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Re: Nigerian Ladies Share Their Public Harassment Stories by doll912(f): 9:43pm On Nov 25, 2016
Always have a knife or pen in your bag or pocket. If you have the mind to use it. stupid pervs everywhere...
Re: Nigerian Ladies Share Their Public Harassment Stories by ladyju(f): 9:44pm On Nov 25, 2016
I remember when I was younger, about 10yrs old. I was sent on an errand at night by my aunty. A young guy of about 20 removed his pe.nnis from his trouser and ask me to come and touch it.

That was my first time of seeing an erect pe.nnis. I ran more than Usain bolt dat day and I was traumatised for days.

That taught me a lesson......I don't send d girls that stsys with me out at night even though they are big.
Re: Nigerian Ladies Share Their Public Harassment Stories by Nobody: 9:45pm On Nov 25, 2016
Dabbibbi:
U try well well make dose Men wen no get shame fr eye embarrass d gal......
big excuse I've gone to market before and witness a lady being called an olosho.. she really messed up the guy, that he bent his head in shame, she didn't fight but insulted and yelled at him
Re: Nigerian Ladies Share Their Public Harassment Stories by Nobody: 9:50pm On Nov 25, 2016
kiss kiss kiss
KissChrix:
No need for that wink

I'm a pistol myself.. You're safe with Me winksmiley
Re: Nigerian Ladies Share Their Public Harassment Stories by PunterTim(m): 9:56pm On Nov 25, 2016
Masikay:
I swr. All pervs. One time I was in the market, one guy just kept on following me and calling me Cynthia. I turned round to insult his stupid ass, he just stretched his hand and touched my boobs. Asin, actually touched them. I was so surprised, I mean, usually they just give you eye and say something stupid, I'd never had anyone touching me before.
I was goin to slap him, but he was huge asin, so huge, so I just eyed him and carried my small self away. Irritating pervs. All of them
It was so cool you couldn't do a thing!
Re: Nigerian Ladies Share Their Public Harassment Stories by zoomman(m): 10:15pm On Nov 25, 2016
Masikay:
I swr. All pervs. One time I was in the market, one guy just kept on following me and calling me Cynthia. I turned round to insult his stupid ass, he just stretched his hand and touched my boobs. Asin, actually touched them. I was so surprised, I mean, usually they just give you eye and say something stupid, I'd never had anyone touching me before.
I was goin to slap him, but he was huge asin, so huge, so I just eyed him and carried my small self away. Irritating pervs. All of them
Your bf or ur hubby to be r basically perverts since ur generalizing d subject....
Re: Nigerian Ladies Share Their Public Harassment Stories by onyenuemoses(m): 10:16pm On Nov 25, 2016
after hearing that 15000 came for a HIV program and hiv test was done and almost 10000 were tested positive.....guys must u always think abt sex. Sex no be food o. Try and control ur thinking, things u say and things u discuss with people and most of all. Always pray to God. Chikena, ur problem is solved.
Re: Nigerian Ladies Share Their Public Harassment Stories by Nobody: 10:17pm On Nov 25, 2016
wissed:
u whathuhhuh??! how could u walk away when u could have ruined his lifehuh unless u enjoyed it eww.. his weight Is no excuse
I just didn't want to cause a scene you know... Who knows if he had smoked osogbo weed that morning? And then he slaps me back? Or actually punches me? Then my story will be all over nl. "See what happened to girl after she slapped a guy"
Biko no o...
Re: Nigerian Ladies Share Their Public Harassment Stories by Nobody: 10:22pm On Nov 25, 2016
Masikay:
I just didn't want to cause a scene you know... Who knows if he had smoked osogbo weed that morning? And then he slaps me back? Or actually punches me? Then my story will be all over nl. "See what happened to girl after she slapped a guy"
Biko no o...
very good then I hope u will just walk away when I grab ur boobs and butt along with some couple of friends. *sniggers*no excuse my dear. stand for urself but know ur limits or boundaries.. already I can picture it personality in my mind
Re: Nigerian Ladies Share Their Public Harassment Stories by Nobody: 10:31pm On Nov 25, 2016
wissed:
very good then I hope u will just walk away when I grab ur boobs and butt along with some couple of friends. *sniggers*no excuse my dear. stand for urself but know ur limits or boundaries.. already I can picture it personality in my mind
undecided .. I know my limits. That's why I walked away. If I wanted to slap that guy I woulda had to stand on tiptoes.
Re: Nigerian Ladies Share Their Public Harassment Stories by Nobody: 10:34pm On Nov 25, 2016
Masikay:
undecided .. I know my limits. That's why I walked away. If I wanted to slap that guy I woulda had to stand on tiptoes.
ok o. but I still think you should have at least done waka or shege or say ewu to him
Re: Nigerian Ladies Share Their Public Harassment Stories by Nobody: 10:36pm On Nov 25, 2016
wissed:
ok o. but I still think you should have at least done waka or shege or say ewu to him
Lol... Noted.
Re: Nigerian Ladies Share Their Public Harassment Stories by Nobody: 10:51pm On Nov 25, 2016
Masikay:
I swr. All pervs. One time I was in the market, one guy just kept on following me and calling me Cynthia. I turned round to insult his stupid ass, he just stretched his hand and touched my boobs. Asin, actually touched them. I was so surprised, I mean, usually they just give you eye and say something stupid, I'd never had anyone touching me before.
I was goin to slap him, but he was huge asin, so huge, so I just eyed him and carried my small self away. Irritating pervs. All of them
and u didn't call me to help u slap him? SMH
Re: Nigerian Ladies Share Their Public Harassment Stories by Sleekbabz(m): 11:10pm On Nov 25, 2016
Sighs All I can deduce is all these big girls also go to Yaba

