telemapreye1:
You are not smart

you see, guilty conscience

Anyway I understand

This thread reeks of sheer hypocrisy.... So na only guys dey disturb ladies for sex while ladies are sexually I active and? Make una continue


Nice one Ireneony

yazz09:


Its possible. my eyes are wide open on that.

a beg !! if I hear. ...do you expect her to tell you all her secrets or when she's going to see another guy

you can't be smarter than a woman

JeffreyJames:


Yes I know some girls are capable but every girl is innocent until proven guilty... Same applies to guys too.

Some girls even feel something must be wrong with you if you tell them you want a "no-sex" relationship.

some tell you NO SEX
you need to see what they do in secret.

ex babe told me NO SEX, SHE IS BORN AGAIN but if you see her m@sturbating you will think she is possesed. you will know she has been doing it for a very long time to support her pretentious life. #pretenderseverywhere

ireneony:
I doubt if there's anyone in a relationship without having sex.
i have never met a guy that doesn't want sex in a relationship.

This happened one time..a guy asked me out and i told him i only do relationships without sex.
he was very blunt. .he said" for this town ..for Nigeria. .this kind tin still de happen"
here i was thinking he's the kind of person that does believe in a "without sex relationships" because of his innocent face.

The only time i see or hear WTHOUT SEX RELATIONSHIP is online stories and how ladies turned down men that practice without relationship, I'm like wowwww. Sometimes I'm like how come i don't see this kind of men.

This brings me to my question, how many of you are strictly in a relationship without sex, and how do you cope with the temptations?

Share your experience! !!

Ọmọ! It is not easy on. To be honest.

uairaland:


some tell you NO SEX
you need to see what they do in secret.

ex babe told me NO SEX, SHE IS BORN AGAIN but if you see her m@sturbating you will think she is possesed. you will know she has been doing it for a very long time to support her pretentious life. #pretenderseverywhere

Hahahaa! I wouldn't be surprised sha. This could be very very possible.

Check My signature

Interesting thread you got going here.

Well, I am into a relationship with out SEX,, it pains much anyway. But with God, it I do overcome it.. Secondly it is all about my SEX discipline.. If u have SEX discipline when the feelings comes, u can over it.. Though most times mine own arises,, I am offshore, so when I come to ashore, only a peck to her,, am ok

Check that guy. He is blowing a neighbor.

aim14:
yes it still exists! just find sumone who loves God genuinely and u re there. I'm currently in one and we've been together for 1year n 9 months (21 months) now n I love him. the temptations arises or gets severe when you see each other too often.

JeffreyJames:



Na this talk dey annoy me lol

The fact he's not having sex with her doesn't mean she's getting it somewhere else... Not every girl is a slut biko.

Yes along the line, she might have a rethink but due to the fact that the relationship platform was built on no sex relationship, she will not have the got to ask for it, rather she will fall carelessly to one guy man by the corner for just sex and no relationship. #badguysexist

babasolo:
Its Been Fun. Started Our Relationship 2014 November, Kissed Her For The First Time On Sunday 18 September 2016.

Hey see breakthrough happy for you

JeffreyJames:



Na this talk dey annoy me lol

The fact he's not having sex with her doesn't mean she's getting it somewhere else... Not every girl is a slut biko.

Thank you

HMMMMM HMMMMM

ireneony:
good to know.
You're among the 2% of men that doesn't involve sex in a relationship.

Can you please tell us.
What are those things you put in line not to come near the temptation of sex.
for example, do you do more of indoor meetings or outdoors?

The statistics is far much higher than you have quoted. Not everyone is doing it. It all depend on the cycle of people you fraternize with.

There exist only one reason for a person not to justify premarital sex and that is the God factor.

If you care about not sinning against God, you have the most potent weapon. Apart from these, except its just a choice you decide to make.

Most of my friends male/female were virgins until there wedding. I courted my wife for two years six months and it never happened once. Both of us were virgins.

Hate Sin, flee from immortality QED

erico2k2:

Can I ask a question, what of after 2 years of No sex dating then you got married and on the D day he could not get it up and you went to teh Doc and it was confirmed he has erectile dis function and its permanent, waht would you do??

Can't you see that that is a satanic lie!
Statistically speaking, how many marriages do you know where the man can not do?

Eunuchs will most likely not attempt a marriage relationship.

CandyDiamond:
What is the gain of someone in no sex relationship but having sex with someone else, [/b]is it not highest form of self deceit[b].Most people in no sex relationship have sex with another person else including one night stand for girls and visiting ashawo houses for men.

No, that is NOT true.

Laveda:


Sure?

so you are doubting? I know fit laugh.

I will like to encourage as many young men and ladies who have decided on a no-sex relationship. Trust me, I've been there at least for 2 1/2 years before I got married.

It is worth it at the end of the day. When you finally get married you will discover that the most promiscuous girl (except commercial prostitutes) can NOT match your frequency of sexual intimacy. Just imagine, 3x4x12 times on the average per year for the next 30-40 years of your marriage life (at a modest average of thrice a week). kai!

You will also discover that though sex is important and beautiful, it doesn't define marriage success.

