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Re: I Discovered My Wife Lied About Her Age After 3 Years Of Our Marriage. Help! by Goahead(m): 10:29pm On Oct 03, 2016 |
Re: I Discovered My Wife Lied About Her Age After 3 Years Of Our Marriage. Help! by freeman95(m): 10:31pm On Oct 03, 2016 |
send her packing |
Re: I Discovered My Wife Lied About Her Age After 3 Years Of Our Marriage. Help! by focus7: 10:32pm On Oct 03, 2016 |
The way you sounded is like you have been looking for a loophole to nail your wife as an excuse to have extra marital affair. |
Re: I Discovered My Wife Lied About Her Age After 3 Years Of Our Marriage. Help! by kurt09(m): 10:33pm On Oct 03, 2016 |
nickxtra:Restore her breast and her hole to its former state, then you can divorce her. Nonsense. 1 Like |
Re: I Discovered My Wife Lied About Her Age After 3 Years Of Our Marriage. Help! by otosa(m): 10:33pm On Oct 03, 2016 |
How old are you oko iyawo? |
Re: I Discovered My Wife Lied About Her Age After 3 Years Of Our Marriage. Help! by Donpressman(m): 10:34pm On Oct 03, 2016 |
dollyjoy:You reason from your anus. Why lie about your age? 6 years for that matter. Such a woman would stop at nothing to cover up things. Trust is lost and love went out with it. Bullshit 11 Likes |
Re: I Discovered My Wife Lied About Her Age After 3 Years Of Our Marriage. Help! by xmasgift: 10:34pm On Oct 03, 2016 |
Just 6 years and you're screaming. Bet this your mistress is older so why the fuss? You obviously like them "older" https://www.nairaland.com/3059271/saw-sperm-like-fluid-outside-va#44875634 2 Likes |
Re: I Discovered My Wife Lied About Her Age After 3 Years Of Our Marriage. Help! by WesBreezy: 10:35pm On Oct 03, 2016 |
So after this,what next? *sips coke* |
Re: I Discovered My Wife Lied About Her Age After 3 Years Of Our Marriage. Help! by madone: 10:35pm On Oct 03, 2016 |
my guy u better forgive and forget if u divore her now cos she lied abut herr. age.what if u see another who may end up lying about sex. some ladies aretransgender now ooo hold the one u re sure of oo. 1 Like |
Re: I Discovered My Wife Lied About Her Age After 3 Years Of Our Marriage. Help! by ojinuocheibi(m): 10:37pm On Oct 03, 2016 |
nickxtra:go and hang yourself, what is age if there is love in the first place? I am disappointed in you. 1 Like |
Re: I Discovered My Wife Lied About Her Age After 3 Years Of Our Marriage. Help! by Nobody: 10:38pm On Oct 03, 2016 |
Respond appropriately to the situation instead of Supporting the party that lied. In as much as I dont want both parties to divorce, I hate when pple r nt fair wen it comes to judging issues. dollyjoy: 11 Likes |
Re: I Discovered My Wife Lied About Her Age After 3 Years Of Our Marriage. Help! by Tundeiab(m): 10:38pm On Oct 03, 2016 |
nickxtra:My guy, I have a few questions for you. - has she been a good wife you? - has she been a good mother to your kids. - has she been faithful to you? If your answers to the questions above are yes, don't divorce her. If no just let her go. Come to think of it, haven't you lied before? 1 Like |
Re: I Discovered My Wife Lied About Her Age After 3 Years Of Our Marriage. Help! by Nobody: 10:38pm On Oct 03, 2016 |
you just try to move on. Has she been a good woman? That should do |
Re: I Discovered My Wife Lied About Her Age After 3 Years Of Our Marriage. Help! by xmasgift: 10:39pm On Oct 03, 2016 |
You posted this about your older mistress in April. You prefer older women obviously so why act surprised that your wife is 6 years older? You are either confused or confused and you are also a cheat. You've been married for 3 years and cheated on your wife with the mistress in this post. https://www.nairaland.com/3059271/saw-sperm-like-fluid-outside-va#44875634 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Discovered My Wife Lied About Her Age After 3 Years Of Our Marriage. Help! by akigbemaru: 10:39pm On Oct 03, 2016 |
age issue |
Re: I Discovered My Wife Lied About Her Age After 3 Years Of Our Marriage. Help! by KKKWHITE(m): 10:39pm On Oct 03, 2016 |
it has already happened but divorce is not the right step to take now except maybe later you eventually find out that she has been concealing alot of things from you like infidelity. 1 Like |
Re: I Discovered My Wife Lied About Her Age After 3 Years Of Our Marriage. Help! by Donpressman(m): 10:39pm On Oct 03, 2016 |
werthy:And to you you are the grown man with old phalanges between your legs? You lots will just open your mouth anyhow to call anybody a boy without using your brain to think things through. Inasmuch as I would advise the guy to forgive its very difficult. Trust is gone and without trust no love. Imagine a husband who can no longer vouch for his wife? She didn't just lie -- she repeated lie to cover up her tracks. Imagine your wife is 33 years instead of your supposed 27 years. Its a mental thing and without Trust the marriage as good as over. They are not even married to me sef cos any marriage built on falsehood and deceit is not a marriage anyway. Bullshits everywhere! 11 Likes |
Re: I Discovered My Wife Lied About Her Age After 3 Years Of Our Marriage. Help! by shankapedro(m): 10:40pm On Oct 03, 2016 |
after founding out that she lied.....Nairaland now become the next place to sue her??my brother take her the way she is.....after 3years who you wan make e carry her now? 1 Like |
