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Me I feel friendship is pointless, all i do is to meet people, spend some quality time with them, have fun for the moment and move on. Simple! no stress

iamnlia:
Finally I finished reading.......

You guys here are tremendously awesome.

Been wanting to talk but kept restraining myself.

My story is just like most, absolutely had no friends till my university years. I was perpetually quiet, mother always thought that I was annoyed at her because I just wasn't talking.
People Always thought different things of me,some thought I was proud and snobbish while others thought I was dumb.

But one thing is that when quiet, people think you're stupid and dumb and they treat you like shit and they make you angry. Then when their cup fills up, you just pleasurably tear them up Limb from limb. After that, when you cool down they realize you actually get angry and then you realize you can't control it.

I actually find it hard talking, infact I loathe talking to strangers and also hate ppl trying to start conversations with me.... Like wtf?

And because of that I have absolutely zero babes and not up to 10 guy pals and people also think you're crazy because of weird habits. This is the part I actually hate because people don't just connect with you.

And being lonely eventually translate into being very knowledgeable, but I still find it hard to fit into conversations even if I know absolutely everything about it.

But I love being unique !

ItsQuinn:
The problem i have is that i pile up my anger within for a long time then when i feel i cant hold it any longer i lash out, no matter how little the problem is, but it happens just once in a while though.

I don't pile up but once I get angry, even at little things which usually happens maybe 10 tens in a year, most people see me as being wicked because I lash out really bad.

yeah i feel you

Bidexluv:
I don't pile up but once I get angry, even at little things which usually happens maybe 10 tens in a year, most people see me as being wicked because I lash out really bad.

ItsQuinn:
Me I feel friendship is pointless, all i do is to meet people, spend some quality time with them, have fun for the moment and move on. Simple! no stress

Wow, you just got me.

Lol....How do you mean?

4kings:
Wow, you just got me.

ItsQuinn:
Lol....How do you mean?

I could stay throughout a semester holiday, without calling or chatting up anyone, not because i don't miss them, but i just don't like getting socially engaged.
Some of my friends wonder how i would get married. lol

I feel you, my family members and my family friends are the ones saying how will I get married? ....They can't understand

4kings:
I could stay throughout a semester holiday, without calling or chatting up anyone, not because i don't miss them, but i just don't like getting socially engaged.
Some of my friends wonder how i would get married. lol

ItsQuinn:
I feel you, my family members and my family friends are the ones saying how will I get married? ....They can't understand

Abi.
Last week one of my friends told me to take a personality test (you can take it on https://www.16personalities.com/ ), and i found out i was an INFJ. And i was also 87% introverted, like WTF . It's been quite revealing but ofcourse the bad parts are annoying

Whats INFJ....this test is freaking long

4kings:
Abi.
Last week one of my friends told me to take a personality test (you can take it on https://www.16personalities.com/ ), and i found out i was an INFJ. And i was also 87% introverted, like WTF . It's been quite revealing but ofcourse the bad parts are annoying

ItsQuinn:
yeah i feel you

thanks sis. My favorite quote is "When you see a gentle lion, don't consider it stupid". I try as much as possible not to get close to people because my privacy policies are well maintained o and I don't like getting myself or people around me offended

4kings:
Abi.
Last week one of my friends told me to take a personality test (you can take it on https://www.16personalities.com/ ), and i found out i was an INFJ. And i was also 87% introverted, like WTF . It's been quite revealing but ofcourse the bad parts are annoying

Took this when I was preparing for a scholarship personality test sometimes back......

same with me, i love my privacy very much.

Bidexluv:
thanks sis. My favorite quote is "When you see a gentle lion, don't consider it stupid". I try as much as possible not to get close to people because my privacy policies are well maintained o and I don't like getting myself or people around me offended

what was your result?

Bidexluv:
Took this when I was preparing for a scholarship personality test sometimes back......

ItsQuinn:
Whats INFJ....this test is freaking long

The acronym is Introverted feeling(I), intuition(N), Extroverted Feeling(F) and Judging(J)

This is the basic explanation from the site:
The INFJ personality type is very rare, making up less than one percent of the population, but they nonetheless leave their mark on the world. As Diplomats (NF), they have an inborn sense of idealism and morality, but what sets them apart is the accompanying Judging (J) trait – INFJs are not idle dreamers, but people capable of taking concrete steps to realize their goals and make a lasting positive impact.

INFJs indeed share a very unique combination of traits: though soft-spoken, they have very strong opinions and will fight tirelessly for an idea they believe in. They are decisive and strong-willed, but will rarely use that energy for personal gain – INFJs will act with creativity, imagination, conviction and sensitivity not to create advantage, but to create balance. Egalitarianism and karma are very attractive ideas to INFJs, and they tend to believe that nothing would help the world so much as using love and compassion to soften the hearts of tyrants.

