₦airaland Forum

SmartChoices:
rapists everywhere on the thread .... am hugely disappointed with the female monikers especially the confirmed female cruzita I was a fan.... but Aybo I say no to rape or any form of genderbased violence gbv

cococandy:
i felt just fine.

sweetcocoa:
Lol, apology accepted.

Yea, you said Shymm3xx be acting weird, dude is weird na.

Ishilove:
So many perverted people on this thread. Nobody forced him to spend, yet they are blaming the girl for being raped. This is why so many rape victims are reluctant to speak out. When he saw she wasn't ready to play ball then why on earth didn't he stop spending?? It's her body and she has every right to determine who she gives it to. ANIMLALS!!!

I wish I can reach out to her let us pursue the rapist together. We should expose and disgrace the animal on every medium possible.

elektra:
Okay.
At bolded.
I give up. Carry on.

freshvine:
Judging from the law angle. Can she prove she was raped?

Remember, the act happened in the bedroom and the only witness admitted doors were unlock.

How will you convince a jurist that a boy raped his lover?

Lordkylie:
i shoulda been more specific its actually nigerian men:a very high percentage of them including you since that was the only part of my post that caught your attention.Btw nigerian rapists do very little to cover their tracks cause they know the law will very likely not catch up with them.
Please dont mention me on this thread again,the attitudes of some of the posters is quite sickening.Thanks

Laveda:
Like I said, she's learnt and next time she'd be careful enough and stop asking and receiving anyhow.

thekingisback:
[s]declare what? Shut up there and face front. They smell a meal you know you won't eat. [/s]

SC31:
you are disgusting madam

Pidggin:
How old are you?

Laveda:
Uhm why ask?

Pidggin:

SC31:
you are disgusting madam

cococandy:
oh I'm good dear. We are all good. Thanks.

My day has been so messed up. I went to see a friend of mine in his house. I was surprised the door wasn't locked and even the gate wasn't locked. I decided to help myself to a drink from his bar as soon as I entered the living room. As I was about serving myself, something told me to check on him in his room to see if he's there. As I approached his room I started hearing sounds. I decided to know what the noise was all about without making a sound.

Only for me to see a girl begging my friend to please have mercy on her and my friend was telling her to shut-up and comply. He was even beating the girl and have even torn her clothes. The girl was weeping bitterly and after about 20mins I decided to pretend I was just coming in by calling his name. He then told me to please wait for him in the living room. He joined me in the living room after about 10mins. I asked why he was breathing heavily and he told me that he just finished having sex with a girl. I confronted him with the truth and he opened up. He said he has been dating this girl for and that he has been spending money on her but she refused him sex. He said he used today's incident to recover all the money he has spent on her.

I'm really stuck between the devil and deep blue sea right now. The girl in question wants me to help report the issue to the police cos she's scared of being stigmatized. On the otherhand, the guy in question is my childhood friend. I can't imagine snitching on my homie and brother. I know it's wrong for him to have raped her but why would a girl be demanding for stuffs from a guy when she knows she's not willing to play ball.

Medunah:
As in ehn, I am so disappointed.....I can't believe she spewed such trash

Alcatraz003:
I hear some idiots saying they will follow this case up with a view to apprehending the OP and his friend. If any such thing happens believe me some of us are ready to provide legal services to support the OP and his friend. First of all this site is meant to be anonymous hence the privacy of members should be jealously guarded so as to engender freedom of speech and citizen participation in civil discourse. Seun will be the biggest loser if the true identity of any member or ip address is revealed.

Having said that, the girl in question deserves whatever she encountered at the Op friend's house. Nigerian girls think they are wise and can rip men off their hard earned funds without returning the favour. Why do you think most men spend on you? because they are santa claus? The truth is men want to get between your thighs so we work hard to make money so we can enjoy this free gift of nature which Nigerian girls have hoarded.

Rape should be firmly punished and it is a crime and i dont wish it on my worst enemy not to talk of family members but Nigerian girls must desist from deceiving men to part with gift, monetary rewards and favours if the girls are not ready to reciprocate the gesture.

As for the Op, under no circumstances should you rat out your friend for a woman, the consequences can be dire. You better believe that. The girl in question should report the rape by herself.

All the same. SAY NO TO RAPE.

Did I hear you say you don't wish rape for your family,yet had the gut to write this trash? What a shameless way to show stupidity. A real man is one who give without remembering and love without any compensation plan. Even a tout will think better than this. This is what lack of integrity has cause this nation. Men now think with their third leg. What a shame

Alcatraz003:
I hear some idiots saying they will follow this case up with a view to apprehending the OP and his friend. If any such thing happens believe me some of us are ready to provide legal services to support the OP and his friend. First of all this site is meant to be anonymous hence the privacy of members should be jealously guarded so as to engender freedom of speech and citizen participation in civil discourse. Seun will be the biggest loser if the true identity of any member or ip address is revealed.

Having said that, the girl in question deserves whatever she encountered at the Op friend's house. Nigerian girls think they are wise and can rip men off their hard earned funds without returning the favour. Why do you think most men spend on you? because they are santa claus? The truth is men want to get between your thighs so we work hard to make money so we can enjoy this free gift of nature which Nigerian girls have hoarded.

Rape should be firmly punished and it is a crime and i dont wish it on my worst enemy not to talk of family members but Nigerian girls must desist from deceiving men to part with gift, monetary rewards and favours if the girls are not ready to reciprocate the gesture.

