This is a small issue, trust me I saw worse in my first year and now its almost 10yrs. Just be more caring and assertive as the man, its not worth sending her packing plus when the kids arrive they will assist in the bonding. Its just a phase, it will soon fade.

AngelAhnie:
My brother, sally see me for dream.

then he's angry because of the wet dreams.... despite ur hourglass figure

smellingmenses:

she can react anyhow..

My question is not whether she reacted anyhow or whether u should forgive her. My exact question is will u go and apologise to her after she spat on u without feeling remorse just because u ignored her and dragged remote with her? Will u go and apologise to her not whether u will forgive her?

smellingmenses:

then he's angry because of the wet dreams.... despite ur hourglass figure

I must have made him ho..rny

babyfaceafrica:
see in dirty mind

Walahi no be dirty mind matter. Woman go everly open up to u after a nice f**k

The thing about abuse is that it doesn't stop until the abuser gets psychiatric help.

Will you wait until your wife stabs you before you get it?


These things will only escalate.

My brother, please u are making the right decision. Send her back to Nigeria quickly now.
If with time you change location to a place like US/ Austr/UK etc , she will want to be claiming rights as dia laws there tends to favour women and I have heard of stories of women taking that opportunity to maltreat their husband.I feel sad for some women because Men working hard in this Arab countries deserve to come back to a happy home. with one day off in a week, dy need peace of mind. She will continue like that and even become worse.
You said she already moved on after u left her in Nigeria- shows who she is.
Wen i first came to Qatr, dt was aw sm1 told me just enjoy urself , wen u go shopping he is the one to be pushing the trolly. i just said av heard. it shows aw we just want to take advantage of things once we are outside d country.

got a lot to say but I pray God help you. I can understand wat u are going thru but you do not want to go thru this for d rest of ur life in d name of wat will people say. irrespective of wat our parents were, we must chose and decide that our lives must be better. Pick the good ones and neglect the bad habits/traits. thats my watchword.

Calculate how many years you plan to spend with her if forever then deduct the number of years you have spent with her. That's to give you a clue of how long you will have to put up with that woman.

If you can handle it go ahead and if you can't press eject.

LordScent:



Na Tsom dey do baiday for angelahnie oooooo......Can you imagine

I'm laughing here. He is punching air to me

sllay:


Despicable bastardo! Your moniker is testimony enough of your perversion.

Even pornstars are curvy but I'd never sleep with one. I make love, not random sex. I don't do tramps.

Thyroxine-deficient hermit!

C'mon! Don't you get tired?

sllay:


Despicable bastardo! Your moniker is testimony enough of your perversion.

Even pornstars are curvy but I'd never sleep with one. I make love, not random sex. I don't do tramps.

Thyroxine-deficient hermit!

ok GAYbriel.

sllay:


Your ánal orifice should be impaled with a red hot, rusted boiling ring for suggesting he should physically assault a woman who didn't harm him physically , worse still his wife.

He either spits back in her face (which is childish) or spends time away from her to clear his head, take stock of the happenings in their relationship, wait if she'll show remorse (this is almost certain) then extract a promise that she'd never go on the offensive against him physically or verbally and they'd always discuss with/talk to each other to resolve their differences.

Once you slap her once, you'd slap her again and before you know it you're a wife-beater.

Keep quite small boy, it's I ur anal wahatever that deserves an iron.

See ur state of mind...spit back at her

Or go and reflect..can't u see he's been reflecting for one year or can't u read?

If Saudis don't punish for husband beating their wife he should show her how's in charge not this ur silly suggestion . The woman is over loved and local that's her problem

Iefosa:


I practice what I preach Sire: before getting married I took time to get grounded in all of these( scatter many hearts, wrecked mine too) . So I learned from all of it and now happily married .

You have successful mastered one of the most complicated "object" on earth, well-done Sir! Happy marriage life.

AngelAhnie:
I must have made him ho..rny

he's madly Hot....

Darling there are women who marry and date older men with no fat bank account. Besies if a woman does , there is nothing wrong in it, we all have different reason for entering into a relationship. Yours is not necessarily better than mine. It is not a crime nor is it morally disgusting to marry an older man for his money. It has been happening before you were born and it would continue to happen. You don't need to disparage other people's choices.

Also, there are young adults who don't give a fvck about wizkid. Not all couples have the same taste in music and other inconsequentials. You also need to know that people do talk about lot of things other than things they have in common, you don't need to have anythibg in common with your partner to make marriage or a relationship work. Just because it is hard for you to start a relationship or converse with older people does not mean that others find it hard, laboring and difficult.

There women who chose or were betrothed to men twice their age and ended up having fruitful married lives.

Just because you don't like it doesn't make it bad, illogical, unthinkable or abnormal.

sukkot:
puhleeezeee what do you have in common with a man twice your age besides his bank account ? what does the conversation look like ? ' ermmm sweerie i have grown another white hair on my beard ? ' or maybe her conversation to the 50 year old man is ' hey sweerie whizzkid doing it big outcheaaa, i need to cop that his latest joint ? ' lolzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz

thekingisback:
A slap or two is definitely the solution. If you're not willing to do that, then I'll suggest you give her the silent treatment.

hahahahaah In Engineering its called Manual Override.

nwamehn:



My question is not whether she reacted anyhow or whether u should forgive her. My exact question is will u go and apologise to her after she spat on u without feeling remorse just because u ignored her and dragged remote with her? Will u go and apologise to her not whether u will forgive her?

dont frustrate your wife... don't scorn them.... if ur wife came to meet you at work to go shopping ur mood is irrelevant .... duty calls! and you came back to TV... op is rationalizing what he did!

miky:
Bro just end that marriage!! If she is expecting a reaction from you and doing things to deliberately trigger you, one day you might kill that woman.

Trust me she no longer respects you, go look for another Wife!!!

I agree. I wouldnt take being spat on even though i am a woman.

This is way too much. Emotional and psychologically abusive. That is more dangerous than physical abuse.

But damn she sees him as nothing.

LordScent:



Na Tsom dey do baiday for angelahnie oooooo......Can you imagine

lwkmd

baba i see am oooh, d tin shock me
make i d obs

AngelAhnie:
Lol, him need an olosho to cool off then

he does backdoors.... so he needs a jolly fellow like him...he only does the front door in dreams!