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Re: After A 3some With Her I Am Falling For Her!!! Advice Needed by Khalifa04: 8:12pm On Sep 20, 2016
killermanIsBack:
My people, and brothers in the house I greet u all, please I need real answers and advice from my fellow niggaz ( ladies, think with their hormones and not head and as such .... )

Anyway, some months back I posted a story on my Group Intimacy encounter, where myself and my nigga banged one of his(my nigga's) FWB in a hotel all night.... To spell it out, the chick is not a Hoe, neither is she a runs girl, she is just someone that Loves sex so much and likes trying new things , the encounter we had with her as well wasn't money driven 1 bit. She didn't do it for cash, my nigga just suggested to her to try something weird, she didn't accept , but later she came, and somehow we all went down... Afterwards, we were out of communication for some weeks but eventually re established connection and started gisting ...

I invited her over to my place to come for another bout, which she eventually came and stayed some days with me, the time she's spent with me, I really saw her true self and can categorically tell , she is just my kind of girl (in beauty and physique) we understand our self, connect well, she's the type that can make u save and spend ur cash wisely, will advice u on what and how u should go about ur things, wouldn't want u to be reckless in cash, she's down to earth , easy going and really loving, seriously I have forked many girls and has had encounter with many, but she's a rare type, I can count the number of girls I have met that are her kind, and they are not more than 2( from at least 50-80 different girls I have met) need I say, she loves sex very much and the sex is the blast as well .... I actually have no issue with that...
My concern now is, can I really date her? I have told my nigga, I'm liking the chick ( he knows shes a good girl, but haven't really spent much time with her as much as me), and he's indifferent... I'm very okay with her, but just the Group Intimacy thing we had with my nigga, that is my draw back... How will it look especially to my nigga.... Need I say, she's someone that is very open to me and tells me everything, Had she told me she did a Bleep with people I didn't know, that won't even be a problem at all, I wouldn't even be here writing this
Should I carry on
I need sincere advice.... Thanks in advance my people...
ogbeni the feelings u get for her Na lust nt love,get dis straight into ur head, d girl Na hoe
Re: After A 3some With Her I Am Falling For Her!!! Advice Needed by killermanIsBack(m): 8:53pm On Sep 20, 2016
Khalifa04:
ogbeni the feelings u get for her Na lust nt love,get dis straight into ur head, d girl Na hoe
brah!!!! I am renowned for forking countless how's and strippers, I know them when I see.... The chick is NOT a How, I repeat emphatically , she is NOT a Hoe, I have passed her through the requisite test I need to know.... She's just someone that loves good sex very well, and can venture if u prime her to.... That aside, she's got every attribute any sensible guy with trip for.., so get some things straight.. U DO NOT know the said person. But I do, so stop assuming and writing rubbish here... Just state ur suggestion and fly...
Re: After A 3some With Her I Am Falling For Her!!! Advice Needed by Nobody: 9:04pm On Sep 20, 2016
Not that I share all of your ideologies or advocate the kind of things you say you do, but damn your genuineness and straightforwardness is unquestionable.

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Re: After A 3some With Her I Am Falling For Her!!! Advice Needed by BlackMbakara1(m): 8:08am On Sep 21, 2016
Lleigh:


He could love her....loving someone is not just about the sex

He will never! If there's one thing every man guides jealously, is his woman. So if he marries her and the friend always comes around, what do you think will be his reaction? Not to mention when he's not around and the friend visits?

It will only work when he's no longer friends with the guy...abi you think say we be oyibo?
Re: After A 3some With Her I Am Falling For Her!!! Advice Needed by jackie3B(f): 9:36am On Sep 21, 2016
fexyrich:
my broda d guy mumu no be here ooo..he is obviously allowing his manhood to control him..How can any man in his right senses be considering such a hoe as a wife..with all the more decent girls out there.Som1 had a 3 some with u and ur friend not for money but for fun and u say she isn't a hoe She is nothing but a cheap hoe and her love for sex will make her sleep with his gateman and brother sef..cos she is not doin it cos of Mony..it is better to go for a lady who has sex cos of mony cos if u av Moby she can stick to u..but a lady who has sex for fun wld cheat on u any day u arnt available to fulfill her sexual desires..so who is more dangerous.op na serious mumu..
u said my mind..thank you
Re: After A 3some With Her I Am Falling For Her!!! Advice Needed by killermanIsBack(m): 2:16pm On Sep 21, 2016
jackie3B:

u said my mind..thank you


Runs girl spotted!!! I know them anywhere I see them!!!

