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Re: Nigerian Ladies Share Their Public Harassment Stories by Pylony(m): 4:25pm On Nov 26, 2016
dangotesmummy:
but there are some kind of women these yaba predators don't do anyhow with. It's those he-women. I mean women with the physique and structure of a man that walk talk and behave like men until you move closer and see their breasts before you know they're women. These women have muscles and are huge like men.you'll almost mistake them for men till you move closer.those ones are the women that they don't try nonsense with
Hmmmm babe, it 's because they have nothing sexy to behold na. Those types of lady from behind sef you'll think you're eyeing your fellow man, as they possess the manly back lights. grin
Re: Nigerian Ladies Share Their Public Harassment Stories by dangotesmummy: 6:48pm On Nov 26, 2016
grin
if that's the case what's sexy in old women that they'll be hurling lewd comments over
Pylony:
Hmmmm babe, it 's because they have nothing sexy to behold na. Those types of lady from behind sef you'll think you're eyeing your fellow man, as they possess the manly back lights. grin
Re: Nigerian Ladies Share Their Public Harassment Stories by Pylony(m): 7:06pm On Nov 26, 2016
Hmmmm some grannies dey arrange behind o no jealousy them jare.. Sha some men are goats wey fit sniff woman 5kilometers away at once joystick go respond inside shokotoh..
dangotesmummy:
grin
if that's the case what's sexy in old women that they'll be hurling lewd comments over
Re: Nigerian Ladies Share Their Public Harassment Stories by Incrizz(f):
Francheezy:
Okay so, my sister also shared her harrassment story with me, I just had to call her dirty
Insensitive you.
Not nice. angry

*your mouth is sharper than a woman's own abi?*
*let's do this*
*huff puff*
*eyes him*

-Incrizz
Re: Nigerian Ladies Share Their Public Harassment Stories by dangotesmummy: 9:46pm On Nov 26, 2016
grin
Pylony:
Hmmmm some grannies dey arrange behind o no jealousy them jare.. Sha some men are goats wey fit sniff woman 5kilometers away at once joystick go respond inside shokotoh..
Re: Nigerian Ladies Share Their Public Harassment Stories by Francheezy(m): 12:00am On Nov 27, 2016
cococandy:
yea it's my fault. I get it.

Rapist apologist Asshole.
Why do you have to call me what I'm not?
You're not being honest.

Well I'm sorry if the truth I spoke hurt you.
Re: Nigerian Ladies Share Their Public Harassment Stories by Francheezy(m): 12:03am On Nov 27, 2016
Incrizz:
Insensitive you.
Not nice. angry

*your mouth is sharper than a woman's own abi?*
*let's do this*
*huff puff*
*eyes him*

-Incrizz
My sincere apologies.
Re: Nigerian Ladies Share Their Public Harassment Stories by mikolo80: 1:29am On Nov 27, 2016
dangotesmummy:
tell me not to go na so you can service me well grin tongue

By then i'll stop forming tongue


Na today you and go dey enter this my smell smell pu**y tongue
SMH
Just SMH
Re: Nigerian Ladies Share Their Public Harassment Stories by mikolo80: 2:15am On Nov 27, 2016
Masikay:
Uhm.. No actually. Its everywhere.
babe its only in certain places. I used to be harassed by guys who sell clothes I simply treat dia fuckup and all others take dressing. It's you girls that condone the misbehaviour that's why it continues
Re: Nigerian Ladies Share Their Public Harassment Stories by Nobody: 4:57am On Nov 27, 2016
cococandy:
I've lost count of how many time I experienced this on my way to that market in Douglas road Owerri. The number of pervs roaming the city is alarming. Them and those around them see no problem in harassing women sexually. That's why we have many rapists and rapist apologists alike.
Perhaps you have a very big ass, coupled with the fact that u nw have a fine face. You can't blame them. embarassed

Anyways, I just looked up the meaning of rapist apologists lol, I just learnt something new today lol grin . Never heard the word b4.
Re: Nigerian Ladies Share Their Public Harassment Stories by Nobody: 5:01am On Nov 27, 2016
ladyju:
I remember when I was younger, about 10yrs old. I was sent on an errand at night by my aunty. A young guy of about 20 removed his pe.nnis from his trouser and ask me to come and touch it.

That was my first time of seeing an erect pe.nnis. I ran more than Usain bolt dat day and I was traumatised for days.

That taught me a lesson......I don't send d girls that stsys with me out at night even though they are big.
But did you touch it b4 you ran ? grin You could have atleast touched it na ! ahn ahn
Re: Nigerian Ladies Share Their Public Harassment Stories by cococandy(f): 7:34am On Nov 27, 2016
truthsayer007:
Perhaps you have a very big ass, coupled with the fact that u nw have a fine face. You can't blame them . embarassed

Anyways, I just looked up the meaning of rapist apologists lol, I just learnt something new today lol grin . Never heard the word b4.
I hope you didn't think it was a compliment. Beautiful or ugly, no woman should be harassed for her looks. And you feel the culprits should not be blamed. Because the lady looked a certain way? You're surely not so jaded by your environment that you can't see something so simple.

