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I’m Planning On Proposing To My Boyfriend. by Talk2Bella(op): 2:24pm On Sep 01, 2016

It’s been 4 years and he’s totally pretending like it’s not time yet, we are both okay financially and I’m really sure our love is pure so why hasn’t he?

I’m thinking of doing it this weekend, I don’t wanna tell any of my friends to ruin the surprise but I’m scared he might turn me down.

What do I do?

Talk2Bella

First things first, it’s not wrong to want to take your relationship to the next level if your partner isn’t stepping up the game.

Where the problem is now is you’re unsure if he might accept your proposal, it means there are doubts in your relationship.

Why not just do the plain ol thing and have a heart to heart chat with him, ask him where the relationship is going, tell him your plans, make him understand you’re no more contented being just the girlfriend you want to be something more.

Hear what he says and if it favors you stick, if it doesn’t favor you move along.

http://www.talk2bella.com/2016/09/im-planning-on-proposing-to-my-boyfriend.html

Re: I’m Planning On Proposing To My Boyfriend. by WizAkzy: 2:28pm On Sep 01, 2016

[b][/b]Go Ahead

Re: I’m Planning On Proposing To My Boyfriend. by Nobody: 2:28pm On Sep 01, 2016

Tat d shii I won't do it for sure grin

proposing to ur man is like u wanna commit suicide... Especially if ur man is full of SHAKARA and keep jonzing here And there..

Re: I’m Planning On Proposing To My Boyfriend. by CzarRex: 2:30pm On Sep 01, 2016

I expect all those gurls that can form rubbish to hijack this thread and start throwing shades at the girl undecided

Re: I’m Planning On Proposing To My Boyfriend. by Sunnymatey(m): 2:32pm On Sep 01, 2016

It`s 50 : 50 stake.

Re: I’m Planning On Proposing To My Boyfriend. by mercichoco(f): 2:33pm On Sep 01, 2016

Girl: baby, i want you to Be the father of my children, to spend the rest of my life with you. Will you marry me?

Guy: *surprised* Chai! but my children already have another mother

girl faints!

I will never try it, even if my love for him will make the sun cold

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Re: I’m Planning On Proposing To My Boyfriend. by donbenedict(m): 2:33pm On Sep 01, 2016

Just as she is unsure if he will agree so it is same with him as well

Re: I’m Planning On Proposing To My Boyfriend. by Bravemargai(m): 2:39pm On Sep 01, 2016

Have you even thought about how you would say the words.or how the scene would be like!!!

You urself would be speechless after blabbing the words.

Re: I’m Planning On Proposing To My Boyfriend. by obiorathesubtle: 2:43pm On Sep 01, 2016

so let me get this straight, you have been dating for 4 years, there's enough money to walk down that aisle, but he doesn't seem serious..

You want to propose but you're scared he will turn you down cheesy

He has a side chick, or let me say... He has a main chick

Re: I’m Planning On Proposing To My Boyfriend. by Nobody: 2:44pm On Sep 01, 2016

Idontbelieveit. shocked

Re: I’m Planning On Proposing To My Boyfriend. by IamLEGEND1: 2:55pm On Sep 01, 2016

am I permitted to say 'Don't be a püssy' ?
that'll be too sexist.

Re: I’m Planning On Proposing To My Boyfriend. by Topestbilly(m): 2:56pm On Sep 01, 2016

Go ahead bae u da bomb, don't mind dis yeye gals wey dey form nonsense.

Re: I’m Planning On Proposing To My Boyfriend. by naijaboiy: 3:57pm On Sep 01, 2016

[color=#1980BC]Just have a chat with him instead.[/color]

Re: I’m Planning On Proposing To My Boyfriend. by waxxydude: 4:15pm On Sep 01, 2016

TrapQueen77:

Tat d shii I won't do it for sure proposing to ur man is like u wanna commit suicide... Especially if ur man is full of SHAKARA and keep jonzing here And there..

The way you type always give me the impression that you are the child of maziChukwudi. One of his daughters ran mad two weeks ago, even after launching a manhunt on her we still haven't seen her..

Re: I’m Planning On Proposing To My Boyfriend. by Talk2Bella(op): 5:27pm On Sep 01, 2016

naijaboiy:
[color=#1980BC]Just have a chat with him instead.[/color]

That's the best option

Re: I’m Planning On Proposing To My Boyfriend. by Talk2Bella(op): 5:27pm On Sep 01, 2016

Topestbilly:
Go ahead bae u da bomb, don't mind dis yeye gals wey dey form nonsense.

