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Ladies: Don't Make Yourself A Target - Bamisepeters' Blog by bamisepeters(op): 3:19pm On Oct 29, 2016
Some men often wonder why they post pictures on their social networks and are not getting much likes like they desire, but if a lady post pictures exposing her neck alone she gets plenty likes let alone a sensitive part of her body.

Naturally, women are magnet, they attract men's attention. Check it, most of the likes they have gotten is from the men.

You post almost naked picture of yourself and you expect to be attracted to someone that will love you for the rest of your life.

First, often in this case, your appearance shows the kind of person you are and you will only attract the opposite sex of your kind, those who will only enter into you and come out without looking back.

Those who will tell you sweet things because that is what you want, deceit.
Those that have a responsible woman at home but wish to explore other ladies who are meant for experiments like the one you are portraying yourself to be.

Naturally, you are beautiful, you do not necessarily need to go naked before you are noticed, you are wonderfully made for a good and responsible man but you desire to look extravagant for someone else that will only make you feel useless after he had done what you called him to do through your unclothedness.

There are ways you still dress and you will look more than sexy, yet reserved that no one dear say nonsense to you.

It pays to be responsible and reserved, good life is beyond social media.

You will only be addressed the way you appear, and only those that looks like what your appearance speaks will target you to prey upon.

Stop deceiving yourself to get good men when your appearance is attracting the irresponsible ones.

It pays to look responsible and reserved.


Source: http://bamisepeters..com.ng/2016/10/ladies-dont-make-yourself-target.html

Re: Ladies: Don't Make Yourself A Target - Bamisepeters' Blog by Nobody:
pls tell them.
they consciously and subconsciously attracts odds to themselves and form ignorance when the expected but not desired results surfaces...
Re: Ladies: Don't Make Yourself A Target - Bamisepeters' Blog by bamisepeters(op): 3:32pm On Oct 29, 2016
Dharniel:
pls tell them...
i always pray they hear, small time boys go dey disturb them which can even make their current good boy become jealous and cause problems...
Re: Ladies: Don't Make Yourself A Target - Bamisepeters' Blog by Essentials1(m): 3:33pm On Oct 29, 2016
so you have a blog.... very interesting... Wouldn't you like to share ideas

Although you have not edited and made the blog design very well
Re: Ladies: Don't Make Yourself A Target - Bamisepeters' Blog by Omotayor123(f):
Nice thread. First we should stop portraying ourselves as sexual Object..
Secondly, Learn to Make your own money be self independent....
Thirdly we should remember we are the Pride of all Nation. Keep your Pride smiley
Re: Ladies: Don't Make Yourself A Target - Bamisepeters' Blog by bamisepeters(op): 3:51pm On Oct 29, 2016
Essentials1:
so you have a blog.... very interesting... Wouldn't you like to share ideas

Although you have not edited and made the blog design very well
Jesus! A blogger since 2014...i would love to share ideas, a tree doesn't make a forest.
Re: Ladies: Don't Make Yourself A Target - Bamisepeters' Blog by bitchcrafts: 3:57pm On Oct 29, 2016
Personally op, I think first with my dikc; youre not attractive until i have a peep into your package, then will i chase... After my dikc is noe satisfied, the brain cells take action to scrutinze the woman in the mirror. Eventually, it strikes me that the apparel a lady decides to rock doesnt usually spell out the personality... For Ive heard of whorish Muslim girls always rocking the Jilbab , plenty of them, me and my brothas mock many of them theyve caught in their nets and tossed around in our private talks . Personally, plenty moderate girls partly clad too. So,this law youre pasting aint Universal,what you see is not always what it is. Life has thought me to look beyond the packaging,You should too. Most of these girls posting semiclad pics actually do that to mock guys and their sheepish flapper when they start worshipping em like roman gods; you wont sniff their pants; They got bfs and working relationships, live a good life too. ..Not debunking the fact that oloshos and lowlifers abound among these lots tho. I hope u get my drift?
Re: Ladies: Don't Make Yourself A Target - Bamisepeters' Blog by bamisepeters(op): 4:33pm On Oct 29, 2016
bitchcrafts:
Personally op, I think first with my dikc; youre not attractive until i have a peep into your package, then will i chase... After my dikc is noe satisfied, the brain cells take action to scrutinze the woman in the mirror. Eventually, it strikes me that the apparel a lady decides to rock doesnt usually spell out the personality... For Ive heard of whorish Muslim girls always rocking the Jilbab , plenty of them, me and my brothas mock many of them theyve caught in their nets and tossed around in our private talks . Personally, plenty moderate girls partly clad too. So,this law youre pasting aint Universal,what you see is not always what it is. Life has thought me to look beyond the packaging,You should too. Most of these girls posting semiclad pics actually do that to mock guys and their sheepish flapper when they start worshipping em like roman gods; you wont sniff their pants; They got bfs and working relationships, live a good life too. ..Not debunking the fact that oloshos and lowlifers abound among these lots tho. I hope u get my drift?
thank God you said life though "you" to look beyond appearance, many will have fallen before thinking the way you have stated it, i hope you know that?
Re: Ladies: Don't Make Yourself A Target - Bamisepeters' Blog by bitchcrafts: 4:39pm On Oct 29, 2016
bamisepeters:
thank God you said life though "you" to look beyond appearance, many will have fallen before thinking the way you have stated it, i hope you know that?
Well, we grow to learn and learn to grow
Re: Ladies: Don't Make Yourself A Target - Bamisepeters' Blog by Rapmoney(m): 5:50pm On Oct 29, 2016
@Op, you are wasting your time.

