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Re: Guys: Reasons Why Your Girl Dumps You For Other Guys. by Joy1706(f): 11:17am On Jul 07, 2015
Infohelp:

Who ask you bikonu? WTF! You are now feeling like one Dumper(if it exists)
Hw is it ur business? R u d dumpee(if it exists)?
Re: Guys: Reasons Why Your Girl Dumps You For Other Guys. by Nobody: 11:18am On Jul 07, 2015
Joy1706:
Hw is it ur business? R u d dumpee(if it exists)?
Haba joy I was only joking o.. Hw are u?
Re: Guys: Reasons Why Your Girl Dumps You For Other Guys. by davseun2ta(m): 11:54am On Jul 07, 2015
1. Being too Authoritative: [s]most guys as so authoritative. The moment you accept their proposal, they will begin to act like a God over your life. Some will go as far as sizing your phone, buying you new sim card and forcing you to break the old one and begin using the new one they bought, screaming like a dying goat if they call you by 8pm and the background is noisy. Such attitude pisses girls off and may make her reconsider other toasters proposals.[/s] ...Not all men are authoritative, in fact most women are... One thing my Girl friend will always thank her God for is the kind of Guy (ME) that God has brought her way...*Am not bluffing* Am of the opinion that It is only a Proud and arrogant lady that would see that a man is authoritative.KEYNOTE: The responsibility of the man is to love you , while yours is to be submissive.

2. Asking for sex too early: [s]most guys think that because you've accepted their proposal you've automatically become their sex machine. They'll begin touching you everywhere at every chance they get. If you mistakenly visit them in their house, you're on your own. Guys should understand that creating an atmosphere that would make the girl comfortable is the only way to win her heart, not acting like a he goat at every opportunity you get.[/s]... Men are moved by what they see, women are moved by what they hear and feel.No doubt we have this strong hormone that makes us go haywire when it comes to sex. A guy can ask for sex too early, if given the opportunity to. KEYNOTE: LADIES! DON'T IGNITE WHAT YOU CAN'T HANDLE...

3. Initiating sex chat all the time: [s]99% of guys are guilty of this. You exchange number with them, they add you on BBM or whatsapp, the next thing you'll here is send me a hot pic of yourself, snap your boobs let me see how it looks like, how does your waist look like? what's your best Position, do you suck dic*k and all that. Haba all girls are not porn stars, and that attitude would just tell the girl that you're only interested in her body.[/s]... i totally disagree with this... your statistics is totally wrong. Men are bent on the main thing, only rookie men would be asking for those...

4. The beggar: [s]Its true that some girls rely on guys for almost every material thing in her life, guys are also guilty of the same. Some guys will beg and beg and beg, no shame, I have a coursemate like that, her guy uses her phone to make calls, comes to her lodge to eat, collects her food stuffs and worse of all is that he isn't even faithful to the girl. Guys like that are worse than mosquitoes and can make any girl feel irritated.
[/s]... Thank God you know that all Girls rely on guys for everything even when they are comfortable, they make the guy uncomfortable by their humongous requests.. grin !

5. Abusiveness: [s]Most guys act as if they're professional boxers, they'll slap, punch, kick, and beat you to a pulp at every slight misunderstanding you have. In fact, if you visit them for a week, you'll look like someone that survived an accident between your okada and a dangote trailer. Guys you people need to stop this attitude. Any guy that lays his hands on a girl regardless of what she did doesn't deserve the love and care of any woman.[/s]... To every Action, there is always an equal but opposite reaction. Though, i don't subscribe to guys punching their girl friends... but women can be provocative you know?

6. Unfaithfulness: [s]Men are polygamous in nature, but its so irritating when you introduce you guy to your friends and in less than a week he has slept with all of them. He even goes as far as asking your siblings, cousins and female members of your family out. Its so annoying. You cannot even leave him for 5minutes alone with a female without him misbehaving. Most girls get turned off by this attitude and begin to consider other options.[/s]... i used to feel the same that all men are promiscuous, then i realized that women don't naturally believe your faithfulness. KEYNOTE: IT IS WHAT YOU BELIEVE THAT YOU BECOME... Stop feeling we are not faithful, then you will know how faithful we can be...SIMPLE!!!

7. Comparing you to their ex: [s]Believe me no girl loves this. Most guys behave like kids, they compare everything you do with the way their ex used to do it. From your cooking, to your dressing, even the way you talk. Please just allow the girl express herself. Trying to force a girl to become what she's not will get her frustrated and as a result she could begin to look elsewhere.[/s]... A right thinking lady, who loves her man would know that for a man to compare his Ex, with you, it shows that there is a fundamental xteristics that is missing in you... KEYNOTE: FIND IT AND STOP COMPLAINING... grin

8. Refusing to get matured: [s]We have many guys in their early, mid and late 30s but their characters are like that of teenagers. You say hello to a friend on the road, problem, if you smile while saying hello, they'll say both of you have something in common if not why did you smile, if you give him a peck, that one is another problem. If they take you out, they'll expect you to remain silent like a monument not reply greetings and talking to anyone till you come back home. One word for you, grow up![/s]... Maturity is not a function of age, but a function of the right/wise decision taken. Who is more Childish here, is it the immature guy that refuses to get mature in his reasoning et al or the so called "Matured lady" that is hanging out with him?..."