It is inappropriate. It makes women feel unsafe. it is vulgar. It is unacceptable. Stop the excuses.
Re: Nigerian Ladies Share Their Public Harassment Stories by Nobody:
This is soul-flattening and disgusting. The thing is, most – if not all – of these sexual harassers always go scot free. God knows I can never raise my children in this madhouse we call a country.

...

Men get sexually harassed too, but it's not as prevalent as harassment of women, and unlike women, many men actually enjoy it.

I remember with electrifying clarity how some five years ago I boarded a BRT and this particularly attractive lady was pressing her äss [deliberately] on my groin—we were standing and there were too many people in the bus to notice.

Initially, I thought it was unintentional, but after redirecting my groin away from her bum severally, she always found a way to get her batty pushing against my groin—like in a quasi-döggystyle position, but with clothes on.

I won't say if I enjoyed this invasion of personal space or not. I'd leave that for your imagination to decide.

...

I also see many guys who cannot do without turning their necks to get a clearer view of a lady's äss after she has walked past them.

They do this for every lady to the point that it's become a second nature, and to the extent that they don't even know when they do it.

The sad thing is, some ladies love the ogling and leers. I, on the other hand, think it's déclassé. [For the guys], even if you can't help but steal a quick glance, don't make it so obvious.

Cat-calling, lewd remarks, squishing of bööbs, smacking of a lady's buttocks...Acts like this are only carried out by perverts and social reprobates.
Re: Nigerian Ladies Share Their Public Harassment Stories by Nobody: 10:40am On Nov 27, 2016
cococandy:
I hope you didn't think it was a compliment. Beautiful or ugly, no woman should be harassed for her looks. And you feel the culprits should not be blamed. Because the lady looked a certain way? You're surely not so jaded by your environment that you can't see something so simple.

It is inappropriate. It makes women feel unsafe. it is vulgar. It is unacceptable. Stop the excuses.
I knew u would come for me lol , I just had to bait u.

Abeg leave me , b4 u tag me rapist apologist
Re: Nigerian Ladies Share Their Public Harassment Stories by Nobody: 12:34pm On Nov 27, 2016
DarkRebel101:
This is soul-flattening and disgusting. The thing is, most – if not all – of these sexual harassers always go scot free. God knows I can never raise my children in this madhouse we call a country.

...

Men get sexually harassed too, but it's not as prevalent as harassment of women, and unlike women, many men actually enjoy it.

I remember with electrifying clarity how some five years ago I boarded a BRT and this particularly attractive lady was pressing her äss [deliberately] on my groin—we were standing and there were too many people in the bus to notice.

Initially, I thought it was unintentional, but after redirecting my groin away from her bum severally, she always found a way to get her batty pushing against my groin—like in a quasi-döggystyle position, but with clothes on.

I won't say if I enjoyed this invasion of personal space or not. I'd leave that for your imagination to decide.

...

I also see many guys who cannot do without turning their necks to get a clearer view of a lady's äss after she has walked past them.

They do this for every lady to the point that it's become a second nature, and to the extent that they don't even know when they do it.

The sad thing is, some ladies love the ogling and leers. I, on the other hand, think it's déclassé. [For the guys], even if you can't help but steal a quick glance, don't make it so obvious.

Cat-calling, lewd remarks, squishing of bööbs, smacking of a lady's buttocks...Acts like this are only carried out by perverts and social reprobates.
On point cool
Re: Nigerian Ladies Share Their Public Harassment Stories by Incrizz(f): 2:02pm On Nov 27, 2016
Francheezy:
My sincere apologies.
Oh wow...you took the wind out of me undecided

Alright man, thank you.
Peace.
Re: Nigerian Ladies Share Their Public Harassment Stories by Nobody: 3:04pm On Nov 27, 2016
mikolo80:
babe its only in certain places. I used to be harassed by guys who sell clothes I simply treat dia fuckup and all others take dressing. It's you girls that condone the misbehaviour that's why it continues
You misunderstand. You said it happens in certain places which we for some reason continue frequenting. Am telling you that there are stupid people everywhere that do stupid things. Not just in the market. Besides. I shouldn't go where i want to go because some jobless lizards are there? Sha.. Where i am.. Its only talk they do. They're not as daring as the yaba guys. T'was just that one guy that one day
Re: Nigerian Ladies Share Their Public Harassment Stories by Fashx007: 11:26am On Nov 28, 2016
Gal it's gud the way u walked away,I always tell my sisters don't get into confrontation with anyone you don't know there whereabout,so they don't get molested without payback
wissed:
u whathuhhuh??! how could u walk away when u could have ruined his lifehuh unless u enjoyed it eww.. his weight Is no excuse
Re: Nigerian Ladies Share Their Public Harassment Stories by frostylook: 5:05pm On Nov 28, 2016
ellacute45:
You two are plain stupid
Hmmmmmmph.....my dear girl, I meant to quote a poster who typed that, I can see I didn't capture that well. if u cool yourself enough and read the last sentence that states the poster is a self confessed rapist, maybe you would rein in your tongue. I am sure you didn't read to the end before blasting off
Re: Nigerian Ladies Share Their Public Harassment Stories by frostylook: 5:13pm On Nov 28, 2016
dangotesmummy:
even those girls that wear overall long gowns still get sexually harassed so sexual harassment isn't a function of what a lady wears.

