Ekeseges:
Thanks for the post my sister.dont mind all these holier than thou nairalanders as if they are perfect beings.

Ekeseges:
boys and sponsoring of abortion be like bread and akara.

sexymoma:
My sister move on
E don hapin, E don hapin
you can't change the fact that it has happened


We Open Up....Gbege
We Nor Open Up.... Gbege
My sister u don do your own restitution be dat ooo

CAPSLOCKED:





WHAT HAPPENED TO FORGIVENESS, TOLERANCE..... LOVE?

AT LEAST SHE'S HONEST ENOUGH TO ADMIT SHE MESSED UP. SO YOU'LL PREFER SHE DON'T TELL YOU ABOUT IT AND THEN GO AHEAD WITH THE MARRIAGE?
MOST LADIES TODAY ARE SERPENTS, THEY NEVER COME OUT PLAIN. ALL TERRIBLE DECEIVERS.

IF I FIND A LADY LIKE THAT I'LL KEEP HER, AND TRUST HER.

Ekeseges:
Stupid question you ask.

Chibuhealth:
why did you tell him? Seeee, nothing like love n trust in marriage for some men, they wil use it against u. Be wise

sinceraconcept:
you don have enough abortion too abi? Later you'd start blaming ritualists for killing people,meanwhile there is no killiong of human being than abortion

ItsQuinn:
Now you've learnt your lesson, next time you would keep your mouth shut ....just move on abeg, you spoilt what you had by yourself

HardMirror:

Just shut it up there. I have dated 2 single mothers in the past before. And I absolutely loved them.
This is not a holier than thou issue. Did you expect the guy to accept her to prove he is not holier than thou?
If you also go about getting pregnant and aborting to prove you are not holier than thou, then continue, your nemesis will catch up with you. Abortion is murder. I can not marry such a lady. she has no excuse. I hope she commits suicide afterall killing a child was not a problem for her

fullofregrets:
I am full of regrets and I feel so suicidal right now , I am really depressed

ItsQuinn:
Now you've learnt your lesson, next time you would keep your mouth shut ....just move on abeg, you spoilt what you had by yourself

fullofregrets:
I am full of regrets and I feel so suicidal right now , I am really depressed

sinceraconcept:
is it that painful?

Laveda:


Lol what man of God?

See some men are very bad at handling truth, I still feel she shouldn't have..
Its in the past, better left there.

bloomstar:


Move on till when? Do you know what it means to be barren? She should mellow down... Pray to God. Get medications. If she confirms medical that she can conceive.
Then she can move on happily hoping that another man will come

Ekeseges:
boys and sponsoring of abortion be like bread and akara.

Laveda:


Yup, seriously!

rebella:
@fullofregrets , you had an abortion the deed has been done. Personally I think instead of crying, you should thank God for making you avoid a fair weather husband, that is someone that will only be good to you when the going is good. That man didn't love you. When a man starts saying you should get pregnant first before the marriage can hold, that's a warning sign.

I know you probably miss him a lot, but remember a broken relationship is better than a broken home.

chudez0147:
how's my question stupid? You dey mad. She should marry the guy she aborted for. Abi the guy don die ni? Otherwise, she should carry her cross and not force it on some innocent guy. Am beginning to suspect you too.

HardMirror:

I am sure you have been sponsored so many times. Well done

dahmie2013:

Na wa o! How can u bring urself 2 dis? Feeling suicidal over a man! But y did he insist u get pregnant b4 d marriage? He probably suspected all along. Nywys, sumthings had better remain un-said. Also, why didn't u tell him 4rm d word go.
It is well dear. Move on!

CSTR2:
Calm my nerves? You must really be deluded if you think i care about some online opinion.
When did the husband became the ''world''? It is like a man having a child with someone else and then hiding the fact from the wife before marriage. Anyway, that is your business. Even the comparism you used in your analogy is laughable and you know it.
Anybody that follows your advise is on her own. We all face the consequences of our actions anyway.

chudez0147:
you are mading for calling my important question stupid. Birds of the same feather

danbrowndmf:
you say man of God? Yea i'm a christian and i believe there are still great men of God with deep word of wisdom. anyman who can't handle your past is not for you. Any woman who also can't tell the truth about her past to her man is nt for the man. Vice Versa. I will marry a prostitute as long as she is no more there..life is not that hard abeg.

VikingsOO7:

its a free world. No need exchanging childish tantrums online.
Nice day.

ItsQuinn:
Now you've learnt your lesson, next time you would keep your mouth shut ....just move on abeg, you spoilt what you had by yourself

Funjosh:





That is it. If the guy open his own mouth about his past May the ladyfor don find her square roots tey tey.




But on the other side their are somethings we just have to bottled up as long as we no it will jeopardize our happiness its better they are left not said at all.

JerryTemi:
My Dear hear me no man born of a woman that exist in this planet earth have the right to judge you expect God in Heaven,according to the word of God which says "let him without sin throw the stone" let that guy that made himself judge against you come out and say I am without sin. The said all sins are equal before the eyes of Jehovah. OK assume you take in now and you two settle down and after marriage you had miscarriage what will then happen? I am a sinner and I always pray for His mercies which I believe endureth forever.

HardMirror:

So we shld keep blaming the guy abi? The guy says he does not want her anymore, she shld fvck off already. Is it by force?
Making it look like they guy is guilty here is what I hate. She is no hero and shld not be treated like one.
Why are folks patting her back here?

HardMirror:

Just shut it up there. I have dated 2 single mothers in the past before. And I absolutely loved them.
This is not a holier than thou issue. Did you expect the guy to accept her to prove he is not holier than thou?
If you also go about getting pregnant and aborting to prove you are not holier than thou, then continue, your nemesis will catch up with you. Abortion is murder. I can not marry such a lady. she has no excuse. I hope she commits suicide afterall killing a child was not a problem for her

To even show how useless she is, she is even ready to get pregnant for this dude again showing she never learns. Imagine the guy later asks her to abort too, that is how she will abort for the second time again.
Una no dey use una common sense at all