How much do u charge??

Reply my PM, let's discuss business....
Re: After A 3some With Her I Am Falling For Her!!! Advice Needed by Nobody: 2:51pm On Sep 21, 2016
killermanIsBack:


Runs girl spotted!!! I know them anywhere I see them!!!

How much do u charge??

Reply my PM, let's discuss business....



Mumu, u just post a problem in ur life, u never see solution.. Yet u r asking another hoe out again.... E be like say the witches for ur mama village Don use Toto summarise curse for ur head..

An adage says:
Don't marry that hoe , she sucked too many dicks and
you know the old saying, you can't turn a LovePeddler into a
housewife.
Re: After A 3some With Her I Am Falling For Her!!! Advice Needed by killermanIsBack(m): 3:01pm On Sep 21, 2016
Zizaboni:




Mumu, u just post a problem in ur life, u never see solution.. Yet u r asking another hoe out again.... E be like say the witches for ur mama village Don use Toto summarise curse for ur head..

An adage says:
Don't marry that hoe , she sucked too many dicks and
you know the old saying, you can't turn a LovePeddler into a
housewife.

cheesy grin grin
Re: After A 3some With Her I Am Falling For Her!!! Advice Needed by jackie3B(f): 3:18pm On Sep 21, 2016
killermanIsBack:

Runs girl spotted!!! I know them anywhere I see them!!!
How much do u charge??
Reply my PM, let's discuss business....
thanks tho... I no get beef wit u.read sumtin, understand b4 saying thrash
Re: After A 3some With Her I Am Falling For Her!!! Advice Needed by Nobody: 3:37pm On Sep 21, 2016
jackie3B:

thanks tho... I no get beef wit u.read sumtin, understand b4 saying thrash



Love, dnt mind him jare... If he says u r a hoe, tell him urs isn't for free like that dog he is forking.... Tell him u r an expensive hoe... Dnt mind him jare... Anyway pleasure meeting u
Re: After A 3some With Her I Am Falling For Her!!! Advice Needed by pedrilo: 4:00pm On Sep 21, 2016
ma nigga, if u dnt marry that girl, na me wan come marry her?
Re: After A 3some With Her I Am Falling For Her!!! Advice Needed by killermanIsBack(m): 4:11pm On Sep 21, 2016
Zizaboni:




Love, dnt mind him jare... If he says u r a hoe, tell him urs isn't for free like that dog he is forking.... Tell him u r an expensive hoe... Dnt mind him jare... Anyway pleasure meeting u
na my thread u want use pursue woman turn woman wrapper abi? All these small boys on NL, u won't go to the bathroom and use ur hand, u dey find girl to use my thread pursue... Cretinous child
Re: After A 3some With Her I Am Falling For Her!!! Advice Needed by Nobody: 4:32pm On Sep 21, 2016
Bros go for her fast fast before another sharp guy go takeover..cheesy
Re: After A 3some With Her I Am Falling For Her!!! Advice Needed by Nobody: 5:23pm On Sep 21, 2016
killermanIsBack:
na my thread u want use pursue woman turn woman wrapper abi? All these small boys on NL, u won't go to the bathroom and use ur hand, u dey find girl to use my thread pursue... Cretinous child

All this useless and senseless adult on nairaland..... Dog family... Hoe husband
Re: After A 3some With Her I Am Falling For Her!!! Advice Needed by Nobody: 5:26pm On Sep 21, 2016
killermanIsBack:
na my thread u want use pursue woman turn woman wrapper abi? All these small boys on NL, u won't go to the bathroom and use ur hand, u dey find girl to use my thread pursue... Cretinous child



Cretinous fornicator
Re: After A 3some With Her I Am Falling For Her!!! Advice Needed by RENOWNED2(m): 5:45pm On Sep 21, 2016
Zizaboni:




Love, dnt mind him jare... If he says u r a hoe, tell him urs isn't for free like that dog he is forking.... Tell him u r an expensive hoe... Dnt mind him jare... Anyway pleasure meeting u
You Are A Wasted Sperm, A Disgrace To Your Mother, An Insult To Your Father So Because Of Runs Girl You Dey Insult Your Fellow Guyman? I Spit On Your Grave...Fvcking Aszlicker

