I hope u are not thinking she is older than you. But why would she be killing such from u. Do one have to keep his or her body from the person who is going to bath for his or her corpse. For the sake of the children involve pamper justice with mercy sir. Don't put ur little kids in a position u will live to regret. Let dem feel the joy in having both parents caring for them.

Donpressman:
And to you you are the grown man with old phalanges between your legs? You lots will just open your mouth anyhow to call anybody a boy without using your brain to think things through. Inasmuch as I would advise the guy to forgive its very difficult. Trust is gone and without trust no love. Imagine a husband who can no longer vouch for his wife? She didn't just lie -- she repeated lie to cover up her tracks. Imagine your wife is 33 years instead of your supposed 27 years. Its a mental thing and without Trust the marriage as good as over. Bullshits everywhere!

Take a bottle of chilled champagne n add it to my account! U super make sense!

chuksbogus2001:
All those that comment didn't address the issue at hand .you guys are absolving the wife of any wrong doing making it look like the guy I not suppose to feel bad after finding out this.what is there are other things this guy is yet to find out.I expect people to first condemn the wife for lying to the husband .in fact she deceived the guy into the marriage.if the guy is aware of the age then he can make an inform decision .

Now ,op I know u are feeling bad about this but you have to put urself together.has she not been a food wife to u? remember her good attributes and forgive her. I guess she did it cos she doesn't want to loose u.

you're the only reasonable person here bro

Women deceiving men since 1760


See scam na

Who knows hw many oda women r in marriages wit falsified ages

ItsQuinn:
Lots of childish Nigerian men everywhere

what do you know?? Nothing...

mr husband I don't think that's an excuse for u to divorce your wife unless you want to tell me that she senior u for that six years following the new age, if not forget it.For you have so many hidden sins u haven't told ur wife and if you insist remember the only ground for divorce is adultery,moreover if u want a divorce sit ur wife down and confess all the sins u have committed since u guys got married I bet you if she stills agrees to marry you then u r lucky,what is lying about age I see it as nothing

TerrorSquad147:
you're the only reasonable person here bro

N me too!

in the course of dating I guess u have seen more heart breaking things than this. if u divorce ur wife because of age issue then u nevery loved her before

If she's older than you but still submits to you and accords you the respect due you as expected of her, then you just have to forgive her for the sake of the children and the love you both share cos it's possible you divorce her and yet never find a good woman to replace her and even take care of your kids. All the best.

nickxtra:
My brothers and sisters, i think am contemplating of what action to take against her and am contemplating a divorce, but our two children are still very small for this. I want to report this issue to her family and mine. Am gradually withdrawing my trust for her.

I need matured advice and suggestions that will see me through this.

Hi Nick,

Sorry to hear your plight. Your wife has broken trust - and in a way that could have affected the fundamentals of your decision to marry her. Please forgive her, strongly impress upon her the kind of openness and honesty you expect in your relationship, and help her work towards it by showing her you are committed to her come what may. Do not take this issue to any outside parties.

Lies & betrayal can come much worse than this - more later. She was attractive enough for you to marry and not suspect anything. Work with her to ensure she retains her youthfulness - do likewise yourself. Continue to delight in her physically. Hopefully your sexual journeys will perfectly align.

Thank you for putting your children first,but I'm actually asking you to put your wife first regardless. I sense you believe - be that Godly man.


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The basic/carnal women will lie about inter-alia;

The length, volume and even origin of her hair
The fullness and curve of her eyebrows
The plumpness and shape of her lips
The perkiness of her breasts
Her looks generally, and her height and weight
The flatness of her tummy and the narrowness of her waist
The "sticky-outiness" of her bottom
The length and leanness of her legs
Her shoe size - hence the numerous callouses and bunions
The number of lovers she has had
The number of abortions she has performed
How many children she has - if she actually tells at all
How many friends she has, how in demand she is, the men after her, her job
She'll lie about how good a person she is, how loyal, how committed and how hard-working
She'll lie about why she got divorced, why she stole her friends man

She'll lie to herself about how the lies are actually good, for the best and really a form of "attenuated truth"
She'll not only overlook, she'll actually support the lies of other women at a "group" level, for that validates and justifies her own lies (manifold examples on this thread alone)

Oga, if that's the only thing, you actually got off pretty lightly


TV

Why do u want to kill urself over number?age is number MR MAN

luminouz:

N me too!

