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doveda:
Darling there are women who marry and date older men with no fat bank account. Besies if a woman does , there is nothing wrong in it, we all have different reason for entering into a relationship. Yours is not necessarily better than mine. It is not a crime nor is it morally disgusting to marry an older man for his money . It has been happening before you were born and it would continue to happen. You don't need to disparage other people's choices.

Also, there are young adults who don't give a fvck about wizkid. Not all couples have the same taste in music and other inconsequentials. You also need to know that people do talk about lot of things other than things they have in common, you don't need to have anythibg in common with your partner to make marriage or a relationship work. Just because it is hard for you to start a relationship or converse with older people does not mean that others find it hard, laboring and difficult.

There women who chose or were betrothed to men twice their age and ended up having fruitful married lives.

Just because you don't like it doesn't make it bad, illogical, unthinkable or abnormal.

Donpoker9:
lwkmd

baba i see am oooh, d tin shock me
make i d obs

HornyTiwa:
really

AngelAhnie:
what are you observing?

AngelAhnie:
There nothing like that. You asslicker !

Really?

You are already taking it personal....





If i were you, i will fight my battle from the spiritual realm "for we wrestle not against flesh and blood".....

Donpoker9:
Lol....so na from my mouth u wan hear say devil black abi?

I wonder oooo

doveda:
Darling there are women who marry and date older men with no fat bank account. Besies if a woman does , there is nothing wrong in it, we all have different reason for entering into a relationship. Yours is not necessarily better than mine. It is not a crime nor is it morally disgusting to marry an older man for his money. It has been happening before you were born and it would continue to happen. You don't need to disparage other people's choices.

Also, there are young adults who don't give a fvck about wizkid. Not all couples have the same taste in music and other inconsequentials. You also need to know that people do talk about lot of things other than things they have in common, you don't need to have anythibg in common with your partner to make marriage or a relationship work. Just because it is hard for you to start a relationship or converse with older people does not mean that others find it hard, laboring and difficult.

There women who chose or were betrothed to men twice their age and ended up having fruitful married lives.

Just because you don't like it doesn't make it bad, illogical, unthinkable or abnormal.

LordScent:

Really?

You are already taking it personal....





If i were you, i will fight my battle from the spiritual realm "for we wrestle not against flesh and blood".....

bigtt76:
She loves you but you don't seem to have time for her. She's lonely and craves your attention. You can't have a woman in the house and when you come back from work you're playing game. Haba! She had the remote in her pants to get you to touch her. You never de understand?

Donpoker9:
Lol....so na from my mouth u wan hear say devil black abi?

LordScent:

I wonder oooo

AngelAhnie:
You post a meme, pls I'm not taking anything personal and don't quote me. Sally is only a frustrated dude and I understand that. Reason I'm laughing here.

Donpoker9:
Lol i swear the battle don enter spiritual something


btw e get something wey i wan ask u but e go be for d oda syd...

No lele....


Abeg no ask am here ooo if uno wan carry dead body we go yarn on d oda side.






Abeg shift make i join you dey observe bikooo

nameerfhtennek:
It's more than 20minutes, I'm still unable to put words together to begin this story. I will try keep it simple and necessarily detailed so everyone will understand the true picture of what happened, why against my belief that writing personal experiences on social media is immature, I had to still write mine. Let's just say I'm not thinking right now, maybe I'm so upset but truth is, I need your advice.

I'm writing this thread seated at the back of a Hilux truck just outside our apartment. Yaa, that me in the picture. You see, today is EID and believe me I should be resting in the house since I'm not working today. Days like this only come by 6times in a whole year and more than anything, I would have loved resting than being out here.

It was yesterday evening, she called and said she her driver were headed to my office. She wanted to pick some stuffs around my office. Yaa, I forgot to say this is Saudi Arabia. If you know Saudi quite well, you will agree with me that a husband will definitely get exhausted running errands for his wife or the family. I was not in the mood for shopping but she wanted to shop. She got upset that I didn't want to accompany her shopping.

She did her shopping alone and returned few minutes before I closed from work. We headed home. Unknown to me, I forgot my internet router in my office because I was rushing to get home and continue with my FIFA 16.
Her internet service expired some days back so we were using mine.

While playing game, she walked into the seating room and demanded for my router. Mine, not hers. With her tone and facial expression demanding the router, I didn't respond because there was an indication that she was warming up for a quarrel. I wasn't just in the mood. The thing is, she is very skilled in extending her anger phases. That is one thing I can't understand till today. Believe me, it was not like this while we were dating. Sorry, I forgot to tell you I married my university girlfriend, she years my junior and the same department. Ya, I'm one of those guys that dated and planned for the future with their girls at the same time. God blessed that plan but at this point I don't understand everything that has been happening for the past one year plus since we got married. She repeatedly demanded that I handed over my router to her but I was quiet. Meanwhile, it occurred to me that I forgot the router in my office the minute she first asked about it. Truth is, I actually needed to use the internet that night for my online FIFA.

