₦airaland Forum

iamrealdeji:
I'm not an atheist though

Then sound like somebody who goes to church and believe the bible

truthsayer007:
Look at how pretty you are, and the curves you display.
How can you ever be a good girl? Mehn, thats not possible !

Assumption

cruzita:
no mind those juju boys wey dey talk LUBBISH

cruzita are you a footballer

marvelck:
A lot of guys are fond of saying there are no good girls any more and yet guys are getting married every week. So, who are they getting married to? Is it not to girls. There are good girls. You just have to pray and hope to find one and marry.

Boys are managing nowadays

marvelck:
A lot of guys are fond of saying there are no good girls any more and yet guys are getting married every week. So, who are they getting married to? Is it not to girls. There are good girls. You just have to pray and hope to find one and marry.

[size=14pt]we get choice? when we have seen our universities become brothels before our very eyes
girls working as PAs to oga kpata kpata is now an acceptable ashawo for him,
girls in church falling all over the pastor. . . even if he is married.
poor girls now do strip dance/part time ashawo. . to survive
we sef follow poor so we cant even help them

which choice again we get? either we remain unmarried. . . . and some of us have made that choice. . . or we marry someone who has a 99% chance of being a retired player of some sort. . . and those are the new good girls. . . bc the bad ones are not yet retired even after marriage.[/size]

[size=18pt]and it's all Buhari's fault [/size]

#BuhariologyMoralDecadence

iykedare:
You look like a dog.

*yawn* I get bored with re-tards who can't come up with a witty line without checking people's profile pictures.

I know what I look like boo, why don't you come up with something original?

iamrealdeji:
thank you babe,thats what's going to work soon in Nigeria. For a guy,stay hustling,have baby mama to have a child or 2,remain a bachelor and concentrate on your life and enjoy bachelor life,whenever you want to run for a political post or traditional title,marry a girl just to get what you want,and live your life. You can divorce the girl afterwards if you know you're hot tempered and don't want to kill your wife out of anger. It's not compulsory to stay married jare,afterall the fruit of marriage is to have children. Dino Melaye is unmarried and yet much more successful than many married men.

I am not married but i would want to marry someone who I enjoy their company, supports me and I would do the same vice versa unconditionally

yes you can attain wealth and still have the things you love but trust me one day even all those people no go follow you meet God even in the grave na only you. so why the excess while here ....What will people say. After you are gone


Two many partners distorts your spiritual wavelength. Stick to one who loves you for you.
An ambitious man with the right woman can attain the wealth and not only will it stay it will feed generations I am a testament

solasoulmusic:
I am not married but i would want to marry someone who I enjoy their company, supports me and I would do the same vice versa unconditionally

yes you can attain wealth and still have the things you love but trust me one day even all those people no go follow you meet God even in the grave na only you. so why the excess while here ....What will people say. After you are gone


Two many partners distorts your spiritual wavelength. Stick to one who loves you for you.
An ambitious man with the right woman can attain the wealth and not only will it stay it will feed generations I am a testament

You shouldn't bother with a renowned misogynist! They are simply unrepentant!

The available becomes obtainable when the available is limited. We don't consider those conventional attributes any longer.

Titanium38:
You dunno that when that thing "love" hit them, they start speaking a different tongue.. leeleeeeleah.. rraaaraaarachael.. tititititina.. aaaaajjjoke. No good girls ko! Because you never jam.. lolz

LUST rather.......

Jacko01:
All bad gals need is change of environment

Gal wey be say u sabi for ur bariga area as keziah

If she moves to festac.... She becomes sister mary


Wen she is getting married... She will come to bariga and rub it on their faces

Do u knw hw many ashawos don enta church and one dull choirmaster have marry dem..... Leave history no dey show for face

you are correct.

Is laughable dear. This 21 century attitude is like the trending reality now where girls will tell u that they have a boyfriend or they are engaged. The boys will say they don't have a girlfriend. So who is deceiving who?

Luckymay:
Opposite sexes been bashing each other from time immemorial. But the truth still remains... We need each other and we can't live without each other..... The fact that you were disappointed at your past relationship doesn't mean there's no one out there that will make you feel loved and appreciated.

I think Nairaland isn't the place to say it. Go and tell every young girl growing up - and their parents and "elders" too because the average Nigerian girl is brought up to believe they don't need the male gender besides to do work for them. That's why you treat boys with such awful disrespect until you grow old and everyone is asking when you will marry, then you turn around and start accusing men of being afraid of successful women. Before issue of getting married comes up, 90% of Nigerian educated girls are hooking up and having sexx with something like 5% of Nigerian males. This creates excess on one side and massive deprivation on the other. When the 5% men finally marry on 5% of the girls, the other 85% of the girls then profess their "undying love" to the category they spent their whole lives mocking. I say 99%Nigerian girls are not good and I didn't marry and I'm in my 40s and I've been on both sides of the divide of men's capacity. Thank you

SELENAqueensy:
It's just the normal talk... Just like saying All guys are the same


If they say there are no good girls, then what am i?