Re: I Discovered My Wife Lied About Her Age After 3 Years Of Our Marriage. Help! by yedidiah(m): 10:41pm On Oct 03, 2016 |
This is the kind of stories that make you believe there's safety in ignorance. Go to a professional counsellor for advise and possibly rebonding 1 Like |
Re: I Discovered My Wife Lied About Her Age After 3 Years Of Our Marriage. Help! by Valentina112(f): 10:41pm On Oct 03, 2016 |
lady's life style 1 Like |
Re: I Discovered My Wife Lied About Her Age After 3 Years Of Our Marriage. Help! by Josephamstrong1(m): 10:41pm On Oct 03, 2016 |
Ranchhoddas: Shudn't b surprised. People r getting more frustrated day by day. leavin' d' ball, attacking d' player. 5 Likes |
Re: I Discovered My Wife Lied About Her Age After 3 Years Of Our Marriage. Help! by luminouz(m): 10:42pm On Oct 03, 2016 |
werthy:Smh! How u take know say him be boy! Easy with d effizi Na.....u too harsh abeg! 2 Likes |
Re: I Discovered My Wife Lied About Her Age After 3 Years Of Our Marriage. Help! by Nobody: 10:44pm On Oct 03, 2016 |
@OP pls dont quit bkos of age issues. She may or may not have lied. For the sake or ur children, down-play the whole issue and look at the best moments of ur marriage so far. For the sake of God, passs! The most important thing is love. Afterall, she has bn a good wife if nt for this "minor" issue. nickxtra: |
Re: I Discovered My Wife Lied About Her Age After 3 Years Of Our Marriage. Help! by idu1(m): 10:44pm On Oct 03, 2016 |
WesBreezy:u still dey drink coke this night? My friend op don't divorce her u hear. We know say the thing pain you If na me e go pain me too. But me like to marry older woman |
Re: I Discovered My Wife Lied About Her Age After 3 Years Of Our Marriage. Help! by MrBONE2(m): 10:45pm On Oct 03, 2016 |
nickxtra:Pls forgive and forget .Cos we Africans dont like anything that have to do with Divorce, infact we dont believe in Divorce. 1 Like |
Re: I Discovered My Wife Lied About Her Age After 3 Years Of Our Marriage. Help! by Weedcrusher: 10:46pm On Oct 03, 2016 |
@Op forgive her... But before you forgive her have a mature one on one conversation with her. Let her know that she has to tell you the truth and own up to the age falsification. Not only that, she has to reveal any secret about her that you don't know in order for you to trust her. If she insist on her story, then I will advise you to ask for a very genuine evidence to proof it. Like going to her primary or secondary school and get the original register for her first day in school, or obtain a copy of the letter she wrote to Waec for age correction. You can even go to the extent of asking her to do bone test. And for people saying op is not serious, it is just ordinary age. Do you know how long 6 years is?, if it is just 1 or 2 years it's pardonable (though lie is still lie and she has to apologize) but 6 years is a very huge gap and a lot of things could have happened within those years. Imagine if you were the OP, how will you feel thinking that you are a year older than your wife only to find out that your wife could be 5 years older than you. That means your wife has to from babe turn sugar mummy. |
Re: I Discovered My Wife Lied About Her Age After 3 Years Of Our Marriage. Help! by Donpressman(m): 10:46pm On Oct 03, 2016 |
Josephamstrong1:I swear the way people think is gross to say the least. Especially when its a lady involved. It would have been a different story if it was the man who lied and probably his employers found out and sacked the guy from his job. The lady will say all manner of bullshit about lost trust and how she can't cope in the marriage again. All our laws and by extension how we think now is now feminist. A man is always liable but if its woman then its just a mistake that is irrelevant and should be ignore. What rubbish! 12 Likes |
Re: I Discovered My Wife Lied About Her Age After 3 Years Of Our Marriage. Help! by luminouz(m): 10:46pm On Oct 03, 2016 |
ItsQuinn:Quinn..Quinn...Quinn.. How many times I call u so? No blame d guy too much ooo.... It was on d same nairaland that a bride cancelled her wedding because d hubby lied say him dey work for chevron.....on her wedding day!.... DAT one nko? 7 Likes |
Re: I Discovered My Wife Lied About Her Age After 3 Years Of Our Marriage. Help! by Nobody: 10:47pm On Oct 03, 2016 |
chuksbogus2001:You ended up taking us miles back. Op and everyone who commented before you knew how band what she did was and the wife ain't here to take the blames when they are dished out. Op since your wife had the strong resolve to keep such secret as serious as a six year differential from you, my bro, I'm afraid there are more truths to be told by her. 1 Like |
Re: I Discovered My Wife Lied About Her Age After 3 Years Of Our Marriage. Help! by TerrorSquad147: 10:48pm On Oct 03, 2016 |
NOC1:I don't blame your uncle, a relationship built on the foundation of lies can never stand for long 1 Like |
Re: I Discovered My Wife Lied About Her Age After 3 Years Of Our Marriage. Help! by allanphash7(m): 10:48pm On Oct 03, 2016 |
True love knows no Race, Religion, Age, size or whatver Tell me that thing that is greather than LOVE ? Divorce her now who dey beg you before? Shior You just make me angry this night |
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