here to read lies

I would rather be single than be in a relationship of no sex,that is punishment na,why do I have to salivate and can't have it even when it's right there in front of me, better To be single with no wahala, and if a guy says no sex till marriage, he better make the wedding preparations fast

I did it for 2 good years one time like that. But i'm very sure y'all don't wanna hear the story.

firstking01:
Nope, to invert the question, how many girls can be in a relationship with a guy without asking for money, because most times that's where most guys get the inspiration to demand for sex since that's what "most" of you girls have to offer@ ireneony

Your mentality needs resetting.
Has it ever occurred to you that, there are ladies who are the ones spending for the guys? there are girls who shoulder their guys' financial responsibilities. there are girls who never ask for any financial favour from their men, they only accepts whatever he offers on his own. funny and shameful enough is that the number of guys who depends on a lady for financial is on the increase.

JeffreyJames:



Na this talk dey annoy me lol

The fact he's not having sex with her doesn't mean she's getting it somewhere else... Not every girl is a slut biko.

thanks for this....

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do people still believe in dis no sex thingy.having no sex till marriage doesn't mean dat both parties will eventaully get married.infact sex helps to further strengthen d relationship but it should be limited.

firstking01:
Nope, to invert the question, how many girls can be in a relationship with a guy without asking for money, because most times that's where most guys get the inspiration to demand for sex since that's what "most" of you girls have to offer@ ireneony

U've said it all

ILoveLight:


Your mentality needs resetting.
Has it ever occurred to you that, there are ladies who are the ones spending for the guys? there are girls who shoulder their guys' financial responsibilities. there are girls who never ask for any financial favour from their men, they only accepts whatever he offers on his own. funny and shameful enough is that the number of guys who depends on a lady for financial is on the increase.

God bless u real good

2dugged:
I would rather be single than be in a relationship of no sex,that is punishment na,why do I have to salivate and can't have it even when it's right there in front of me, better To be single with no wahala, and if a guy says no sex till marriage, he better make the wedding preparations fast

I love ya sincerity

this is my fifth year of dating and we have not had sex.
i promised God and her that until i get married to her then i will enjoy sex.

If any guy know say na relationship with no sex he dey with him girl make he quick go check wetin him girl take save him name un top her phone. Na either Magga, mumudini, muntula, Dejo and so on. U go come back come tank me say I do u good.

Seriously, the nonsense I'm reading on this thread is really getting me angry .




Never knew mumu guys full this country like this

telemapreye1:
That guy is dumb
Ignore him

Uhmmmm, DUMB u say.
How do u discuss a problem without sorting the root.
So you can get to B without A or C without B.
Trust me, the fact that ladies request for this and that makes it a norm for guys to demand for sex or should i say sex is like his right since he is providing her immediate needs(jus saying though).
Put it this way, if a lady isn't seeing the guy as a 'provider' or should i say 'maga' of money or other material tins then the guy won't even have the nerve to ask for sex talkless of romance.

Now back to your question, it's rare(i mean v.rare). Even some suppose Godly relationship still tow the path of sex before marriage.

yorhmienerd:
I love ya sincerity

well I know many people here are lying sha, no need to say what I cannot do

Different strokes for different folks. Sex is a natural thing, it shouldn't be demonized. Say No to sex-less relationships!

Big lie.... SOMEBODY DOES IT..... I'm in a relationship for over 5years now and nothing of such. Even my 1st lasted 4years plus and no strings attached in that regard.

NairalandEFCC1:
big lie, nobody does it

jerry447:
our wedding is in 3mnth time

Wow! That's great. You are getting married to your friend and that's something to be proud of.

Many peeps indulge and still get married thereafter,.

My first love was a virgin and i dated her for two years. That was the only time i knew Love is real



I was in my final year then and i was a cassanova but when i met her i succumbed to Love.


Today she is married and I'm not but I don't regret it.



I ll always love her deep in my heart

2dugged:
well I know many people here are lying sha, no need to say what I cannot do

What benefit has that sexbgiven you?




Don't be the Town hole biko

ILoveLight:


Your mentality needs resetting.
Has it ever occurred to you that, there are ladies who are the ones spending for the guys? there are girls who shoulder their guys' financial responsibilities. there are girls who never ask for any financial favour from their men, they only accepts whatever he offers on his own. funny and shameful enough is that the number of guys who depends on a lady for financial is on the increase.