I checked your dp, your bombom is on POINT MEGALY.

We'll it's because you asked what I am doing there oo

blackprowler:
I think Nairaland isn't the place to say it. Go and tell every young girl growing up - and their parents and "elders" too because the average Nigerian girl is brought up to believe they don't need the male gender besides to do work for them. That's why you treat boys with such awful disrespect until you grow old and everyone is asking when you will marry, then you turn around and start accusing men of being afraid of successful women. Before issue of getting married comes up, 90% of Nigerian educated girls are hooking up and having sexx with something like 5% of Nigerian males. This creates excess on one side and massive deprivation on the other. When the 5% men finally marry on 5% of the girls, the other 85% of the girls then profess their "undying love" to the category they spent their whole lives mocking. I say 99%Nigerian girls are not good and I didn't marry and I'm in my 40s and I've been on both sides of the divide of men's capacity. Thank you

ABEG go and marry except maybe you are jobless.
40years? Please go and marry, nah beg I dey beg you oooh. Biko nu.

marvelck:
A lot of guys are fond of saying there are no good girls any more and yet guys are getting married every week. So, who are they getting married to? Is it not to girls. There are good girls. You just have to pray and hope to find one and marry.

IT'S all about recruitment and selection my dear.

Many are mad, but few are roaming.

Guys only marries those not on the street. At least they their own madness under wrap.

Trina0936:
You shouldn't bother with a renowned misogynist! They are simply unrepentant!

I know but just wanna be honest na vanity fell in love with a player but he gave me wisdom for life Sis so I'm Golden

blackprowler:
I think Nairaland isn't the place to say it. Go and tell every young girl growing up - and their parents and "elders" too because the average Nigerian girl is brought up to believe they don't need the male gender besides to do work for them. That's why you treat boys with such awful disrespect until you grow old and everyone is asking when you will marry, then you turn around and start accusing men of being afraid of successful women. Before issue of getting married comes up, 90% of Nigerian educated girls are hooking up and having sexx with something like 5% of Nigerian males. This creates excess on one side and massive deprivation on the other. When the 5% men finally marry on 5% of the girls, the other 85% of the girls then profess their "undying love" to the category they spent their whole lives mocking. I say 99%Nigerian girls are not good and I didn't marry and I'm in my 40s and I've been on both sides of the divide of men's capacity. Thank you

Well done Mr....
1. An average Nigerian girl is raised to stay away from the opposite sex cos that's wat their parents told them. And parents after them and on and on. But they still had an affair with the opposite sex..and that's how we come into existence. Let me not go biblical but look at eve who from what we are taught Is the first woman who was under strict orders to stay away from eating the forbidden fruit (sex) yet she did eat it and that's how procreation took place and that's how both of us came to be.
Now the only way average African mother believes she can raise a virtuous girl is by instilling fear into the girl child so she doesn't do the right thing at the wrong time. My mum once told me when I saw my first menses that if I ever come in contact (even bodily) with a man that I was going to get pregnant and so I stayed away from the opposite sex as if they are plagues...until the same opposite sex and western education made me understand that I can only get pregnant when the two bodily fluids comes in contact. (I'm sure you understand what I mean) an average parents doesn't even know when their girls start having sex. (#fact) and that is because the attraction between opposite sex is naturally there from creation and we can't help it.
2. Dont have much to say on that cos its story for another day.
3. You are 40 and u are not married.... I laugh hysterically at you...
Are you proud of the fact that you aren't married? Am sure you are not. You can't deny that at one time in your life you have always fantasized on how u are going to make money, settle down with the love of your life and raise kids together. Wat happened to those fantasies and dreams? You let one or two heart breaks deter you from living in the world you once created for yourself. Well I won't ask you to heal your wounds cos I believe even in your state of heartbreak or what ever made you to stay out of serious commitments... You still mingle and tangle with the opposite sex which brings us to that natural attraction I was referring to. Without much derailing I would like to end our discuss here. But I'm sure I was able to drive home my point.
Oh and lastly you said something about me going to Nigerian parents and not nairaland to tell them about the natural attractions... Well even the parents understand that and that's why at the age of 25 moms no longer tell their girl children to stay away from the opposite sex. They tell them to bring them home.
Enough said. Good day.

safarigirl:
*yawn* I get bored with re-tards who can't come up with a witty line without checking people's profile pictures.

