mctowel01:

Calm down abeg.. You re trying to make sense, but you re trying too hard.
Understand that there arr natural instincts in human beings.. Men will always want to dominate while women will often look for someone higher, but the dominant man despises arrogance and Linda Ikeji doesn't seem to be subtle about it. That is the crux of the whole episode up there. At the end of the day, isn't it a man who will eventually have to marry her if she wants to get married and these traits are based more on human predilections and less of choice. So, even if you talk from now till tomorrow, feeling like some rejuvenated female, human nature will always remain human nature.. You can't marry a man and make him act against his nature.. Otherwise, there will be serious conflict of interests.
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Also, the way you referred to people being poor shows lot of immaturity from you. Yea, success comes with hard work, but again its only a fool that will say there is no luck in it.
Some people have been really misfortunate in this life beginning from the circumstances in which they were born, so its really insensitive and unwise of you to sit from your priviledged home and be derogatory statements about others' financial capacity.

To even ask, how much have you made yourself?

Can you save all these sermon and subtle insults for someone else? Thanchuu

I am not a fan of Linda Ikeji but this Maria UdeNshi or whatever she calls herself should STFU!

I personally did a lot of damage control for Linda Ikeji when it was alleged she said; she can buy any man with her money. I sincerely did not believe she can utter such; as I could not imagine any reasonable human being saying such. I defended her with all my might. I Paid Facebook and Google to boost and promote the article I took my time to create, image-making style, in order to squash that allegation.

@bolded...like seriously? Who asked you?? You were elected as a lawmaker to work for your constituents but here you are claiming Social Media diva and doing "Apriko" all over facebook.

This woman is deranged i swear!

warmachine:



I'm sorry...no vex...it wasn't really intended @ hurting you...but Sha m also human...we make mistakes... I'm truly sorry.


And as for that issue I think you should listen to your friend and the legislator...it will do you good...any man hu doesn't agree with her simply doesn't know his place and by implication doesn't know what marriage really is.

Thank you!

She has a point which she's entitled to. I however, do not agree with her.

Beamborla:

Ah! You waltzed into mine. Try not to get emotional... I'm not taking it personal, you got emotional. You wrote stuffs about me while responding to a praise from someone and i didn't get mushy. It was very harmless...didn't know it would strike a cord. I've not been arguing with you, from my end, I've been exchanging ideas.

If you don't have standards, you are entilled to and you can set some for yourself now.

Sorry ehn.

I did not write any bad stuff about you, I said

I don't think she really gets it or she does but is a die hard fan of Linda.

And you did not hit any cord sorry, it's just that am allergic to disrespectful people which I have sensed.

And I only waltz into ur mention because of a certain comment you made about men having preference and setting standard, so women too should be allowed to do so too.
Once again, good day

Just imagine, she got all these advice for free. If only pride will allow her to read and digest these words. The problem with this so called Linda is Pride. Well that's her problem not mine. Wetin konzign me.

Beamborla:

Oh puhleeze! Spare me that.

Because she's a woman she's not free to have standard? Because she's a woman she should settle for anything. When your spicie rant about what they want, it's perfectly okay, isn't? But a woman is suppose to lower her standard.

There are better way to pass across your message without resulting to insult. You however, do not even have a message to pass across.

She has earned the right to reject a poor guy. And yes, she won't be the last woman to have standards. If it was a rich dude who made such statement, you lot would come up with a zillion reasons to affirm his claim.

Suck it up... Poor is not attractive especially to the rich even to the poor. tongue

emusmithy:
Sharp mouth

Make no mistake Ombre, it's called smart mouth

Beamborla:

Thank you!

She has a point which she's entitled to. I however, do not agree with her.

Issoryt...no pee

Omg!!! What a brilliant piece. I love It when ladies got brain. Wish. I could meet this lady.

warmachine:



Gbam!!!!....
Kia I pray for you again!!!
U deserve a happy home. God no go fail you...lailai

Thanks, best wishes too

PeridotBelle:


I did not write any bad stuff about you, I said

And you did not hit any cord sorry, it's just that am allergic to disrespectful people which I have sensed.

And I only waltz into ur mention because of a certain comment you made about men having preference and setting standard, so women too should be allowed to do so too.
Once again, good day

I could decide to term that disrespectful and go all emotional just like you have done. It's that simple... I don't think I've disrespected you in anyway...but if you feel offended, my unreserved apology

I get your point. Men should have preference but women shouldn't... Cool! Whatever works for you.

You can't waltz into my mention then turn around to ask me not to reply you, that's rather unfair.

Good day!

Beamborla:


Well, you shouldn't deliberately misunderstand me.

Linda is rich and can't marry a poor guy, she has the right. It's way different from rich ladies shouldn't marry a poor guy.

The lady counsellor is rich and is okay with a poor guy, it's her choice and she's entiltted to it

Wizkid is rich and can't marry a poor girl, he shouldn't.