As for the Op, under no circumstances should you rat out your friend for a woman, the consequences can be dire. You better believe that. The girl in question should report the rape by herself.

All the same. SAY NO TO RAPE.


Did I hear you say you don't wish rape for your family,yet had the gut to write this trash? What a shameless way to show stupidity. A real man is one who give without remembering and love without any compensation plan. Even a tout will think better than this. This is what lack of integrity has cause this nation. Men now think with their third leg. What a shame

My day has been so messed up. I went to see a friend of mine in his house. I was surprised the door wasn't locked and even the gate wasn't locked. I decided to help myself to a drink from his bar as soon as I entered the living room. As I was about serving myself, something told me to check on him in his room to see if he's there. As I approached his room I started hearing sounds. I decided to know what the noise was all about without making a sound.

Only for me to see a girl begging my friend to please have mercy on her and my friend was telling her to shut-up and comply. He was even beating the girl and have even torn her clothes. The girl was weeping bitterly and after about 20mins I decided to pretend I was just coming in by calling his name. He then told me to please wait for him in the living room. He joined me in the living room after about 10mins. I asked why he was breathing heavily and he told me that he just finished having sex with a girl. I confronted him with the truth and he opened up. He said he has been dating this girl for and that he has been spending money on her but she refused him sex. He said he used today's incident to recover all the money he has spent on her.

I'm really stuck between the devil and deep blue sea right now. The girl in question wants me to help report the issue to the police cos she's scared of being stigmatized. On the otherhand, the guy in question is my childhood friend. I can't imagine snitching on my homie and brother. I know it's wrong for him to have raped her but why would a girl be demanding for stuffs from a guy when she knows she's not willing to play ball.

sweetcocoa:
The one focusing on unrequited love instead of a crime committed is calling me sentimental, irony never felt more real.

You know, when I talk about you wanting a go at my "nectar" I used to do it as a joke but I'm not so sure anymore, why must you always refer to it in any conversation with/concerning me? How is my coochie related to the discourse? Even if you must take a swipe at me, must it be pvssy related? Nna nekwa nu'm nsogbu biko, I don't do 1diots, I've said that a gazillion times.

See who I am attempting to reason with, so if I leave my door open, it is an invitation to get robbed? Not that robbers are lowlife criminals and therefore need no excuse to carry out their nefarious activities? Does a door even need to be open for robbers to come? You'd actually present this argument in a court of law? Amazing!

Now accepting gifts or leading a man on, is the root cause of rape, not the fact that the rapist is a crazy and wicked fellow, who doesn't care about anything but his own depravity, do you even hear yourself? So kids, teenagers, old women and even babies that get raped all collected gifts or led their molesters on?

I don't talk about the actions/inactions of the girl because rape is never and can never be justified, rape is a crime for a reason and accepting of gifts or leading a person on isn't, I don't know nor care about the morality of the girl so why should I focus on how she chose to lead her life?

The only issue here is that a crime, key word being 'crime' has been committed, whatever may have led to the crime is secondary or (in some cases) even not important in a court of law.

While it is(in my opinion) morally wrong to accept gifts under false pretext or lead a person on, it is not illegal(with the exception of promise of marriage, which you even have to prove) and I have said this earlier on this thread.

You need to understand how the law works before opening your wide mouth to talk trash, the law doesn't care how much dude may have spent on said girl, all it cares about is that a crime of rape was committed, but how can a stupid person understand this?

Ofcourse any wise mother would give their son that advice but the onus is on the son not to be a f00l who doesn't recognise that his love is unrequited, yet keeps spending money.

And you boldly said the guy was smart enough to extract his wages, how do you even think yourself smart making such comments? This is the height of it, you are a disgrace.


Some people dense sha, na wa.

larrybee2017:
I pray for all who supported you and your friend to make this look like a simple thing that does not count. May this same testimony be replicated to them. Gosh most time I wonder if some people here use their brain or they don't have. You endorse rape and here you are saying trash. Who force you to give a lady money, its your choice, but one thing you fail to realise is nemesis is GOD's choice and even after 20years He never forget to serve the ' nemesis meal'. Iyan Ogun odun felifeli lo gbona. A won ode

freshvine:
My husband is a one star general in the Army. He is coordinating onslaught against the Boko haram with the infantry brigade. I don't think you'll want him to waste a bullet of his service pistol

joseph1832:
LOL. Obviously it's not a surprise that many female Nairalanders still believe it's their God given right to eat a man's money. They forget that when you dine with a lion, one day you might be eaten when there's no food.

PreciousBro:
My bad then,its just that you deserve every tons of compliments as women like you are a rarity. A pearl amongst stones,a diamond crusted needle in a hay-stack others are clones lol

I admire with a burning passion,women that portray such strength of character other than clay,even in the midst of many belligerant fices yelping against you just so you'd lose your cool,you kept it still like a steel hammering your points with stealth

As one with a strength of character i must say Mr freshvine is a lucky somebody,and he best waste his bullets of his service pistol on the lot on here,who are without mental grip and can't catch/hold a point littering your mention with their sentimental argument.

PreciousBro:
Yes mehn! I dont support rape and the OP should have stopped his friend,however thats not to negate the girl's shortcoming though,she had it coming and its quite unfortunate lol

bad begets bad!

freshvine:
Nice try. My daughter will read your poem

SlimChay:
lol Your sister(s) should,any single one

SlimChay:
lol Your sister(s) should,any single one