I know what I look like boo, why don't you come up with something original?

Haha haha. That's a very short and serious punchline. I think I like you
#nohomo.

Luckymay:
Well done Mr....
1. An average Nigerian girl is raised to stay away from the opposite sex cos that's wat their parents told them. And parents after them and on and on. But they still had an affair with the opposite sex..and that's how we come into existence. Let me not go biblical but look at eve who from what we are taught Is the first woman who was under strict orders to stay away from eating the forbidden fruit (sex) yet she did eat it and that's how procreation took place and that's how both of us came to be.
Now the only way average African mother believes she can raise a virtuous girl is by instilling fear into the girl child so she doesn't do the right thing at the wrong time. My mum once told me when I saw my first menses that if I ever come in contact (even bodily) with a man that I was going to get pregnant and so I stayed away from the opposite sex as if they are plagues...until the same opposite sex and western education made me understand that I can only get pregnant when the two bodily fluids comes in contact. (I'm sure you understand what I mean) an average parents doesn't even know when their girls start having sex. (#fact) and that is because the attraction between opposite sex is naturally there from creation and we can't help it.
2. Dont have much to say on that cos its story for another day.
3. You are 40 and u are not married.... I laugh hysterically at you...
Are you proud of the fact that you aren't married? Am sure you are not. You can't deny that at one time in your life you have always fantasized on how u are going to make money, settle down with the love of your life and raise kids together. Wat happened to those fantasies and dreams? You let one or two heart breaks deter you from living in the world you once created for yourself. Well I won't ask you to heal your wounds cos I believe even in your state of heartbreak or what ever made you to stay out of serious commitments... You still mingle and tangle with the opposite sex which brings us to that natural attraction I was referring to. Without much derailing I would like to end our discuss here. But I'm sure I was able to drive home my point.
Oh and lastly you said something about me going to Nigerian parents and not nairaland to tell them about the natural attractions... Well even the parents understand that and that's why at the age of 25 moms no longer tell their girl children to stay away from the opposite sex. They tell them to bring them home.
Enough said. Good day.

Where can I start? The tragedy of an ignorant society is that people are made to believe that however life was made to be when they're born is the correct way life should be. I laugh very much. The things I know aren't what I can tell you to quickly read up and give me a feedback in the afternoon. It's a whole lifetime on a different path. Join a foreign forum and ask them about your contention that parents should tell their children that contact with boys is bad and then suddenly at 25, start to ask them that "where's your man". It's the joke of a society you live in that makes you think it's normal. Note that I'm not your everyday Nigerian expressing a view. I am trying to correct this whole society and I'm not finding any headway because everyone thinks as you're thinking as I said previously because they believe how they met life is how life should be. THE OPPOSITE IS THE TRUTH!

marvelck:
A lot of guys are fond of saying there are no good girls any more and yet guys are getting married every week. So, who are they getting married to? Is it not to girls. There are good girls. You just have to pray and hope to find one and marry.

marriage is not about bn good or bad it's about the pressure from family n child bearing. If not these major reasons many guys will forever remain single n not marry. Av u not seen the increase in baby dad cos most women AR intolerable

blackprowler:
Where can I start? The tragedy of an ignorant society is that people are made to believe that however life was made to be when they're born is the correct way life should be. I laugh very much. The things I know aren't what I can tell you to quickly read up and give me a feedback in the afternoon. It's a whole lifetime on a different path. Join a foreign forum and ask them about your contention that parents should tell their children that contact with boys is bad and then suddenly at 25, start to ask them that "where's your man". It's the joke of a society you live in that makes you think it's normal. Note that I'm not your everyday Nigerian expressing a view. I am trying to correct this whole society and I'm not
finding any headway because
everyone thinks as you're thinking as I said previously because they believe how they met life is how life should be. THE OPPOSITE IS THE TRUTH!

See Mr.. I'm not saying you should get married. Infact it's non of my business. As to you telling me what you knw.. I don't really care cos you are entitled to your own opinion and beliefs.
You are not an everyday Nigerian man trying to do wat? See wether you are a Nigerian or not it's not really my concern. What is my problem is you trying to say that the point I made about opposite sexes.. Is void.
See, wether the way African/Nigerian parents raise their girl children is right or wrong, it's not in my place to say that or start campaigning against it. Maybe when I have my own kids I can choose however I want to raise them and maybe you should try having kids so you can tell them to start seeing the opposite sex and copulate with them at age 6 or maybe even buy them a condom to carry around.
My earlier point is that opposite sexes can't live without each other no matter how we try to fight it. It doesn't mean *marriage.
Let me ask you a question... Though you have chosen to be a eunuch..., don't you have a girlfriend? A sexual partner or whatever you choose to call the opposite sex you mingle with?
Unless you wanna tell me u are gay?

