ismart:
Why do I find it hard to believe you actually mean your words and would appreciate a guy like him?

something about the way she said it felt familiar (the good kind of deja vu).

UniQuegrACE:
i guess thats how they feel about it....

And tomorrow, they will be looking for "caring" man? This is why most guys say ladies have fish brain. Most of the things ladies do does not make sense to us and it is why they are also termed illogical beings cos they act very abnormal. So you see?

nkemma54:


something about the way she said it felt familiar (the good kind of deja vu).

You do not get my point bro. Most of them say they want a 'caring' guy but they are often wired to prefer the opposite. If most of them, at least over 70%, act like your girlfriend who cherish a guy like you, we wouldn't be having "nice" guy turning into "bad" guy, would we? Especially those who are in their 18-24 years of age.

ismart:
And tomorrow, they will be looking for "caring" man? This is why most guys say ladies have fish brain. Most of the things ladies do does not make sense to us and it is why they are also termed illogical beings cos they act very abnormal. So you see?

,that z how we were wired i guess,most do not know what exactly they want.... ''illogical beings'' true to some extent,understanding a lady is actually very difficult cos it very possible she doesnt even understand herself too

UniQuegrACE:
,that z how we were wired i guess,most do not know what exactly they want.... ''illogical beings'' true to some extent,understanding a lady is actually very difficult cos it very possible she doesnt even understand herself too

ahan...thank you for admitting.

ismart:
ahan...thank you for admitting.

yeah. u welcomd

ismart:
You do not get my point bro. Most of them say they want a 'caring' guy but they are often wired to prefer the opposite. If most of them, at least over 70%, act like your girlfriend who cherish a guy like you, we wouldn't be having "nice" guy turning into "bad" guy, would we? Especially those who are in their 18-24 years of age.

lol, true talk.
reminds me of the girl i dated in sch of tech. she said she wanted a nice guy wu was dynamic, dats me, but she still cheated on me with my best friend, course mates, guys in her hostel, hostel environment...........abeg d list long

nkemma54:


lol, true talk.
reminds me of the girl i dated in sch of tech. she said she wanted a nice guy wu was dynamic, dats me, but she still cheated on me with my best friend, course mates, guys in her hostel, hostel environment...........abeg d list long

ahan. Now you see am?

Not bad

ismart:
Imagine your boyfriend or potential boyfriend buys a complete pack of sanitary pad among other little things, how would you view him?

Good move or bad move?

I will view him using autographic projection

Edwinmason:
hit LIKE if you have no idea of what the op is asking

just view the guy from the right hand view. using third Angel projection

realBliss:



just view the guy from the right hand view. using third Angel projection

should i use isometric or oblique?

Edwinmason:
should i use isometric or oblique?

Isometric is the best,showing the front, side and plan view

realBliss:



Isometric is the best,showing the front, side and plan view

that would be better

Edwinmason:
that would be better

guy you sabi TD for school be that oh

realBliss:


guy you sabi TD for school be that oh

oboy TD na for men o

realBliss:


I will view him using autographic projection

Lol... student of Technical drawing here.

realBliss:



guy you sabi TD for school be that oh

3rd angle elevation

ismart:
Why do I find it hard to believe you actually mean your words and would appreciate a guy like him?

Oga please, its ur choice if u dnt want to believe it, my bobo is just like the guy, he doesnt work but i shower him with gifts not because he is broke, but because I care and I am not one of those ladies who is big about money etc, money isnt important.

While I was growing up, my parents were financially stable but we were made to believe we werent so money has never been a burden or as important to me so I guess thats why I dont think it is important, maybe no?

There are still ladies like me out there, you just have to search and keep on looking. Even the lady that you see that doesnt smile a lot (me), we are actually kind, humble and caring, its just people just overlook this things when they see someone for the first time.

Just keep on searching, you will find her

Stay Blessed

Filashade:


Oga please, its ur choice if u dnt want to believe it, my bobo is just like the guy, he doesnt work but i shower him with gifts not because he is broke, but because I care and I am not one of those ladies who is big about money etc, money isnt important.