After several times of asking for the router and no response from me, she took the TV remote and switched off the TV. She walked straight to the kitchen and hid the remote. I approached her in the kitchen and told her I was not ready for any kinda quarrel. We have had enough for the past one year of getting married. I then told her I forgot the router in my office, I didn't have it. I guess she didn't believe me, she never did. She told me to leave her alone. I returned back to the seating room with my heart beating fast. I knew she wanted a serious quarrel that night. After some minutes, I returned to the kitchen and requested for the remote. Then I figured out she hid it in her pant. Pretending I was passing by, I swiftly went for the remote from under her short gown and grabbed it. She didn't expect I knew where she hid it. She followed me behind and ceased the game console, second indication she wanted me to react. I do have a problem with my temper just like every human, male or female. I have also learnt to deal with it by walking away at times I feel I was going to lose it. The same reason I'm outside at this time, 9:55 pm Saudi time. She knows I have fought hard to tame my temper issues but most times, she makes deliberate efforts to have me overreact to her nags and rants.

I watched her hide the console in her pant yet again. I shuddered in obvious fear because I knew what the woman wanted, a fight. Unable to deal with it,the intimidation and the shame, I went for the console and squeezed it out from her hand while she was trying to hold it tight. That was when the trouble then started. She wanted a buffer to help her spill everything she had nursed in her mind. "You are a violent person!! You can kill, idiot!! You were not shown love by your parents, that is why you will squeeze your wife's hand to collect the console. They allowed you to grow up in the street without parental guidance and love." Then it came....pwaaaaaaah!!! She spat on my face!!!!! God knows, I have never been spat at before, not by my parents, not by my siblings, not by anybody. " I agree I was not shown love by my parents but your Dad is a coward for running away from your mother without being there for you guys when he needed to play his roles as a father. That explains the reason you are like this", I said and walked back to the seating room.

I managed to play a few games which I lost mostly and then slept off around past 5am this morning. Around 3pm, I woke up and went to the office. Not like I had work but I needed to clear my head away from the house. If only there was alcohol in Saudi, I would have been somewhere in a hotel drinking away the shame. When I returned home by past 7pm, hungry and tired. I needed to continue my game but I could no longer find the game console and the TV remote. I asked for it and she ignored me. I managed to eat and then left the house to this truck.

You see, I love my wife more than anything, more than anyone. She is one person in the whole world I could go any length for. I love her, that was why I forgave her when she broke up with me after I left Nigeria for Saudi Arabia. She broke up with me few months after I came to Saudi and started dating another guy twice her age. She says she never expected I would come back to her after she left me but I did. I did because I saw a future with her, a future I imagined, believed in and worked towards its reality. Today we have gotten to a level where most people out there would want to be, our colleagues envy is because they believe we are privileged and blessed but what they don't know is that in the truth, I have no peace. This marriage has become my legacy and my curse.

I want to send her back to Nigeria in few days time and I hope I'm not making a mistake!!! Spitting on my face, nah nah....am so fed up!!!!

chuksbogus2001:
I don't know how Saudi deals men beating women .let me tell u when we were small my mum used to be very arrogant and rude to my dad cos he is a quiet man not until my mums mother I mean her own mum told my dad to beat her .After my dad gave her a better beating peace ,love respect came to our house since 1984 till now my mum has never raise her voice against my dad. Am not advocating women battery but a times small spanking does the magic

LordScent:


No lele....


Abeg no ask am here ooo if uno wan carry dead body we go yarn on d oda side.






Abeg shift make i join you dey observe bikooo

sukkot:
so you wee allow ya 24 year old daughter to marry a 50 year old man ?www.nairaland.com/attachments/4212209_fbimg1473153238367_jpeg2e1d45b2b25a5cdfed2e911592c7096b

sllay:
Bow down, you loveless, rectum-craving offspring of a crippled bum!

KingSLAY is in control of this narrative and you all will twist and turn as he pleases. I direct the pace of all of this. You are my puppet.


Worthless bastard! The only bleeding orifice you know is your ańus and your partners'. If you've ever been with a woman or dated one, you'd know most discard their sanitary pads before it even starts smelling. Read up on the biological and chemical composition of menses and how long it stays before it smells.

You've never known this 'cause you aren't attracted to women. Your moniker is a hate campaign against all women.

You turned gay because you never want to deal with a woman menstruating. Deny this! I dare you!

May your phallus shrivel the next time you try to sexually molest your neighbour's sons!