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Re: Should I Tell My Friend About His Loyal Girlfriend? by Greenbullet(m): 7:29pm On Jul 21, 2016

HemmanuelRichy:
I'm seriously confused on what o do. The worse part of it is that I chat with my friend on daily basis. I just dey shake my head in self pity for any time he uses her picture on his dp.

guy u dey vex me,if na d gal friend catch the guy with anoda gal within half of a second she don hear now since how many days u Neva fit update or guy.u dey f.up

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Re: Should I Tell My Friend About His Loyal Girlfriend? by HemmanuelRichy(op): 7:33pm On Jul 21, 2016

Chicent:
i quoted you so that u will listen to what i have to tell u.
Your friend has been dating this said girl for 4-5yrs now. Yes! Its very difficult for gals to be faithful while in school and away from their bf's, but how well did u play ur game while at it is all that matters.But i bet you for a gal who havent even settled down and has hooked up already kw nothing or less of what she wants or she is doing.
So this is the in thing, call her and tell her to choose btw ur frnd and her new found lover because its very certain ur frnd will be spending alot on her to keep the relationship going. So safe ur frnd now or never.

NB- if u didnt kw about her affairs its a different thing, but since u kw and u have confirmed, pls do the needful and do it fast.
Dont break the Bro Code...... Peace!

Thank you sir. I really appreciate your advise.

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Re: Should I Tell My Friend About His Loyal Girlfriend? by kindredspirit(m): 7:33pm On Jul 21, 2016

Tag me weird, but I'm never in a quandary about issues like this. Immediately I confirm that she's dating the guy, its ring -a- ding to my friend STRAIGHT AWAY ! I expect him to do same for me if he was in my Shoes.

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Re: Should I Tell My Friend About His Loyal Girlfriend? by sorextee(m): 7:34pm On Jul 21, 2016

I can't bliv it's a lady that wrote this.. I trust some girls here, they will still support the girl, nd see non existent fault in her bf. But yours(advice) is extremely mature

Kudos. More cans of big stout to ur fridge.. grin

chocolateme:
Ok.. is it that she begged you not to tell your friend with promises to break out the relationship she just started with the guy or not to tell your friend while she continues to enjoy the new guy?which one? Because ndi igbo si na "ekwue anughi na egbu umuazi but na ahu ekwughi na egbu okenye"
Call her to attention, give her options to either forget your friend now and continue with the campus guy before things gets messier or forget about campus live, focus on her studies and retain her man..
Let her know that you are not a fool too. Then let your friend know before he spends his life savings on someone that is not worth it. Thsts if he is truly your friend. We all know that predators will continue coming for her while in school but she should read a lot about how such relationships ended.

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Re: Should I Tell My Friend About His Loyal Girlfriend? by Chicent(m): 7:34pm On Jul 21, 2016

iamkingzlee:
What do ladies want sef!! I'm confused

they are just insatiable bro..... Nothing dey belleful them.
U dont beat them, they want to test that guy who beats.
U dont socialise, she wants that guy that socialises.
U dont fvck her roughly(as she is ur gf),she wants that guy who scatters the congo.
U treat her as a queen, pamper, comfort, buy her goodies, compliment her but she wants to test the other side.
All the above are vis a vis..........
NB- they sometimes go for attractions from other guys.

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Re: Should I Tell My Friend About His Loyal Girlfriend? by RiloKiley: 7:35pm On Jul 21, 2016

HemmanuelRichy:
Nawa o. This matter don pass me.

Re: Should I Tell My Friend About His Loyal Girlfriend? by Mjshexy(f): 7:36pm On Jul 21, 2016

HemmanuelRichy:
Nawa o. This matter don pass me.