While I was growing up, my parents were financially stable but we were made to believe we werent so money has never been a burden or as important to me so I guess thats why I dont think it is important, maybe no?

There are still ladies like me out there, you just have to search and keep on looking. Even the lady that you see that doesnt smile a lot (me), we are actually kind, humble and caring, its just people just overlook this things when they see someone for the first time.

Just keep on searching, you will find her

Stay Blessed

Oh great you are not among the millions of girls wired to reject nice guys. Most girls are like that and they out number your type by a large margin. So pardon me if I say I find it hard to believe you are the kind of lady who appreciate Nice guys.

Majority don't like it when a guy calls too often

Majority don't like I when a guy give them too much attention.

Majority don't like it when a guy loves them too much and does not hide it( most will prefer he says I love you twice a year)

The list is endless so much that I have subconsciously admit I have to hide my feelings, show less concern and so on in order not to be labelled a weakling, sissy.

Hope you understand my point now? When you have the chance, encourage your female friends to appreciate the nice guys cos they are almost going into extinction.

My ex would do anything to have that nice guy right now but unfortunately, it's dead and buried. She completely abused him (nice guy) in every sense of the word. You can't eat your cake and have it, as they say

ismart:


Oh great you are not among the millions of girls wired to reject nice guys. Most girls are like that and they out number your type by a large margin. So pardon me if I say I find it hard to believe you are the kind of lady who appreciate Nice guys.

Majority don't like it when a guy calls too often

Majority don't like I when a guy give them too much attention.

Majority don't like it when a guy loves them too much and does not hide it( most will prefer he says I love you twice a year)

The list is endless so much that I have subconsciously admit I have to hide my feelings, show less concern and so on in order not to be labelled a weakling, sissy.

Hope you understand my point now? When you have the chance, encourage your female friends to appreciate the nice guys cos they are almost going into extinction.

My ex would do anything to have that nice guy right now but unfortunately, it's dead and buried. She completely abused him (nice guy) in every sense of the word. You can't eat your cake and have it, as they say

I know its hard to believe me because most girls are like that these days. I think its because I dont really have a lot of friends so maybe thats
why am like this and plus I have brothers at home so I know how men behave all the time am the only girl child at home and I like attention a lot ( )

I love it when a man is bold enough to tell his girl he loves her, I like roses, chocolates, walk in the park, eating at Nigerian restaurants and just cuddling with my man indoors or playing around round the house.

All these girls who dont like that have not fell in love yet. If my man doesn't like to cuddle I get pretty upset quite quickly or if he doesnt compliment me every now and then or if he doesnt say I love you every now and then I dont say anything to him and I do my own too.

Men are complaining that women dont like these things but generally that is not the case. The two guys I have dated before my current relationship found it hard to say "I love you" and even to cuddle sef na big wahala. I put up with it because I wanted to see where it was leading and I wanted to tell myself in then end that at least I tried and they were not worth it.

Men also take nice ladies for granted. It goes both ways. In my case, the men do it more.

I love a man who shows his woman he cares not by buying her expensive things but by doing small things like texting her good morning without waiting for her to text first, I for one find that very childish and annoying if you can go a whole day without messaging your girl or even calling her. You cant be too busy to text your girl before leaving the house or first thing when you wake up in the morning. She wants to know you care and you are thinking of her when she is not around you and vice versa.

I feel sad that I dont see beautiful things like these in my era. All eryone wants to do is chat on FB, IG, Twitter and whatsapp and no face to face communication or better still they are on Xbox/PS4 playing Fifa/GTA.

I dont know maybe I am asking for too much from men and men are not made that way.

I am not even certain about my current relationship as I have just experienced and seen too many things expecially with Nigerian Men and Black men in general.

Filashade:



I know its hard to believe me because most girls are like that these days. I think its because I dont really have a lot of friends so maybe thats
why am like this and plus I have brothers at home so I know how men behave all the time am the only girl child at home and I like attention a lot ( )

I love it when a man is bold enough to tell his girl he loves her, I like roses, chocolates, walk in the park, eating at Nigerian restaurants and just cuddling with my man indoors or playing around round the house.