blackprowler:
Where can I start? The tragedy of an ignorant society is that people are made to believe that however life was made to be when they're born is the correct way life should be. I laugh very much. The things I know aren't what I can tell you to quickly read up and give me a feedback in the afternoon. It's a whole lifetime on a different path. Join a foreign forum and ask them about your contention that parents should tell their children that contact with boys is bad and then suddenly at 25, start to ask them that "where's your man". It's the joke of a society you live in that makes you think it's normal. Note that I'm not your everyday Nigerian expressing a view. I am trying to correct this whole society and I'm not
finding any headway because
everyone thinks as you're thinking as I said previously because they believe how they met life is how life should be. THE OPPOSITE IS THE TRUTH!

See Mr.. I'm not saying you should get married. Infact it's non of my business. As to you telling me what you knw.. I don't really care cos you are entitled to your own opinion and beliefs.
You are not an everyday Nigerian man trying to do wat? See wether you are a Nigerian or not it's not really my concern. What is my problem is you trying to say that the point I made about opposite sexes.. Is void.
See, wether the way African/Nigerian parents raise their girl children is right or wrong, it's not in my place to say that or start campaigning against it. Maybe when I have my own kids I can choose however I want to raise them and maybe you should try having kids so you can tell them to start seeing the opposite sex and copulate with them at age 6 or maybe even buy them a condom to carry around.
My earlier point is that opposite sexes can't live without each other no matter how we try to fight it. It doesn't mean *marriage.
Let me ask you a question... Though you have chosen to be a eunuch..., don't you have a girlfriend? A sexual partner or whatever you choose to call the opposite sex you mingle with?
Unless you wanna tell me u are gay?

Luckymay:
See Mr.. I'm not saying you should get married. Infact it's non of my business. As to you telling me what you knw.. I don't really care cos you are entitled to your own opinion and beliefs.
You are not an everyday Nigerian man trying to do wat? See wether you are a Nigerian or not it's not really my concern. What is my problem is you trying to say that the point I made about opposite sexes.. Is void.
See, wether the way African/Nigerian parents raise their girl children is right or wrong, it's not in my place to say that or start campaigning against it. Maybe when I have my own kids I can choose however I want to raise them and maybe you should try having kids so you can tell them to start seeing the opposite sex and copulate with them at age 6 or maybe even buy them a condom to carry around.
My earlier point is that opposite sexes can't live without each other no matter how we try to fight it. It doesn't mean *marriage.
Let me ask you a question... Though you have chosen to be a eunuch..., don't you have a girlfriend? A sexual partner or whatever you choose to call the opposite sex you mingle with?
Unless you wanna tell me u are gay?

Clearly, from the rudeness of your personal attacks on me, you have no desire to learn and grow. You can ascribe all your assumptions to me but what I've actually said is in black-and-white.
I don't go and seek out these idle topics in Romance section; I only respond to stuff majorly from Frontpage. Let it end; you clearly don't know your mate and nairaland affords you the luxury to think all "opinions" are equal in merit. People with teenage children come to me for advice and listen with respect because I've raised people older than that even if I didn't birth them, not to talk of my personal life story; but of course, you have no clue. Enjoy yourself, you're in good company, a true product of your constricted society.

blackprowler:
Clearly, from the rudeness of your personal attacks on me, you have no desire to learn and grow. You can ascribe all your assumptions to me but what I've actually said is in black-and-white.
I don't go and seek out these idle topics in Romance section; I only respond to stuff majorly from Frontpage. Let it end; you clearly don't know your mate and nairaland affords you the luxury to think all "opinions" are equal in merit. People with teenage children come to me for advice and listen with respect because I've raised people older than that even if I didn't birth them, not to talk of my personal life story; but of course, you have no clue. Enjoy yourself, you're in good company, a true product of your constricted society.

About my opinions... Don't you think you are looking down on me by implying that opinions are not equal so I'm supposed to shove mine somewhere so you don't get angry at me. You said something about age and yet you don't like African ways. Sorry but last time I checked it is mainly Africans that holds respect of age to some extent unlike the western world which you represent. Sorry if my comments appear rude. I have never insulted anyone on net and I don't plan to start with you. I respect your opinion and I think you owe me the same courtesy too. Have a good night rest. Perhaps you can also extend a hand of friendship to me by answering the last question I asked in my previous mention. It will help in the new article I'm writing. Thanks sir