Bros pls give me ur frnd's number..plsss, I need to save your frnd's life from that LovePeddler angry

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Re: Should I Tell My Friend About His Loyal Girlfriend? by TheYoungHedge(m): 7:37pm On Jul 21, 2016

jamalnation:
What course or idontbeliveit

Who cares if you believe it huh

Re: Should I Tell My Friend About His Loyal Girlfriend? by HemmanuelRichy(op): 7:38pm On Jul 21, 2016

Greenbullet:
guy u dey vex me,if na d gal friend catch the guy with anoda gal within half of a second she don hear now since how many days u Neva fit update or guy.u dey f.up

Chai. I dey reason the implications. If the Bae go turn new leaf, I fit no tell my guy.

Re: Should I Tell My Friend About His Loyal Girlfriend? by CioAngels(f): 7:39pm On Jul 21, 2016

You were too fast in disclosing who you are to her. What level was she as at when you spoke with her? If 100level your friend can still get her back, but 200 upwards, please tell him so that he can move on with his life before he becomes her play toy. It is not the best to end up at yaba becos of anybody. He will get who will believe in him No matter his distance to her.

Re: Should I Tell My Friend About His Loyal Girlfriend? by henryhemon(m): 7:41pm On Jul 21, 2016

nnamdi1993:
People wey i dey pity na guy wey thier babes dey uni,dem go dey hwz dey beat chest dat she cant do it. At dis level i dey nw,i no fit date babe wey still dey skul ooo, dem go jst use ur heart play pes2016

Expect the ones in final year not all though few.

Re: Should I Tell My Friend About His Loyal Girlfriend? by Nobody: 7:41pm On Jul 21, 2016

Campus girl I no trust, it's a normal thing for both girls and boys when they gain admission newly. That one day guy wetin you go gain by telling your friend, just advice the girl to leave the new guy, because telling your friend mmmmmmmm you go feel console him

Re: Should I Tell My Friend About His Loyal Girlfriend? by henryhemon(m): 7:44pm On Jul 21, 2016

iykedare:
Are there loyal girlfriends in Nigeria? Poverty no go let them be loyal . Hoodrats.

Very true.

Re: Should I Tell My Friend About His Loyal Girlfriend? by groomed: 7:45pm On Jul 21, 2016

1stluv:
Let's see if you are loyal to your friend, am a lady but there is a saying "bros before hoo's" if am right.........dont dissapoint your friend

[size=20pt]MAXIMUM RESPECT![/size]

Re: Should I Tell My Friend About His Loyal Girlfriend? by Chicent(m): 7:46pm On Jul 21, 2016

HemmanuelRichy:
Thank you sir. I really appreciate your advise.

Re: Should I Tell My Friend About His Loyal Girlfriend? by lieutenantHaven: 7:46pm On Jul 21, 2016

I kno dat girl...I kno d girl in question... She s the assistant class rep. I wish I kno dat her bf sef. The day she went out with us at nite..that her bf kept calling but she refused to pick. I kn d girl

Re: Should I Tell My Friend About His Loyal Girlfriend? by HemmanuelRichy(op): 7:47pm On Jul 21, 2016

collitexnaira:
Baba since no one will tell u this, i must tell u, you re a big FOOL, man u fvck up big time,
Why reveal ur identity the babe, you shouldn't hv shown her ur frnd pix, she wouldn't have begged you nd you wouldn't be confused, it would hv been easier for you to tell ur frnd.

You still gat to tell ur frnd whether she begs u or not, no allow her turn ur frnd to monkey wey dey work nd baboon dey chop her for school,, i know say ur frnd go dey send her small change, so no allow her turn ur frnd to Maga while she is cheating on him

Must you insult me to prove your point?

If I no reveal my identity how i go confirm say na the babe I dey follow talk? Remember say I never see her before. i just wan confirm say na she

Re: Should I Tell My Friend About His Loyal Girlfriend? by Chicent(m): 7:48pm On Jul 21, 2016

HemmanuelRichy:
Thank you sir. I really appreciate your advise.

Re: Should I Tell My Friend About His Loyal Girlfriend? by Chicent(m): 7:48pm On Jul 21, 2016

HemmanuelRichy:
Thank you sir. I really appreciate your advise.

