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HaneefahRN:
Such hypocrisy!

They will never enjoin good but throw jabs at the victims (women). You will never see a thread from the OP against adultery (a great sin) , why should he? It doesn't serve his purpose.

My sister no matter the sermon in churches and scriptures ...believe it or not, the crazy act of a man cheating will forever remain...so rather than waste time echoing the sermons why not be factual about it.

Toks2008:
Cool down sis

The truth is that there is a ground for divorce and that is desertion which I made clear.

Today many ladies easily quote that scripture to back up a divorce move once the man commits adultery and I have seen many cases where the man apologized yet she still sees the divorce through.

If you read that article very well you will see where I made a clear distinction between outright desertion and an adulterous act.

I'M cool already......My point is if any man should mess up after promising his lovely wife heaven and earth...he should face the music. quoting of bible will not help him because JESUS was only responding to them based their question.....A man or woman is allowed to divorce a cheating partner so long as it will save you from hell

Toks2008:
My sister no matter the sermon in churches and scriptures ...believe it or not, the crazy act of a man cheating will forever remain...so rather than waste time echoing the sermons why not be factual about it.

When a man cheats. he cheats with a lady so wht is ur pointthe crazy act of a lady cheating with a man will forever remain abi

Vikky014:
JESUS was only responding to them based their question.....A man or woman is allowed to divorce a cheating partner so long as it will save you from hell

A guy wrote the same thing about Jesus giving a streamline response bug that is not so. remember he was asked a predefined question about a man divorcing his wife by giving her a divorce note so it was not a streamlined e answer but a very gender specific response.

Now you keep mixing my write up with sentiments.

We have two types of adulterous acts..one where the husband apologizes or keeps apologizing and one that the man out rightly abandons his marriage and moves on with another lady and same goes for the man.

These days we see some ladies rushing for divorce because their hubbies cheat on them even when the man apologizes and that is why I wrote this.

Toks2008:
A guy wrote the same thing about Jesus giving a streamline response bug that is not so. remember he was asked a predefined question about a man divorcing his wife by giving her a divorce note so it was not a streamlined e answer but a very gender specific response.

Now you keep mixing my write up with sentiments.

We have two types of adulterous acts..one where the husband apologizes or keeps apologizing and one that the man out rightly abandons his marriage and moves on with another lady and same goes for the man.

These days we see some ladies rushing for divorce because their hubbies cheat on them even when the man apologizes and that is why I wrote this.

well

Toks2008:
A guy wrote the same thing about Jesus giving a streamline response bug that is not so. remember he was asked a predefined question about a man divorcing his wife by giving her a divorce note so it was not a streamlined e answer but a very gender specific response.

Now you keep mixing my write up with sentiments.

We have two types of adulterous acts..one where the husband apologizes or keeps apologizing and one that the man out rightly abandons his marriage and moves on with another lady and same goes for the man.

These days we see some ladies rushing for divorce because their hubbies cheat on them even when the man apologizes and that is why I wrote this.

well i'm not against a wife forgiving her cheating spouse..i'm only against your view about a man having the sole right to divorce his cheating spouse while citing a portion of the bible to back up your claim...God is not Partial so he cant frown at a lady bc she divorced her cheating partner. he is only against the two remarrying another person.God is nt in support of polygamy please...man chose to be polygamous out of greediness...if God wants a polygamous setting he would have created EVE AND EVELYN FOR ADAM

Toks2008:
Do you know why the youths of today are not making giant strides?

Its because we refuse to think outside the box but those who changed the world in various aspects refuse to go with teh flow.

If you really camed down to read that piece you would have made your arguement more vivid rather than arguing on the basis of red and black.


I am not the type who believes in my pastor said but i study to show myself approved. Check all my threads and you will observe that i stand out in my ideologies and unfortunately in all mu threads, majority of posters always attack the writer but fail again and again to present a formidable standview which is what i eargerly want to see.

Now to your submission i would like you to read the biboe passage i quoted once more and you will see thyat the response of Jesus was in no way streamlined but he quoted a reference from the days of Moses which was gender specific from the word go.

toks2008, I wish u can be silent on matters u know nothing about. ur a disgrace

WindUpMerchant:
toks2008, I wish u can be silent on matters u know nothing about. ur a disgrace

Who is this e-kid trolling my thread?

Look here child this is a faceless forum but don't you ever barge into my threads to rain insults.If you have nothing to say just relegate yourself to the vague threads you are acustomed to.

