is a red flag a big one,it show she's not interested in you,she just wants to use you then along the way dump you, do the right thing,move on!

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Re: I Met This Girl In Less Than 2 Weeks. NOW THIS!!! by IkranDragon: 11:30pm On Feb 20
posty56:
my reply was sarcastic, you know the obvious thing to do yet you come here to ask , any woman that starts to bill you immediately you guys just started talking is a red flag a big one,it show she's not interested in you,she just wants to use you then along the way dump you, do the right thing,move on!


Okay, thank you brother.

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Re: I Met This Girl In Less Than 2 Weeks. NOW THIS!!! by Slynation(m): 11:31pm On Feb 20
IkranDragon:


Wahala! cheesy

on a more serious note, it depends on how you approached her or where you met her, maybe you gave her hint that suggested you have made it in life, reasons for the billing... simply tell her to look elsewhere, na ATM they wan open ontop your head...!!

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Re: I Met This Girl In Less Than 2 Weeks. NOW THIS!!! by IkranDragon: 11:33pm On Feb 20
Slynation:
on a more serious note, it depends on how you approached her or where you met her, maybe you gave her hint that suggested you have made it in life, reasons for the billing... simply tell her to look elsewhere, na ATM they wan open ontop your head...!!

You have a BIG point. thanks for sharing your perspective

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Re: I Met This Girl In Less Than 2 Weeks. NOW THIS!!! by Karleb(m): 11:53pm On Feb 20
E get one girl like that wey follow me try this thing. She say make I help her add money make she take buy phone. She say make I give her not borrow her. You wetin I do?

I come compose sweet message, come tell her say I no get for the end.

Just because I like you and you like me too no mean say make you come become liability for my neck.

Bro, you self bill her. Tell her say your rent don expire make she borrow you money.

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Re: I Met This Girl In Less Than 2 Weeks. NOW THIS!!! by Karleb(m): 11:54pm On Feb 20
Slynation:
on a more serious note, it depends on how you approached her or where you met her, maybe you gave her hint that suggested you have made it in life, reasons for the billing... simply tell her to look elsewhere, na ATM they wan open ontop your head...!!

Bros, forget. Some girls no get shame.

Even if una meet for white house, girl wey go Bill you go Bill you.

To some of them, the thing na like sickness wey no get cure.

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