Re: Should I Tell My Friend About His Loyal Girlfriend? by henryhemon(m): 7:48pm On Jul 21, 2016

HemmanuelRichy:
Thank you sir. I really appreciate your advise.

Bro code over any code.

Re: Should I Tell My Friend About His Loyal Girlfriend? by princetom1(m): 7:51pm On Jul 21, 2016

osesology:
I believe this is all the advice the op needs...nothing more to add joor.

Yes, fact. Is either she face school or forget about ur friend. Simple. But girls like these like something between the leg too much or handsome guys or money, so, the truth is, there is probability of only 30% for her to be faithful after u advise her. 30% is big sha,,, i feel for ur friend.

Re: Should I Tell My Friend About His Loyal Girlfriend? by Otuoke: 7:52pm On Jul 21, 2016

Niggaa, go read the Bro Code..

Re: Should I Tell My Friend About His Loyal Girlfriend? by HemmanuelRichy(op): 7:52pm On Jul 21, 2016

lieutenantHaven:
I kno dat girl...I kno d girl in question... She s the assistant class rep. I wish I kno dat her bf sef. The day she went out with us at nite..that her bf kept calling but she refused to pick. I kn d girl

Are you for real? I only know her as the course rep not an assistant class rep.

Re: Should I Tell My Friend About His Loyal Girlfriend? by princetom1(m): 7:55pm On Jul 21, 2016

HemmanuelRichy:
I will try to make this very snappy.

I have a childhood friend who is so very much in love with his girlfriend of 4-5years. (Whom I have never met) Fortunately, the girl in question got admission to the school I currently am and she was offered the course I am also studying.

My friend called me and told that his Bae was given admission to study the same course I am studying, and he begged me to keep tabs on her. I assured him that I would try. (me wey no get time)

He sent me her pictures and told me to look for her at her where she receive lectures and get to know her better. I assured him that would i will of which I never did due to the distance of her lecture hall. I was optimistic that I would eventually see her one of these days.

Two weeks ago, my friend called me, after exchanging pleasantries he gave the phone to his Bae. I greeted her and congratulated her on getting admission to study the best course on campus. She begged me for past exam questions and handouts, I promised to give her the ones I would lay my hands on. I also advised her not be carried away with guys on campus, she thanked me and promised not to disappoint my friend.

I got to meet another girlfriend of my friend Bola (not her real name) who happened to be the same class she was. I asked her if she knows Joy (my friend's girl friend..not her real name too) I showed her the pictures my friend sent to me on my phone for easy identification. She immediately told me that she was their course rep and the most popular figure in her class.

Fast forward that same night in my course mate birthday party, Bola came to where i sat and told me that Joy was dancing with a guy in the middle of the hall. (It was quite dark and I couldn't really notice the faces of the people dancing)

I stood up and wanted of meet her for the first time, I got a shocker when the guy she was dancing with (I know the guy very well, he is my senior and I was one of his main man in his electioneering campaign team) sighted me and hugged me, he introduced her to me as his girlfriend and shook hands with her I was dumfounded and returned to my seat.

A girl I spoke with two weeks ago.. having a boyfriend already. I was perplexed. I wanted to confirm if she was truly the person, she went outside and I followed her. I stopped her and she responded with a smile. I asked her if they guy was truly her boyfriend, she said yes and confirmed my my fears. I asked her how long they were dating , she said she met him when she was doing her registeration. She asked why I was asking, I told her that I was feeling for my friend. She asked what i meant by that. I brought out my phone and showed her my friend picture. she started begging me and I pleaded that I should not tell my friend nothing.

I avoided her like a plague till the party ended.

This incident happened on Sunday night and I have been thinking on what to do.

should I tell my friend?

U should be by ur friend in this situation o. That's what friends are for...