Re: I’m Planning On Proposing To My Boyfriend. by Talk2Bella(op): 5:28pm On Sep 01, 2016

waxxydude:
The way you type always give me the impression that you are the child of maziChukwudi. One of his daughters ran mad two weeks ago, even after launching a manhunt on her we still haven't seen her..

Ur funny

Re: I’m Planning On Proposing To My Boyfriend. by Talk2Bella(op): 5:29pm On Sep 01, 2016

IamLEGEND1:
am I permitted to say 'Don't be a püssy' ?

that'll be too sexist.

Re: I’m Planning On Proposing To My Boyfriend. by Talk2Bella(op): 5:30pm On Sep 01, 2016

obiorathesubtle:
so let me get this straight, you have been dating for 4 years, there's enough money to walk down that aisle, but he doesn't seem serious..

You want to propose but you're scared he will turn you down

He has a side chick, or let me say... He has a main chick

Some men don't just think 4 years is enough time to propose

Re: I’m Planning On Proposing To My Boyfriend. by Talk2Bella(op): 5:32pm On Sep 01, 2016

Bravemargai:
Have you even thought about how you would say the words.or how the scene would be like!!!

You urself would be speechless after blabbing the words.

I don't think she'd go thru with it

She's not even sure her man would say yes

Re: I’m Planning On Proposing To My Boyfriend. by Talk2Bella(op): 5:32pm On Sep 01, 2016

rokiatu:
Idontbelieveit.

Berra do

Re: I’m Planning On Proposing To My Boyfriend. by obiorathesubtle: 5:33pm On Sep 01, 2016

Talk2Bella:
Some men don't just think 4 years is enough time to propose

Find out why first.. There's always a reason..

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Re: I’m Planning On Proposing To My Boyfriend. by Talk2Bella(op): 5:35pm On Sep 01, 2016

donbenedict:
Just as she is unsure if he will agree so it is same with him as well

I don't think so

It's easier for men to know who they wanna spend the rest on their lives with kiss

Re: I’m Planning On Proposing To My Boyfriend. by Talk2Bella(op): 5:37pm On Sep 01, 2016

mercichoco:
Girl: baby, i want you to Be the father of my children, to spend the rest of my life with you. Will you marry me?

Guy: *surprised* Chai! but my children already have another mother

girl faints!

I will never try it, even if my love for him will make the sun cold

Re: I’m Planning On Proposing To My Boyfriend. by Talk2Bella(op): 5:38pm On Sep 01, 2016

Sunnymatey:
It`s 50 : 50 stake.

Yes exactly

Re: I’m Planning On Proposing To My Boyfriend. by Talk2Bella(op): 5:40pm On Sep 01, 2016

TrapQueen77:

Tat d shii I won't do it for sure proposing to ur man is like u wanna commit suicide... Especially if ur man is full of SHAKARA and keep jonzing here And there..

Lol

You think?

Re: I’m Planning On Proposing To My Boyfriend. by Talk2Bella(op): 5:40pm On Sep 01, 2016

WizAkzy:
[b][/b]Go Ahead

She'd hear

Re: I’m Planning On Proposing To My Boyfriend. by donbenedict(m): 5:45pm On Sep 01, 2016

Talk2Bella:
I don't think so

It's easier for men to know who they wanna spend the rest on their lives with

lol and she says no? undecided

Re: I’m Planning On Proposing To My Boyfriend. by chigoizie7(m): 6:11pm On Sep 01, 2016

Lolz. It is not that he doesn't love u enough to make u his wife.

Most times, guys are super scared of taking that marriage lane.

I am an example of such guys.

Re: I’m Planning On Proposing To My Boyfriend. by Talk2Bella(op): 6:57pm On Sep 01, 2016

donbenedict:
lol and she says no?

99.9% of women say yes

Re: I’m Planning On Proposing To My Boyfriend. by Talk2Bella(op): 6:57pm On Sep 01, 2016

chigoizie7:
Lolz. It is not that he doesn't love u enough to make u his wife.

Most times, guys are super scared of taking that marriage lane.

I am an example of such guys.

Scared, why?

Re: I’m Planning On Proposing To My Boyfriend. by donbenedict(m): 7:09pm On Sep 01, 2016

Talk2Bella:
99.9% of women say yes

what sort of lie is this.

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