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Re: How Many Of You Are In A Relationship Without Sex? Share Your Experience by lordyugo: 8:07pm On Sep 22, 2016

ireneony:
I doubt if there's anyone in a relationship without having sex.
i have never met a guy that doesn't want sex in a relationship.

This happened one time..a guy asked me out and i told him i only do relationships without sex.
he was very blunt. .he said" for this town ..for Nigeria. .this kind tin still de happen"
here i was thinking he's the kind of person that does believe in a "without sex relationships" because of his innocent face.

The only time i see or hear WTHOUT SEX RELATIONSHIP is online stories and how ladies turned down men that practice without relationship, I'm like wowwww. Sometimes I'm like how come i don't see this kind of men.

This brings me to my question, how many of you are strictly in a relationship without sex, and how do you cope with the temptations?

Share your experience! !!

really think its a simplistic view using no sex to determine luv or if it will lead to marriage, sex doesnt hv anytn to do wit character.
jezebel was once a virgin

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Re: How Many Of You Are In A Relationship Without Sex? Share Your Experience by Kdon2: 8:08pm On Sep 22, 2016

ireneony:
I doubt if there's anyone in a relationship without having sex.
i have never met a guy that doesn't want sex in a relationship.

This happened one time..a guy asked me out and i told him i only do relationships without sex.
he was very blunt. .he said" for this town ..for Nigeria. .this kind tin still de happen"
here i was thinking he's the kind of person that does believe in a "without sex relationships" because of his innocent face.

The only time i see or hear WTHOUT SEX RELATIONSHIP is online stories and how ladies turned down men that practice without relationship, I'm like wowwww. Sometimes I'm like how come i don't see this kind of men.

This brings me to my question, how many of you are strictly in a relationship without sex, and how do you cope with the temptations?

Share your experience! !!

No be small matter o abeg.

Re: How Many Of You Are In A Relationship Without Sex? Share Your Experience by aim14(f): 8:08pm On Sep 22, 2016

yes it still exists! just find sumone who loves God genuinely and u re there. I'm currently in one and we've been together for 1year n 9 months (21 months) now n I love him. the temptations arises or gets severe when you see each other too often.

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Re: How Many Of You Are In A Relationship Without Sex? Share Your Experience by jidxin(m): 8:08pm On Sep 22, 2016

erico2k2:
Quick question, did you marry her?

quick answr NOPE

Re: How Many Of You Are In A Relationship Without Sex? Share Your Experience by leej(m): 8:09pm On Sep 22, 2016

AnonyNymous:
I am not in a 'no-sex' relationship . . .
I am in no relationship
Since forever

I can hook you up..But be ready for mad sex.

Re: How Many Of You Are In A Relationship Without Sex? Share Your Experience by peeparty(m): 8:10pm On Sep 22, 2016

yazz09:
presently am into one without sex though we've just started dating for 3 months now. But we've not had sex, yes the temptation is there but God has been helping us and most importantly we came to agreement that it won't be involved.

Sometimes sha I do think if she really love me for not giving me sex but in another instance her action shows me she does love me

May God continue to help you.,try as much as possible to avoid situations that can lead to that. I know it won't be easy but his grace is sufficient. Then plan towards doing the the needful on time.

Re: How Many Of You Are In A Relationship Without Sex? Share Your Experience by Ini9(m): 8:12pm On Sep 22, 2016

ireneony:
why

No good reason though.

Re: How Many Of You Are In A Relationship Without Sex? Share Your Experience by encryptjay(m): 8:13pm On Sep 22, 2016

Sex in a relationship is overhyped, we all know such relationships usually end.
A lady opens her legs like rumours, the manipulative guy does his thing, after few Weeks/months, a new catch becomes the next thing on their mind .

Guys will always be guys but ladies keep falling everyday.

I'll always respect ladies who refuse to use sex as basis for relationship.

The world is obsessed with such stuff which is not really good.

