CrazyQuinn:
So? sometimes in life you just have to sacrifice something for the benefit of many, it's called logic it will result to peace and prosperity

Tega4B:
Ok.Tx for Reading.

Av been in a relationship with my so called bf for about a year nw. Heaven knws I love him, about a month ago I got pregnant and he insisted dat I kip d pregnancy.

My problem is,after much questioning on y he's finding it so difficult to tell his parents,he opened up to me dat he got bck with his x nd dey are planning on getting married in December shocked .

Am frm a very responsible home,if my mum gets to find out she would insist dat we get married(I dnt want it to look like am forcing him on me).
Am jst few months old in my first job after school,still tryin to settle.If my boss gets to find out its a 50/50 chance of me loosing my job.

Being a baby mama is nt an option for me. Do I keep dis baby n go to his parents or Get rid of it n move on with my life.

Chubhie:
http://clinicquotes.com/abortion-at-10-weeks-pictures/
Go through the graphic pictures and tell if you still wish to proceed with murder.

Redman36:
very gory pics..that small hand looks lyk a frog..imagine wot girls pass thru just for sex.

Tinalex:

Cyrilmax cos you chose to call devil into your life by spewing the rubbish you just post up there and for the fact that this is a public forum where you are free to air your opinion. I AM NOW PROPHESYING INTO YOUR LIFE THAT TILL THE END OF YOUR LIFE YOU SHALL KNOW NO JOY AND YOU SHALL KEEP FALLING FROM ONE TRIBULATION INTO ANOTHER, SO SHALL IT BE!!! Next time you will learn to talk apply discretion when you dnt agree with pple's opinion.

CrazyQuinn:
Get rid ASAP if you know what is Good for your life

cyrilamx:
I can see that u d brainwashed feminists who sees nothing wrong with abortion and calls it women's choice. However you twist it for supporting such evil, u are evil. God cannot honour such trash u call prophecy, on the other hand it will boomerang. You want to enjoy the pleasure in sex yet refusing to take responsibility for the outcome of ur indulgence. How can a sane human being not only advocate but push a would-be-mother to destroy her defenceless infant in the womb? If you ain't evil then what are you?

Tinalex:

You don't know me on this forum and the fact still stands that i 've never said this kinda word to no one on this forum. But cos you chose to be the vessel that attract devil into your own life, i have said it...you can ignore all you like and keep up your uncouth tongue cos pple like you are just meant to meet there water loo one way or the other. Again,NEXT TIME MAYBE YOUR NEXT LIFE, YOU WILL LEARN TO RESPECT PEOPLE'S OPINION AND CAUTION YOUR TONGUE.

Horsesmouth:


I agree that the father exists. But she has made a common speech error Nigerians make.

Omo yen o ni baba - the child has no dad
Ori nfo mi - my head is paining me
Nitori kini - because of what
Wa ma lo - come dey go

Its an honest Nigerian speech error, trust me

Tega4B:
Ok.Tx for Reading.

Av been in a relationship with my so called bf for about a year nw. Heaven knws I love him, about a month ago I got pregnant and he insisted dat I kip d pregnancy.

My problem is,after much questioning on y he's finding it so difficult to tell his parents,he opened up to me dat he got bck with his x nd dey are planning on getting married in December shocked .

Am frm a very responsible home,if my mum gets to find out she would insist dat we get married(I dnt want it to look like am forcing him on me).
Am jst few months old in my first job after school,still tryin to settle.If my boss gets to find out its a 50/50 chance of me loosing my job.

Being a baby mama is nt an option for me. Do I keep dis baby n go to his parents or Get rid of it n move on with my life.

Berbierklaus:
No seriously,we know most men are irrational and incapable of thinking with their brains once they are in heat,but what about the ladies?

You know you will be get the bigger hit if anything happens,yet you did not use your brain in heat? what happened to condom #100 or how much is gold circle again?