@op
Don't be more devastated by comments of all these "mama thank ma" boys/girls that made up the million members of nairaland. Mine equally lied to me about her age but not upto 6yrs and I feel ur pain 100% But I've come to realize that many a woman lied to their husband about their exact age b4 the marriage.

My brother if her only sin in your marriage is this, I advise u forgive her, readjust ur feelings and continue ur marriage. I wish u well

munas:


The essense of marriage is companionship
And trust is the basis.
This marriage based on deceit.

Only mofos like you will take anthing from a woman.

I did not and cannot marry somebody older than me...period.

people like u end up with sugar mummy what she did was wrong but it does not warrant divorce for that guy to say he is planing divorce shows some traits of immaturity what will happen to his kids

Mr man,do your worst,make the mistake,learn your lesson, and regret later..... I'm sure you already have it in mind that you wanna divorce your wife,you just using the age lies as an excuse..... Let me tell you that side chick that you want to divorce your wife because of her will so mess you up ehhn,you gonna go back and kneel to beg your wife.....mtcheww..

nickxtra:
My marriage to my wife is facing a serious challenge, after I discovered from my wife's WAEC certificate, that the date of her birth on the result is 6 years more than what she told me and what has been in all her non academic documents, including her C.V. Actually, i have seen all her academic certificates, including her NYSC discharge certificate, but never saw her S.S.C.E and FSLC results that normally bear dates of birth. Each time i ask her for them in order to compile all the credentials for job application purposes, she would tell me that her WAEC, NECO and primary school results are in a box, with her mum in thier home town; that she would ask her mum to bring them. I gnomo her mum lager came with them for her.

Eventually, a serious sure job came for which i would need these credentials to forward to the organization. She gave me the WAEC result with the excuse that age forgot the NECO and FSLC in her current office, which she promised to bring. Lol and behold! What i saw on the WAEC result is a date of birth 6 years higher than what she told me and what is in her C.Vs.

I called her attention and she started giving me excuses that hold no water. She is saying that the same DOB were erroneously registerd for her when, perhaps they were registering her for both WAEC and NECO. That when the results came out and she noticed the errors, she complained and applied to correct same, but since then, the exam authorities have not corrected them. I have not come to terms with the this discovery. I think this may cause us peace, thrust and love in pur marriage.

My brothers and sisters, i think am contemplating of what action to take against her and am contemplating a divorce, but our two children are still very small for this. I want to report this issue to her family and mine. Am gradually withdrawing my trust for her.

I need matured advice and suggestions that will see me through this.

A divorce? are you high? just because of a mere figure 6?

luminouz:

Take a bottle of chilled champagne n add it to my account! U super make sense!

Bros I tire o. Even if person gf do this kind thing e go pain person die, let alone your wife.

Oga go and do DNA to be sure the children are yours.. she was going to keep this secret until death do you part. She is not trustworthy.. even if you guys have been married for forty years, it is a serious problem for you to have discovered that she lied about her age. Why didn't she tell you all the while..

Women can just be very devilish... as far as I'm concerned, things can never be the same. Yes you can forgive but no man will ever forget this kinda crap. Why did she lie about her age?

nickxtra:
My marriage to my wife is facing a serious challenge, after I discovered from my wife's WAEC certificate, that the date of her birth on the result is 6 years more than what she told me and what has been in all her non academic documents, including her C.V. Actually, i have seen all her academic certificates, including her NYSC discharge certificate, but never saw her S.S.C.E and FSLC results that normally bear dates of birth. Each time i ask her for them in order to compile all the credentials for job application purposes, she would tell me that her WAEC, NECO and primary school results are in a box, with her mum in thier home town; that she would ask her mum to bring them. I gnomo her mum lager came with them for her.

Eventually, a serious sure job came for which i would need these credentials to forward to the organization. She gave me the WAEC result with the excuse that age forgot the NECO and FSLC in her current office, which she promised to bring. Lol and behold! What i saw on the WAEC result is a date of birth 6 years higher than what she told me and what is in her C.Vs.

I called her attention and she started giving me excuses that hold no water. She is saying that the same DOB were erroneously registerd for her when, perhaps they were registering her for both WAEC and NECO. That when the results came out and she noticed the errors, she complained and applied to correct same, but since then, the exam authorities have not corrected them. I have not come to terms with the this discovery. I think this may cause us peace, thrust and love in pur marriage.