All these girls who dont like that have not fell in love yet. If my man doesn't like to cuddle I get pretty upset quite quickly or if he doesnt compliment me every now and then or if he doesnt say I love you every now and then I dont say anything to him and I do my own too.

Men are complaining that women dont like these things but generally that is not the case. The two guys I have dated before my current relationship found it hard to say "I love you" and even to cuddle sef na big wahala. I put up with it because I wanted to see where it was leading and I wanted to tell myself in then end that at least I tried and they were not worth it.

Men also take nice ladies for granted. It goes both ways. In my case, the men do it more.

I love a man who shows his woman he cares not by buying her expensive things but by doing small things like texting her good morning without waiting for her to text first, I for one find that very childish and annoying if you can go a whole day without messaging your girl or even calling her. You cant be too busy to text your girl before leaving the house or first thing when you wake up in the morning. She wants to know you care and you are thinking of her when she is not around you and vice versa.

I feel sad that I dont see beautiful things like these in my era. All eryone wants to do is chat on FB, IG, Twitter and whatsapp and no face to face communication or better still they are on Xbox/PS4 playing Fifa/GTA.

I dont know maybe I am asking for too much from men and men are not made that way.

I am not even certain about my current relationship as I have just experienced and seen too many things expecially with Nigerian Men and Black men in general.

I just kept smiling as I read your post. It is really really amazing to find you here. WOW! Only girl and not having much female friends.. gotcha! been wondering why you are different from the packs of ladies out there, who do not value what guys who dot them so much. Now I know better.

As for the guys who do not say "I love you" do not blame them because it is what ladies have turned most of us into. They act that way cause of fear of being called a weakling. Actually, I used to be someone who love using those words until I became so heartbroken into pieces and started realising that many guys have experience same thing--be nice to a Nigerian girl and get dumped, called a wussy, sissy.

I had an experience during NYSC such that a guy treated a fellow corper so bad that you would think she would appreciate a Mr Lover boy who would give her the most needed attention and so I offered to we started something after NYSC (though something she said made me open up to her as I had always liked her). She turned me down and I could sense she would even prefer to marry that guy who treated her that way... while we were at the park, this guy was even collecting money to pay for her luggage from a girl he would be seeing for the last time and who spent the night in his room. After he left, I counted that money and gave her back. She no even reason me till today. The last that really made me angery was few months back when she replied with "k" after I told her I was thinking about her and that was why I called the previous day. I really went haywire on her azz and completely deleted her number from my phone and pictures. She also MUST never make the mistake of calling my line ever because she will really regret it that day.

This is a girl I often took pictures of without her knowing and even video some of her garden works. I didn't show her until this year. She was amazed... and happy. Not curse, but on a more serious note, she will likely have marriage filled with complaints. It is already evident in the way she make choices of men she dates, or how do you explain a homely pretty lady not being married up till now despite her age and to think she dated a guy who is even 5 years younger than her, treated her like crap? She isn't wired to like a guy who give her such attentions as ones you have mentioned but prefers the cold hard treatment kind of guy like those ones who will be sleeping around with other girls and even showing to her face while she would take it that way. Sadly, over 70% of Nigerian girls are like this girl and that is why we men have stopped showing too much attention. I still have that part of me though, but I am very careful how I reveal it.

It may sound like we dislike Nigerian girls but the truth is that it is what they want, really. Forget what they say... actually, they do not want you being nice and caring. Most Nigerian guys have experienced what I am sharing with you that is why they hardly say "I love you" or show affection. Most have been programmed to never show a lady they love her (no matter how deeply) because of these kind of girls like the one I described above.

They may tell you I want a caring and understanding man... My dear, it is a BIG FAT LIE.

The reason you are different is because you do not have much of them(girls) as friends, otherwise, they would have so corrupted your way of reasoning that you would act like the girl I mentioned above. Please, keep being you so that you will not be in queue too long before getting married.

No big deal, I will thank him...