Just complete the test, i'm waiting to know your result. I only know one INFJ.

Bidexluv:
Took this when I was preparing for a scholarship personality test sometimes back......

Are u also an INFJ?, what was your result?

INFP-A....Lol 57% introverted

4kings:
Are u also an INFJ?, what was your result?

ItsQuinn:
INFP-A....Lol 57% introverted

Yayyyyy , what does P mean?
And i think i'm the most extreme introvert so far.

Mediator personalities are true idealists, always looking for the hint of good in even the worst of people and events, searching for ways to make things better. While they may be perceived as calm, reserved, or even shy, Mediators have an inner flame and passion that can truly shine. Comprising just 4% of the population, the risk of feeling misunderstood is unfortunately high for the Mediator personality type – but when they find like-minded people to spend their time with, the harmony they feel will be a fountain of joy and inspiration.

4kings:
Yayyyyy , what does P mean?
And i think i'm the most extreme introvert so far.

Being a part of the Diplomat Role group, Mediators are guided by their principles, rather than by logic (Analysts), excitement (Explorers), or practicality (Sentinels). When deciding how to move forward, they will look to honor, beauty, morality and virtue – Mediators are led by the purity of their intent, not rewards and punishments. People who share the Mediator personality type are proud of this quality, and rightly so, but not everyone understands the drive behind these feelings, and it can lead to isolation.

All that is gold does not glitter; not all those who wander are lost; the old that is strong does not wither; deep roots are not reached by the frost.
J. R. R. Tolkien

ItsQuinn:
Mediator personalities are true idealists, always looking for the hint of good in even the worst of people and events, searching for ways to make things better. While they may be perceived as calm, reserved, or even shy, Mediators have an inner flame and passion that can truly shine. Comprising just 4% of the population, the risk of feeling misunderstood is unfortunately high for the Mediator personality type – but when they find like-minded people to spend their time with, the harmony they feel will be a fountain of joy and inspiration.

Wowwww.
Feeling misunderstood is always annoying.
I watched a Youtube video, and the vlogger said INFJ spends most of their time thinking and less putting it into action,(which is one of the bad parts i told u about), i hope its is not applicable to the INFP considering P is for perception.

What's your intuition and perception percentage?

62% intuitive and 38% Observant...whats yours?

4kings:
Wowwww.
Feeling misunderstood is always annoying.
I watched a Youtube video, and the vlogger said INFJ spends most of their time thinking and less putting it into action,(which is one of the bad parts i told u about), i hope its is not applicable to the INFP considering P is for perception.

What's your intuition and perception percentage?

ItsQuinn:
62% intuitive and 38% Observant...whats yours?

76% Intuitive, 60% Judging(for J) and 61% Feeling

Just checked the site and i can see Williams Shakespeare and Johnny Depp as INFP. Woww

4kings:
Yayyyyy , what does P mean?
And i think i'm the most extreme introvert so far.

Mine is INTP-A

KingEbukasBlog:
Mine is INTP-A

Are u kidding me (I), i would've never expected you to be an Introvert.
What's your introversion percentage?

4kings:
Are u kidding me (I), i would've never expected you to be an Introvert.
What's your introversion percentage?

Here is my result

Lol 61% feeling, 39% Judging, 61% prospecting, 85% assertive, 15% turbulent

4kings:
76% Intuitive, 60% Judging(for J) and 61% Feeling

Just checked the site and i can see Williams Shakespeare and Johnny Depp as INFP. Woww

KingEbukasBlog:


Here is my result

Hmmm, the Logician
Assertive (78%), now i know why u are stubborn.
Here's mine:

so you are kinda violent. 68% turbulent. Lol

4kings:
Hmmm, the Logician
Assertive (78%), now i know why u are stubborn.
Here's mine:

4kings:
Hmmm, the Logician
Assertive (78%), now i know why u are stubborn.
Here's mine:

The Advocate ? Pretty sure you are a feminist and supporter of equal rights for gays in Nigeria

And you are 87 percent introverted ? Thats really bad . Certainly not a ladies' man

ItsQuinn:
so you are kinda violent. 68% turbulent. Lol

More like 4kings has no sangfroid when he is on the precipice of danger or in a confused situation . In simple terms , he is a sissy , a big one .

ItsQuinn:
so you are kinda violent. 68% turbulent. Lol

Ouch, i don't think i am, its most likely a mind thing(i mean being unsettled).