That simple

But you are not rich. You should not date a rich guy.

Handsomecole:
Just imagine, she got all these advice for free. If only pride will allow her to read and digest these words. The problem with this so called Linda is Pride. Well that's her problem not mine. Wetin konzign me.

No no ur mistaking,her problem isn't pride, it is how to manage success. She never expected to be where she is today just as she's always made known, she had it Pretty rough growing up. She still dreaming, reality hasn't yet dawn on her that it's really her life she's living

modsRbastard:




Make no mistake Ombre, it's called smart mouth

Like I care what you call me?

You can either man up or hide behind insults...

igboboy3:
Rubbish

This lawmaker had better hope she wins re-election, otherwise by 2019, she'll go back to penury.


Better to be single than to be in a bad marriage

this man, u dont even kw wat u r saying.. E b like say u don sallow hausa ogogoro... go and search for d profile of dat senator.. U tink say na ur mate? U b confirm EBA

Yes Yes I quite agree with you, she still has the poverty mentality due to too much suffering and unexpected break through.

pimplucious:


No no ur mistaking,her problem isn't pride, it is how to manage success. She never expected to be where she is today just as she's always made known, she had it Pretty rough growing up. She still dreaming, reality hasn't yet dawn on her that it's really her life she's living

Edwinmason:
and wide

"and smelling"in wizkid voice

amanikondo:


But you are not rich. You should not date a rich guy.

Read my reply over again. You might get it this time.

Before some vultures however see this as an opportunity to tear me apart, yes I'm not rich YET. I have my two hands, my legs and my brain and most importantly, I have God...I'm not shooting for riches, I'm shooting for smth greater and better

If a rich guy tells me I'm not his standard cos I'm not rich, I won't blame him or become bitter. He has the right to choose. Poor is not attractive to even the poor not to talk of the rich.

I'M NOT OUT FOR A RICH GUY. I PREFER STARTING OUT FROM THE SCRATCH WITH WHOSOEVER I WOULD BE GETTING MARRIED TO.

She nailed it... Actually no man under his senses would love to be treated like a second class citizen by the woman he married under his own roof no matter how mad he's driven by love.

Decryptor:
I am not a fan of Linda Ikeji but this Maria UdeNshi or whatever she calls herself should STFU!



@bolded...like seriously? Who asked you?? You were elected as a lawmaker to work for your constituents but here you are claiming Social Media diva and doing "Apriko" all over facebook.

This woman is deranged i swear!

u too bor.. U shld STFU

emusmithy:
Sharp mouth

Hey dear!

This is no sharp mouth. You and your appearing and disappearing.

wetin concern lawmaker with love-making... BUHARI!!!

titosblink:
u too bor.. U shld STFU

Are you one of those Maria Ude Nwanshi's facebook slaves that lick her feet?

Beamborla:


Read my reply over again. You might get it this time.

Before some vultures however see this as an opportunity to tear me apart, yes I'm not rich YET. I have my two hands, my legs and my brain and most importantly, I have God...I'm not shooting for riches, I'm shooting for smth greater and better

If a rich guy tells me I'm not his standard cos I'm not rich, I won't blame him or become bitter. He has the right to choose. Poor is not attractive to even the poor not to talk of the rich.

I'M NOT OUT FOR A RICH GUY. I PREFER STARTING OUT FROM THE SCRATCH WITH WHOSOEVER I WOULD BE GETTING MARRIED TO.

Been following the conversation from page 1, and I have to admit that ...

Anyway, if I get you correctly, you are saying that the choice of Linda should be respected and she shouldn't be vilified for setting her own standard because she is a woman. Am I correct?

The problem with your position is that you are yet to realise that the Nigeria society is one that gives advice to our neighbours. If Linda wish for her opinion to be private, it is best she keep it to herself.

My Dear, the worst poverty is not lack of money, it is having a poor mindset/ideology about money. Money is good but setting standard for "rich man" showed that Linda is still mentally poor. Success is relative, Bill Gate is richer than Dangote but both are successful. Anybody can be rich, it is matter of luck, grace and hard work (for some). A determined person with vision will be rich in no time. I think Linda (and women generally) should look out for guys that are successful or potentially successful or guys with right attitude towards money.

It is a shame that Linda is still suffering from mental poverty despite being a billionaire.

@Your Bold: Spot On! God give you your own man!

cescky:
Ok

This ebonyi senator is bae

But she shld shut it... Who said we can't have all our dreams come true in life? Leave Linda alone she can have it both ways...

Perharpas u became a senator the naija way Linder is rich the legal way and she can find her dream man too the legal way

Too long post btw

Who told u She became a house of assamble member in an illegal way. In afikpo which is my home town Maria Ude Nwachi english name MARIA is synonyms to electricity suppy, charity, helping widow, scholarship, sports development etc. That's why even during the election there was no room for rigging becouse she was the peoples choice for the political seat.

