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Re: Cheating Husband From Benue State Destroys Family With HIV/AIDS (must Read) by Omudia11: 11:18am On Nov 28, 2016
The funny thing is that these same Nigerians that are now blaming this woman for staying have been abusing Toke and Tiwa for not going back to their cheating husbands.
trademoore1:
Toke escaped with only sti. Lucky her

For those of you who preach to women to go on their knees and pray when a man has clearly shown he wont change- this is the end result
Re: Cheating Husband From Benue State Destroys Family With HIV/AIDS (must Read) by Omudia11: 11:19am On Nov 28, 2016
Really? What's her handle?
Emekaflatt:
That promiscous lady writer here married with kids should see this, that's if she is not infected already
Re: Cheating Husband From Benue State Destroys Family With HIV/AIDS (must Read) by delishpot: 11:19am On Nov 28, 2016
jagugu88li:
There's no way the boy has the virus. Blood is tested before one donates it, regardless of wether or not the donor is a family member.

If by a slight and stupid chance the boy turns out to be positive, as a result of his father's blood, then the hospital must be sued, finish.

The craziest part would be that sueing wont reverse the situation, but at least, the boy can use the money for upgraded medical care.

Life!
Quack! She said.


Omudia11:
The funny thing is that these same Nigerians that are now blaming this woman for staying have been abusing Toke and Tiwa for not going back to their cheating husbands.
Na so we see am. If this woman had dragged the man to court for a divorce when he first did it, many people would have insulted her and compared her to their mothers who sat down and enjoyed a big bowl of their dads cheating served with a basin of beating and washed down with verbal abuse. They would have said cheating is no biggie to make a woman leave her husband. But when calamity strikes, which it offzen does but not reported mostly. They ask why did she not leave
Re: Cheating Husband From Benue State Destroys Family With HIV/AIDS (must Read) by nkemma54(m): 11:20am On Nov 28, 2016
who the fvck is gonna read all that? undecided undecided

already know how benue men are (not just benue men, its a cancer among most men from all tribes living in the state). but the women (a good number coz i know most are not much different from the men) are faithful to their spouses. I thank God i found the right one.
Re: Cheating Husband From Benue State Destroys Family With HIV/AIDS (must Read) by Omudia11: 11:24am On Nov 28, 2016
Stop claiming to know more than you do. You don't know if the blood was donated before the HIV incident or not. Also, it was mentioned that it was a quack hospital. Quack hospitals are known for all manner of things including going against the golden rule of medicine. If quack hospitals can abort 5month old pregnancies then there's nothing they can't do.
nairaman66:
Na wah oo!

I am not buying this story!! Especially the part the OP said the man gave his son blood twice!! How is this possible, you think everyone on here is as gullible as you presumed?

Hospitals screen blood for everything including HIV and its likes! If the man's blood have any traces of HIV or AIDS, his blood won't be administered to his son.
Re: Cheating Husband From Benue State Destroys Family With HIV/AIDS (must Read) by porshuch: 11:30am On Nov 28, 2016
That was how my biology teacher and the wife died then, leaving 4kids. I remember one girl wey they sell for our school canteen he was friending then died of the virus too. Hiv is real, prevention ia better than cure
For married couples, if you notice that your spouse is cheating, pls do hiv test before any sex or use condoms
Pls don't come and die of what you don't know.
Re: Cheating Husband From Benue State Destroys Family With HIV/AIDS (must Read) by Nobody: 11:30am On Nov 28, 2016
delishpot:
Quack! She said.
A filthy rich man, regardless of wether or not he despises his wife for whatever reason, would normally take his "ss" child to a real deal hospital. All lies

Maybe the convo was staged so as to warn people about the effects of cheating, very good. But the story ha ah, something is wrong here.
Re: Cheating Husband From Benue State Destroys Family With HIV/AIDS (must Read) by delishpot: 11:39am On Nov 28, 2016
jagugu88li:
A filthy rich man, regardless of wether or not he despises his wife for whatever reason, would normally take his "ss" child to a real deal hospital. All lies

Maybe the convo was staged so as to warn people about the effects of cheating, very good. But the story ha ah, something is wrong here.
Hahaha, I like how people just assume all rich men treat their kids like eggs. You never see rich man/woman wey go dash lover money to buy Lexus Jeep yet will not give their child money for Jamb? Life Na variety o.
Re: Cheating Husband From Benue State Destroys Family With HIV/AIDS (must Read) by liquidmetall: 11:44am On Nov 28, 2016
Nonsense stories...fake stories...how can a rich man like that visit a quack hospital ,women and dia emotional nonsense ,,


