Good Job by teddy and everyone else on this thread

There is this girl I like. She stays in my street but I hadn't seen in like 5 years. I saw her recently and I liked what I saw. She's friends with my younger sister. I tried chyking and flirting a lil with her while she was around but her mom came along and she left. Got her phone number from my sister hoping we could arrange for a meet only to discover she already left for her school somewhere in Osun state and I will soon be leaving to serve the country .We chat on whatsapp but I don't really like doing my business online. My issue is I like her and would wanna date her but I don't also believe in long distance relationships as well. I just can't get her curves outta my head. What can I do to make this work .. She's just different somehow

I just have to add this comment for posterity sake.

How can you love a woman and not spend your money on her?
You must be joking o

Even guys, who are wealthy but pretended to be poor as their own way of finding the right one, gave to the women they professed love to.
They only just didn't give as much as they would have given if in their real identity.

You can't pay her tfare when she comes to SEE YOU. You go dutch, can't pick the bills when you go on a date, and you don't want her to leave you when someone else comes and treats her right??

It's not about loving money. It's the way we are wired. We are wired to be provided for.

Now whether she is working or earning a salary, or not is not the issue here.
When you love someone, you give.

And unfortunately for some guys, all we ladies know this.

"For God so loved the world that He gave.."

Thenk.

Eeja Nla01

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Incrizz:
I just have to add this comment for posterity sake.

How can you love a woman and not spend your money on her?
You must be joking o

Even guys, who are wealthy but pretended to be poor as their own way of finding the right one, gave to the women they professed love to.
They only just didn't give as much as they would have given if in their real identity.

You can't pay her tfare when she comes to SEE YOU. You go dutch, can't pick the bills when you go on a date, and you don't want her to leave you when someone else comes and treats her right??

It's not about loving money. It's the way we are wired. We are wired to be provided for.

Now whether she is working or earning a salary, or not is not the issue here.
When you love someone, you give.

And unfortunately for some guys, all we ladies know this.

"For God so loved the world that He gave.."

Thenk.

Eeja Nla01

am trying not to laugh! This gurl never see anything, lemme guess u still a teen,if not u wouldn't have said such, or probably u ugly asf and guys don't usually spend money,try to get ur attraction or try to impress u if not u for no weti we de do for here! If u see guys wey u end up meeting and they start to DE shower u with money and later ask u out and u fruebdzone them ... Abeg I no fit de type. weti de my head to type too long jor

Obiomon:
am trying not to laugh! This gurl never see anything, lemme guess u still a teen,if not u wouldn't have said such, or probably u ugly asf and guys don't usually spend money,try to get ur attraction or try to impress u if not u for no weti we de do for here! If u see guys wey u end up meeting and they start to DE shower u with money and later ask u out and u fruebdzone them ... Abeg I no fit de type. weti de my head to type too long jor

Na wa o!
What did I just read!!? Lol.
You're male?

Incrizz:

Na wa o!
What did I just read!!? Lol.
You're male?

no am not male am she male!

Obiomon:
no am not male am she male!

Incrizz:

it feels good to be a she male! U will be able to do..... Never mind. U should join me

xxxtedyxxx:


Bro, the first mistake you made is telling her how you feel. That move, 90% of the time, backfires if you don't do it in the right stage. As a rule, never tell a babe how you feel. You Wana keep her guessing. Being indifferent and acting like her bf already achieves that effect easily.

Telling a babe how you feel kills all the attraction. It's like you are telling her " ok, I have told you how I feel, now tell me yours, or let's start dating, or let me into your life". it's like you are asking for permission to be a part of her life.

It seems she has friendzoned you...dont chat her up again. You will need to change tactics, which will make her see you in a different light.

All You need to do is start acting like her bf already. Don't ask for permission. Don't ask her opinion.

Send her a lovely night text.

"oh babe, hope you have eaten and yur day wasn't stressful...Have a great nite ( insert her name) (appropriate smilye here". Will call you in the morning."

Call her in the morning, and ask about how her night, hope she didn't wee wee in bed....What she is up to for the day, breakfast ideas. You need to be fun. Relax, and don't be too serious. Don't stay long on the phone. Eject with sth like.

" Great, do have a swell day...ama buz you later babe"

always you babe, sexy, cutie. Don't use dear, or bae.



Try that for a week, and see how invested she would be. you can then follow up with a date request.

Pls don't ask her out to be your gf. focus on fun bro.

And make sure you are packaging other babe's too.

The more the merrier

I hail.

Does adding a gift to the list of things to "act" make sense or she will perceive you as mumu and a maga?

nice work tedy, a follower since you started in 2013

Hey noticed this thread is cool, i also gat ma issues. Gat one gurl i like here in skul. We are frnds tho she always greet me smile with me and wish me luck on evry test....i really like dah gurl buh donno hw to start i need your help guyZ....what do i do hw do i get to solve it plz...i prefer physical plz rather dan dis chatting plz....HELP!!!