If you can't keep yourself before marriage what is the guarantee that you can prevent adultery if a "suitable opportunity" presents itself.

The foundation of TRUST, LOVE and RESPECT for each other bus what you should build in your premarital relationships.

One thing helps though:
Why go into an intimate relationship before you are ready for marriage? What are you practising in the dating game?

Why not just be friends in your relationships when you are not yet ready for marriage.

Above all, Fear God
Hate Sin
All things are possible to them who believe.

Stay blessed, Stay chaste.
You are not a minority! There are many like you, don't fall for "everyone is doing it" slogan. Its a lie!

If you want to stop having sex...get married; speaking from experience, I've done without for over 1yr now.

I was in courtship with my wife for 5 years and it was a no Sex relationship.
I stood by her decision.
So it's very possible. Sex is not everything!

stalinho:
am in one already.. it's one year now.. it's still doesn't disturb me.. she says she wants a relationship without sex.. I accept cause I love her.. yes no sex.. with her..
but that doesn't mean I will starve of sex. till when she's ready.. no..
I get it anytime I like.. from any one around( not from hawkers equally).. it's cheap afterall..
I truly love her.. in fact.. even ready to marry her..
but meeehn ... sex starvation is dangerous.. it's has a physiological effect.. especially on those of us that have tested it already..

better for virgins than we.

The same way your girlfriend will be quenching her own konji with anyone around her,you guys are deceiving yourselves, your girlfriend is having one night stand here and there and you are visiting ashawo houses here and there,what a life

ireneony:
i want but I've never seen a man to agree to my terms.

4years i met this guy..thou we have know each other for long. .he told me he was a virgin ..i was like cool. The relationship was a distance relationship. Sometimes i boast to my friends the guy is a virgin.
Sometimes wen we chat, he wil say some very raw things. .i begin to wonder what kind of a virgin is this.
so one day i asked him if truly he's a virgin..he told me that he lost his virginity at the age of 12 to a older lady..but ever since he had not have sex..

To cut everything cut. ..the guy began to demand for sex ooo.
i had no option than quit.

You see i was happy i found a responsible person.
i never for one day ask him money or gift..but at the end of the day ..the relationship was based on lies and deceit.

I have had a couple of no sex relationship but the problem I had with them was they bring nothing to the table but make demands. One even had to go fork another guy. I am willing to offer you same BUT you should be willing to bring something to the table. Besides, sex is not the ultimate. What are you willing to give if I agree to your no sex relationship?

It's not only not asking him for money, money, goes beyond that.

Things that can make me go crazy is hardworking lady, motivator, one trying new ideas, especially If she is business minded, excellent home management skills.

So what do you say ma'am? You can doubt or fear, turn me down though or be bold (which I believe you are) take my words for it but I am being serious and mean my words.

ireneony:
I've learnt alot today...
truly there are decent people in Nigeria despite the corruption and hardship.

This thread really mean alot to me.
Thanks to everyone that contribute positively to this thread and also to the mod that pushed it to FP.

Goodnight!

me too I decent...but I sabi find trouble that's all...

There are decent people..

But I ask one simple question.: can they consistently be decent after marriage especially with money...



Wahala too mush...

CandyDiamond:

The same way your girlfriend will be quenching her own konji with anyone around her,you guys are deceiving yourselves, your girlfriend is having one night stand here and there and you are visiting ashawo houses here and there,what a life

how would she give those terms and still be having one night stands here and there..let her come out clear...it's no sex no sex...

yes i have been in a relations for so many years without sex.Gal:5:16 narrates fruits of the holy spirit and one of them is self control .

My opinion!. Trust me der re people in such relationship. Now people engage in such arrangement maybe cus dey re born again in christ and some, to prove 2 one another that dey hv such control over sex and can wait while they get to knw themsevs better. Now the question is how true are dey to dis arrangement or rather commitment, cus I for one knw people dat still get pounded or get satisfied from another guy or lady. Cheers!

I am also dating one of the most beautiful girls in the world without sex and the most important thing is that I am very happy in the relationship. Though we are just 2 months old, we are pushing on every single day. We reached that agreement and I have tried to eliminate all forms of temptation that may lead to such. I really do hope to spend the rest of my days with her.

JeffreyJames:



Na this talk dey annoy me lol

The fact he's not having sex with her doesn't mean she's getting it somewhere else... Not every girl is a slut biko.

Mine is that, the girl should be a confirmed virgin and I must have the intentions to marry her. In that way, it would be fair and purposeful. I am proud of my girl. Virgin, intelligent, pretty and Godfearing. I can't myself lucky having her. Sex can wait till marriage.

At first I thought it won't be possible but this October will mark our two years without s*x. She was able to convince me and I love her.

yazz09:
presently am into one without sex though we've just started dating for 3 months now. But we've not had sex, yes the temptation is there but God has been helping us and most importantly we came to agreement that it won't be involved.

Sometimes sha I do think if she really love me for not giving me sex but in another instance her action shows me she does love me

You're on your own

telemapreye1:
I'm currently dating without sex and my Bf accepted my decision..infacr we are getting married this year

you're giving it another guy...