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Re: How Many Of You Are In A Relationship Without Sex? Share Your Experience by nonjebose(m): 8:13pm On Sep 22, 2016

ireneony:
your type are hard to come by.. ..keep it up!

It comes with some challenges, though. Don't see how love should be attached to love making

Re: How Many Of You Are In A Relationship Without Sex? Share Your Experience by nkwachiabel(m): 8:13pm On Sep 22, 2016

Tripleoluwa:
A friend of mine is in a platonic relationship with a guy.

What both of them do according to my friend is: she shave her somtin very clean. Then after d touching touching, she lie on her stomach on d bed, while d bobo will lie on her back with his well lubricated JT, guide it in between her thigh-gap, directly on the surface of her somtin.

So both will be rocking rhythmically like snake. L☺º°˚нåнåнå˚°º☺L.

LMAO!!!!! Can't stop laughing. Konji go kill that nigga big tym. Might end up mas***bating sef.

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Re: How Many Of You Are In A Relationship Without Sex? Share Your Experience by samuelUMOH(m): 8:14pm On Sep 22, 2016

You must define the relationship you are going to .many ladies from the onset knew the relationship won't work but because of money and greed they stay put and after 3 years of wastage ,the guy pull out then they cry " he broke my heart " Likewise guys when you meet a lady and you know that it won't work no point wasting her time

Re: How Many Of You Are In A Relationship Without Sex? Share Your Experience by GdexFolami(m): 8:14pm On Sep 22, 2016

telemapreye1:
I'm currently dating without sex and my Bf accepted my decision..infacr we are getting married this year

its better u're a virgin oh cus if u r not,the guy go feel smhw o.it sounds smhw sf

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Re: How Many Of You Are In A Relationship Without Sex? Share Your Experience by Kgdavid(m): 8:14pm On Sep 22, 2016

ireneony:
I doubt if there's anyone in a relationship without having sex.
i have never met a guy that doesn't want sex in a relationship.

This happened one time..a guy asked me out and i told him i only do relationships without sex.
he was very blunt. .he said" for this town ..for Nigeria. .this kind tin still de happen"
here i was thinking he's the kind of person that does believe in a "without sex relationships" because of his innocent face.

The only time i see or hear WTHOUT SEX RELATIONSHIP is online stories and how ladies turned down men that practice without relationship, I'm like wowwww. Sometimes I'm like how come i don't see this kind of men.

This brings me to my question, how many of you are strictly in a relationship without sex, and how do you cope with the temptations?

Share your experience! !!

All my relationships have been without sex and with my last proper girlfriend, we dated for about 6 months without even so much as kissing because she wanted it that way, and we intended to head for marriage.

It was not easy because i wanted the intimacy of at least being able to kiss my girlfriend whom i loved madly, but i understood and agreed with her reasons for holding it off, and i could bear it because of what we were looking forward to.

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Re: How Many Of You Are In A Relationship Without Sex? Share Your Experience by xtervaganza(m): 8:15pm On Sep 22, 2016

I'm only on this thread to see guys falling our hands

And to see the foolish guys spending on the girls we fxck for free

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Re: How Many Of You Are In A Relationship Without Sex? Share Your Experience by Nathanieloo7(m): 8:15pm On Sep 22, 2016

Never o dnt do DAT make another guy d bleep am 4 me #I go test waiting I won buy abeg grin

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Re: How Many Of You Are In A Relationship Without Sex? Share Your Experience by Taryur3(m): 8:15pm On Sep 22, 2016

yazz09:
presently am into one without sex though we've just started dating for 3 months now. But we've not had sex, yes the temptation is there but God has been helping us and most importantly we came to agreement that it won't be involved.

Sometimes sha I do think if she really love me for not giving me sex but in another instance her action shows me she does love me

Am not surprised,we are in change era,but if she is demanding for money evrytime and u keep giving... Just know say some of her friend see u as a maga.