My brothers and sisters, i think am contemplating of what action to take against her and am contemplating a divorce, but our two children are still very small for this. I want to report this issue to her family and mine. Am gradually withdrawing my trust for her.

I need matured advice and suggestions that will see me through this.

i know you feel very bad but for the sake of love, do forgive her.BIBLE says love covered multitude of sins. Is she now older than you? What is the diff? If she is now older thats pretty bad. Just forgive.

And since when does getting angry over your feminine fish brain become a childish act?
ORUWE!

ItsQuinn:
Lots of childish Nigerian men everywhere

Ranchhoddas:
I feel very sorry for you.

Please ignore that frustrated thing

emeraldknytt:
From my point of view, I foresee no deal breaker in your stale epistle. So far her lie hasn't affected you negatively or potentially, there is no reason to quit your marriage. Truth is, if you cant handle well something as trivial as this, I wonder what you would do if she told you those kids ain't yours.... .... Be patient and tolerable

gbam! You just said my mind

Men Lie Women Lie but "the Kitty" NEVER lies...


If she lied, thats deception. But the only way I would recommend you to divorce her is to answer this question honestly;

HAVE YOU NOT ALSO LIED TO HER IN THE PAST ABOUT SOME THINGS IN YOUR LIFE?

If so, then I recommend you turn to Jesus with your heart so that He can restore Joy, Peace and Happiness in your home.


PROVERBS 31:30
Charm is deceptive, and beauty does not last; but a woman who fears the LORD will be greatly praised.

ItsQuinn:
Lots of childish Nigerian men everywhere

Mature girl, let your husband lie to u that he never married b4 and doesn't have kids and u find out 8 years later that you are the third or forth wife. Let me see how mature you will handle it.

Ranchhoddas:
Gosh I was shocked at the comments. Can you just imagine those idiots?

most of them are big idiots that aren't even married yet but are coming here to form marriage counselors.

Donpressman:
Bros I tire o. Even if person gf do this kind thing e go pain person die, let alone your wife.

Na true talk baba!

Calling them idiots is an understatement. No wonder a lot of relationships don't work out. People don't understand that not everone can tolerate lies and deception. Once trust is broken,a union starts to crack. The woman misled him into marrying her by being deceptive and people can't see that fact;how do people conveniently lie to the ones they claim they love? Why don't humans have a conscience? How many more lies will he discover? How will he cope when he finds out more? I'm not saying it's ok to divorce her cos she lied but people have to understand that what she did isn't something that should just be waved aside,without repercussions. The day you lie to me and I catch you,I'd start doubting everthing you've ever said,and would ever say.

Ranchhoddas:
Gosh I was shocked at the comments. Can you just imagine those idiots?

Oga!!!...better behave yourself. You want to divorce your wife because of alleged age falsification. Behave yourself Oga!!!

Shuggatti:
Mr man,do your worst,make the mistake,learn your lesson, and regret later..... I'm sure you already have it in mind that you wanna divorce your wife,you just using the age lies as an excuse..... Let me tell you that side chick that you want to divorce your wife because of her will so mess you up ehhn,you gonna go back and kneel to beg your wife.....mtcheww..

shut up and sleep!

Jacko1:
Women deceiving men since 1760


See scam na

Who knows hw many oda women r in marriages wit falsified ages

I'm a woman but this is outrageous...how can someone lie like this for so long?She get PhD for lying,it's really true..some women lie so well.

OP,your feelings are justified but try and forgive if you can.

Shuggatti:
Mr man,do your worst,make the mistake,learn your lesson, and regret later..... I'm sure you already have it in mind that you wanna divorce your wife,you just using the age lies as an excuse..... Let me tell you that side chick that you want to divorce your wife because of her will so mess you up ehhn,you gonna go back and kneel to beg your wife.....mtcheww..

U well so?

Na wah o, nothing person no go hear for we country naija: government increase fuel price, 'I wan divorce my wife'; nepa bring half current light breeze blow off the half current, 'I wan send my wife go back her father house' and now just because say nairalander discover say him wife fit don reduce her age or say WAEC de vex say she too pass her exams and dem wan spoil her show come add just 6years weh no even reach 8years weh Obasanjo use scatter naija democratically or even 56years weh naija don do no too change him don de reason divorce... Like say him never lie even yesterday. Yesterday far sef I de suspect say the OP lie inside this post sef