LASTLY: OP! Put off pride, then you would find yourself riding on the wings of true love from your man...(my candid advise grin grin)

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Re: Guys: Reasons Why Your Girl Dumps You For Other Guys. by Joy1706(f): 9:42pm On Jul 07, 2015
Infohelp:

Haba joy I was only joking o.. Hw are u?
Lol. My dear don mind me. Was joking too. Didn't mean to sound harsh. I'm good o. U?
Re: Guys: Reasons Why Your Girl Dumps You For Other Guys. by Joy1706(f): 9:42pm On Jul 07, 2015
Infohelp:

Haba joy I was only joking o.. Hw are u?
Lol. My dear dont mind me. Was joking too. Didn't mean to sound harsh. I'm good o. U?
Re: Guys: Reasons Why Your Girl Dumps You For Other Guys. by Trinit: 12:32pm On Jul 12, 2015
First & foremost there are no perfect relationships. If u r sincere to urself, u wld know that expecting the right person is not as important as being the right person. Babes, a man works hard to provide u with these vain materialistic items of inconsequential bullshit. Give him some respect. But hitting a BIATCH ain't gentlemanly.
Re: Guys: Reasons Why Your Girl Dumps You For Other Guys. by texlon44: 8:37pm On Jul 13, 2015
Bro, you dey mind them, nobi foolish dem be, wey dis one dey open her mouth dey yan rubbish like say she no dey ask guy for money to pay rent. 88% of Nigeria ladies are lazy also lack of wisdoms..Nigga trust me.
Re: Guys: Reasons Why Your Girl Dumps You For Other Guys. by kuchikau: 12:16pm On Aug 24, 2016
CR77:
I am a nigeria but i was born in europe


I have dual nationality
...

Fake lives evrywhere.
Re: Guys: Reasons Why Your Girl Dumps You For Other Guys. by kuchikau: 12:20pm On Aug 24, 2016
I need a matured girl friend.
Dnt need a childish relationship.
PM me.
Re: Guys: Reasons Why Your Girl Dumps You For Other Guys. by halfricanadian(f): 12:37pm On Aug 24, 2016
kuchikau:
I need a matured girl friend.
Dnt need a childish relationship.
PM me.

trust me wen u find one u will ruin her cheesy

bt I hope u find cos u av peace nd a strong head woman
Re: Guys: Reasons Why Your Girl Dumps You For Other Guys. by kuchikau: 1:03pm On Aug 24, 2016
halfricanadian:


trust me wen u find one u will ruin her cheesy

bt I hope u find cos u av peace nd a strong head woman
....

I Wish you thesame
Re: Guys: Reasons Why Your Girl Dumps You For Other Guys. by Nobody: 1:19pm On Aug 24, 2016
op yarn d hundred percent truth
Re: Guys: Reasons Why Your Girl Dumps You For Other Guys. by YUNGLURD(m): 2:31pm On Mar 18, 2017
Am guilty of number 1, she isnt digging me again hence i've stopped calling her since a week ago....we've not broken up officially tho
Re: Guys: Reasons Why Your Girl Dumps You For Other Guys. by wealthtrak: 4:02am On Apr 16, 2021
asdfjklhaha:
I've decided to counter this thread

https://www.nairaland.com/2417116/ladies-reasons-why-guy-dumps

By opening the one below.

Enjoy.

1. Being too Authoritative: most guys as so authoritative. The moment you accept their proposal, they will begin to act like a God over your life. Some will go as far as sizing your phone, buying you new sim card and forcing you to break the old one and begin using the new one they bought, screaming like a dying goat if they call you by 8pm and the background is noisy. Such attitude pisses girls off and may make her reconsider other toasters proposals.

2. Asking for sex too early: most guys think that because you've accepted their proposal you've automatically become their sex machine. They'll begin touching you everywhere at every chance they get. If you mistakenly visit them in their house, you're on your own. Guys should understand that creating an atmosphere that would make the girl comfortable is the only way to win her heart, not acting like a he goat at every opportunity you get.

3. Initiating sex chat all the time: 99% of guys are guilty of this. You exchange number with them, they add you on BBM or whatsapp, the next thing you'll here is send me a hot pic of yourself, snap your boobs let me see how it looks like, how does your waist look like? what's your best sex position, do you suck dic*k and all that. Haba all girls are not porn stars, and that attitude would just tell the girl that you're only interested in her body.

4. The beggar: Its true that some girls rely on guys for almost every material thing in her life, guys are also guilty of the same. Some guys will beg and beg and beg, no shame, I have a coursemate like that, her guy uses her phone to make calls, comes to her lodge to eat, collects her food stuffs and worse of all is that he isn't even faithful to the girl. Guys like that are worse than mosquitoes and can make any girl feel irritated.

5. Abusiveness: Most guys act as if they're professional boxers, they'll slap, punch, kick, and beat you to a pulp at every slight misunderstanding you have. In fact, if you visit them for a week, you'll look like someone that survived an accident between your okada and a dangote trailer. Guys you people need to stop this attitude. Any guy that lays his hands on a girl regardless of what she did doesn't deserve the love and care of any woman.

6. Unfaithfulness: Men are polygamous in nature, but its so irritating when you introduce you guy to your friends and in less than a week he has slept with all of them. He even goes as far as asking your siblings, cousins and female members of your family out. Its so annoying. You cannot even leave him for 5minutes alone with a female without him misbehaving. Most girls get turned off by this attitude and begin to consider other options.

7. Comparing you to their ex: Believe me no girl loves this. Most guys behave like kids, they compare everything you do with the way their ex used to do it. From your cooking, to your dressing, even the way you talk. Please just allow the girl express herself. Trying to force a girl to become what she's not will get her frustrated and as a result she could begin to look elsewhere.

8. Refusing to get matured: We have many guys in their early, mid and late 30s but their characters are like that of teenagers. You say hello to a friend on the road, problem, if you smile while saying hello, they'll say both of you have something in common if not why did you smile, if you give him a peck, that one is another problem. If they take you out, they'll expect you to remain silent like a monument not reply greetings and talking to anyone till you come back home. One word for you, grow up!

Note this article was written by asdfjklhaha

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