Re: How Many Of You Are In A Relationship Without Sex? Share Your Experience by Aiholi(m): 8:16pm On Sep 22, 2016

ireneony:
good to know. You're among the 2% of men that doesn't involve sex in a relationship.
Can you please tell us. What are those things you put in line not to come near the temptation of sex. for example, do you do more of indoor meetings or outdoors?

Y 2%? U don't think dey are oda chaste guys like him out dere?

Re: How Many Of You Are In A Relationship Without Sex? Share Your Experience by aikeron: 8:16pm On Sep 22, 2016

It's been three years now. From a playboy to a disciplined homosapien. Sometimes I wonder how i'v been able to do this. Young Geezy's joystick has grown fallow.
Main disadvantage is that it exposes you to a lot of "opportunistic" temptations.

Re: How Many Of You Are In A Relationship Without Sex? Share Your Experience by ejembi28(m): 8:16pm On Sep 22, 2016

firstking01:
Nope, to invert the question, how many girls can be in a relationship with a guy without asking for money, because most times that's where most guys get the inspiration to demand for sex since that's what "most" of you girls have to offer@ ireneony

thks my brother,for that nice question that is begging for an answers
Pls OP JAMB questions don come

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Re: How Many Of You Are In A Relationship Without Sex? Share Your Experience by xtervaganza(m): 8:17pm On Sep 22, 2016

On a more serious note, why would a sane guy be in a relationship without sex? He de mad?

If you ever see me in a relationship without sex just know I've been cloned

Not in this life or the next

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Re: How Many Of You Are In A Relationship Without Sex? Share Your Experience by menxer: 8:18pm On Sep 22, 2016

ireneony:
good to know.
You're among the 2% of men that doesn't involve sex in a relationship.

Can you please tell us.
What are those things you put in line not to come near the temptation of sex.
for example, do you do more of indoor meetings or outdoors?

That 2% are the impotent minority.

Sex is a need for the mature individual, why put oneself in emotional bondage of any kind? That I date a lady and she decides not to have sex with me, does not mean I should deprive myself also.

No sex relationship if not willingly consented to by both parties is a sham.

Let's not get spiritual about this, I for one believe sex should be enjoyed, like every other bodily need, with a clear conscience, and consentual.

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Re: How Many Of You Are In A Relationship Without Sex? Share Your Experience by ireneony(f): 8:18pm On Sep 22, 2016

Aiholi:

Y 2%? U don't think dey are oda chaste guys like him out dere?

from my research due to my environment i think 2% is fair enough.

Re: How Many Of You Are In A Relationship Without Sex? Share Your Experience by MrHighSea: 8:20pm On Sep 22, 2016

herbie27:
Had one for 5 months, i decided to try the "No sex b4 marriage thing" since he came for marriage and it wasn't easy but had to device means to maintain my stand,
He came up on our 5th month with stories like his co-worker was asking him to sleep with her, dude was a banker.
Payed him a visit like 4 times and made him realise from home that he mustn't come near me while i'm in his house. and it worked, he was transfered to Calabar and we suddenly stopped communicating when he moved.

Calabar? Dt town, chai. Pls dnt blame d guy much

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Re: How Many Of You Are In A Relationship Without Sex? Share Your Experience by 3kay945(m): 8:20pm On Sep 22, 2016

SlaughterGang:
I was in a relationship without sex

It ended when she told me "No sex"

Re: How Many Of You Are In A Relationship Without Sex? Share Your Experience by youngest85(m): 8:21pm On Sep 22, 2016

Meeloreh:
Well, it's still available. Yes, here in Nigeria. It's about finding the right person that geniuly loves you and has a future. If he has the fear of God n he wants a future with you, it's all good. The phrase "everyone is doing it" shouldn't make u do it cuz that phrase isn't 100% correct. Stand out sis

Re: How Many Of You Are In A Relationship Without Sex? Share Your Experience by lanreni: 8:21pm On Sep 22, 2016

ireneony:
I doubt if there's anyone in a relationship without having sex.
i have never met a guy that doesn't want sex in a relationship.

