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Guys: Reasons Why Your Girl Dumps You For Other Guys. by asdfjklhaha(f): 1:51pm On Jul 06, 2015
I've decided to counter this thread

https://www.nairaland.com/2417116/ladies-reasons-why-guy-dumps

By opening the one below.

Enjoy.

1. Being too Authoritative: most guys as so authoritative. The moment you accept their proposal, they will begin to act like a God over your life. Some will go as far as sizing your phone, buying you new sim card and forcing you to break the old one and begin using the new one they bought, screaming like a dying goat if they call you by 8pm and the background is noisy. Such attitude pisses girls off and may make her reconsider other toasters proposals.

2. Asking for sex too early: most guys think that because you've accepted their proposal you've automatically become their sex machine. They'll begin touching you everywhere at every chance they get. If you mistakenly visit them in their house, you're on your own. Guys should understand that creating an atmosphere that would make the girl comfortable is the only way to win her heart, not acting like a he goat at every opportunity you get.

3. Initiating sex chat all the time: 99% of guys are guilty of this. You exchange number with them, they add you on BBM or whatsapp, the next thing you'll here is send me a hot pic of yourself, snap your boobs let me see how it looks like, how does your waist look like? what's your best sex position, do you suck dic*k and all that. Haba all girls are not porn stars, and that attitude would just tell the girl that you're only interested in her body.

4. The beggar: Its true that some girls rely on guys for almost every material thing in her life, guys are also guilty of the same. Some guys will beg and beg and beg, no shame, I have a coursemate like that, her guy uses her phone to make calls, comes to her lodge to eat, collects her food stuffs and worse of all is that he isn't even faithful to the girl. Guys like that are worse than mosquitoes and can make any girl feel irritated.

5. Abusiveness: Most guys act as if they're professional boxers, they'll slap, punch, kick, and beat you to a pulp at every slight misunderstanding you have. In fact, if you visit them for a week, you'll look like someone that survived an accident between your okada and a dangote trailer. Guys you people need to stop this attitude. Any guy that lays his hands on a girl regardless of what she did doesn't deserve the love and care of any woman.

6. Unfaithfulness: Men are polygamous in nature, but its so irritating when you introduce you guy to your friends and in less than a week he has slept with all of them. He even goes as far as asking your siblings, cousins and female members of your family out. Its so annoying. You cannot even leave him for 5minutes alone with a female without him misbehaving. Most girls get turned off by this attitude and begin to consider other options.

7. Comparing you to their ex: Believe me no girl loves this. Most guys behave like kids, they compare everything you do with the way their ex used to do it. From your cooking, to your dressing, even the way you talk. Please just allow the girl express herself. Trying to force a girl to become what she's not will get her frustrated and as a result she could begin to look elsewhere.

8. Refusing to get matured: We have many guys in their early, mid and late 30s but their characters are like that of teenagers. You say hello to a friend on the road, problem, if you smile while saying hello, they'll say both of you have something in common if not why did you smile, if you give him a peck, that one is another problem. If they take you out, they'll expect you to remain silent like a monument not reply greetings and talking to anyone till you come back home. One word for you, grow up!

Note this article was written by asdfjklhaha

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Re: Guys: Reasons Why Your Girl Dumps You For Other Guys. by fejikudz(m): 1:52pm On Jul 06, 2015
undecidedThe list is trash
maybe the person below me has something to say

Ftc.. I dedicate this space to dulIardinho

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Re: Guys: Reasons Why Your Girl Dumps You For Other Guys. by Jenny1010(f): 1:57pm On Jul 06, 2015
Why we dump their arse grin

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Re: Guys: Reasons Why Your Girl Dumps You For Other Guys. by CR77(f): 2:30pm On Jul 06, 2015
2. Asking for sex too early

But Girl also ask for recharge card and money to make there hair not too early abi

Life is give and take.

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Re: Guys: Reasons Why Your Girl Dumps You For Other Guys. by shedrack222: 2:30pm On Jul 06, 2015
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Re: Guys: Reasons Why Your Girl Dumps You For Other Guys. by uzo200(m): 2:30pm On Jul 06, 2015
really?
this are end time reasons for getting dumped

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Re: Guys: Reasons Why Your Girl Dumps You For Other Guys. by Qweenedo2(f): 2:31pm On Jul 06, 2015
Let me book space
Re: Guys: Reasons Why Your Girl Dumps You For Other Guys. by Nobody: 2:31pm On Jul 06, 2015
undecided undecided
Jenny1010:
Why we dump their arse grin
Re: Guys: Reasons Why Your Girl Dumps You For Other Guys. by donsmall94(m): 2:31pm On Jul 06, 2015
I hear
But u forgot to add MONEY
Jacksparrow0712:
H
uzo200:
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Qweenedo2:
Let me book space
There wud be spacebookers meeting by 8pm tonight

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Re: Guys: Reasons Why Your Girl Dumps You For Other Guys. by chemicool: 2:31pm On Jul 06, 2015
Bullshit! If you don't want him to be authoritative then don't collect that expensive phone he buys for you. Don't spend his money. You think it's OK to use that phone he bought for you to receive call of another man in his presence? If a man is too soft just because he doesn't wanna lose a girl then the girl would teach that man a very sweet emotional lesson. That's when she would start going to parties. Very soon she will start dating the guy next door. You being a mumu guy would shut up because you're cool and you don't wanna offend the biatch. Ode.

