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queencalipso:
The tune in the write up indicated that op was the originator of the no sex thingy. Mehn!!! Go through his post again and you will get the point.

Op felt he met an untouched, pure girl worthy of marriage. He choose to preserve her until that glorious night while he sleeps with the non virgins, or is he saying that for one and half yrs he dated her without making love to her, he never slept with another girl/s? Note: op didn't say he's a virgin too.

Even if d said girl was the originator of the no sex, they parted for seven months which is still more than enough time for one to change his/her decision.

My emphasis is, they parted ways. Whatever decision they had then no longer hold. Each party can decide to do what ever they want as there's no certainty they will be back together.

Op is confused bcz the virginity which was his main reason for being with her is no longer there. If op truly love her like he claimed, her loosing the viginity wouldn't be much of a worry to him, he will understand that seven months is more than enough time for anything to happen. Even some seven months children dey call names self, so what are we talking about here remove her virginty, his love for her no even reach 40%


But from her confession that op wrote, hmmmm!! I have a feeling she lost it even bf the said brk up

My thought o!!¡

@ bolded, There is nothing like True love after when a man discorvered that his woman whom he had faith in and left her untouched, had sex with someone else, it will just keep ringing in his head and thereby leading to trust issues...take it from me like from a brother am a man and i know how we react or feel towards infidelity issues that woman might become worthless in our eyes irrespective of Love or whateva...

Now i read it again, and its still the same thing i read earlier....although i understand what u are stressing at even if we dont know if its a no sex relationship or who made d move(if it wer) , but then whats on ur mind is already on ur mind, u wouldnt understand,....cos u not a man.

JustHere2Observ:
For one I won't care what he does when we broke up, no be my inheritance. Secondly, I dont go back to my vomit, I break up with you, Im not getting back with you ever. Besides a stingy boyfriend is not a problem, its a stingy husband one should be afraid of.

abeg i no fit laugh ooo...


You just answered ur earlier post which i said i wont condem...thanks.

skywalker240:
@ bolded, There is nothing like True love after when a man discorvered that his woman whom he had faith in and left her untouched, had sex with someone else, it will just keep ringing in his head and thereby leading to trust issues...take it from me like from a brother am a man and i know how we react or feel towards infidelity issues that woman might become worthless in our eyes irrespective of Love or whateva...

Now i read it again, and its still the same thing i read earlier....although i understand what u are stressing at even if we dont know if its a no sex relationship or who made d move(if it wer) , but then whats on ur mind is already on ur mind, u wouldnt understand,....cos u not a man.

You talking about infidelity as if they were still together when the said thing happened. What's infidelity in an already broken r/ship?

You r being bias with your judgement and its not fair.

For God sake, there's no infidelity here biko they broke up. Are you saying if I date another guy after breaking up with my ex is infidelity? Not like they were even married. Infidelity must have had a new meaning that am yet to be awere of.

Am not saying he should continue with the r/ship. If you read my first post, I said either he love her again and forget what happened or he end it and move on case closed.

But judging her the way he's doing for loosing her virginity after they broke up isn't fair. They owe nothing to them selves.

If the said girl is worthless in his eyes, he knows what to do.

You carefully avoided all the points I raised and picked the one that suits you. Say something on the other points. Thanks

queencalipso:
You talking about infidelity as if they were still together when the said thing happened. What's infidelity in an already broken r/ship?

You r being bias with your judgement and its not fair.

For God sake, there's no infidelity here biko they broke up. Are you saying if I date another guy after breaking up with my ex is infidelity? Not like they were even married. Infidelity must have had a new meaning that am yet to be awere of.

Am not saying he should continue with the r/ship. If you read my first post, I said either he love her again and forget what happened or he end it and move on case closed.

But judging her the way he's doing for loosing her virginity after they broke up isn't fair. They owe nothing to them selves.

If the said girl is worthless in his eyes, he knows what to do.

You carefully avoided all the points I raised and picked the one that suits you. Say something on the other points. Thanks

When i said infedelity, i was only citing an example...no man would be happy if his woman sleeps with another man after break up and make up..it would have been better if she didnt say it,..and i was never biased else why did i say i understood what u ar trying to explain i respected whats on ur mind...i was only trying to tell u that alot of girls just want to eat their cake and have it.

