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My Brother's Girlfriend Refuses Money by Diamondqueen(f): 6:38pm On Aug 04, 2016
So there's this girl my bro has been seeing. This girl is pretty and nice and my bro likes her very much. But the thing about her is that she doesn't allow my bro to spend on her and she doesn't ask him for money either. Few weeks ago, she was on her natural hair and so my bro asked her how much she needed to make it but she said no, that he shouldn't worry about it. Last week my bro wanted to the her shopping and she said no. Just the other day, they went to a mall to shop for themselves and at the counter my bro wanted to pay for both of them but she strongly refused and paid hers. When my bro asked her why she keeps refusing his money, she said "i don't want you to feel like I owe you anything afterwards and i also don't want to feel indebted to you. I don't want to feel like i should give you anything in return." what is your view on this?
Re: My Brother's Girlfriend Refuses Money by Boring: 6:41pm On Aug 04, 2016
So.?? undecided undecided
Re: My Brother's Girlfriend Refuses Money by Raydos: 6:41pm On Aug 04, 2016
Panorama view

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Re: My Brother's Girlfriend Refuses Money by Nobody: 6:45pm On Aug 04, 2016
It is well
Re: My Brother's Girlfriend Refuses Money by Florblu(f): 6:45pm On Aug 04, 2016
Congratulations to your brother!if a lady ask for money,guys will say she's too dependent and if she didn't ask they will say she is too independent.Guys are just impossible!

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Re: My Brother's Girlfriend Refuses Money by DRISKLEF(m): 6:49pm On Aug 04, 2016
Then take a cue from your brother's girlfriend and be like her

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Re: My Brother's Girlfriend Refuses Money by LorDBolton(m): 6:52pm On Aug 04, 2016
I advise your brother to break up with her sharp sharp...she's a stubborn woman, fear stubborn women

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Re: My Brother's Girlfriend Refuses Money by Kayoski(m): 6:55pm On Aug 04, 2016
Op pls when your brother eventually breaks her heart pls help me send her number...

I need a girl like that..

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Re: My Brother's Girlfriend Refuses Money by Ahmed0336(m): 7:00pm On Aug 04, 2016
Can i have her number? angry

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Re: My Brother's Girlfriend Refuses Money by bmcariyo(m): 7:01pm On Aug 04, 2016
Your brother should be careful. She isn't totally committed yet or playing mind games.

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Re: My Brother's Girlfriend Refuses Money by BARRIKADE: 7:08pm On Aug 04, 2016
Florblu:
Congratulations to your brother!if a lady ask for money,guys will say she's too dependent and if she didn't ask they will say she is too independent.Guys are just impossible!
I see no sentence in her writeup to suggest her brother complained about anything. he simply asked his 'girlfriend' why she wasn't receptive of his monetary gestures. So as always with the girls contained in this forum,you leapt & hastily began to masturbatē to a thread that suggested men were impossible to please without taking time to actually understand what was written.
if anything, it's the OP,whose gold-digging tendencies has made the choices of her brother's girlfriend not to sit well with her,that's who we should be worried about.

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Re: My Brother's Girlfriend Refuses Money by dominique(f): 7:12pm On Aug 04, 2016
The average naija lady feels that it's her birthright to collect stuff from men.
Re: My Brother's Girlfriend Refuses Money by decatalyst(m): 7:21pm On Aug 04, 2016
My kind of girl. Very independent as heart.

We'll trained and mannered.

Find out the real her...and if she is truly what she portrays, tell your brother to wife her! He should adore her and buy are things she can't resist.

Anyone feel this way?

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Re: My Brother's Girlfriend Refuses Money by sainttwist1(m): 7:23pm On Aug 04, 2016
naija gal refuse money.....sorry Op I don't believe you
Re: My Brother's Girlfriend Refuses Money by chachanga: 7:27pm On Aug 04, 2016
bmcariyo:
Your brother should be careful. She isn't totally committed yet or playing mind games.

You could have a point there
Or we might just be seeing the effects of some good moral background or the presence of a personal policy, sadly, a backbone that most greedy "chop&quench" girls lack.

Hence, you see them with this funny entitlement complex that assumes they've got rights to empty your pocket at will just becos you've approached them!
Frankly, am of the opinion that no lady should get herself boxed into some corner where some guy starts feeling like he owns her because it's furrk-ups following such that produce all the wierd revenge shyyts crazy-mofo guys mete out on girls who've over-"obtained" them without commensurate or expected rewards.
Best bet, curtail your appetite and play it safe till....