Proudly ehugho boy
Proudly bcel fan
Proudly uche inya
Proudly chigoze

Beamborla:


Read my reply over again. You might get it this time.

Before some vultures however see this as an opportunity to tear me apart, yes I'm not rich YET. I have my two hands, my legs and my brain and most importantly, I have God...I'm not shooting for riches, I'm shooting for smth greater and better

If a rich guy tells me I'm not his standard cos I'm not rich, I won't blame him or become bitter. He has the right to choose. Poor is not attractive to even the poor not to talk of the rich.

I'M NOT OUT FOR A RICH GUY. I PREFER STARTING OUT FROM THE SCRATCH WITH WHOSOEVER I WOULD BE GETTING MARRIED TO.

No offense ma, you should stop trying to argue out your points because they are too contradictory. One moment its A and the next second its B, i tried comprehending your piece but its just not sinking in my brain.
And where you really knocked me off was when you played the equality card, i shaperly gave up.
Take for instance, funke akindele is a very successful lady with lots of accolades and there-in yet still single at 38. I never heard funke bitching about her man should be this or that or be a certain "Tyler perry", instead she just focused and the right man came at the right time.
You are entitled to your opinion anyway, stay safe ma.

Beamborla:

Can you save all these sermon and subtle insults for someone else? Thanchuu

if u cant contribute positively, atleast "ferme la bouche" sh^t up. He is right

Linda will expose her very very soon.. Continue madam afikpo

http://nypost.com/2001/02/17/cops-crack-2m-call-girl-ring-say-madam-was-stern-show-regular/

Dis senator has said it all n I believe DT all dis gals typing against her advice are still under 18 or probably early 20s,dnt worry , d hand DAT touches d lip has gotten to d mouth,I pray its nt too late for u de way it is to Linda. I cud remember one gal during ma University days, she wz selecting buh now ,she is a second wife to 59 yr old man . tink well

Beamborla:

Oh!

Except my comprehension skill is gradually detoriating. Babe didn't in any way say she wouldn't answer to her man. She said she won't marry a poor man... She earned the right to choose, miss.

...and no the creator didn't ask anyone to marry a poor man neither did it ask anyone to marry a rich man.

Didn't the creator instruct men to provide for their wives? Don't you think a poor man who can't provide basic needs comfortably for his wife shouldn't get married else he might be going against the instruction of the creator.

So stop bringing religious sentiment into this. Thanchuu!

Don't incure the wrath of God upon yourself with this reckless statement.
Your type may come from a poor home and be praying for a rich husband.

Does it make sense if a rich man says "I will never marry a poor girl"?

Many rich and successful men do not have any problem marrying a poor decent girl and even use their wealth to help her family out of poverty but your Linda cannot do the same.

Where is love? She didn't even mention it.

My dear, money is not happiness and no condition is permanent. Linda herself can become poor tomorrow and the so-called poor man can become rich.

Ex-president GEJ was poor when Patience met him. She never knew he would ever be president.

Beamborla:

Like I care what you call me?

You can either man up or hide behind insults...

Why quote back if you didn't care. Why didn't you just ignore?

You want me to man up and do what?! Get in an inconsequential debate with you and try to save you from your self delusion!?

I see so many people been playing lifeguard trying to save you, lady inclusive but I don't save people who don't wanna be saved.

TonyeBarcanista:

Been following the conversation from page 1, and I have to admit that ...

Anyway, if I get you correctly, you are saying that the choice of Linda should be respected and she shouldn't be vilified for setting her own standard because she is a woman. Am I correct?

The problem with your position is that you are yet to realise that the Nigeria society is one that gives advice to our neighbours. If Linda wish for her opinion to be private, it is best she keep it to herself.

My Dear, the worst poverty is not lack of money, it is having a poor mindset/ideology about money. Money is good but setting standard for "rich man" showed that Linda is still mentally poor. Success is relative, Bill Gate is richer than Dangote but both are successful. Anybody can be rich, it is matter of luck, grace and hard work (for some). A determined person with vision will be rich in no time. I think Linda (and women generally) should look out for guys that are successful or potentially successful or guys with right attitude towards money.

It is a shame that Linda is still suffering from mental poverty despite being a billionaire.

@Your Bold: Spot On! God give you your own man!

YOU JUST NAILED IT. merci bien

Beamborla:


That's the problem. Quit threatening women with menopause... It's better to be happily single than tearfully married.

Marriage or childbearing is not the peak or the purpose of a woman's existence. It's time mothers start teaching their girl child that becoming a Mrs. is not what your life is all about.

If it happens beautifully, fine! The male spicie is not doing us any favour by marrying us.

You are crazy and arrogant as well. If your mother and other mothers had refused to marry, where will the daughters come from? Out of wedlock? Obviously, you are not a true christian?

I am pitying any man that will marry your type. Even if you have a boyfriend, the boy should have his head examined.