This happened one time..a guy asked me out and i told him i only do relationships without sex.
he was very blunt. .he said" for this town ..for Nigeria. .this kind tin still de happen"
here i was thinking he's the kind of person that does believe in a "without sex relationships" because of his innocent face.

The only time i see or hear WTHOUT SEX RELATIONSHIP is online stories and how ladies turned down men that practice without relationship, I'm like wowwww. Sometimes I'm like how come i don't see this kind of men.

This brings me to my question, how many of you are strictly in a relationship without sex, and how do you cope with the temptations?

Share your experience! !!

so OP, indirectly, you are saying you are in a relationship that has a lot of sex and its just because the guy likes it that way, and you compromise because of a dillusionary feeling that he is mr right?

Re: How Many Of You Are In A Relationship Without Sex? Share Your Experience by youngest85(m): 8:21pm On Sep 22, 2016

Meeloreh:
Well, it's still available. Yes, here in Nigeria. It's about finding the right person that geniuly loves you and has a future. If he has the fear of God n he wants a future with you, it's all good. The phrase "everyone is doing it" shouldn't make u do it cuz that phrase isn't 100% correct. Stand out sis

Kp on decieving ursef

Re: How Many Of You Are In A Relationship Without Sex? Share Your Experience by niqqaclaimz(m): 8:21pm On Sep 22, 2016

Jarizod:

Wow..am happy for y'all

Be smart tho..some random brother out there might be giving her the konnddo on a daily..

lol...dis niqqa...buh wat u said is fact...does happen bt cud nt be dis gys case...No worsen im case nah baba...

Re: How Many Of You Are In A Relationship Without Sex? Share Your Experience by Tamakay(m): 8:21pm On Sep 22, 2016

ireneony:
I doubt if there's anyone in a relationship without having sex.
i have never met a guy that doesn't want sex in a relationship.

This happened one time..a guy asked me out and i told him i only do relationships without sex.
he was very blunt. .he said" for this town ..for Nigeria. .this kind tin still de happen"
here i was thinking he's the kind of person that does believe in a "without sex relationships" because of his innocent face.

The only time i see or hear WTHOUT SEX RELATIONSHIP is online stories and how ladies turned down men that practice without relationship, I'm like wowwww. Sometimes I'm like how come i don't see this kind of men.

This brings me to my question, how many of you are strictly in a relationship without sex, and how do you cope with the temptations?

Share your experience! !!

I nor even bother to read to the end but was just thinking" this kain love pattern still dey exist".

Re: How Many Of You Are In A Relationship Without Sex? Share Your Experience by Maski87: 8:21pm On Sep 22, 2016

Love without sex is like tea without sugar

Re: How Many Of You Are In A Relationship Without Sex? Share Your Experience by ashala(m): 8:21pm On Sep 22, 2016

Meeloreh:
Well, it's still available. Yes, here in Nigeria. It's about finding the right person that geniuly loves you and has a future. If he has the fear of God n he wants a future with you, it's all good. The phrase "everyone is doing it" shouldn't make u do it cuz that phrase isn't 100% correct. Stand out sis

Relationship wirout sex okwa ya?. Then when you and the guy eventually marries,you will discover that the Homeboy has a pinchomik penis (pint sized 2 inches) or might even be gay or even worse be a one minute man like indomie. Then you go begin wonder grin

Re: How Many Of You Are In A Relationship Without Sex? Share Your Experience by Nobody: 8:22pm On Sep 22, 2016

Very possible specially when you meet a virgin you wanna marry or the girl also agrees on relationship without monetary demands.
Seriously if the girl insists on no sex and you fell helplessly in love with her like is usual with me, you do just be spending equally helplessly on her like the Zombie i had been while she merely appreciates your efforts with pats on the back or hugs.

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