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Why Are You Still Single? by Talk2Bella(f): 8:55am On Oct 07, 2016
Don’t you get tired when people ask you this question? But here I am asking you, why are you single? Most people don’t know being single sometimes is a choice, but what’s a choice without a purpose or a reason? If you don’t know why you’re single then you need to know why no one is asking you out.


Everyone these days is single, a guy comes up to you and says he’s single, you know this very pretty girl and she tells you she’s single and you open your mouth in awe because you don’t believe such a beaut could be single.


What is the reason behind that decision you’ve taken to be single


Work?


Heartbreak?


Sexual preference?


Finance?


Time?


Lack of a dating type?


Honesty?


Location?


School?


Waiting on someone to notice you?


Age?


Gender?


Lack of interest?


Self-Searching?


Character?


Family Background?



Tell me your reason and purpose, being single is no fun without a purpose, it sometimes lead to depression, envy, suicidal thoughts and lonesome nights.


You begin to question yourself and your existence, most people who always scream team single {without a purpose} are dying inside, they need that companionship, someone to talk to, someone to listen to, someone to touch, someone to play with, they just need someone and most times because there’s a lack of someone they begin to give everyone a chance which becomes a cycle and leads to more heartbreak and then we hear the Forever Single Phrase all over again.


You need to know why you’re single, there’s enough people in the world to go around for everyone, heck people are getting married every Saturday, every day, and you’re there scream “SINGLE LADIES” “SINGLE MEN CREW” wake up, you need help ASAP screaming Team No Hoes won’t alleviate the loneliness you feel inside, screaming Team No Dykes won’t make you feel any better, you need a purpose for being single or without that you’re just someone who isn’t able to get a man or a woman.


While I was in the University, I didn’t date, not that I didn’t have a play companion, I just didn’t want anything serious because I wanted to finish school without distractions and I saw that as one, and when I finished school I said nah, I need a job before I’d date, no one wants to date a liability, when I finally got a job I was ready to date, I did for a while and realized I wanted more things in life than dating and I went for it.


This isn’t a write-up to make you feel bad, for everything there’s a season and a reason and without these you’re just floating on the plane of reality, not making an impact, not contributing, you’re just sliding in and out without realizing how opaque your life is.


This doesn’t apply to dating alone, why do you do the things you do? What’s the reason behind the purpose that’s motivating you? Don’t forget to drop your comment and encourage someone.


Thanks.


Isabella Ibeji


Talk2Bella

http://www.talk2bella.com/2016/10/why-are-you-still-single.html?m=1

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Re: Why Are You Still Single? by falconey(m): 8:57am On Oct 07, 2016
school and it's fun being single

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Re: Why Are You Still Single? by Nobody: 8:59am On Oct 07, 2016
Nobody likes me cry

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Re: Why Are You Still Single? by Nobody: 9:00am On Oct 07, 2016
Dating is a waste of time, you spend money and time on someone you might never marry.. The unthankful bitçh still sometimes has the nerve to bitçh to you about little things..


Fuçking annoying..

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Re: Why Are You Still Single? by KingRex1(m): 9:01am On Oct 07, 2016
Here to read comments

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Re: Why Are You Still Single? by Young03(m): 9:05am On Oct 07, 2016
SINCE I NOTICED THAT UKWU BU EGO

AND ALL THE GIRLS I MEET ARE KARASHIKAS
THEY AREN'T LOYAL

I REMAIN ON MY OWN

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Re: Why Are You Still Single? by falconey(m): 9:09am On Oct 07, 2016
OBTSubtle:
Dating is a waste of time, you spend money and time on someone you might never marry.. The unthankful bitçh still sometimes has the nerve to bitçh to you about little things..


Fuçking annoying..

it's always favourable to the ladies, we must approach them because of our strong sexual innuendos towards them, do some crappy things out of will to satisfy our sexual urges in the process wasting time and resources.

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Re: Why Are You Still Single? by Talk2Bella(f): 9:09am On Oct 07, 2016
cc: Lalasticlala

Can this get to front page please smiley
Re: Why Are You Still Single? by Nobody: 9:09am On Oct 07, 2016
Can't remember the last time I was single cheesy

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Re: Why Are You Still Single? by Talk2Bella(f): 9:10am On Oct 07, 2016
falconey:
school and it's fun being single

You know it's not fun being single smiley

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Re: Why Are You Still Single? by Talk2Bella(f): 9:10am On Oct 07, 2016
Stalker365:
Nobody likes me cry

I like you smiley

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Re: Why Are You Still Single? by Talk2Bella(f): 9:11am On Oct 07, 2016
OBTSubtle:
Dating is a waste of time, you spend money and time on someone you might never marry.. The unthankful bitçh still sometimes has the nerve to bitçh to you about little things..