Men cheat, women cheat ,

Nonsense
Re: Cheating Husband From Benue State Destroys Family With HIV/AIDS (must Read) by Omudia11: 11:48am On Nov 28, 2016
Have you ever been close to a dying person before? Do you know how many sicklers faint and slump due to shortage of blood? In that case, the parents would seek the nearest doctor for a transmission so as to prevent death.
jagugu88li:
A filthy rich man, regardless of wether or not he despises his wife for whatever reason, would normally take his "ss" child to a real deal hospital. All lies

Maybe the convo was staged so as to warn people about the effects of cheating, very good. But the story ha ah, something is wrong here.
Re: Cheating Husband From Benue State Destroys Family With HIV/AIDS (must Read) by Omudia11: 11:52am On Nov 28, 2016
Don't mind those people abeg. I know of a rich man who pays school fees for kids he hasn't met but has abandoned his own kids and dejected their mother. He doesn't even give his biological kids money but gave his newest wife N6m to start up a business and even left one of his houses for his wife's younger sister. His own children stay squat with other people but he has different houses.

Some people just argue like they know everything.
delishpot:
Hahaha, I like how people just assume all rich men treat their kids like eggs. You never see rich man/woman wey go dash lover money to buy Lexus Jeep yet will not give their child money for Jamb? Life Na variety o.
Re: Cheating Husband From Benue State Destroys Family With HIV/AIDS (must Read) by mmsen: 11:53am On Nov 28, 2016
ednut1:
the society and some religious leader do not support divorce, they keep saying put it in prayer. well some prayers are nothing but wishful ranting. no see as he end, aye le oooo. most Nigerian women cannot leave their husband as they have built their life around their husbands and cant fend or survive without him, all those women using marriage as poverty alleviation program una go hear am
Some prayer is useless ranting?

No. ALL prayer is useless ranting.
Re: Cheating Husband From Benue State Destroys Family With HIV/AIDS (must Read) by Nobody: 11:54am On Nov 28, 2016
delishpot:
Hahaha, I like how people just assume all rich men treat their kids like eggs. You never see rich man/woman wey go dash lover money to buy Lexus Jeep yet will not give their child money for Jamb? Life Na variety o.
The mere fact that he even is donating his blood should tell you that, at least his doing all he can for his child. Life na variety, true there.
Omudia11:
Have you ever been close to a dying person before? Do you know how many sicklers faint and slump due to shortage of blood? In that case, the parents would seek the nearest doctor for a transmission so as to prevent death.
You do not want to know my story.

Enjoy the rest of the day!
Re: Cheating Husband From Benue State Destroys Family With HIV/AIDS (must Read) by Omudia11: 11:56am On Nov 28, 2016
and im sure you looked for the best graduating doctor from harvard when your story happened.

Enjoy your day too!
jagugu88li:
The mere fact that he even is donating his blood should tell you that, at least his doing all he can for his child. Life na variety, true there. You do not want to know my story.

Enjoy the rest of the day!
Re: Cheating Husband From Benue State Destroys Family With HIV/AIDS (must Read) by Nobody: 11:57am On Nov 28, 2016
There is a big push by the white man to depopulate Africa using HIV /AIDS hoax.

That is the reason almost daily these days there is HIV story on front page

I'll explain later how they do it.

But in the meantime if you want to preserve your life and future do not take any HIV test.
Re: Cheating Husband From Benue State Destroys Family With HIV/AIDS (must Read) by Dajugba: 12:00pm On Nov 28, 2016
jagugu88li:
The mere fact that he even is donating his blood should tell you that, at least his doing all he can for his child. Life na variety, true there. You do not want to know my story.

Enjoy the rest of the day!
oohh... I love history. How I wish you would present it as taste by moonlight. I want to know the story behind the user name. wink
Re: Cheating Husband From Benue State Destroys Family With HIV/AIDS (must Read) by AuroraB(f): 12:07pm On Nov 28, 2016
dingbang:
Everyone has that cheating tendency innate
That's a LIE angry
Don't just lie generalize cheating sad
Re: Cheating Husband From Benue State Destroys Family With HIV/AIDS (must Read) by Nobody: 12:08pm On Nov 28, 2016
Omudia11:
The man shouldn't have cheated.
I know ... But even if he was weak to fight temptations he shouldn't be weak in realizing the need of save sex .


This is just so said sad
Re: Cheating Husband From Benue State Destroys Family With HIV/AIDS (must Read) by dingbang(m): 12:12pm On Nov 28, 2016
AuroraB:
That's a LIE angry
Don't just lie generalize cheating sad
do u even understand my comment?



I mentioned everyone has a potential of cheating, I never said everyone cheats.