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Re: After A 3some With Her I Am Falling For Her!!! Advice Needed by RENOWNED2(m): 5:47pm On Sep 21, 2016
jackie3B:

thanks tho... I no get beef wit u.read sumtin, understand b4 saying thrash
You Be Runs Girl Joor, No Lie...How Much For One Night
Re: After A 3some With Her I Am Falling For Her!!! Advice Needed by Nobody: 5:55pm On Sep 21, 2016
RENOWNED2:
You Are A Wasted Sperm, A Disgrace To Your Mother, An Insult To Your Father So Because Of Runs Girl You Dey Insult Your Fellow Guyman? I Spit On Your Grave...Fvcking Aszlicker



Even if she is a runs girl, she is of more importance to be than the OP.. Who knows if she repent tmao, she may be my wife or some else's wife.. But u r of no importance at all coz I am not a gay...
Re: After A 3some With Her I Am Falling For Her!!! Advice Needed by RENOWNED2(m): 6:00pm On Sep 21, 2016
Zizaboni:




Even if she is a runs girl, she is of more importance to be than the OP.. Who knows if she repent tmao, she may be my wife or some else's wife.. But u r of no importance at all coz I am not a gay...
Sometimes All You Niggaz Forget That These Girls Wont Help You When Things Go Awry, Na Your Fellow Guy Go Look Your Face..No Dey Jones Because Of Pucci.
Re: After A 3some With Her I Am Falling For Her!!! Advice Needed by Talk2Bella(f): 6:08pm On Sep 21, 2016
There's absolutely nothing wrong with dating her just make sure she feels the same way about you
Re: After A 3some With Her I Am Falling For Her!!! Advice Needed by Lleigh(f): 8:27pm On Sep 21, 2016
Everyone going against this guy....
What would you do if your wife or gf said we need to spice things up.
What will you do?

At the end of the day, this guy will do what he thinks is right for him.
A lot of couples can't really tell each other what they want, for the fear of being judged.

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Re: After A 3some With Her I Am Falling For Her!!! Advice Needed by killermanIsBack(m): 10:11pm On Sep 21, 2016
RENOWNED2:
You Are A Wasted Sperm, A Disgrace To Your Mother, An Insult To Your Father So Because Of Runs Girl You Dey Insult Your Fellow Guyman? I Spit On Your Grave...Fvcking Aszlicker
my brother, leave that guy, I checked his profile, he is a child that knows nothing, obviously a young teenager (although when I was like him, years back, I was more sensible) I believe age and experience will ingrain somethings in his empty mind, when He grows up into a man!!!...
Re: After A 3some With Her I Am Falling For Her!!! Advice Needed by Dimaya: 8:35am On Sep 24, 2016
@op

Why buy when renting is cheaper?

Look at this as an investment decision. You are already getting the freebies of marriage: sex. So why commit when you obviously know that in your absence, she will sleep with someone else?

If you do go ahead, there's always the fear that she can hookup with a stranger just for greater sex. Think about it.
Re: After A 3some With Her I Am Falling For Her!!! Advice Needed by Shiitposter: 8:47am On Sep 24, 2016
killermanIsBack:
My people, and brothers in the house I greet u all, please I need real answers and advice from my fellow niggaz ( ladies, think with their hormones and not head and as such .... )

Anyway, some months back I posted a story on my Group Intimacy encounter, where myself and my nigga banged one of his(my nigga's) FWB in a hotel all night.... To spell it out, the chick is not a Hoe, neither is she a runs girl, she is just someone that Loves sex so much and likes trying new things , the encounter we had with her as well wasn't money driven 1 bit. She didn't do it for cash, my nigga just suggested to her to try something weird, she didn't accept , but later she came, and somehow we all went down... Afterwards, we were out of communication for some weeks but eventually re established connection and started gisting ...

I invited her over to my place to come for another bout, which she eventually came and stayed some days with me, the time she's spent with me, I really saw her true self and can categorically tell , she is just my kind of girl (in beauty and physique) we understand our self, connect well, she's the type that can make u save and spend ur cash wisely, will advice u on what and how u should go about ur things, wouldn't want u to be reckless in cash, she's down to earth , easy going and really loving, seriously I have forked many girls and has had encounter with many, but she's a rare type, I can count the number of girls I have met that are her kind, and they are not more than 2( from at least 50-80 different girls I have met) need I say, she loves sex very much and the sex is the blast as well .... I actually have no issue with that...
My concern now is, can I really date her? I have told my nigga, I'm liking the chick ( he knows shes a good girl, but haven't really spent much time with her as much as me), and he's indifferent... I'm very okay with her, but just the Group Intimacy thing we had with my nigga, that is my draw back... How will it look especially to my nigga.... Need I say, she's someone that is very open to me and tells me everything, Had she told me she did a Bleep with people I didn't know, that won't even be a problem at all, I wouldn't even be here writing this
Should I carry on
I need sincere advice.... Thanks in advance my people...

