TrapQueen77:




I won't be surprised one day if a lot of Nigerian women will settle down with foreigners..where they're appreciated, loved and comforted way better than their local men...


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TrapQueen77:




I won't be surprised one day if a lot of Nigerian women will settle down with foreigners..where they're appreciated, loved and comforted way better than their local men...


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DeLioncourt:
Babe please shift.
Both men and women are guilty of this accusation you have conveniently leveled against Nigerian men.

And it's not only Nigerians that are guilty of this.
It is human nature to be greedy and selfish. Some people have it under control, some don't.

Muslims all over the world are allowed to marry more than one woman. Is that not indicative that some of them may not be satisfied with one wife?
Women, married and unmarried, cheat on their partners. Some even have boyfriends for different purposes.. (shawarma bf, suya bf, iphone bf)
So chill and be the best person you can be.

genieluv:


It's mostly African men that are guilty of this. They always like to lay blames on their spouses. Most white men are very supportive of their partners no matter what and will never shift the blames on them for their wrongdoings.
I know women have issues and also tend to play guys, but African women are generally more comitted and faithful to whoever they say their vows to on the alter and they tend to lay their lives in his hands and give him their complete support and allow all their desires go to him alone. But this is very different from most men here.

ianSweet:
LoL, OP thank you for describing Nigerian and African men, they are the most insecure creatures ever created.

This is why i usually tell ladies to live their lives naturally and just be themselves and let any man who will come your way love u for who you are. If he wants to leave, he should leave, because even if you kill yourself, you can never still please the average Nigerian man. He will always find some reasons to complain about you.

SpicyJosBabe:
This is true

firstking01:
Hope you are done with him finally??

ianSweet:
LoL, OP thank you for describing Nigerian and African men, they are the most insecure creatures ever created.
This is why i usually tell ladies to live their lives naturally and just be themselves and let any man who will come your way love u for who you are. If he wants to leave, he should leave, because even if you kill yourself, you can never still please the average Nigerian man. He will always find some reasons to complain about you.

Newbeginnings:
I understand you... genieluv

The simple thing is that Nigerians, Africans are passive, when you understand this........ you will learn how to craft men and other people into what you want..

I will be posting an article explaining the three types of people, Actives, Passives and Inactives... You can check my profile for the post later in the day

Stay Healthy, Stay Wise

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@OP,its time to develop a thick skin,lamenting about the confused state a particular gender finds themselves won't change nothing.

Just be yourself,make a difference,ane watch the small percent of the reasonable ones among them come your way

DeLioncourt:


You talk like you never see anything negative in your partner. The fact that your partner complains about something does not make him insecure or less of a man. It's your job to make him see your point of view and vice versa.
Even the white men that y'all praise so much have their flaws. Try interacting with white chicks and let them tell you their first hand experiences. I have and I can tell you that the devil you know in naija is better than the white angel you don't know.

misspicy:

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@OP,its time to develop a thick skin,lamenting about the confused state a particular gender finds themselves won't change nothing.

Just be yourself,make a difference,ane watch the small percent of the reasonable ones among them come your way

SpicyJosBabe:

Yes i am, why are u asking? Are you single?

genieluv:

You are very correct dear. Foreign men are not as insecure as these our men here. Nigerian men will always find every reason to blame a woman no matter what she does.

genieluv:


What makes u feel she has not interracted with white folks or people from other races? She might have actually had. For instance i can tell u that [b]many white women will tell u that they prefer African men because African men are family oriented and will be quite quick to settle down [/b]and have children, some of them also feel that African men are sexually endowed compared to their men and these may be true.

Another thing is that many African men are naturally pretenders from what i have observed. If they are with white women, they tend to act more obedient, supportive and comitted to the marriage, but with their own fellow African women, they just take us for granted.

We have attained common ground there.
Anyway, it's a good thing you didn't generalise cos I know a large number of straightforward and honer Nigerian guys.
I may not be one of them but they exist.
I'm sure you've heard of rednecks and hillbillies... The men in that category treat their women like sh*t. And they ain't even ½% African.
And in my opinion, women are actually more disloyal than men... Except the Yoruba demons of course...they have no match.

DeLioncourt:


You talk like you never see anything negative in your partner. The fact that your partner complains about something does not make him insecure or less of a man. It's your job to make him see your point of view and vice versa.
Even the white men that y'all praise so much have their flaws. Try interacting with white chicks and let them tell you their first hand experiences. I have and I can tell you that the devil you know in naija is better than the white angel you don't know.

genieluv:

What makes u feel she has not interracted with white folks or people from other races? She might have actually had. For instance i can tell u that many white women will tell u that they prefer African men because African men are family oriented and will be quite quick to settle down and have children, some of them also feel that African men are sexually endowed compared to their men and these may be true.
Another thing is that many African men are naturally pretenders from what i have observed. If they are with white women, they tend to act more obedient, supportive and comitted to the marriage, but with their own fellow African women, they just take us for granted.

kelval:
though i really can't read that your epistle but with that title, you just haven't met the good ones yet. trust me..

Phikom:
epistle...

DeLioncourt:
Babe please shift.
Both men and women are guilty of this accusation you have conveniently leveled against Nigerian men.

And it's not only Nigerians that are guilty of this.
It is human nature to be greedy and selfish. Some people have it under control, some don't.

Muslims all over the world are allowed to marry more than one woman. Is that not indicative that some of them may not be satisfied with one wife?
Women, married and unmarried, cheat on their partners. Some even have boyfriends for different purposes.. (shawarma bf, suya bf, iphone bf)
So chill and be the best person you can be.

ianSweet:
Chai, see Nigerian men and their laziness. How come we the ladies here are not complaining of the length of OP's post? Even if u cannot read everything, read some of it. You guys will always say ''you've not met the right person'' but if we look at the majority of Nigerian homes or relatiionships, we clearly see this is true.

genieluv:


Yes u are right. But with the rate of pretence going on, how sure are we that we will not attract the pretenders who will wow at our presence before marriage but immediately they have paid the bride price then the whole story changes?
Am not married yet, but i can see what our married women suffer in the hands of these men. It's so terrible.
That's why my advice for girls and women is to empower themselves and completely depend on themselves and never try to live their lives to please any man or his opinions, becos u can never in the real sense.

My dear,we can actually rise above the seeming bad situation.
How
1)Be prayerful.
2)Meeting with the right people
3)Mingling with the right crowd.
4)Be vigilant
5)Be focused,know you aim and expectations
6)Self love
And like you said 'independent'

Nothing is gonna change in a yet a long while,unless by divine intervention

ianSweet:



Chai, see Nigerian men and their laziness. How come we the ladies here are not complaining of the length of OP's post? Even if u cannot read everything, read some of it.

You guys will always say ''you've not met the right person'' but if we look at the majority of Nigerian homes or relatiionships, we clearly see this is true.

SpicyJosBabe:


My sister, i think you are correct. But not all of our men are like that, however i think about half of them or the majority especially in marriages.
You can imagine a married woman will be managing with her husband when he has nothing and would be there for him, but once he starts making money, he abandons her and goes for more babes outside. I can't count the amount of advances i have turned down from married men.
The faithful wife is managing with you African man and you claim she is boring and not fascinating enough, if she starts demanding for money for high cosmetic, hairstyling and expensive clothing and jewellry bills, you will call her a spendthrift and extravagant wife who spends anyhow.

I really think a lot of men do not actually know what they want from a woman.