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nnamdiokere45:
collect ur share n disembark

Legit

nnamdiokere45:
collect ur share n disembark

Legit

nnamdiokere45:
collect ur share n disembark

I too gbadun you. Disembark or he should over board her sef

henrylowe:
Well, I already collected my own share unaccountable number of times since she came back... My only fear is that I don't want to make a wrong choice

Na to disembark remain na,

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mizzbouqui:
I think the relationship is dead and you might be tempted to cheat since your love for her is not that strong again, you should break up with her before its too late at least you are not breaking her heart, she is definitely still seeing the one who took her virginity, ladies doesn't forget the person they loss their viginity to like that

Well said,how 're you?

nma24:
Guys that agree to no sex until after marriage are usually self conscious due to their tiny stick and will wait until they've imprisoned d woman with marriage before whipping out the big disappointment..#SociologicalResearch

virginity rocks....sorry olosho rocks

Sincere4u:
Guy you have nothing to fear. She is the faithful type.
Remember she made that confession by herself. It wasn't like you caught her in the act or heard it from a third party. Moreover you broke up with her before it happened.
Look not many Nigerian girls can afford to be that faithful and honest. In fact most girls cheat while you are still dating them and pretend nothing had happened.
A girl I had dated for so long and was about marrying was all that time sleeping like a bitch with multiple pleasure seekers yet covered it up so well. Even after hard evidences emerged with terrible details and unbelievable images, the daughter of Jezebel still desperately tried to twist the facts and deny the affairs. Most girls are just like her yet if only she walked up to me and confessed of her unfaithfulness by herself I would have believed in her repentance and forgiven her cos I truly loved her but as it is, no amount of begging can make me trust her again.
When a lady confesses by herself that means she has not only been faithful but will never repeat what she did again. She was so hurt by it that she confessed to you. Look God will never be happy with you if you break her heart.
A girl like that is worth more than rubies.
If you don't want to heed my advice and decide to wickedly break her heart, please let me know before you do cos all my life I had been looking for her not knowing you had her. You might not be the right man for her after all and i believe I am. Be so kind to do a transfer.
Thank you for your understanding.
Guy I am serious o. I will make you the best man in our wedding as a way of appreciation and gratitude.

chai....u dull ehh

Laveda:
Eiyaa

Please forgive her if she's really sincere about the whole thing, shít happens, that's if you really love her as you claim..

So if your boyfriend wey u follow suffer jettison you after getting a well paying job, grabs another gal, buys a house and car in her name, and subsequently lost his job. Now, the new gal is laying claims to the properties cuz its in her name and the guy is broke and pleading that you come back.

Shebi you will forgive him and go back?

Valprof:
virginity rocks....sorry olosho rocks

Spare me the sarcasm.... If I'm an Olosho for loving my boyfriend and sharing such intimate moments with him, Fine. Then I'm d greatest olosho ever liveth. I never said being a virgin is bad though

isacolukay:
So if your boyfriend wey u follow suffer jettison you after getting a well paying job, grabs another gal, buys a house and car in her name, and subsequently lost his job. Now, the new gal is laying claims to the properties cuz its in her name and the guy is broke and pleading that you come back.

Shebi you will forgive him and go back?

This is totally different from the Op’s case

Valprof:
chai....u dull ehh

Don't quote me next time if you've got nothing in your dumb head to say.

nma24:
Spare me the sarcasm.... If I'm an Olosho for loving my boyfriend and sharing such intimate moments with him, Fine. Then I'm d greatest olosho ever liveth. I never said being a virgin is bad though

make sure he marries u oo...it is very harsh out there

nma24:
Spare me the sarcasm.... If I'm an Olosho for loving my boyfriend and sharing such intimate moments with him, Fine. Then I'm d greatest olosho ever liveth. I never said being a virgin is bad though

y did u say men with no sex until marriage policy are not endowed...or do u want the whole world to do dat which u regret so much ,perhaps to neutralize u guilt.......some men marry non v's , so chillll

Valprof:
y did u say men with no sex until marriage policy are not endowed...or do u want the whole world to do dat which u regret so much ,perhaps to neutralize u guilt.......some men marry non v's , so chillll

Guilt?

nma24:
Guilt?

ya...bt itz lyk nepa.....comes now and then

Valprof:
ya...bt itz lyk nepa.....comes now and then

Na u sabi

Laveda:
Eiyaa

Please forgive her if she's really sincere about the whole thing, shít happens, that's if you really love her as you claim..

F*ck Love in this situation...If she truly loves me as she claims, will she cheat on me?

Girls will cheat when it feels like. You can't stop them. They think through their feelings. Basically a girl's actions are a reflection of their man. So if a girl cheats on you it's the guy's fault. Girls respond to men and they allow men direct and think for them

Lavedaa:

This is totally different from the Op’s case

Lol. There is no difference my dear!

nma24:
Na u sabi

k sweedie