This is a clear sign of delinquency as a result of failed parental upbringing.

If you allow me to start with you I guess you will deactivate your account.

People like you claim to be leaders of tomorrow but lacks simple IQ.

You are a total disgrace to manhood and until you learn to communicate intelligently please keep of my threads and stop quoting me.

Toks2008:
Who is this e-kid trolling my thread?

Look here child this is a faceless forum but don't you ever barge into my threads to rain insults.If you have nothing to say just relegate yourself to the vague threads you are acustomed to.

This is a clear sign of delinquency as a result of failed parental upbringing.

If you allow me to start with you I guess you will deactivate your account.

People like you claim to be leaders of tomorrow but lacks simple IQ.

You are a total disgrace to manhood and until you learn to communicate intelligently please keep of my threads and stop quoting me.

haha. baba dey vex? no one takes you serious, ur beliefs and views on critical issues are painful to read.You had to mention my parents right? That ur misogynist is one thing..but when you deliberately misinterpret the bible to suit your narrow mind, then you're way out of line. start with me? me deactivate? u can't do nothing.you can only get to me if I actually took you serious. Now run along.continue with ur warped write up dear 'marital expert'.

As in, how are people meant to take him seriously? Not everyone is religious, just like how I'm not religious ....the bible is total crap, I don't believe in that stupid book ....only few verses in the bible make sense tho ....but 70% of the bible is very unrealistic of today's world

doveda:
You have no right to tell her that she is not logical because the last time I checked the Agbaya based his BS on a religious text. And religion and logic do not go together, if at all it is merely subject to different interpretations

The religious text is not a fact, only religious zombies will think it's a fact ....the bible na real wash

jaybillionaire:
But the religious text is still a fact and the platform at which marriage form it's basis. So that is logical of him enough. U both need to drop facts to gainsay his claims else u both give up on him

But in your last post about submission, you said if the woman can't submit she should just leave or divorce him instead of disrespecting him....and now you are saying the woman has no right to divorce her husband because he cheated? Why are you contradicting yourself? .....The bible is so contradictory! That's why I don't believe in that crap

Toks2008:
Cool down sis

The truth is that there is a ground for divorce and that is desertion which I made clear.

Today many ladies easily quote that scripture to back up a divorce move once the man commits adultery and I have seen many cases where the man apologized yet she still sees the divorce through.

If you read that article very well you will see where I made a clear distinction between outright desertion and an adulterous act.

ItsQuinn:
The religious text is not a fact, only religious zombies will think it's a fact ....the bible na real wash

Ohh now I see where ur faith lies lol

ItsQuinn:
But in your last post about submission, you said if the woman can't submit she should just leave or divorce him instead of disrespecting him....and now you are saying the woman has no right to divorce her husband because he cheated? Why are you contradicting yourself? .....The bible is so contradictory! That's why I don't believe in that crap

Asking a lady to divorce her husband if she cant submit is outright sarcasm and you should know that.

And concerning this piece, what i am explaining is that there are some ladies who will divorce their husband over infidelity even when the man is sorry and still shows undying love for her and this set of women will always use the scriptures to back up their unforgiving act just because they feel they are acting from the scriptures....this is the anomaly that needs to be addressed.

The only instruction given to a lady is never to leave her marriage and if she must leave it will be because the husband abandons her entirely despite moves to reconcile and not because the man committed the act of adultery.

A man can commit adultery and elopes with the woman and in that case,the woman is free to remarry but it is a different case if a man commits adultery and he is sorry for the act.

Now you know ....but I'm still a born again Christian tho ....by name

jaybillionaire:
Ohh now I see where ur faith lies lol

ItsQuinn:
[s]As in, how are people meant to take him seriously? Not everyone is religious, just like how I'm not religious ....the bible is total crap, I don't believe in that stupid book ....only few verses in the bible make sense tho ....but 70% of the bible is very unrealistic of today's world [/s]

Okay, I don't want to jump into this so as not to be tagged 'rude' again but permit me to ask you few questions..


Are you really alright? I mean Mentally fit?

Has there ever been any case where you had fallen hard on the ground with your head first?


Why am I asking you these questions?

The other day on some thread like that, people were talking about romantic issues and the moment you got there, the best you could say was "Nigeria should be destroyed". You started wishing evil upon your country for no reason... I believe it's only someone suffering from lunacy that will do such...