Now you are considering commiting murder,when you could have avoided abortion(which is costlier) with morning after pill or condom? A graduate for that matter?


Not feeling self righteous,but things like this should not be happening,just know that you are commiting murder if you dare abort that baby.

What will be will be

Joe4real1988:
. I luv ur comment.......I swear. Such a sensible lady. ..... If evrylady cud b lyk u, abortion(murder) will b a tyn of d past. Thumb up

It just pains me that with the knowledge of science,a sexually active adult,will just get pregnant unwillingly.

This preventive drugs can be gotten over the counter at suprisingly small prices,yet they will get unwanted pregnancy,even village girls don wise up.

Thank you

honeygirl17:
How much is condom in the market if you can't abstain from sex

CrazyQuinn:
human beings make mistakes we are not perfect and this is one of those mistakes so are you saying we are not allowed to make mistakes again? No matter how stupid or expensive the mistake is, mistake is still a mistake

VikingsOO7:

Seconded. No need bringing an unwanted child into this world.

We all make mistakes, nobody is perfect.

What I find funny is that, just on the other side of nairaland(health section) You will see lots and lots of women praying, fasting, doing all sorts of test just to get a child.

May God have mercy on us.

Berbierklaus:

It just pains me that with the knowledge of science,a sexually active adult,will just get pregnant unwillingly.

This preventive drugs can be gotten over the counter at suprisingly small prices,yet they will get unwanted pregnancy,even village girls don wise up.

Thank you

Berbierklaus:

It just pains me that with the knowledge of science,a sexually active adult,will just get pregnant unwillingly.

This preventive drugs can be gotten over the counter at suprisingly small prices,yet they will get unwanted pregnancy,even village girls don wise up.

Thank you

goingape1:
you came from a responsible family but yet open ya yansh for an irresponsible boy or man

what does that make of you?

pls open ya responsible yansh for the doctor at the hospital so that you can deliver the babe safely..


nonsense naija women everywhere

naniawini:
seconded

LadyB1195:

This was harsh

LadyB1195:

This was harsh

Cully408:
And what makes the child an unwanted child bro bcuz of the mom who is scared of her parents or losing her job, think of the risk doing D&C for an example

Tega4B:


I sit here n I think of wat to reply both of u. It prolly didn't occur to u dat it could jst b ONE TIME he didn't use a condom.Av ALWAYS been careful.

Talking of pills,u take pills anytime u hv sex *claps.I dnt,evrybody's system (talking of hormonal profiling) is nt same.

Anyways,Tx 4ur comments.✌️

[b]Madam I really don't want to add to your problems,but please don't force my fingers.

you are a grown ass adult who has been having unprotected sex with your so called lover boy who dumped you last last, (don't even bring the hogwash that it was a one time thing here,we both know you did it severally).

you had 80% chances of not getting pregnant if you used the morning after pill at all if your claim that it was a one time sex that led to you being pregnant(tho na lie).

you want to be santimonious that's your business,infact the only reason I commented on this thread,was because you mentioned ABORTION.

I only have empathy for the unborn child you will eventually kill,because no amount of advice will change your mind,"mrs I am from a responsible home".

Now,you made a mistake by telling me I use pills all the time,madam,I am not a righteous lady,and will boldly tell you that I use and insist on condom(it has not failed me till date) and I have the brains to use morning after pill incase something happened to the condom,who wants to be in your shoes,definitely not me. I won't be a party to ABORTION.

Hope you also noticed that I did not advice you,just have it at the back of your mind that ABORTION is not for everyone,I hope for your sake and that of the innocent man who might end up with you,your womb/reproductive organs don't get ruptured.
That is if you survive the abortion sef
Then remember that you have to answer to your God after you kill the life within you.


I leave you to your conscience,I am not qualified to judge you.[/b]

Cully408:
hope you are aware dat preventive drugs has side effects and condom is not 100% safe