Re: Nigerian Ladies Share Their Public Harassment Stories by Nobody: 11:45pm On Nov 25, 2016
PaulKillerman:
and u didn't call me to help u slap him? SMH
You woulda prolly congratulated him, and then chided him for not fucking me there and then, considering your signature.
Re: Nigerian Ladies Share Their Public Harassment Stories by mikolo80: 11:55pm On Nov 25, 2016
tartarus:
Don't mind most Nigerian men biko, it's always a woman's fault for their ill mannered behaviours. undecided
is it not their fault? Abeg mowu hia word
Re: Nigerian Ladies Share Their Public Harassment Stories by mikolo80: 11:56pm On Nov 25, 2016
ShakurM:
In case you find yourself in developed countries undecided

Below are a few examples activities that could be considered sexual harassment if unwelcome . The list is meant only to give an idea of what can be considered sexual harassment.

- Direct or indirect threats or bribes for unwanted sexual activity
- Sexual innuendos and comments
- Intrusive sexually explicit questions
- Sexually suggestive sounds or gestures such as sucking noises, winks, or pelvic thrusts
- Repeatedly asking a person out for dates, or to have sex
- Touching, patting, punching, stroking, squeezing, tickling, or brushing against a person
- A neck/shoulder massage
- Rating a person's sexuality
- Ogling or leering, staring at a woman's breast or a man's derriere
- Spreading rumors about a person's sexuality
- Name-calling, such as bitch, LovePeddler, or slut
Sexual Ridicule
- Frequent jokes about sex or males/females
- Letters, notes, telephone calls, or material of a sexual nature
- Pervasive displays of pictures, calendars, cartoons, or other materials with sexually explicit or graphic content
- Stalking a person
- Attempted or actual sexual assault
does this resemble abroad to you
Re: Nigerian Ladies Share Their Public Harassment Stories by mikolo80: 11:58pm On Nov 25, 2016
cococandy:
I've lost count of how many time I experienced this on my way to that market in Douglas road Owerri. The number of pervs roaming the city is alarming. Them and those around them see no problem in harassing women sexually. That's why we have many rapists and rapist apologists alike.
and what are you doing to remedy the situation. Abeg mowu hia word
Re: Nigerian Ladies Share Their Public Harassment Stories by mikolo80: 12:00am On Nov 26, 2016
dangotesmummy:
If you go to yaba alone or with a fellow woman you will certainly be sexually harassed so whenever I have to go to yaba market where the den of potential r@pests and sexually sick men are that usually hit women's ass I go with one of my huge younger brothers and my cousin while I stay in the middle. That way they nuisances respect themselves but if you go alone there are higher chances of being sexually abused because thats their base.na you come their area

If you're a woman I won't advise you to go there alone. Go with hefty looking men not with any kind of man that they can easily bully o

Because no matter what even if you wear bubu cover head to toe they'll still hurl sexual insults at you so it's best to go with fierce looking men

Then again don't ever wear revealing clothes and walk there alone or with your girlfriends.you will be a target of sexual bullying which is typical with Nigerian men. Wear overall bubu and jeans under
you wen need servicing sef de form. Must you go to that market
Abegi
Re: Nigerian Ladies Share Their Public Harassment Stories by mikolo80: 12:03am On Nov 26, 2016
dangotesmummy:
If you go to yaba alone or with a fellow woman you will certainly be sexually harassed so whenever I have to go to yaba market where the den of potential r@pests and sexually sick men are that usually hit women's ass I go with one of my huge younger brothers and my cousin while I stay in the middle. That way they nuisances respect themselves but if you go alone there are higher chances of being sexually abused because thats their base.na you come their area