If u talking about Sugar Mommies, then ur statistics is correct but if it's what am thinking then u are a goner.

Sincere4u:
Very possible specially when you meet a virgin you wanna marry or the girl also agrees on relationship without monetary demands.
Seriously if the girl insists on no sex and you fell helplessly in love with her like is usual with me, you do just be spending equally helplessly on her like the Zombie i had been while she merely appreciates your efforts with pats on the back or hugs.

How you go take know say the girl na virgin

Jolonjolo:


Then someone must be bleeping the latter for you too. Law of Karma

and the former is a saint because I agreed to her no sex relationship ?

Bujumbura:
What benefit has that sexbgiven you?




Don't be the Town hole biko

be civil for once, so being sexually active makes one a town hole? I bet you meant whor3?,well if being sexually active in a serious relationship makes one a town whor3, then that makes your mother one too

semasir:
Big lie.... SOMEBODY DOES IT..... I'm in a relationship for over 5years now and nothing of such. Even my 1st lasted 4years plus and no strings attached in that regard.

Are you trying to say konji no dey do you.

You need to go check your body for hospital.

ireneony:
I doubt if there's anyone in a relationship without having sex.
i have never met a guy that doesn't want sex in a relationship.

This happened one time..a guy asked me out and i told him i only do relationships without sex.
he was very blunt. .he said" for this town ..for Nigeria. .this kind tin still de happen"
here i was thinking he's the kind of person that does believe in a "without sex relationships" because of his innocent face.

The only time i see or hear WTHOUT SEX RELATIONSHIP is online stories and how ladies turned down men that practice without relationship, I'm like wowwww. Sometimes I'm like how come i don't see this kind of men.

This brings me to my question, how many of you are strictly in a relationship without sex, and how do you cope with the temptations?

Share your experience! !!

Am in one already.

I was I a relationship

Nothing disgusts me more than "celibacy"


For goodness sakes if it's already broken then why hoard it?
The only bases for a no sex relationship is virginity. Anything outside that is sheer stùpidity!

EgusiSoup:


When I ban you now, You will complain.

You just broke a rule.

Please Nairalanders should help we Mods do our Job

ban him

NairalandEFCC1:
big lie, nobody does it

you're wrong. I've been dating my girlfriend for two years and we've not had sex.

I was in a two years six months relationship with my fiancy and we never had sex. So many people are into no sex relationships, you may not know its true because of the circle of friends you keep.

Throughout, the closest to sex was one day we kissed and honestly we felt so bad about it. We have been married now for some years and we are blessed with a great marriage.

Sex isn't Love and Love is not sex.

There is no normal guy that cannot be tempted. If you don't want to do it run for your life while quoting scriptures!

ireneony:
I doubt if there's anyone in a relationship without having sex.
i have never met a guy that doesn't want sex in a relationship.

This happened one time..a guy asked me out and i told him i only do relationships without sex.
he was very blunt. .he said" for this town ..for Nigeria. .this kind tin still de happen"
here i was thinking he's the kind of person that does believe in a "without sex relationships" because of his innocent face.

The only time i see or hear WTHOUT SEX RELATIONSHIP is online stories and how ladies turned down men that practice without relationship, I'm like wowwww. Sometimes I'm like how come i don't see this kind of men.

This brings me to my question, how many of you are strictly in a relationship without sex, and how do you cope with the temptations?

Share your experience! !!

Am in one already.

I was In a relationship where I had sex almost every day for 3 years.

So when I found this new g, she was like "no sex" n am like let me take it as a sex urge control n b4 I knew it am out of sex for 1nhalf years now.

it's actually quite easy, it has to do with HOME TRAINING, my parents raised me to belive dat sex b4 marriage is bad, evil & demonic plus I never had access to d internet till I was like 15 yrs. We always watch TV with my parents...guess what's d best channel CNN,BBC oh yeah Disney & cartoon network for my little siblings..
when watching a movie, sex scenes are skipped like sharp sharp.

What am trying to say is relationships aren't all about sex, if u truly love each other then I see no reason why you can't wait to get married & have ur first time 2geda.

But hey am just d guy who just loves to play vidoe games. finds pre-marital sex disgusting cause there is no gurantee the girl/guy will marry you...so why expose ur body?

I call anybody who has sex casually a cheap hooker/slut. Besides u don't even get paid