I can't seem to get over her few weeks after our break up even though I was the one who initiated it in the first place.

I broke up with her on the ground of cultural differences. She's not violent though but She's from a place where "trouble" drinks water in order to stay alive. And I fear such hence the break up.

Now I'm feeling much weaker cos I don't know what I really am missing: is it her body, the sex or her offended person?

I wish I can move on soonest.

Forget about him/her.


Delete the number

EastGold:
Forget about him/her.


Delete the number

I tried but truth is I feel bad doing so. She never offended me for once in our over one year togetherness.

In the first week I felt absolutely nothing wrong until my heart started replaying some old memories. I was forced to go talk with her in order to make peace for future's sake. I even had to make it look like I was the one with the problem and not her.

Few days after then, I went back just to check on her. We talked like cool friends and I asked if we could "have fun" and she said NO! That she'd rather self-service if she feels arouse instead of doing it wit me again. Maybe this contributed to my feeling bad since then.

Not that she's all that good in bed though, but I was just trying to make her feel good that she wasn't dropped because of her below average bed performance. But her response got me

o.p you don't love her, you're just using her for sex. Love doesn't know culture, country,skin colour or white from black.

You're still a big baby kid, she didn't offend you yet you broke up with her cos of some internal battle you have that's unnecessary and irrelevant.

Abeg jump inside lagoon for all I care o. You even said you wanted to "have fun" with her but thank God she has more sense than you to say no.

She's my type of person, we got no time for dramatic showcase ,we move on like you're trash and we don't give a damn.

O.p you're so a kid bro, please next time, the next girl leave her too o cos maybe she didn't come from your village ooo or she didn't have your type of colour. Rubbish!

To get over your Ex;


Get under the Next

nubian999:
To get over your Ex;


Get under the Next

she answered you already op, get a next one dive in between and your problems solved...

doctorkush:
she answered you already op, get a next one dive in between and your problems solved...

The doctor and I have concurred. Case closed. Finished. Thread closed.

Ginaz:
o.p you don't love her, you're just using her for sex. Love doesn't know culture, country,skin colour or white from black.

You're still a big baby kid, she didn't offend you yet you broke up with her cos of some internal battle you have that's unnecessary and irrelevant.

Abeg jump inside lagoon for all I care o. You even said you wanted to "have fun" with her but thank God she has more sense than you to say no.

She's my type of person, we got no time for dramatic showcase ,we move on like you're trash and we don't give a damn.

O.p you're so a kid bro, please next time, the next girl leave her too o cos maybe she didn't come from your village ooo or she didn't have your type of colour. Rubbish!

well said. But babe, I want to make on honest request. *kneels down and look passionately in to her eyes* Let me be your knight in shiny armour. Let me be your romeo and your moon at night.

I do not have have the riches of a dangote but have rich heart to never stop being real for you.

Before you say NO, would you be kind enough to find out who is really behind this handle, If it is real, if it real means this words? You never can tell, really.

nubian999:


The doctor and I have concurred. Case closed. Finished. Thread closed.

you don't. you just have to accept that she was a good part of your life and move on. time will do the rest

Have learnt long time ago not 2b making unnecessary assumptions!!!

jorion:
you don't. you just have to accept that she was a good part of your life and move on. time will do the rest

Thank you

Ginaz:
o.p you don't love her, you're just using her for sex. Love doesn't know culture, country,skin colour or white from black.

You're still a big baby kid, she didn't offend you yet you broke up with her cos of some internal battle you have that's unnecessary and irrelevant.

sorry, I didn't narrate how we started and our goal; the relationship isn't meant to lead beyond 'mutual benefits'. i made it clear and we both agreed before our first sex. me jilting her was just a wake up call to really, i can't deal with 'future palava'... too young for that.

Abeg jump inside lagoon for all I care o. You even said you wanted to "have fun" with her but thank God she has more sense than you to say no.

if you suffer have suffered a similar situation, i'm sorry.

She's my type of person, we got no time for dramatic showcase ,we move on like you're trash and we don't give a damn.

good to know

O.p you're so a kid bro, please next time, the next girl leave her too o cos maybe she didn't come from your village ooo or she didn't have your type of colour. Rubbish!

i agree you said that. it is better i be a kid now than to be a 'kilishi beef' in the hands on some 'spiritual mai suya' in the nearest futre.

thank you

Ginaz:
o.p you don't love her, you're just using her for sex. Love doesn't know culture, country,skin colour or white from black.

You're still a big baby kid, she didn't offend you yet you broke up with her cos of some internal battle you have that's unnecessary and irrelevant.

Abeg jump inside lagoon for all I care o. You even said you wanted to "have fun" with her but thank God she has more sense than you to say no.

She's my type of person, we got no time for dramatic showcase ,we move on like you're trash and we don't give a damn.

O.p you're so a kid bro, please next time, the next girl leave her too o cos maybe she didn't come from your village ooo or she didn't have your type of colour. Rubbish!

preach on girl