If you're a woman I won't advise you to go there alone. Go with hefty looking men not with any kind of man that they can easily bully o

Because no matter what even if you wear bubu cover head to toe they'll still hurl sexual insults at you so it's best to go with fierce looking men

Then again don't ever wear revealing clothes and walk there alone or with your girlfriends.you will be a target of sexual bullying which is typical with Nigerian men. Wear overall bubu and jeans under
you wen need servicing sef de form. Must you go to that market
Abegi
And no it's not all men
Even all of you have confessed that it is only a particular place that you all for some reason continue to frequent.
Re: Nigerian Ladies Share Their Public Harassment Stories by berryice(f): 12:03am On Nov 26, 2016
Those re d type of guys dah rape girls smh
Re: Nigerian Ladies Share Their Public Harassment Stories by mikolo80: 12:06am On Nov 26, 2016
alezzy13:
though i'm a man, honestly my cringes when i see what some ladies go through in the hands of these pervs. i cant count the numerous cases ive seen.

I was a petrol station in abuja when i saw a man right before my very eyes, bring out his hand from the window, grabbed the boobss of a lady before zooming off, leaving the stunned girl glaring after him.

another time i saw a group of about 3 men slapping the bum a young girl who was selling her wares, in broad daylight!! worse is they always go scot free.

truly distressing. something urgently must be done.
why you de drink panadol for anoda woman headache. You no know say e de sweet dem if not dem for arrange am
Re: Nigerian Ladies Share Their Public Harassment Stories by mikolo80: 12:07am On Nov 26, 2016
BlueMagic2:
That's why women need carry a real good pepper spray to spray these pervs. They lucky they don't mess with my wife. She might just be packing some heat and shot their thirsty a $ $ cool. But for the most part she carries a pepper spray, stun gun and whatever else.
finally one serious person
Re: Nigerian Ladies Share Their Public Harassment Stories by mikolo80: 12:08am On Nov 26, 2016
tianshie:
You should be ashamed for blaming a woman's harassment on her body/ clothing. How about looking away.
so if you de Sahara and you see pure water you go remove your throat abi
Re: Nigerian Ladies Share Their Public Harassment Stories by Nobody: 12:12am On Nov 26, 2016
mikolo80:
you wen need servicing sef de form. Must you go to that market
Abegi
And no it's not all men
Even all of you have confessed that it is only a particular place that you all for some reason continue to frequent.
Uhm.. No actually. Its everywhere.
Re: Nigerian Ladies Share Their Public Harassment Stories by Nobody: 1:01am On Nov 26, 2016
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Attention seeking whores
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If you sister, wife or daughter shared her harrassment story to get some mental relief you'll call her an attention seeking LovePeddler? I'm so disgusted by you. Shame on you.
Re: Nigerian Ladies Share Their Public Harassment Stories by Nobody:
Pathetic
Miggs:
You small boys never cease to crack me up.What if i told you all the ladies who shared their "harassment' stories liked what the men said and did but are upset at the men because they carried out their actions publicly and not in private area or in a hidden/dark corner
Re: Nigerian Ladies Share Their Public Harassment Stories by mikolo80: 1:30am On Nov 26, 2016
Masikay:
Uhm.. No actually. Its everywhere.
I have never seen it except in market place clothes section or animal kingdom hostel
Re: Nigerian Ladies Share Their Public Harassment Stories by Omonigeriarere: 3:17am On Nov 26, 2016
huh
iChar:
Some men need to be castrated
No be you go suffer am? As if you can live without dick
Re: Nigerian Ladies Share Their Public Harassment Stories by dangotesmummy: 5:20am On Nov 26, 2016
mikolo80:
you wen need servicing sef de form. Must you go to that market
Abegi
And no it's not all men
Even all of you have confessed that it is only a particular place that you all for some reason continue to frequent.
go and service your mother Na before you know say you dey form.birds of a feather undecided

There are something's you get at yaba market you cannot get in computer village or any shopping mall undecided

Meaning there are some things you desperately need that you don't have a choice than to go

Meanwhile so because there are sexually frustrated men like you there i wont go and buy what i need? grin

That's why i have your size for predators like you tongue

so please make use of your brain when quoting me or get off my mentions undecided
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