That's BTW


Back to this thread, I can vividly remember how you kept on quoting a particular bible passage to back up your claims and now out of the blues, you just called the Holy book a total crap.


Which makes me wonder again, are you really mentally stable? Because even conc Atheists won't and can't just jump out of nowhere to call the holy books (Either bible or Quran) a total crap.

So you were being sarcastic in your last thread? And I bet most people that read your sarcastic veiw didn't think you were sarcastic tho ...so all those one na wash? Please try to be straightforward on your thread to avoid people being confused......and what of if all those apologies and love na wash just to deceive her to stay in the marriage and he continue cheating? Do you think it's right? After vowing not to cheat on their wedding day

Toks2008:
Asking a lady to divorce her husband if she cant submit is outright sarcasm and you should know that.

And concerning this piece, what i am explaining is that there are some ladies who will divorce their husband over infidelity even when the man is sorry and still shows undying love for her and this set of women will always use the scriptures to back up their unforgiving act just because they feel they are acting from the scriptures....this is the anomaly that needs to be addressed.

The only instruction given to a lady is never to leave her marriage and if she must leave it will be because the husband abandons her entirely despite moves to reconcile and not because the man committed the act of adultery.

A man can commit adultery and elopes with the woman and in that case,the woman is free to remarry but it is a different case if a man commits adultery and he is sorry for the act.

Me quoting the bible doesn't mean I believe in it, I was just quoting the bible to prove him wrong but he turned a blind eye ....and why are you so bothered about what I say or think? unless you care that much

EmperorLee:
Okay, I don't want to jump into this so as not to be tagged 'rude' again but permit me to ask you few questions..


Are you really alright? I mean Mentally fit?

Has there ever been any case where you had fallen hard on the ground with your head first?


Why am I asking you these questions?

The other day on some thread like that, people were talking about romantic issues and the moment you got there, the best you could say was "Nigeria should be destroyed". You started wishing evil upon your country for no reason... I believe it's only someone suffering from lunacy that will do such...


That's BTW


Back to this thread, I can vividly remember how you kept on quoting a particular bible passage to back up your claims and now out of the blues, you just called the Holy book a total crap.


Which makes me wonder again, are you really mentally stable? Because even conc Atheists won't and can't just jump out of nowhere to call the holy books (Either bible or Quran) a total crap.

ItsQuinn:
Me quoting the bible doesn't mean I believe in it, I was just quoting the bible to prove him wrong but he turned a blind eye ....and why are you so bothered about what I say or think? unless you care that much

So you don't believe in teh bible!

Then why are you discussing this from the perspective of what you dont believe in?

ItsQuinn:
So you were being sarcastic in your last thread? And I bet most people that read your sarcastic veiw didn't think you were sarcastic tho ...so all those one na wash? Please try to be straightforward on your thread to avoid people being confused......and what of if all those apologies and love na wash just to deceive her to stay in the marriage and he continue cheating? Do you think it's right? After vowing not to cheat on their wedding day

Na wa for you o

I will stop discussing with you if you fail to grasp simple logic.

I was stating that asking a lady to leave her marriage if she can not be submissive is pure sarcasm meaning it is an indirect mockery and that does not mean that was what teh thread is based on.

Its quite amazing that many people keep twisting my threads to their bias understanding and turn around to insult and make derogatory remarks.

Just to get your attention

Toks2008:
So you don't believe in teh bible!

Then why are you discussing this from the perspective of what you dont believe in?

Okay I get you, can you please answer my question, thank you

Toks2008:
Na wa for you o

I will stop discussing with you if you fail to grasp simple logic.

I was stating that asking a lady to leave her marriage if she can not be submissive is pure sarcasm meaning it is an indirect mockery and that does not mean that was what teh thread is based on.

Its quite amazing that many people keep twisting my threads to their bias understanding and turn around to insult and make derogatory remarks.

ItsQuinn:
Me quoting the bible doesn't mean I believe in it, I was just quoting the bible to prove him wrong but he turned a blind eye ....and why are you so bothered about what I say or think? unless you care that much

You don't believe in it but you used it as a reference? What if Toks didn't turn a blind eye? What if he had accepted that passage and conceded defeat to you, would you have still call it crap?


Bothered? Care? About what exactly?

What you say or do with your life is none of my business but when it come to what you say about the Holy Bible, then that is my business. You don't have to call it crap just because you don't believe in it moreover calling it crap only means one thing, you don't believe in God and not believing in God is almost the same as saying There's no God...