Well, you're topic is misleading and so majority of he advice you get here will be misleading. You didnt start catching butterflies for her after the party.
It was after you got to know who she really is (i.e personality). Then only thong you can do now is have a bro - to Bro talk with your bro.

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Re: After A 3some With Her I Am Falling For Her!!! Advice Needed by 3rdlegxxx(m): 5:41pm On Oct 11, 2016
bomasek, rosieluv, Berlynn, TrapQueen77, chocolateme, tee59, LordAdam, prettyAdaolisa, Lleigh

This is one funny thread, I have learnt a few things from this thread, one of the reasons I got bored with nairaland and left for close to a month, sexuality and romance sections are foiled with fakes and immature people, loads of people have an adventurous side, some people like to try new things once in a while, some girls and guys are sexually adventurous but they would only try that with a guy they are close with, they don't do it for cash, it's just a crazing or some thing some people try, I know girls that while they were 19 they wanted to try out everything possible, drink, go clubbing, try head, all kinds of sex after a while they calmed down, they graduated, got jobs some are managers and bosses, the point is if I now look at them and try to define them with some adventurous, it's shows ho back ward I am, I am too much of a n open minded type, bro is a bad guy now he says he found a girl that had a 1 off 3sum and u guys are all killing urselves over it, girls have fun, every other weekend a regular girl, your neighbor, cousin is out there having fun, some try 3sums, some just Bleep a guy they like all night and it's not for cash, should we now define them because they choose to have fun with us guys...
Re: After A 3some With Her I Am Falling For Her!!! Advice Needed by bomasek(m): 5:49pm On Oct 11, 2016
3rdlegxxx:
bomasek, rosieluv, Berlynn, TrapQueen77, chocolateme, tee59, LordAdam, prettyAdaolisa, Lleigh

This is one funny thread, I have learnt a few things from this thread, one of the reasons I got bored with nairaland and left for close to a month, sexuality and romance sections are foiled with fakes and immature people, loads of people have an adventurous side, some people like to try new things once in a while, some girls and guys are sexually adventurous but they would only try that with a guy they are close with, they don't do it for cash, it's just a crazing or some thing some people try, I know girls that while they were 19 they wanted to try out everything possible, drink, go clubbing, try head, all kinds of sex after a while they calmed down, they graduated, got jobs some are managers and bosses, the point is if I now look at them and try to define them with some adventurous, it's shows ho back ward I am, I am too much of a n open minded type, bro is a bad guy now he says he found a girl that had a 1 off 3sum and u guys are all killing urselves over it, girls have fun, every other weekend a regular girl, your neighbor, cousin is out there having fun, some try 3sums, some just Bleep a guy they like all night and it's not for cash, should we now define them because they choose to have fun with us guys...
I don't get why u had to quote me
Re: After A 3some With Her I Am Falling For Her!!! Advice Needed by 3rdlegxxx(m): 5:59pm On Oct 11, 2016
BlackMbakara1:


He will never! If there's one thing every man guides jealously, is his woman. So if he marries her and the friend always comes around, what do you think will be his reaction? Not to mention when he's not around and the friend visits?

It will only work when he's no longer friends with the guy...abi you think say we be oyibo?

YOU HAVE A POINT BRO, LET ME SHARE A STORY WITH YOU GUYS, MET A MEDICAL STUDENT ONCE WHO CAME TO THE GENERAL HOSPITAL TO WORK LIKE TEHY USUALLY DO, we met at a canteen, became friends, me being all naugyhty and adventurous and she being a good girl, just on her own but willing to try adventures, we started straffing but the babe had a crazy personality, like if 5 guys where in a house and she was there, you would all be laughing and having fun, she blends easily and can make guys talk, play, she is more like a girl who reasons a knows how guys do things so it's easy to like her now my close friend got to like her, they got really close, me and her are just friends (remenber0 but we've been intimate but no dating talk or none of that now my guy is a good guy, gentleman but knows we have been, they got close, she told me, I was like babe ur free, if you like him, took a while but they both got comfortable knowing I have been with her, the 1st time they had sex, I came visiting, she saw me and was acting funny, I looked at her and was like, what's with the attitude jare, I knew they just did it but we where all so mature that they got more comfy after that day, I felt weird but the funniest part was we all now became closer, they fell in love, the crazy kind of love that if you saw both of them talking or playing just by looking at them, you had catch the vibe that these 2 people have that weird real love, the thing was so electric that I was once with a girl in unilag and she called me to tell me about something he did that she didn't like (they turn me to their psychologist by force grin grin grin so I help when they have issues, they both call me to report each other) omo the girl I was with that was just hearing a speaker conversation started acting weird and asked me who is the guy, I said a friend, she said she could feel the love in the girls's voice, it sounded so real and crazy, had her thinking about it too) like you could get, now that was 2 years ago and they are still together, it started off with me seeing a girl I like and we had sex to my closest friend dating her and now we are so close but I have come to realize that these things do happen, they are crazy about each other but we are all close friends ..
Re: After A 3some With Her I Am Falling For Her!!! Advice Needed by 3rdlegxxx(m): 5:59pm On Oct 11, 2016
bomasek:
I don't get why u had to quote me