Fuçking annoying..

Who broke your heart? grin or ate your money cheesy

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Re: Why Are You Still Single? by slimthugchimee(m): 9:11am On Oct 07, 2016
Stalker365:
Nobody likes me cry



i see you bro...its really hard on us cry cry

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Re: Why Are You Still Single? by Talk2Bella(f): 9:11am On Oct 07, 2016
ItsQuinn:
Can't remember the last time I was single cheesy

Hahaha hahaha

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Re: Why Are You Still Single? by Nobody: 9:15am On Oct 07, 2016
Talk2Bella:


I like you smiley


I see..so u wanto yanshhh that boy called stalker abi
Re: Why Are You Still Single? by teejaypee: 9:19am On Oct 07, 2016
Stalker365:
Nobody likes me cry

nigga, nobody cares undecided

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Re: Why Are You Still Single? by Nobody: 9:19am On Oct 07, 2016
cheesy

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Re: Why Are You Still Single? by Lsofdk(m): 9:20am On Oct 07, 2016
none of the above!
freedom baby.
sometimes it's suffocating

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Re: Why Are You Still Single? by Talk2Bella(f): 9:21am On Oct 07, 2016
Jarizod:


I see..so u wanto yanshhh that boy called stalker abi

cheesy cheesy cheesy
Re: Why Are You Still Single? by Talk2Bella(f): 9:22am On Oct 07, 2016
Iamhatey:
I'm still single because guys are complicated.

I'm afraid I will be faithful and he will cheat on me.
I'm afraid that he will change to something else.
Im afraid that after all the fvcking and all that, he won't marry me angry sad

Fear of the unknown will only limit your chances of being happy smiley

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Re: Why Are You Still Single? by Rells(m): 9:23am On Oct 07, 2016
Dem dey share money for relationship? undecided

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Re: Why Are You Still Single? by Nobody: 9:25am On Oct 07, 2016
Jarizod:


I see..so u wanto yanshhh that boy called stalker abi
Hahaha..
Guy u worry oh..
Re: Why Are You Still Single? by Nobody: 9:25am On Oct 07, 2016
Talk2Bella:


Fear of the unknown will only limit your chances of being happy smiley
My problem is the fear.






I'm just scared, very scared cry

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Re: Why Are You Still Single? by Nobody: 9:28am On Oct 07, 2016
McClaneJohn:
Hahaha.. Guy u worry oh..
grin grin
Re: Why Are You Still Single? by Talk2Bella(f): 9:29am On Oct 07, 2016
Iamhatey:
My problem is the fear.






I'm just scared, very scared cry

Life's all about risk smiley and any risk without a lesson learnt is a total waste of time

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Re: Why Are You Still Single? by Nobody: 9:30am On Oct 07, 2016
Talk2Bella:


cheesy cheesy cheesy

why yanshh a 2-inch boy when u can yanshh a 20-inchh ryt smiley
Re: Why Are You Still Single? by Talk2Bella(f): 9:30am On Oct 07, 2016
Rells:
Dem dey share money for relationship? undecided

Yels grin

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Re: Why Are You Still Single? by Talk2Bella(f): 9:30am On Oct 07, 2016
Jarizod:


why yanshh a 2-inch boy when u can yanshh a 20-inchh ryt smiley

shocked shocked shocked
Re: Why Are You Still Single? by dadabashua1(m): 9:30am On Oct 07, 2016
Iamhatey:
I'm still single because guys are complicated.

I'm afraid I will be faithful and he will cheat on me.
I'm afraid that he will change to something else.
Im afraid that after all the fvcking and all that, he won't marry me angry sad
is the exact opposite about the females that made me to be single for Now... girls are so unpredictable and very complicated... seriously you more happy when u single... no worries, no quarrels, no stress etc

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Re: Why Are You Still Single? by kwakwakwa(m): 9:32am On Oct 07, 2016
Cuz i need slim and cute baby with killer curves.


Cool, romantic and matured babes to PM.

Thanks

grin

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Re: Why Are You Still Single? by ErnieSmallzz(f): 9:32am On Oct 07, 2016
because, because. Hmmm ion knw

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Re: Why Are You Still Single? by handsam(m): 9:33am On Oct 07, 2016
slimthugchimee:




i see you bro...its really hard on us cry cry

Kundecided

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