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Peacetemi:
What adjustable arrows?? I don't understand you Sir.

rosalieene:
No comment
Just here to observe.

LuvU2:
It wont be fair on her of course. Every woman must strive to marry up. Marry a man that is capable of meeting her needs.

ladyF:
Some ladies of nowadays dem get as dem be make I no lie. If the only thing you have to offer is the thing between your legs, you can as well go to Allen and sell your market! If you are a guy and all you have to offer is money, you need epp too!  Honestly, there is nothing as good as having your own money.

The aim of relationships have been greatly misunderstood.

daretodiffer:
So tell me if a woman's need is like N100 000 a month, would it fair on her to date or marry a man who can't give a N100 000?

so u date a guy only cos of his money

ladyF:
Some ladies of nowadays dem get as dem be make I no lie. If the only thing you have to offer is the thing between your legs, you can as well go to Allen and sell your market! If you are a guy and all you have to offer is money, you need epp too!  Honestly, there is nothing as good as having your own money.

The aim of relationships have been greatly misunderstood.

Luckymay:
You guys are getting these things all wrong and twisted. Take for example
A lady is working, she provides for herself

Does this stop her boo from getting her things once in while?
Sometimes my guy would be like "bae I was just passing by the stores and I felt this would look good on you" and it happens vice-versa. That's the spice of life and every relationships. Sometimes I will be like "boo I wan take you out and he would just laugh. He might even be the one to pay after the outing.
Now, does the above make me a broke lady?
You guys always make it seem like for a lady to have expectations from her guy is now a bad thing. I know of a lady who earns a descent salary but her guy still pays for her hair expenses each time she wants to hit the salon.
These things have been there right from Adam. I wonder why you guys want to change it
Ladyf said something about a girl bringing nothing but thing in between her legs. I wonder why you said that. Last time I checked sex is a mutual thingy, I enjoy it, you enjoy it and we are even. Sex does not determine a lasting relationship. It's just Part of what keeps it going. Giving and receiving is the spice of every relationship. Would you date a guy who can't take you out on a date, buy you gifts every once in a while? I'd bet you can't cos the relationship would appear boring.
Note that it doesn't have to be a lamboghini or Nike kinda of gift. Just according to your standard. Same goes for tips (money)

Peacetemi:
Well I did mention that it was normal for a guy to spend on his girl. Nice points though