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Should I Give My Man Money? by mamagee3(f): 8:20am On Oct 03, 2016 |
Hi all, my BF is in a really bad shape. He lost his job and needs money. While he was with me, he met another girl who has been giving him money and buying him gifts and everything. She has been doing more for him than I have ever done for him. And he's beginning to fall for her. So should I help him out by giving him some money. I don't like to give people money especially men because I believe they take advantage of it and then they begin to see you as their cash cow. But I'm beginning to think twice about it especially after he told me about the things the new lady has done for him. Plus the new lady seems to be trying to rush him into marriage and everything even though he just met her. It looks like she's trying to buy him with her gifts and money. So what do you think I should do about this? |
Re: Should I Give My Man Money? by Rehil(f): 8:35am On Oct 03, 2016 |
sweetheart n u want to buy himif he is attracted to d other lady cos of material things then he is a male prostitute abeg. if u want to assist him do it cos u care n not cos u r competing with anoda gal to win him. for him telling u all these self think twice sister,he may not be d one for u.free him to go after d lady since he is for d highest bidder. 8 Likes |
Re: Should I Give My Man Money? by divinehand2003(m): 8:37am On Oct 03, 2016 |
Yes you can if you have it. |
Re: Should I Give My Man Money? by goodmorning40: 8:38am On Oct 03, 2016 |
So u want to do money competition on a man! Silly girl |
Re: Should I Give My Man Money? by mamagee3(f): 8:41am On Oct 03, 2016 |
divinehand2003: |
Re: Should I Give My Man Money? by sexy74(m): 8:45am On Oct 03, 2016 |
some questions I will like to ask you,
1) when he was working does he request money or things from you apart from sex?
2) is he the stingy type?
3) is he caring or just any type of guy?
4) is he wasteful?
5) when he was working does he give you money?
if you answer sincerely that will help you decide on what to do.
But most of all is he a loving person.? |
Re: Should I Give My Man Money? by pek(m): 8:45am On Oct 03, 2016 |
If the tables were turned, would you have expected him to help out if he had the means? 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Should I Give My Man Money? by sexy74(m): 8:48am On Oct 03, 2016 |
Rehil:Women will always be women when it comes to money issue. if it were to be the guy it will be normal to give Money and? Guys are ATM while women collect. Abeg change your mind set. 1 Like |
Re: Should I Give My Man Money? by sexy74(m): 8:49am On Oct 03, 2016 |
pek:My brother thank you for asking a good question.. |
Re: Should I Give My Man Money? by CaroLyner(f): 8:49am On Oct 03, 2016 |
Don't give him a dime he sounds like a male gold digger to me 8 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Should I Give My Man Money? by Davash222(m): 8:56am On Oct 03, 2016 |
mamagee3:But you like to ask people for money especially men, okwaya 1 Like |
Re: Should I Give My Man Money? by mamagee3(f): 8:56am On Oct 03, 2016 |
pek:Exactly. I thought the same thing. But I guess I may never know. |
Re: Should I Give My Man Money? by mamagee3(f): 8:59am On Oct 03, 2016 |
Davash222:I don't ask men for money. In fact, I don't ask anyone for money I learned to be independent from a very young age. Sorry!!! 1 Like |
Re: Should I Give My Man Money? by Davash222(m): 9:03am On Oct 03, 2016 |
mamagee3:Then you are not from this planet. Sorry!!! |
Re: Should I Give My Man Money? by Nobody: 9:14am On Oct 03, 2016 |
CaroLyner:Everything is not about gold digging. Did you read the part she said 'he lost his job'? 2 Likes |
Re: Should I Give My Man Money? by Rehil(f): 9:16am On Oct 03, 2016 |
sexy74:excuse me pls,I am a strong advocate of love involving giving.I spent on my man before marriage n in marriage.d school of thought that believe u can buy someone s affection with money is wat I am against.that is y I told her she can give him not to buy him neither compete.pls next time before quoting me out of context digest my write up. |
Re: Should I Give My Man Money? by mamagee3(f): 9:37am On Oct 03, 2016 |
Davash222:: |
Re: Should I Give My Man Money? by Kollyk11(m): 9:44am On Oct 03, 2016 |
@op .pls answer sexy74 questions.am really interested in the answers |
Re: Should I Give My Man Money? by Nobody: 9:46am On Oct 03, 2016 |
Ask him to start sellling cows in kano 1 Like |
Re: Should I Give My Man Money? by sexy74(m): 10:32am On Oct 03, 2016 |
Rehil: never quoted you out of context but gave my opinion. what I quoted was as you wrote it but my reply was my opinion on the issue. she should give to support not coming up with the idea that she does not want to buy him with money. to me that's a stingy persons way of thought. I asked her some questions let her answer then we can form an opinion from that. thanks. |
Re: Should I Give My Man Money? by pedrilo: 10:32am On Oct 03, 2016 |
u have shielded ur greed and selfishness in dis story. i am sure that bros spent enuf of his hard earned money on u b4 he lost his job, Now u r here seekin our permission b4 u can help him. just forget d talk abt d other woman cos i knw u r lyin. and even if there is anoda woman, i am sure u pushed him out wit ur greed which he found out after he lost his job (dis strange woman surfaced after ur bf lost his job and dat is as a result of ur greed) women! 2 Likes |
Re: Should I Give My Man Money? by dapsonlou(m): 11:07am On Oct 03, 2016 |
So you don't care that's he's cheating? He's cheating while broke, when money comes he will def marry a second wife. |
Re: Should I Give My Man Money? by mamagee3(f): 5:24pm On Oct 03, 2016 |
sexy74:When he was working, he would ask me for money but it was very rare. I don't know if he is stingy because I never ask him for money nor anything. On being wasteful, I don't know much about that. When he was working, he didn't give me money because he wasn't getting enough hours and probably didn't have extra change after bills. Yeah, he's a bit loving. |
Re: Should I Give My Man Money? by falconey(m): 5:26pm On Oct 03, 2016 |
mamagee3: did someone hack your account, you are being reasonable and it's freaking me out 1 Like |
Re: Should I Give My Man Money? by mamagee3(f): 5:32pm On Oct 03, 2016 |
falconey: |
Re: Should I Give My Man Money? by falconey(m): 5:56pm On Oct 03, 2016 |
mamagee3:dump his ass and come to papa |
Re: Should I Give My Man Money? by Nobody: 6:06pm On Oct 03, 2016 |
Re: Should I Give My Man Money? by mamagee3(f): 6:07pm On Oct 03, 2016 |
Re: Should I Give My Man Money? by Nobody: 6:07pm On Oct 03, 2016 |
mamagee3:what? |
Re: Should I Give My Man Money? by hisawesomeness(m): 6:16pm On Oct 03, 2016 |
How old are sef? That u can't receive sense. Ask dumb questions. Kai |
Re: Should I Give My Man Money? by Nobody: 6:19pm On Oct 03, 2016 |
hisawesomeness:Asking dumb questions* GST 121 2 Likes |
Re: Should I Give My Man Money? by Nobody: 6:25pm On Oct 03, 2016 |
bbmpin:boss no be everybody go sch na |
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