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gudbadgyal:
Hello Nairalanders, I wouldn't wanna bore you, So I'll just go straight to the point. I've been dating this guy for sometime now (just date oo) but his mom knows about our relationship and his sisters too. He's such a mama's boy and doesn't wanna work. He says he doesn't like Nigeria and he's waiting for his visa to get ready. He's dad is actually a white. He's idle and depends on me to foot the bills saying he'll reward me when things go well for him. He isn't willing to work and this is really pissing me off. However some one is gradually stealing my heart because he has been doing things my bf doesn't do for me, I'm so confused right now... Dunno who to go for
Need your advice please

I smell a scam. If his dad is white, would he need a visa? Afterall, you don't need a visa to travel to your country if you are a citizen of that country.

mannyiyke:
Even if u pple shout from now Jesus comes, she's not ready to dump him, cos d guy is handsome and has a white man's father. In her heart of hearts, she knows d proper and wise thing to do but she doesn't want to do it. She will 'definitely' not adhere to any wise counsel offered. She's still being enticed by d allure of beauty and a fool's paradise called a white man's country d guy will travel to after deceiving, banging of her ...... (make i know mention name) and eventual dumping. A lazy man (not just an idle mind) is a devil's workshop. In fact, contextually, a lazy man is an idle mind.

gudbadgyal..... u know the right thing to do. u are just being clingy. mannyiyke is saying something here

Supnaija:
Like seriously. so u expect mr lazy bones to change when he enters yankee. Lol. U funny o. A lizard in naija cannot be a Crocodile in yankee it doesn't work like that.

Sister you better run. This kind of person is going to continue being lazy and sure banker is the fact that when he gets there na OYO you go be cos he will look for another woman who will pay his bills, this time it will be an oyinbo woman paying in dollars

It works like that. Have you not heard the Anang proverb that when you take a goat to America it begins to pass white sh#t? Or the famous Yoruba saying that the best way to improve a camel's behaviour is to take it to Oyinbo land?

gudbadgyal:
lmao. Who knows that one.I'm 19. A student of Lagos state uni and a model.

That's good a model.Is it fashion,promotional or commercial..hope u don't mind my asking?

Funny Video reply specially for this:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Jc2pgzAR1n0

This girl is very funny.

If he's half-white & still needs visa to travel abroad, his dad must be one of the unfortunate oyinbo.

I cannot imagine a child of EU or USA/Canada/Australian/NZ citizen still needing visa to any decent country.

So while you have a bf to shine congo & parasite on you, you still get close enough to another guy to play bf role?

At 19, you're still learning scam story sha.

JuanDeDios:
It works like that. Have you not heard the Anang proverb that when you take a goat to America it begins to pass white sh#t? Or the famous Yoruba saying that the best way to improve a camel's behaviour is to take it to Oyinbo land?

What?

Hmmm...interesting topic. I'm not in a similar situation, but I live in America and I saw on my fiance's phone that when a friend was asking about my pic as his dp, he said "na my visa." Was he calling me his visa or does that mean something else (he told me it means that's my way)? Any advice would be appreciated...