I was surprised when I passed by that yaba market area and a woman in her late 40s was sexually bullied. This was a woman wearing iro and buba no make up on and tied her scarf anyhow. So any woman can be a victim irrespective of age or dressing. The worse victims of sexual harassment are teenage girls hawking pure water or oranges around that area. I usually pity them because they're not New to sexual bullying. Even elderly women hawking that look unattractive aren't excluded so find another thing talk
I agree. If this was a sane country, there would be laws protecting women from these sex predators. It's unfortunate that our society blatantly empowers madness so long as the offender has a pole between their legs.
Re: Nigerian Ladies Share Their Public Harassment Stories by Nobody: 5:25pm On Nov 28, 2016
frostylook:
Hmmmmmmph.....my dear girl, I meant to quote a poster who typed that, I can see I didn't capture that well. if u cool yourself enough and read the last sentence that states the poster is a self confessed rapist, maybe you would rein in your tongue. I am sure you didn't read to the end before blasting off
undecided Okay smiley
Re: Nigerian Ladies Share Their Public Harassment Stories by frostylook: 5:29pm On Nov 28, 2016
ellacute45:
undecided Okay smiley
Enjoy.
Re: Nigerian Ladies Share Their Public Harassment Stories by chris2face(m): 5:41pm On Nov 28, 2016
Pervert everywhere
Re: Nigerian Ladies Share Their Public Harassment Stories by ArcToyin(m): 1:46pm On Dec 22, 2016
I won't react to the harassment meted on ladies cos ladies themselves caused it. The rate of indecent and immoral dressing is skyrocketing everyday. When you wear cloth revealing intrinsic part of your body, don't you know you are hurting some weak guys? were served for what you wanted.
Re: Nigerian Ladies Share Their Public Harassment Stories by Nobody: 6:53pm On Dec 22, 2016
ArcToyin:
I won't react to the harassment meted on ladies cos ladies themselves caused it. The rate of indecent and immoral dressing is skyrocketing everyday. When you wear cloth revealing intrinsic part of your body, don't you know you are hurting some weak guys? were served for what you wanted.
Some weak guys like you who can't control themselves

Stop the victim blaming
Like even descent ladies experience sexual assault
Are you also gonna justify theirs?? smiley
Re: Nigerian Ladies Share Their Public Harassment Stories by SafeDavid(m): 7:31pm On Dec 22, 2016
And I'm sure all these happened in Lagos
Crazy bunch.. grin
Re: Nigerian Ladies Share Their Public Harassment Stories by chigoizie7(m): 8:21pm On Dec 22, 2016
Laveda:
grin

They aren't sex starved, they just don't have self control.

Stupid men ready to put their dicks anywhere. undecided
Tell us ur own experience.
Re: Nigerian Ladies Share Their Public Harassment Stories by ArcToyin(m): 8:42pm On Dec 22, 2016
ellacute45:
Some weak guys like you who can't control themselves
lol. I laugh in Japan cos you have spoken wide of the mark. I thank God for all, girls have naked and seduced me, and by God's grace have never fallen for their temptation let alone those that are cladded

Stop the victim blaming
I will only stop victim blaming when girls decide to give sense to their dressing.
Like even descent ladies experience sexual assault
Are you also gonna justify theirs?? smiley
Did I speak about decency or immoral dressing. I guess you among the league of women that spoil this generation in the name of fashion?
Re: Nigerian Ladies Share Their Public Harassment Stories by shadowman408(m): 8:54pm On Dec 22, 2016
chigoizie7:
Tell us ur own experience.
You tink its easy to stick to one woman.
Re: Nigerian Ladies Share Their Public Harassment Stories by Nobody: 9:16pm On Dec 22, 2016
ArcToyin:
Did I speak about decency or immoral dressing. I guess you among the league of women that spoil this generation in the name of fashion?
Oh shut it!

I asked you a simple question, you couldn't answer instead you answered me with another question.
Re: Nigerian Ladies Share Their Public Harassment Stories by ArcToyin(m): 10:53pm On Dec 22, 2016
ellacute45:
Oh shut it!

I asked you a simple question, you couldn't answer instead you answered me with another question.
did you read through my comment at all?
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