Re: Should I Tell My Friend About His Loyal Girlfriend? by iamkingzlee(m): 7:55pm On Jul 21, 2016

Chicent:
they are just insatiable bro..... Nothing dey belleful them.
U dont beat them, they want to test that guy who beats.
U dont socialise, she wants that guy that socialises.
U dont fvck her roughly(as she is ur gf),she wants that guy who scatters the congo.
U treat her as a queen, pamper, comfort, buy her goodies, compliment her but she wants to test the other side.
All the above are vis a vis..........
NB- they sometimes go for attractions from other guys.

Insatiable is the word bro! Perfect!!!

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Re: Should I Tell My Friend About His Loyal Girlfriend? by HemmanuelRichy(op): 7:58pm On Jul 21, 2016

asodane:
Campus girl I no trust, it's a normal thing for both girls and boys when they gain admission newly. That one day guy wetin you go gain by telling your friend, just advice the girl to leave the new guy, because telling your friend mmmmmmmm you go feel console him

My thought exactly. I would gain nothing by exposing her to my friend rather I would scatter a four years relationship at first contact. I would go look for her tomorrow and try to talk sense into her skull. if she doesn't bulge, I will have no choice than to spill the beans.

Thank you Boss.

Re: Should I Tell My Friend About His Loyal Girlfriend? by schumastic(m): 7:59pm On Jul 21, 2016

HemmanuelRichy:
I will try to make this very snappy.

I have a childhood friend who is so very much in love with his girlfriend of 4-5years. (Whom I have never met) Fortunately, the girl in question got admission to the school I currently am and she was offered the course I am also studying.

My friend called me and told that his Bae was given admission to study the same course I am studying, and he begged me to keep tabs on her. I assured him that I would try. (me wey no get time)

He sent me her pictures and told me to look for her at her where she receive lectures and get to know her better. I assured him that would i will of which I never did due to the distance of her lecture hall. I was optimistic that I would eventually see her one of these days.

Two weeks ago, my friend called me, after exchanging pleasantries he gave the phone to his Bae. I greeted her and congratulated her on getting admission to study the best course on campus. She begged me for past exam questions and handouts, I promised to give her the ones I would lay my hands on. I also advised her not be carried away with guys on campus, she thanked me and promised not to disappoint my friend.

I got to meet another girlfriend of my friend Bola (not her real name) who happened to be the same class she was. I asked her if she knows Joy (my friend's girl friend..not her real name too) I showed her the pictures my friend sent to me on my phone for easy identification. She immediately told me that she was their course rep and the most popular figure in her class.

Fast forward that same night in my course mate birthday party, Bola came to where i sat and told me that Joy was dancing with a guy in the middle of the hall. (It was quite dark and I couldn't really notice the faces of the people dancing)

I stood up and wanted of meet her for the first time, I got a shocker when the guy she was dancing with (I know the guy very well, he is my senior and I was one of his main man in his electioneering campaign team) sighted me and hugged me, he introduced her to me as his girlfriend and shook hands with her I was dumfounded and returned to my seat.

A girl I spoke with two weeks ago.. having a boyfriend already. I was perplexed. I wanted to confirm if she was truly the person, she went outside and I followed her. I stopped her and she responded with a smile. I asked her if they guy was truly her boyfriend, she said yes and confirmed my my fears. I asked her how long they were dating , she said she met him when she was doing her registeration. She asked why I was asking, I told her that I was feeling for my friend. She asked what i meant by that. I brought out my phone and showed her my friend picture. she started begging me and I pleaded that I should not tell my friend nothing.

I avoided her like a plague till the party ended.

This incident happened on Sunday night and I have been thinking on what to do.

should I tell my friend?

more reason why i can't go into any serious relationship with any girl still in school because they are still going to enjoy school activities both the good and bad...i would rather wait till they are done than get unnecessary high bp...