It's like saying every man is liable to sin.. and ur comments are like, no way!
Re: Cheating Husband From Benue State Destroys Family With HIV/AIDS (must Read) by delishpot:
jagugu88li:
The mere fact that he even is donating his blood should tell you that, at least his doing all he can for his child. Life na variety, true there. You do not want to know my story.

Enjoy the rest of the day!
Well, we we're not there to know how it happened. The post clearly said it was a quack hospital. That is not a fact because each person has their own qualification to measure quack! But to say all rich people do everything to make their kids happy is where I draw the line. I have seen some rich men/women who abbandon their kids. They may donate blood but that is after many family members have intervened and pleaded with them. They will just breeze in and do it and walk away. "Make world people no talk say na them kill the pikin"
The only way I can translate the story is, they did not know the doctor was quack or people recomend the hospital as a place where they care for ss condition well. The parents prolly overlooked other red flags and went ahead trusting the recomendation moreget. For example they just want their kid to get well even if it means feeding him shit . Many people fall for those kinds of things.
Re: Cheating Husband From Benue State Destroys Family With HIV/AIDS (must Read) by AuroraB(f): 12:17pm On Nov 28, 2016
dingbang:
do u even understand my comment?



I mentioned everyone has a potential of cheating, I never said everyone cheats.



It's like saying every man is liable to sin.. and ur comments are like, no way!
Okay nwa'm tongue
Re: Cheating Husband From Benue State Destroys Family With HIV/AIDS (must Read) by dingbang(m): 12:23pm On Nov 28, 2016
AuroraB:
Okay nwa'm tongue
how many people have u given birth to?
Re: Cheating Husband From Benue State Destroys Family With HIV/AIDS (must Read) by EmperorLee(m): 12:23pm On Nov 28, 2016
Diddyydiva:
This is so sad...


The man should have used a cd undecided
Diddy!!
Re: Cheating Husband From Benue State Destroys Family With HIV/AIDS (must Read) by nairaman66(m): 12:26pm On Nov 28, 2016
Omudia11:
Stop claiming to know more than you do. You don't know if the blood was donated before the HIV incident or not. Also, it was mentioned that it was a quack hospital. Quack hospitals are known for all manner of things including going against the golden rule of medicine. If quack hospitals can abort 5month old pregnancies then there's nothing they can't do.
I am just not buying this story! Quack indeed!
Re: Cheating Husband From Benue State Destroys Family With HIV/AIDS (must Read) by nairaman66(m): 12:26pm On Nov 28, 2016
Nationalfairy:
you didn't get the part where the op mentioned *quack*....
I am not buying the story!
Re: Cheating Husband From Benue State Destroys Family With HIV/AIDS (must Read) by agrovick(m): 12:26pm On Nov 28, 2016
zeb04:
so your mother that has been the family adviser,telling her to put up with it,i hope she is happy
Shush jor, you are making it sound like the adviser is at fault. Advice is freely given, it's up to you to decide whether you are taking it or not.

IMO, it's always better not to meddle in the affairs of two lovers. Let them sort out their issues together.
Re: Cheating Husband From Benue State Destroys Family With HIV/AIDS (must Read) by nairaman66(m): 12:26pm On Nov 28, 2016
haryomikun:
Quack hospital boss...
Hmnn.., You believe the OP?
Re: Cheating Husband From Benue State Destroys Family With HIV/AIDS (must Read) by nairaman66(m): 12:27pm On Nov 28, 2016
Nukualofa:
didnt you see where quack hospital was written
I did.., But I am not buying the story!
Re: Cheating Husband From Benue State Destroys Family With HIV/AIDS (must Read) by Ujunkem(f): 12:28pm On Nov 28, 2016
delishpot:
Hahaha, I like how people just assume all rich men treat their kids like eggs. You never see rich man/woman wey go dash lover money to buy Lexus Jeep yet will not give their child money for Jamb? Life Na variety o.
Help me tell them.
Re: Cheating Husband From Benue State Destroys Family With HIV/AIDS (must Read) by AuroraB(f): 12:30pm On Nov 28, 2016
dingbang:
how many people have u given birth to?
Plenty lipsrsealed
Re: Cheating Husband From Benue State Destroys Family With HIV/AIDS (must Read) by mekybabe1: 12:37pm On Nov 28, 2016
Where is that Toks guy on NL that is always supporting cheating in men?
Re: Cheating Husband From Benue State Destroys Family With HIV/AIDS (must Read) by ednut1(m): 12:45pm On Nov 28, 2016
mmsen:
Some prayer is useless ranting?

No. ALL prayer is useless ranting.
grin grin grin grin grin
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