you made a comment and go quoted, kindly ignore the quote tho
Re: After A 3some With Her I Am Falling For Her!!! Advice Needed by 3rdlegxxx(m): 6:16pm On Oct 11, 2016
killermanIsBack:
brah!!!! I am renowned for forking countless how's and strippers, I know them when I see.... The chick is NOT a How, I repeat emphatically , she is NOT a Hoe, I have passed her through the requisite test I need to know.... She's just someone that loves good sex very well, and can venture if u prime her to.... That aside, she's got every attribute any sensible guy with trip for.., so get some things straight.. U DO NOT know the said person. But I do, so stop assuming and writing rubbish here... Just state ur suggestion and fly...

Bro you really had rthe time to reply people on here, it's like some pwople don't just get it, every one has a little naughty side, a lot of people like good sex, some get adventurous about it, it doesn't mean people should stop dating them, some comments here gan... undecided
Re: After A 3some With Her I Am Falling For Her!!! Advice Needed by LordAdam: 6:25pm On Oct 11, 2016
3rdlegxxx:
bomasek, rosieluv, Berlynn, TrapQueen77, chocolateme, tee59, LordAdam, prettyAdaolisa, Lleigh

This is one funny thread, I have learnt a few things from this thread, one of the reasons I got bored with nairaland and left for close to a month, sexuality and romance sections are foiled with fakes and immature people, loads of people have an adventurous side, some people like to try new things once in a while, some girls and guys are sexually adventurous but they would only try that with a guy they are close with, they don't do it for cash, it's just a crazing or some thing some people try, I know girls that while they were 19 they wanted to try out everything possible, drink, go clubbing, try head, all kinds of sex after a while they calmed down, they graduated, got jobs some are managers and bosses, the point is if I now look at them and try to define them with some adventurous, it's shows ho back ward I am, I am too much of a n open minded type, bro is a bad guy now he says he found a girl that had a 1 off 3sum and u guys are all killing urselves over it, girls have fun, every other weekend a regular girl, your neighbor, cousin is out there having fun, some try 3sums, some just Bleep a guy they like all night and it's not for cash, should we now define them because they choose to have fun with us guys...

Thumbs up on your subsequent story.

The problem with the citizens in this country is that we are all fond of staying in the closet about virtually everything.

Yet these things happen everyday. It'd surprise you that it happens in a close frequency to the way it happens outside the shores. It just isn't talked about.

Abortion is illegal, yet anyone can get Misoprostol over the counter. There are gay clubs in the country. There are even spots in this country to pick up call guys. Org.y parties everywhere. Hook up for swingers and cougars. Our tertiary institutions are dens of folks on sex hyper drive--same sex relations, FWB's, orgie.s happen all the time.

I'm a realist tho'.

We're all Nigerians after all. Which is code word for "we all have a bit of conservativeness in us."

It's like a demon we all have to deal with, regardless of how liberal we are.

I really do wish the OP the best. That he is even open to the idea of dating her says a lot about him being a progressive. 95+% of these self-righteous loathing guys on and outside the forum wouldn't even consider it.

It'd be like the classic case of trying to screw anyone in skirt after crossing puberty, but searching earnestly for a virgin when it's time to get married.

-Lord
Re: After A 3some With Her I Am Falling For Her!!! Advice Needed by Nobody: 7:33pm On Oct 11, 2016
what advice? do you want us to advice your emotions or what.. thats what the inner you want, you either try to get over it or get into it.
Re: After A 3some With Her I Am Falling For Her!!! Advice Needed by Nobody: 8:06pm On Oct 11, 2016
He's a fvcking troll undecided.....fake story, fake feelings undecided

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