handysuzy:
Saw this on Facebook and I thought to share here.

Please note: I am not a virgin. Lost mine some 6 years ago at 16. But I love this post nonetheless

Read below...

VIRGINITY AND SEX ON THE WEDDING NIGHT
Countless virgins have been cajoled into premarital sex on the excuse that sex on the wedding night will be painful and boring and your husband will see you as a disappointment.

First sex will be painful whether before or after marriage. Engaging in it before marriage makes it many times painful because (1) The guy sleeping with you is in a hurry to give himself pleasure and wouldn't want to waste his time being gentle with you. (2) You are torn apart with guilt which makes it double painful -you know you shouldn't be doing it. (3)Your self esteem drops far down as you realized the consequence of what you have done and the regret that you have lost it forever. (4)You are plagued with the fear of unwanted pregnancy and STDs (5) You live in fear of losing the guy.

Sex on the wedding night may give you pain but pleasurable pain and not all virgins even experience pain with their first sex. With good books, godly counsel and genuine love for each other, you can both be taught the process to take to make sex as painless as possible. If at all, you experience pain, it won't be excruciating pain rendering you incapacitated for months. You only have one pain, the pain of breaking the hymen but you gain your pleasure soon afterwards.(1) The pleasure of having waited till your wedding night. (2) The pleasure of giving your husband pleasure (3) The pleasure of winning your husband's pride and trust forever (4) The pleasure of having a solid, sky rocketting self esteem (5)The pleasure of expecting pregnancy without worrying whether your womb has been damaged by the multiple abortions you did before wedding. (5) The pleasure of having no past lover to compare your spouse to. It helps you to thoroughly enjoy sex with your hsband. (6) The pleasure of climaxing easily -you have no hang ups..

Yes! The pleasure of waiting far outweighs the momentary pain you naturally experience with your first sex.

https://web.facebook.com/oladele.seun.589/posts/217126595390903

LePrezident:
Virginity is overated and there's nothing special about it. I know some people will disagree with me but it is what it is.

NB: I didn't bother to read beyond the headlines because I won't agree with the OP anyway.

Masikay:
Yea. Obviously. Only LADIES. should wait till wedding night. God forbid the guys keep their dicks to themselves till they wed.

dollyjoy:
I don't regret losing my virginity, its for the best, heaven knows i would have tried to explore if i had gotten married a virgin.
Humans are by nature designed that way.

Nothing beats an experienced mind.

dollyjoy:
I don't regret losing my virginity, its for the best, heaven knows i would have tried to explore if i had gotten married a virgin.
Humans are by nature designed that way.

Nothing beats an experienced mind.

kratosonofzeus:
why did u lost urs....as in how could u, nw I think uve realized ur past mistakes......
nice post tho

seriously who does that

dollyjoy:
I don't regret losing my virginity, its for the best, heaven knows i would have tried to explore if i had gotten married a virgin.
Humans are by nature designed that way.

Nothing beats an experienced mind.

Haute:



So why are there teardrops rolling down your cheeks?

Masonic:


You don't agree with the OP? Or you think the article is a little one-sided.

handysuzy:


I dont regret mine too. At sixteen I was young and green and I enjoyed every bit of it. I have been having sex constantly since then till this moment save for some one and half years I was without a relationship.

handysuzy:


I dont regret mine too. At sixteen I was young and green and I enjoyed every bit of it. I have been having sex constantly since then till this moment save for some one and half years I was without a relationship.

dollyjoy:
That is a "kissing" smiley missy, don't be in a hurry to click the quote button

Sandydayziz:
Am wondering y she *lost* it too

handysuzy:


I dont regret mine too. At sixteen I was young and green and I enjoyed every bit of it. I have been having sex constantly since then till this moment save for some one and half years I was without a relationship.

Haute:


I'm not talking about the emoticon. I can see every nairalander right now and you're crying.

judeefcc:
green weed

dollyjoy:
Ok ma.

handysuzy:


Green also means inexperienced or naive

kratosonofzeus:
ys whts d matter y u quoting me?

Masikay:


I think the op is a lot sexist.

Haute:


It is "Sir". BTW...who's typing your posts for you 'cos you don't look like a literate person. I've never been to your profile anyway.

kratosonofzeus:
why did u lost urs....as in how could u, nw I think uve realized ur past mistakes......
nice post tho

seriously who does that