Why don't you try talking to walls or stones? huh You would need lesser energy to do so cool
Re: Ladies: Don't Make Yourself A Target - Bamisepeters' Blog by Oladimejip(f): 5:50pm On Oct 29, 2016
Money is the target my pple
Re: Ladies: Don't Make Yourself A Target - Bamisepeters' Blog by Nobody: 5:52pm On Oct 29, 2016
She Dat has ears, let her hear.....
Re: Ladies: Don't Make Yourself A Target - Bamisepeters' Blog by Haphard(m): 5:52pm On Oct 29, 2016
Women are magnet, lol. That phrase gat me crying 4ladies. They sumtyms got attracted to Rapist tho.
Re: Ladies: Don't Make Yourself A Target - Bamisepeters' Blog by abdulmuqsit15(m): 5:53pm On Oct 29, 2016
Na truth talk jare, tanx alot
Re: Ladies: Don't Make Yourself A Target - Bamisepeters' Blog by Olusharp(m): 5:54pm On Oct 29, 2016
This one is not meant for present day Nigeria ladies most have passed the rubicon
Re: Ladies: Don't Make Yourself A Target - Bamisepeters' Blog by Nobody: 5:56pm On Oct 29, 2016
FALSE! undecided tongue
Re: Ladies: Don't Make Yourself A Target - Bamisepeters' Blog by TroubleMaker47(m): 5:59pm On Oct 29, 2016
Oloshos would be like

Re: Ladies: Don't Make Yourself A Target - Bamisepeters' Blog by lastesd19: 6:01pm On Oct 29, 2016
help me tell them o
Re: Ladies: Don't Make Yourself A Target - Bamisepeters' Blog by awa(m): 6:01pm On Oct 29, 2016
That's if they would hear...
Re: Ladies: Don't Make Yourself A Target - Bamisepeters' Blog by Nobody: 6:10pm On Oct 29, 2016
We aff hear u sir.

On behalf of NAONL.

Re: Ladies: Don't Make Yourself A Target - Bamisepeters' Blog by Olasco93:
I am allergic to those type of ladies anyday anytime because our personality can never react. It's even more painful when alot of them do not remember that when a guy want to really settle down, he will carefully select the Good Maize from the Chaff.
The problem in the world is not because people don't look good enough, but because our Minds are not as beautiful as our dresses.
Re: Ladies: Don't Make Yourself A Target - Bamisepeters' Blog by Nobody: 6:11pm On Oct 29, 2016
If u like begin dey beat gong and waka from state to state till u waka reach seme border some girls no go hear word
Re: Ladies: Don't Make Yourself A Target - Bamisepeters' Blog by SalomonKane: 6:11pm On Oct 29, 2016
Most don't even care about responsible men or irresponsible men. What they care about is just the man with the money.

Nothing more, nothing less.
Re: Ladies: Don't Make Yourself A Target - Bamisepeters' Blog by Samiceman: 6:11pm On Oct 29, 2016
Omotayor123:
Nice thread. First we should stop portraying ourselves as sexual Object..
You mean you guys are not sexual objects? tongue
Re: Ladies: Don't Make Yourself A Target - Bamisepeters' Blog by iamehmakute(m): 6:14pm On Oct 29, 2016
1 word for the Op
Re: Ladies: Don't Make Yourself A Target - Bamisepeters' Blog by Thatnawtichick(f): 6:15pm On Oct 29, 2016
Nice one OP
Re: Ladies: Don't Make Yourself A Target - Bamisepeters' Blog by iamehmakute(m): 6:15pm On Oct 29, 2016
can someone give me a word for the Op
Re: Ladies: Don't Make Yourself A Target - Bamisepeters' Blog by Greenbullet(m): 6:16pm On Oct 29, 2016
op you are very correct,if you post picture like a how,patronizers will surely come so just forget it.them fuçk boys must send u pm.
Re: Ladies: Don't Make Yourself A Target - Bamisepeters' Blog by Revolva(m): 6:17pm On Oct 29, 2016
olosho DON take over instagram n snapchat

Re: Ladies: Don't Make Yourself A Target - Bamisepeters' Blog by bamisepeters(op): 6:17pm On Oct 29, 2016
TroubleMaker47:
Oloshos would be like
you are indeed a troublemaker loool..
Re: Ladies: Don't Make Yourself A Target - Bamisepeters' Blog by bamisepeters(op): 6:19pm On Oct 29, 2016
bitchcrafts:
Well, we grow to learn and learn to grow
thank you for this, i always learn too, this is why i love it when i get criticised, it makes me better. #proudwriter
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