"Only a lunatic will look up to the heavens and say there is no God" Sayeth The Holy Bible...



So that sums it all... Enjoy your day.

The bible is still crap

EmperorLee:
You don't believe in it but you used it as a reference? What if Toks didn't turn a blind eye? What if he had accepted that passage and conceded deafeat to you, would you have still call it crap?


Bothered? Care? About what exactly?

What you say or do with your life is none of my business but when it come to what you say about the Holy Bible, then that is my business. You don't have to call it crap just because you don't believe in it moreover calling it crap only means one thing, you don't believe in God and not believing in God is almost the same as saying There's no God...


"Only a lunatic will look up to the heavens and say there is no God" Sayeth The Holy Bible...



So that sums it all... Enjoy your day.

ItsQuinn:
The bible is still crap

And according to the bible "You are a lunatic"

ItsQuinn:
Okay I get you, can you please answer my question, thank you

What is the question?

Please by all means quote the bible to justify what you said ....is it in genesis, Leviticus or Romans? Please I want to know....let me laugh at Christianity wella .....I'm already laughing in Swahili of what you just typed there. If a bible can call a whole human being a lunatic, there's no point reading that crap for salvation or righteousness ....you keep contradicting the bible more and I keep laughing at the bible's stupidity

EmperorLee:
And according to the bible "You are a lunatic"

Toks2008:
What is the question?

.....what of if all those apologies and love na wash just to deceive her to stay in the marriage and he continue cheating? Do you think it's right? After vowing not to cheat on their wedding day

ItsQuinn:
.....what of if all those apologies and love na wash just to deceive her to stay in the marriage and he continue cheating? Do you think it's right? After vowing not to cheat on their wedding day

As far as I'm concerned the bible is my guide.

Desertion is the only condition for a woman to divorce her husband

A man can keep cheating and asking for forgiveness just as we keep sinning and asking that God forgives us

Human philosophy has replaced vivid biblical injunctions

So yes you are expected to keep forgiving him except he leaves the marriage totally but if he still wants you I guess you have no reason to divorce him.

This is exactly the point..ladies have soft minds and they could forgive a husband who is a repetitive adulterer but the heart of many men is so hard that they are even ready to stone an adulteress to death.

Sensible and logical enough

Toks2008:
As far as I'm concerned the bible is my guide.

Desertion is the only condition for a woman to divorce her husband

A man can keep cheating and asking for forgiveness just as we keep sinning and asking that God forgives us

Human philosophy has replaced vivid biblical injunctions

So yes you are expected to keep forgiving him except he leaves the marriage totally but if he still wants you I guess you have no reason to divorce him.

This is exactly the point..ladies have soft minds and they could forgive a husband who is a repetitive adulterer but the heart of many men is so hard that they are even ready to stone an adulteress to death.

ItsQuinn:
Sensible and logical enough

I once created a thread with topics..."Before you divorce a cheating hubby"

"No woman should get married if she is not ready for the possibility of sharing her husband with another lady" and ladies call me crazy names but I just smh and smile because I knew these were young ladies who are still very far from the reality of marriage.

I have always asked many ladies that of what use is it if you divorce a cheating hubby just to start sleeping around with other men? who is fooling who?

Believe it or not, most ladies who divorce zn adulterous husband ends up sleeping around and commiting adultery with another wonan's husband...weird but true.

You will be surprised but fo.ols do take him seriously

ItsQuinn:
As in, how are people meant to take him seriously? Not everyone is religious, just like how I'm not religious ....the bible is total crap, I don't believe in that stupid book ....only few verses in the bible make sense tho ....but 70% of the bible is very unrealistic of today's world

You're absolutely right, I believe cheating is normal or natural, if it's not then cheating would be scarce but it's not in reality. I believe cheating is irrelevant and not a solid reason to break up with your bf or divorce your husband

Toks2008:
I once created a thread with topics..."Before you divorce a cheating hubby"

"No woman should get married if she is not ready for the possibility of sharing her husband with another lady" and ladies call me crazy names but I just smh and smile because I knew these were young ladies who are still very far from the reality of marriage.

I have always asked many ladies that of what use is it if you divorce a cheating hubby just to start sleeping around with other men? who is fooling who?

Believe it or not, most ladies who divorce zn adulterous husband ends up sleeping around and commiting adultery with another wonan's husband...weird but true.