₦airaland Forum

AngelAhnie:
You are right

If any guy want full package from a lady then he should put a ring on it

DanceVille:
Exactly.. That's how it should be.

Greenbullet:
truth is no 6 and 7 work hand in hand, a girl who depends on her boyfriend is not going to refuse him sex,not because she feels obligated to,its because she is scared of what might happen,because a guy that provides for should not be treated with refute and unfortunately for 9ja gals they fall in the dependent category, so they have no other option than to perform the rest.

uzolexis:
That you are having sex with your bf does not mean that's all the relationship is all about. Of course you can enjoy each other's company without having sex, if sex is all that defines your relationship then there's a problem. Me I just like getting intimate with who I'm dating but that's my choice and it's my body, not forcing it down anybody's throat as I'm not living anybody's life for them. I can't go into a no sex relationship but again, that's just me.

DanceVille:
Lalasticlala... Please help me to give this thread wider coverage.



Let's warn our Nigerian ladies out there.

Boyooosa:
Frankly, am feeling ATM right now but have an advantage of being intelligent... Trust me. Am just considering how to work things out with her, I believe in power of possibility. Those Petties she demands for as specified in DAT snapshot cannot actually affect my economy (my job pays) but the situation is detrimental to my status and most esp. My plan for her. (We call them 'ebiano' for my Syd. But seriously, I wish to change her for good.

Boyooosa:
Frankly, am feeling ATM right now but have an advantage of being intelligent... Trust me. Am just considering how to work things out with her, I believe in power of possibility. Those Petties she demands for as specified in DAT snapshot cannot actually affect my economy (my job pays) but the situation is detrimental to my status and most esp. My plan for her. (We call them 'ebiano' for my Syd. But seriously, I wish to change her for good.

Ikigia:
So pure, you did well!

Thandobaby:
Exactly!Your body your choice and your life.You will just keep on giving up e cookie and giving and giving coz u like being intimate n age in e meantime my opinion

Kakamorufu:
Continue spoiling market

uzolexis:
Everything you wrote is on point except the laundry part, I don't even do my own laundry,there's a reason why washing machines were made, it makes life a lot easier... that's my opinion though.

Saheed9:
what's PDA?

Yuneehk:
But something "unserious" did abi

Richiy:
Lol. I would so love to not do laundry, But my parents never considered washing machine as important and I have been washing manually for a long long time. Now I realize my next birthday gift

marveangel:
You have practically erased everything meaningful a girlfriend should do for her guy....what then your highness should be the duties of a babe to her guy

Iseoluwani:
It will be hard Changing someone, is either you adjust to her or hmmm

One of you needs to compromise. It doesn't make you weak

Her love language z giving. I presume
You must learn to appreciate it n accept
it

Just that girls use this to milk on jare

uzolexis:
Yeah, Nigerian Parents are like that, I used to do my laundry until I left 9ja some years ago and discovered the beauty of washing machines then when I came back last year for Christmas I made sure there was washing machine in the house o, I can't come and be suffering.....lol, can't imagine going back to hand laundry again, that thing is so time and energy consuming.

toojah4u:
nobi small.. market spoiler

Richiy:
Hahahaha! And it is not so expensive too. But the reality of Nepa just makes it more of a burden. But, when I grow up financially, I will ensure I get one.

Your signature? What happened?

Boyooosa:
Quite interesting... Accept her or leave her. Nice summary. Noted. D funniest aspect of it is DAT, if a rude boy comes her way now, she will still come to NL and create a dirty thread of how [/b]a guy collected her pant and sent her insyd rain on the middle of the night[b]. Some fulls calling demselves big sistas will start sending in ridiculous comments. Anyway, I will try a bit more for her if God opens her eye of understanding, goodluck Jonathan for her, if not, I will send her to the world . Shikena. Thanx for your tym bro. I have the fun!

Babycherry:
hmmmmmmm

Nawa oooh........I cannot want to commit suicide and instead die while tying the rope to the fan ooooooh

Op, nawa unto you......

The topic should simply be "meet a girl today and marry her tommorrow"

Everything you listed except the "Sex" can be done Moderately

uzolexis:
Don't judge me pls,I didn't judge you or belittle your opinion and that's what you are trying to do to me now. I don't see it as "giving up the cookie", it's something I enjoy doing and my partner should enjoy it as well. I see no reason why I can't do what makes me happy as long as I'm not hurting anyone, so the guy is not using me and I'm not using him, we both enjoy it, nobody is cheating the other.

Thandobaby:
Never judged u one bit that was my opinion there and everyone is entitled to one

Iseoluwani:

DanceVille:
Every Nigerian Single ladies want to get married and of course wants to impress the man of their dreams.There's absolutely nothing wrong in showing off your good womanly skills and why you will make a better wife than your rival.

Buh there are some wifely duties you should avoid with your boyfriend if you want to have a good future ahead.


7 Wifely Duties Nigerian Ladies Should Avoid With Their Boyfriends

1. Mingle With His Friends

This might be fun if you knew him through his friends, buh nevertheless, you should cut down on all familarity with his friends once you start dating him.This will save you from the stress of your good intentions being misinterpreted,Or his friends knowing too much of you to begin to decide whether they like or approve you or not.

2. Do His Laundry

You should be focused on building your relationship, not how great a housekeeper you're.There are laundry shops on almost every street in Nigeria cities.If he tells you his clothes need washing, offer to call your laundry man for him or help him drop his clothes at the laundry shop.

3. Spend The Weekend At His Place

Most Nigerian ladies do this a lot and it's becoming a norm.You just want to have the feel of what it will actually be like living with him.It starts by sleeping over because it was too late for you to go home, then it progresses to you consciously going there for the weekend.What happened to the place you paid rent for? Smh..

4. Visit His Family Regularly

First things first, don't be in a haste to meet his family, or for him to meet your family unless he's planning to marry you.And when he finally introduces you to them, avoid paying the regular and uncalled for visits.The idea is not to get too involved with his family until you start bearing their name.

5. Depending On Him To Take Care Of You And Your Family

This is very common among Nigerian ladies, where a single lady assumes that all her financial burdens will be relieved by her boyfriend.Only lazy girls depend on their boyfriends for everything and if you want him to appreciate you, show him you're capable of taking care of your needs as well as that of your family.

6. Sleep With Him

Sex is sacred and was designed for married couples.You giving your body to your boyfriend goes against God's plan and also defiles your body and values.Stop giving him your body whenever he calls you up for it.Until he puts a wedding ring on your finger, then he's not worthy to receive wife benefits from you.When you become his wife, he will get treated like a husband.

7. Public Display Of Affection

Nigerian ladies are too fast in doing things when they are in a relationship.Try as much as possible to avoid going everywhere together, holding hands, kissing in public, uploading his pics on your social networks account and all that love birds do to drag attention.You might see it as part of spicing up your relationship buh it'll have negative effects on you if the relationship doesn't end up at the altar.

I drop my pen at this Juncture.


Written And Compiled By
DanceVille

jahbiz:
Ask ur elder sisters if they didn't do d ones above.