Re: Should I Tell My Friend About His Loyal Girlfriend? by allytinted: 8:01pm On Jul 21, 2016

1stluv:
Let's see if you are loyal to your friend, am a lady but there is a saying "bros before hoo's" if am right.........dont dissapoint your friend

ds is coming from a lady? hmmmm.....maybe all ladies aint thesame afterall. Bar man, give this babe one cold bottle of shawarma.

Re: Should I Tell My Friend About His Loyal Girlfriend? by Ajusshi: 8:02pm On Jul 21, 2016

HemmanuelRichy:
I will try to make this very snappy.

I have a childhood friend who is so very much in love with his girlfriend of 4-5years. (Whom I have never met) Fortunately, the girl in question got admission to the school I currently am and she was offered the course I am also studying.

My friend called me and told that his Bae was given admission to study the same course I am studying, and he begged me to keep tabs on her. I assured him that I would try. (me wey no get time)

He sent me her pictures and told me to look for her at her where she receive lectures and get to know her better. I assured him that would i will of which I never did due to the distance of her lecture hall. I was optimistic that I would eventually see her one of these days.

Two weeks ago, my friend called me, after exchanging pleasantries he gave the phone to his Bae. I greeted her and congratulated her on getting admission to study the best course on campus. She begged me for past exam questions and handouts, I promised to give her the ones I would lay my hands on. I also advised her not be carried away with guys on campus, she thanked me and promised not to disappoint my friend.

I got to meet another girlfriend of my friend Bola (not her real name) who happened to be the same class she was. I asked her if she knows Joy (my friend's girl friend..not her real name too) I showed her the pictures my friend sent to me on my phone for easy identification. She immediately told me that she was their course rep and the most popular figure in her class.

Fast forward that same night in my course mate birthday party, Bola came to where i sat and told me that Joy was dancing with a guy in the middle of the hall. (It was quite dark and I couldn't really notice the faces of the people dancing)

I stood up and wanted of meet her for the first time, I got a shocker when the guy she was dancing with (I know the guy very well, he is my senior and I was one of his main man in his electioneering campaign team) sighted me and hugged me, he introduced her to me as his girlfriend and shook hands with her I was dumfounded and returned to my seat.

A girl I spoke with two weeks ago.. having a boyfriend already. I was perplexed. I wanted to confirm if she was truly the person, she went outside and I followed her. I stopped her and she responded with a smile. I asked her if they guy was truly her boyfriend, she said yes and confirmed my my fears. I asked her how long they were dating , she said she met him when she was doing her registeration. She asked why I was asking, I told her that I was feeling for my friend. She asked what i meant by that. I brought out my phone and showed her my friend picture. she started begging me and I pleaded that I should not tell my friend nothing.

I avoided her like a plague till the party ended.

This incident happened on Sunday night and I have been thinking on what to do.

should I tell my friend?

Dude u guffed big time.
You shouldn't have ever ask her anything thing.

Just carry on like nothing happened
See no evil hear no evil....

Tell your friend you haven't have the time to see his bea, and make excuses for your failing to meet with her.
Whenever you and your friend meet, you can discuss with him.

Re: Should I Tell My Friend About His Loyal Girlfriend? by HemmanuelRichy(op): 8:02pm On Jul 21, 2016

henryhemon:
Bro code over any code.

Coded

Re: Should I Tell My Friend About His Loyal Girlfriend? by allytinted: 8:05pm On Jul 21, 2016

Some hoes aint loyal. You just cant satisfy some of them.

Re: Should I Tell My Friend About His Loyal Girlfriend? by HemmanuelRichy(op): 8:07pm On Jul 21, 2016

Ajusshi:
Dude u guffed big time.
You shouldn't have ever ask her anything thing.

Just carry on like nothing happened
See no evil hear no evil....

Tell your friend you haven't have the time to see his bea, and make excuses for your failing to meet with her.
Whenever you and your friend meet, you can discuss with him.

To be sincere, I wanted to confirm if she was the babe in question. He is coming around tomorrow. I seriously don't want him to loose his girlfriend. I would talk to her and see if she can turn a new leaf.

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