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cheruv:
Taa méchíe onu

She'd go with guy 2

peterpen:
Harddon am still expecting ur reply bro



thanks

liljboy:
FOR THE MR NICE GUYS


nice guy will constantly give in and do whatever the woman wants. When the woman finds this unattractive and eventually leaves him for a more exciting guy, the nice guy will complain about how he “did everything for her.”

And therein lies the problem… Nice guys also have issues with jealousy, born out of their insecurity. They are too outwardly-dependent; all their happiness comes from the woman. They don’t want her talking to other guys for fear she’ll run off and he’ll lose his source of happiness.

You see, the problem with the feelings of jealousy that so many beta males have about their women is that it comes from a position of neediness. So whenever you feel that way with a girl, suck it up and let those feeling go. When a girl detects a guy is jealous, it's as if he's saying to her, "Hey, I feel inferior to those other dudes you're talking to."

And having that lack of confidence in yourself makes the chick not feel so confident in you, either. She begins to wonder whether the grass is greener in other pastures. I know it's tough to not feel jealous, but look at it this way: if you knew that you were the shit and that you can attract hot babes and get laid easily, would you care that your girl is going off and talking with some other guys? Of course not, because that would be her loss (and you could just get laid from some other chick)!

Okay, so here's a new attitude I want you to adopt: "I am developing into a high value alpha male." Keep repeating that to yourself throughout the day as an affirmation. By the way, you're probably still wondering what you should actually do if you're girl is talking to other dudes. Well, the absolute worst thing you can do (ironically) is to try to intervene to stop her from doing it. That makes it so that she has the higher value, not you. Instead, the best way to counter such behavior is to say, "Have a good time!" with a tone of complete indifference when she says she's going to go hang out with some other guy. Let her see that it doesn't phase you one bit. Meanwhile, you go talk with other girls.

HARDDON:
But u must first work on ur self with these drills so that u minimise rejections because from experience, guys r their own worse enemies when it comes to meeting ladies for the first time.

A lil foot wrong , n u spoil d broth

We have told u to avoid blands, pickup lines and sterotype lines.

They r d questest way to get booted even b4 u r suited

Imakeherdrip:
Patiently waiting...

PreciousRahl:
Sorry my reply is coming late.. i had to do alot of thinking before answering your questions cos "reason" is such a strong word.. The only reason i could come up with is that i like her.. Alot

HARDDON:
That means ATL
As Time Leads ....... Inbtw short n long term Undecided

HARDDON:
But u should know this:

Sense Pill 50:

Women have lota ish going on in their lives most times than they cud manage: from painful flow to been broke, from cheating bf to family stress. So they just lose it when u step in wrongly trying to talk.
Some wud ignore u, others wud look @ u quzzically, some wud hiss n just move on, very few wud smile n respond to u!

D solution is to be a gud situation / facial expression reader n be quick witted enuf to know how to approach d subject @ hand. because u can let her walk on, u might never met @ again

HARDDON:
Here is a lil secret:


Sense Pill 51:

We don't deploy wits n sways all the time!
We read d moods n flow in tone.
We deploy wits n sways most times
care n concern sometimes
surprise expression( without speaking) laced with laughter sometimes,
reach out a hand n help out most times,
Sing sometimes
Flow peotry sometimes
But with our confident aura all the Times! Cos in d final analyses,u r all u got all times

We r no robots.

Only the wise wud fathom this

HARDDON:
On to dah Next one:

DRILL NUGGET 6:

HARDDON:
DRILL NUGGET 6: HOW TO APPROACH DA FIRST KISS

HARDDON:
News flash: I'd rather u don't do this as a newbie! Avoid this, its too direct, too demanding n it defines a lot!

Get this wrong , and u might as well kiss her gud bye.

What u should rather do:


Sense Pill 53:
Always as a rule of thumb, use the public parts to wake up the private parts!



It means : go stealth like dah black bird and b4 the enemy knows it , uve drawn d town n u r home safe

peterpen:
Hello Hardon d Don.....Great work i must say....I want to practice these life saving drillls, nd i got two gorgeous candidates..... 1) I got to knw this girl wen i collected her number from a friend, i added her on watsapp nd we got to chat....am nt really d boring type buh i can be sumtimes...altho i can be funny at times buh am nt sassy and witty....we started chatting nd i got to really knw her....i later knew she was a student in thesame university i attend, she was friendly nd i was keeping it dat way, arranged for us to meet sumwere at school severally buh they were all futile, on one ocassion after we had agreed on the time nd i was going there already, i decided to call her only for her to tell me she was at home, i was angry buh still forgave witout her apologising, then i decided to move to the level of dating her....immediately i started making advanves at her she kindof changed, always expecting me to say hi wen we both online....took time to reply my msgs nd even ignores sumtimes,.....am nt a desperate type altho i gat bad tales to tell wen it comes to girls.....i bcame tired of her games nd moved on....i neva chatted her anymore, its been months since i last chatted her, meanwhile i neva called during d period we were communicating, I met her along the road at school one day nd we greeted,despite that i still didn't chat wit her..i wanna pratice these drills wit her .....i wanna have her drooling nd knwing she cant have me.......i need you to help me.....i wuld be grateful man.. 2) There's this gorgeous dame dat lives a third street from mine, her elder sister nd my sister are friends nd they kinda close to my sisters.... i dnt talk to her dat much, i give this i dnt care attitude wen around her, we dnt see each other often, she respects me too....shes got sooo many admirers, i wanna practice these drills with her nd i want you to help me wit going abt this.... Thanks....

HARDDON:
For?

Imakeherdrip:
For you Don_me_ce_lee

peterpen:
Harddon am still expecting ur reply @this post..

thanks

HARDDON:
I'm totally @ sea gee.....

Is there a question on that write up?

peterpen:
read the post carefully, u will see the question therein..

HARDDON:
Huh?
Don me CE Lee?

Waz fhat?

Imakeherdrip:
A title for a Don that knows his worth

HARDDON:
The hand is a very gud public part to start with ... Hold n caress it nonechalantly as u burst her bubbles, pick @ d strands of her hair as u ask witty questions about it.

U must know hair colours: colour 1, 28 , 30 etc know them n what they look like! How much the attachment cost n have a favourite hair style

Learn about all human hair types: brazillian , Peruvian etc. Know what is human what is not.

Why I'm I so concerned with hair? Cos her hair is one of the major indirect way to launch in . as u talking, run ur hands down her hair a couple of times nonechalantly . stop @ d ear loop n caress it..... Be wise here! Cos this is sensitive

While u make funny comments about her cheeks , eye brow , lip stick , make up etc to divert her attention


Notice d sequence?

okwypascal:
Boss hardgee, abeg continue with that kiss drill I need it this friday, one new harsh gal I managed 2 calm down. She too dey flare up

HARDDON:
she is acting up, u should know gurls use been harsh as a MEANS OF CONTROLLING YOU TOO!

dont take that crap, rather use it to poke fun at her!

You: wow, u blowing hot, did u eat hot pepper this morning? or is your period out? need buscupan?

2) take a deep breath, what were u trying to say again?

3) look into her face intently and start laughing queerly, when she ask what you are laughing at, tell this: IF ONLY U KNOW WHAT YOU LOOK LIKE WHEN U ARE TALKING LIKE THAT, YOU WUDNT ROLL THAT LANE!

Imakeherdrip:
cracked me all up thanks Don...