CXLVII:
Resign from the work and start hunting for a job.

Is that simple since you not comfortable.

Its a finance company and your mistake could be costly and dent reputation of company.

lefulefu:
u dont poo where u eat hence its not advisable starting a love relationship with a working colleague

MiniMiniPoPoPo:
see matter, guy resign now sharp sharp

Abbeylanre15:
Pls Help me to move this to the Front Page

I don't know if this is the right section to post this, but I'd hope everyone here will assist me because I'm fighting an emotional battle at work. I will try to be brief and concise,but kindly pardon me if it ends up being lengthy.
I joined this finance company early 2018, this lady was employed two months later. We became friends and then lovers. Things were going on smoothly for more than 20months. She's so supportive and industrious. The only major issue I was stupid I could change was ANGER. Whenever,she gets angry,there is nothing she can't do,she has once broke my sound system n did few stupid things I wouldn't want to write here. I enrolled her in an online anger management course and was seeing little positive changes.
Until last December when her demons resurfaced,after managing to calm here down,I called her mom and booked a meeting with her so as to know few more things about her. Perhaps, I might be doing something that do irk her feelings unknowingly or there's an antidote they do administer whenever she get angered irrationally.
Instead of her Mom to address the subject under review, she just told me that She n her Dad will never bless our Union due to our difference in religious beliefs.(I'm a Christian, they're Muslims). She stylishly apologized for not telling me that a long time ago. She said,her daughter has never admitted to dating me before whenever her parents ask about me. WE ARE JUST FRIENDS AND CLOSE COLLEAGUES!That has always been her response whenever they ask about me.
Well,Life Continues! We decided to quit for the obvious reasons. I got another babe (but she stays in another state) and I want to believe she has also moved on.
The problem I have is that, I'm not always comfortable around her. I just wish she could dissapear or better still, I should get a better job and stop seeing her on daily basis. Moreover,she derives pleasure in doing things that will bring back memories of when we were together. Today, she got a duvet cover for her new guy which she also bought for me when we were together n was telling her (another colleague) that I got this for my BF. I felt hit.
Please,matured and relationship experts in the house should advise me on how or what to do for me to get over her conveniently. I can't resign coz of her in this Corona era. Pls help a brother

Abbeylanre15:



Agreed bro. I've also regretted my decision to think with my dick instead of my brain. But the deed is done. This poo has to be cleaned. Pls help a brother.

Abbeylanre15:
Pls Help me to move this to the Front Page

I don't know if this is the right section to post this, but I'd hope everyone here will assist me because I'm fighting an emotional battle at work. I will try to be brief and concise,but kindly pardon me if it ends up being lengthy.
I joined this finance company early 2018, this lady was employed two months later. We became friends and then lovers. Things were going on smoothly for more than 20months. She's so supportive and industrious. The only major issue I was stupid I could change was ANGER. Whenever,she gets angry,there is nothing she can't do,she has once broke my sound system n did few stupid things I wouldn't want to write here. I enrolled her in an online anger management course and was seeing little positive changes.
Until last December when her demons resurfaced,after managing to calm here down,I called her mom and booked a meeting with her so as to know few more things about her. Perhaps, I might be doing something that do irk her feelings unknowingly or there's an antidote they do administer whenever she get angered irrationally.
Instead of her Mom to address the subject under review, she just told me that She n her Dad will never bless our Union due to our difference in religious beliefs.(I'm a Christian, they're Muslims). She stylishly apologized for not telling me that a long time ago. She said,her daughter has never admitted to dating me before whenever her parents ask about me. WE ARE JUST FRIENDS AND CLOSE COLLEAGUES!That has always been her response whenever they ask about me.
Well,Life Continues! We decided to quit for the obvious reasons. I got another babe (but she stays in another state) and I want to believe she has also moved on.
The problem I have is that, I'm not always comfortable around her. I just wish she could dissapear or better still, I should get a better job and stop seeing her on daily basis. Moreover,she derives pleasure in doing things that will bring back memories of when we were together. Today, she got a duvet cover for her new guy which she also bought for me when we were together n was telling her (another colleague) that I got this for my BF. I felt hit.
Please,matured and relationship experts in the house should advise me on how or what to do for me to get over her conveniently. I can't resign coz of her in this Corona era. Pls help a brother

zexy2030:

From ur story she seems to have moved on, but the uneasiness u feel around her.. I will suggest u should sustain a mild friendship with her as u make her know shrewdly that u both can't be married. Getting threatened by her anger issues could affect ur productivity at work too. So man up, the worse she can do is to arrange ur lay off, but u said she has a new boy friend, so enjoy ur friendship. Soft answers turns away wrath.

Patented:
Pele. Look for another Job. Till then u will just have to endure and work on Ur emotions. She is trying to get to u, don't let her and don't try to get to her to

Abbeylanre15:
Pls Help me to move this to the Front Page.

Abbeylanre15:

Thanks bro.. This I shall do

NextD18:
I don't know your age and the gravity of responsibilities you have, but one thing I'm very sure of is, if you have a lot of responsibilities depending on that job, people you are taking care of and lots of bills you use your job to take care of, you won't be here crying and seeking for advice on how to bundle your stupid emotions and work hard to make it in life.

Rubbish!! Imagine being stressed up and gambling with your source of income because of pussay that has no hymen.

zexy2030:

u know I once had a girl friend, who dared to stab me with knife in her apartment, because I was flirting with her younger sister, she sent that her sister on errand. Brought out two knives...my dear it wasn't funny, actually this my ex is more temperous than urs, she could kill, she fights and beats men. But in my case when she came with the knife, she pinned me to the wall , and told me to repeat all I said to the younger sister, with all chill and softwords, made it a joke and she dropped the knife, I don't know why girls who have anger issues can fvck for Africa.. u know what I mean...it ended with joy.. for her mind the sex was the punishment, She fvcked hell out of me, nearly broke my dick

CAPSLOCKED:


I WON'T.

Abbeylanre15:



U got it bro... They're pretty good in bed. Was thinking of how that idiot will yansh her when she present the duvet cover... She can f**k for Africa.

zexy2030:

I still left her sha, she called boys to beat me up in my house, but the wonder is, she is now married to a pastor. 2yrs ago..good luck to her.

Nonye1234:
I hope you get your emotional freedom soon

I don't know if this will work for you...

Whenever the image of someone who's hurt me come to my head , I create an imaginary pistol and blow their head off. I know it might sound weird but it's my way of getting it out of my mind.
In your case you see the person everyday, so just replace the thoughts of her and what she did with something better. Like a happy moment, yourself counting money, you know..

rtdCivilservant:
Don't try to leave ur job cos of a girl, with time u will see her even if she is kissing a guy in ur presence u will not be touched. But next time don't do office romance.