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Re: Guys: Reasons Why Your Girl Dumps You For Other Guys. by shachris02: 2:31pm On Jul 06, 2015
nairaland is very silly and childish.

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Re: Guys: Reasons Why Your Girl Dumps You For Other Guys. by InyinyaAgbaOku(m): 2:32pm On Jul 06, 2015
True
Re: Guys: Reasons Why Your Girl Dumps You For Other Guys. by berrystunn(m): 2:32pm On Jul 06, 2015
Hahahahahah good the bad and the ugly
They dump and meet the worse...


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Till 2019

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Re: Guys: Reasons Why Your Girl Dumps You For Other Guys. by roperpole: 2:32pm On Jul 06, 2015
Get a foreign boyfriend

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Re: Guys: Reasons Why Your Girl Dumps You For Other Guys. by Nobody: 2:32pm On Jul 06, 2015
I'm still consulting Google.com


Brb grin

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Re: Guys: Reasons Why Your Girl Dumps You For Other Guys. by Mintek: 2:33pm On Jul 06, 2015
All these apply only to broke guys.

Rich dudes never get dumped no matter what.

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Re: Guys: Reasons Why Your Girl Dumps You For Other Guys. by wildchild1: 2:33pm On Jul 06, 2015
Thread of a thousand laugh grin

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Re: Guys: Reasons Why Your Girl Dumps You For Other Guys. by pretydiva(f): 2:33pm On Jul 06, 2015
Romance section nor dey finish 4 lists n reasons ni
Re: Guys: Reasons Why Your Girl Dumps You For Other Guys. by Nobody: 2:33pm On Jul 06, 2015
Total BS. The bullshiiiit that makes FP everyday. Meanwhile threads in Science and Technology rot. No wonder the younger generation want to be Davido and Tuface instead of a Phil Emegwale or Bart Nnaji. angry

Pfffft

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Re: Guys: Reasons Why Your Girl Dumps You For Other Guys. by FOLYKAZE(m): 2:33pm On Jul 06, 2015
Babe husband don scares for market o.

Dem your parent went through this and they had a successful marriage. If you bring these yanga come my way, na extra tyre you go become

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Re: Guys: Reasons Why Your Girl Dumps You For Other Guys. by madisonsquare: 2:34pm On Jul 06, 2015
Issorite
Re: Guys: Reasons Why Your Girl Dumps You For Other Guys. by Mcowubaba: 2:34pm On Jul 06, 2015
As usual, too much Emphasis on Sex by our Nigerian Ladies...
If u ladies can ask for Recharge card nd transport money on our first date/meeting/chat why won't I ask for Sex too undecided..
My Dad told me to Seize Every Opportunity as it Presents itself sad

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Re: Guys: Reasons Why Your Girl Dumps You For Other Guys. by Swaggzkid: 2:34pm On Jul 06, 2015

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Re: Guys: Reasons Why Your Girl Dumps You For Other Guys. by Nobody: 2:34pm On Jul 06, 2015
Venue sir? cheesy cheesy cheesy
donsmall94:
I hear



There wud be spacebookers meeting by 8pm tonight
Re: Guys: Reasons Why Your Girl Dumps You For Other Guys. by Olsoo(m): 2:34pm On Jul 06, 2015
My Opinion

1) Sure we are authoritative but of course it our effing job! Too much ain't ok tho.

2) What time is "Too Early" abeg. Shey Konji get time-table ni? Blame it on Konji my dear

3) Only 'BOYS' do that miss,not 'MEN' angry

4) Same as no. 3

5) Check no. 4

6) *clears throat* well...I reserve my comment grin cool

7) See no. 5

8 ) You've said it all madam. Only kids exhibit such. Or do you date kids ni? Ur not a paedophile, are you lipsrsealed ?

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Re: Guys: Reasons Why Your Girl Dumps You For Other Guys. by worlexy(m): 2:34pm On Jul 06, 2015
What of girls that leave guys for the fun of it, no matter how good the guy is.

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Re: Guys: Reasons Why Your Girl Dumps You For Other Guys. by tigar007(m): 2:35pm On Jul 06, 2015
Lies! Where is Tosyne2much and Vizkeh?

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Re: Guys: Reasons Why Your Girl Dumps You For Other Guys. by HarkymTheOracle(m): 2:35pm On Jul 06, 2015
Where is money
It should be first on that list.

Av seen rich guys do more than the stuffs listed here & girls are still dying to be with them

you know y?..

MONEY!!!!

grin angry

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Re: Guys: Reasons Why Your Girl Dumps You For Other Guys. by Hillzy(m): 2:35pm On Jul 06, 2015
I can't believe this poo just make frontpage. Nonsense

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