joseph1832ng:
Did you read the OP at all?

elektra:


Were you around?

Valentinooo:
I'm just laughing at the comments here. I can bet it with you guys that by next week that same girl will be with the guy gisting and laughing as nothing ever happened.

I understand what you're saying. That's what you should have said earlier instead of the insults. I've called the girl in question this and we have arranged to meet today. I've equally apologized on my friend's behalf and I equally told her to please forgive me for not stopping it when I had a chance to. I'm equally prepared to compensate her with 200k and my friend is will to add another 200k so that she can forget about the whole matter. I know it's not easy.

sweetcocoa:
It is a big deal and you insulted me if you don't know, even telling be about western countries bla bla like you talkin to someone living under a rock in the thick forests of cameroun, da hell!

Nyggah before I speak to you, you gotta apologise.

raayah:


But consent is needed. Would you like if your friend just grabs you and penetrates you forcefully without your permission? Because this is exactly what happened.

I know it's wrong for him to have raped her but why would a girl be demanding for stuffs from a guy when she knows she's not willing to play ball.

thekingisback:
what information are you talking about? Don't allow something big to fall on you because of anther man's headache. I'll personally run an Intel on you to make sure you face the law too. How is it your business? Are the friend, the rapist or the girl? Why can't you guys just mind your business?

anumide:

I read all 14 pages of reply with awe.
I stopped visiting my males friends as far back as 2013, even the supposedly holy/ disciplined ones. Today's male assumes that when you visit unaccompanied, you are asking for sex.
errm, the uyi26 waited in the living room and served himself drinks while his friend beat up, rape and tear a girl's clothes??
Lord Jesus, please come quickly.

whizcartel:
lol.... What is the big thing that want to fall on me. and Mr man. what crime did I do that I would face the law and what kind of Intel do you want to gather about me.... Mr Uyi I live in marda barracks if you want to see me. You did the crime not me.

jumzzy448:
This op is such an idiot. Cant believe he typed all this trash. How I wish he can be traced and arrested.

freshvine:
If a lady go on a date with a guy and the lady found out he is not her type... It is morally right for her to end the relationship and look for one that fit her preference.

If she continues taking the guy for a fool after the first date by tagging around to benefit at the expense of the guy, one day she'll be raped... Force to pay for her greed.

The reason people go into relationship is for sexual gratification so one shouldn't be in it for greed.

In this case, the boy action is in correspondence with the girl's greed! Both should be condemned as she got served!

Had she been morally brought up, she won't find her self in this predicament.

RennyX:

LOL! I laugh you @bold.

Are you a guy? So you can easily call up a girl and asked her to return all the money you've spent on her? Can you really do that? Be sincere to your humble self.

Is it not this same Nairaland that a guy created a thread about how he wanted to collect the phone he bought for a girl who played him. I couldn't hold myself from laughing at the insults he received that day. From the same set of Nairaland women and some pusssy niggas.

He was called "broke" , "stingy", and other words. Simply because he wanted to collect back his phone.

Now if you're a lady. How will you feel about such a guy? Be honest to yourself. A guy asking you to pay back all he has spent on you. It's still you that will settle down with your friends to insult and laugh at him.

Please let's be realistic.

Dilish007:




Bae plsssssss tell dem...


I just weak for some ppl oooo.

Lordkylie:
so you actually sat down and watched while someone was getting raped?Really!
Was your friend forced to spend money on her?Reminds me of that movie"for coloured girls"
You and your friend are both sick!This is why i dont visit nigerian guys at home or secluded places,a good number of them are sick lowlifes! if na so konji hold you,dump the girl and visit a brothel
Shior awon oniranu eleribu omo #spits on thread,op and his friend.
goodnight

freshvine:
If a lady go on a date with a guy and the lady found out he is not her type... It is morally right for her to end the relationship and look for one that fit her preference.

If she continues taking the guy for a fool after the first date by tagging around to benefit at the expense of the guy, one day she'll be raped... Force to pay for her greed.

The reason people go into relationship is for sexual gratification so one shouldn't be in it for greed.

In this case, the boy action is in correspondence with the girl's greed! Both should be condemned as she got served!

Had she been morally brought up, she won't find her self in this predicament.

delishpot:


So because he said she tried to use his head you justify her rape? Your daughters and sisters dey ba?

SC31:
pls what's your point exactly,so if I'm dating someone and I choose not to engage in premarital sex and I accept gifts from him(my supposed bf) that makes me greedy

And you're talking about morals condemning the girls action and justifying the guys action,like I don't get....no morally upright man would rape a lady no matter the circumstances

yomz1e:
Another Rapist comment

Timbuktou:
How do guys get an erection when they have been rejected to the point of actual physical struggle and penetration? I think rapists are mentally unstable people.

Uyi26, your friend has committed a crime and you are defending him? People go to jail for rape in this country o. Don't be fooled by the media. If that girl follow up una matter ehn.

And to ladies, not everyone is sane. If you like shout "don't blame the victim" morning till night, a rapist will rape. It is your own responsibility to secure yourself from predators.

freshvine:
For ladies.....

Visit a man if both of you are involve in a platonic relationship.

If the relationship is still at its infant stage, go with a younger sibling or a friend.

If you're not comfortable, always meet with him at a public place.

Do not go to his and always complaining you're in your menses, one day he'll be forced to find out himself and heaven help your case that day if.......

As Christians, we are even forbidden of visiting until marriage. A virile young man is like a goat in a yam barn. His Penis do the thinking for him not until he is relieved of his urge