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Re: My Brother's Girlfriend Refuses Money by TomHagen: 7:27pm On Aug 04, 2016
Florblu:
Congratulations to your brother!if a lady ask for money,guys will say she's too dependent and if she didn't ask they will say she is too independent.Guys are just impossible!
Please shut up and read!
Re: My Brother's Girlfriend Refuses Money by coolebux(m): 7:33pm On Aug 04, 2016
Maybe her class of ogbanje frowns against it. This one no be "everyday naija babe" sha.gringrin
Re: My Brother's Girlfriend Refuses Money by AfroKnight: 7:47pm On Aug 04, 2016
This shouldn't be an issue. Why does he feel he needs to pay her for attention and love? There is something wrong with it. He can get her occasional gifts but offering her money for hair, etc is just wrong.

She is a smart lady who knows how entitled some guys feel when they give money to their girls. Now she will see if he can respect and love her when he has no "leverage".
Re: My Brother's Girlfriend Refuses Money by kuchikau: 7:55pm On Aug 04, 2016
I hate girls dat mensturates. How can blood coming fron your BIG T0TO wet ur pants and skirt,yet u claim to be sophisticated. *Smells*
Re: My Brother's Girlfriend Refuses Money by ikombe: 8:03pm On Aug 04, 2016
Florblu:
Congratulations to your brother!if a lady ask for money,guys will say she's too dependent and if she didn't ask they will say she is too independent.Guys are just impossible!
Babe thats how we roll undecided

Re: My Brother's Girlfriend Refuses Money by ZeeAfrica(f): 8:11pm On Aug 04, 2016
sainttwist1:
naija gal refuse money.....sorry Op I don't believe you

.lol
Re: My Brother's Girlfriend Refuses Money by dannyben5: 8:12pm On Aug 04, 2016
Your broda is very lucky....
Re: My Brother's Girlfriend Refuses Money by mirakuru(m): 8:20pm On Aug 04, 2016
Florblu:
Congratulations to your brother!if a lady ask for money,guys will say she's too dependent and if she didn't ask they will say she is too independent.Guys are just impossible!
and inescapable!
Re: My Brother's Girlfriend Refuses Money by Diamondqueen(f): 9:26pm On Aug 04, 2016
BARRIKADE:
I see no sentence in her writeup to suggest her brother complained about anything. he simply asked his 'girlfriend' why she wasn't receptive of his monetary gestures. So as always with the girls contained in this forum,you leapt & hastily began to masturbatē to a thread that suggested men were impossible to please without taking time to actually understand what was written.
if anything, it's the OP,whose gold-digging tendencies has made the choices of her brother's girlfriend not to sit well with her,that's who we should be worried about.

I never said my bro's choice of girlfriend doesn't sit well with me. You be worried about your lack of understanding and use of vulgar languages. And don't be quick to generalize the gold digging traits of your female relatives to every girl you see around. #peace
Re: My Brother's Girlfriend Refuses Money by Diamondqueen(f): 9:34pm On Aug 04, 2016
DRISKLEF:
Then take a clue from your brother's girlfriend and be like her

sorry, I don't intend being like anyone. I have my own life to live. I am rather motivated by people.
Re: My Brother's Girlfriend Refuses Money by DRISKLEF(m): 9:42pm On Aug 04, 2016
Diamondqueen:


sorry, I don't intend being like anyone. I have my own life to live. I am rather motivated by people.
So you'll rather eat a man dry.

It is well.

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Re: My Brother's Girlfriend Refuses Money by TamedWolf90: 9:47pm On Aug 04, 2016
dominique:
The average naija lady feels that it's her birthright to collect stuff from men.


Are you inclusive cause I don't see you as average??
Re: My Brother's Girlfriend Refuses Money by Richy4(m): 9:52pm On Aug 04, 2016
Go and watch or listen to miss independent by NeYo...
u will have a cue of who the girl is and where she is coming from..... You brother has just struck pure gold.....
Re: My Brother's Girlfriend Refuses Money by Diamondqueen(f): 9:52pm On Aug 04, 2016
DRISKLEF:
So you'll rather eat a man dry.

It is well.

don't force words into my mouth. I said i am living my own life and I'm not aiming to be like anyone. right now i have better things to do with my life than drain my energy on pointless relationships.

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Re: My Brother's Girlfriend Refuses Money by BARRIKADE: 9:53pm On Aug 04, 2016
Diamondqueen:


I never said my bro's choice of girlfriend doesn't sit well with me. You be worried about your lack of understanding and use of vulgar languages. And don't be quick to generalize the gold digging traits of your female relatives to every girl you see around. #peace
Then why on earth are you asking us what we think of her decisions?
and yes,I understood everything you typed,even more than you apparently. so It's either you are just having trouble expressing yourself explicitly or you need to send me your English teacher's phone number and address.
Re: My Brother's Girlfriend Refuses Money by dominique(f): 9:58pm On Aug 04, 2016
TamedWolf90:



Are you inclusive cause I don't see you as average??

Nope, I've never believed in 'taxing' men

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