Hi Profs here., I need help here and i need it fast. I and my friend visited his gal friend in the hostel and i met her friend there. I collected her number ( without any intention ooo). 3 days later, my friend called me to rush to his room upstairs that there is sth , only to meet the gal. I was shocked to say the least. Since then, she always visit with her friend and most times we are either in my room or in their room upstairs. They all joke at us that while are we so distance bla bla bla ,. I already told her my mind but the problem now is that from that day one she visited , there have been awkward moments. she is rigid and doednt talk but respond in monologues when ever we talk but she feels so so free with my friend and the third guy we stay together. More or less , i dont even know what to talk to her again about as i havent been in this kind of situation before. I feel so free with her friend and others but this is just frustrating. As am talking, she just left my room with her friend now and its the same issue. How can i break her rigidity pls and make her feel relaxed. I need answers pls.

dimeji248:
o.p their come this gal,she's new in my area and my sch,she's an ND 1 student while am an HND 1 student too,she's a cool&gentle gal. I walk her up one nite and ask if we could b frnds and she agree. after some couples of weeks an incident happen that makes us more than Dan close together, I profess my love to her but she didn't give me a response other than she want to face her studies, now been on holiday we ain't that close again (distance stuff)...................wat can I do to get a yes from her?

the mistake you made was confessing your love to her when she is not yet attracted to you. Don't ever ask/to tell a girl you love heels when she is not invested in the convo yet. You don't need permission or a yes from her. All you need to do is simply play the boyfriend role.

xxxtedyxxx:
the mistake you made was confessing your love to her when she is not yet attracted to you. Don't ever ask/to tell a girl you love heels when she is not invested in the convo yet. You don't need permission or a yes from her. All you need to do is simply play the boyfriend role.

Thumps Up.

Boyfriend role working since d days of earlyMen

xxxtedyxxx:
the mistake you made was confessing your love to her when she is not yet attracted to you. Don't ever ask/to tell a girl you love heels when she is not invested in the convo yet. You don't need permission or a yes from her. All you need to do is simply play the boyfriend role.

have also make the mistake of confessing my love for dis babe too o because I can feel d attration she has towards me...abi make I ask you how can I be sure d babe is really attracted to me after dis Bleep up to achieve my aim...but d rapport still dey go well o...help me boss.

aiiyt, thanks TEDY[b][/b] for this awesome job. am good to go #leggo

Incrizz:

oya come n take me out jor!! N I need to change my wardrobe too

Hidorano:

have also make the mistake of confessing my love for dis babe too o because I can feel d attration she has towards me...abi make I ask you how can I be sure d babe is really attracted to me after dis Bleep up to achieve my aim...but d rapport still dey go well o...help me boss.

no need to ask her anything bro.

the only thing you need to do is Guage her actions. Do her actions tally with what she says?

act like a boyfriend already...thats all you need bro...and don't forget to always be advancing the convo. Don't remain stock.

Back and better....

This thread is about to explode.

xxxtedyxxx:
Back and better....

This thread is about to explode.

bruh welcome back...... Got a question for you so I need ya help.... I just moved to a new area now nd I saw a babe there nd I collected her number from her friend reason been becus the babe is not always around so I collected the no from her frnd nd now I do call her once in three days but always normal how re u..... How can I step up the convo bruh


Thanks

xxxtedyxxx:
Back and better....

This thread is about to explode.

bro I have this girl we do Chat very well tho we are yet to meet face to face, I met her 2ru facebook... Am falling in love with her during our conversation coz we do Chat a lot... She already told me she has no boy friend... She said she really don't wanna go into a relationship now.... Tho am yet to hint her about my intention towards her...
Pls help how can i go with it?

damilare96:
bro I have this girl we do Chat very well tho we are yet to meet face to face, I met her 2ru facebook... Am falling in love with her during our conversation coz we do Chat a lot... She already told me she has no boy friend... She said she really don't wanna go into a relationship now.... Tho am yet to hint her about my intention towards her...
Pls help how can i go with it?

she's lying hahaha

James150:
she's lying hahaha

she isn't lying.... Am very sure of that

damilare96:
bro I have this girl we do Chat very well tho we are yet to meet face to face, I met her 2ru facebook... Am falling in love with her during our conversation coz we do Chat a lot... She already told me she has no boy friend... She said she really don't wanna go into a relationship now.... Tho am yet to hint her about my intention towards her...
Pls help how can i go with it?

don't hint her about your intention....dont ask her out. she has already given you the go ahead codedly.

just act like a bf....already.

assume the role.
you don't need permssion...telling her your intention is akin to giving her the power of "yes" or "no"

just carry go bro


All you need is to create some sense of trust and be romantically cool. You don't need her permission to do that. It's only necessary for her to assume it's the normal you...

tomzee2:
bruh welcome back...... Got a question for you so I need ya help.... I just moved to a new area now nd I saw a babe there nd I collected her number from her friend reason been becus the babe is not always around so I collected the no from her frnd nd now I do call her once in three days but always normal how re u..... How can I step up the convo bruh


Thanks

to step up the convo, and to elicit responses - beyond the normal- you must attract her first.

She must be attracted....She comes attracted when you show you are interesting/cool/romantic etc.

pages 2-6 have the answers you are looking for.

Does she chat online? WhatsaPp? texts?

Calling alone won't do the trick

xxxtedyxxx:
don't hint her about your intention....dont ask her out. she has already given you the go ahead codedly.

just act like a bf....already.

assume the role.
you don't need permssion...telling her your intention is akin to giving her the power of "yes" or "no"

just carry go bro


All you need is to create some sense of trust and be romantically cool. You don't need her permission to do that. It's only necessary for her to assume it's the normal you...

i really appreciate bro... I'll soon give testimony

Yea she is on WhatsApp but don't normally come online this period CU's she is a tailor nd have lot of sewing to finish up for people before xmas

xxxtedyxxx:


to step up the convo, and to elicit responses - beyond the normal- you must attract her first.

She must be attracted....She comes attracted when you show you are interesting/cool/romantic etc.

pages 2-6 have the answers you are looking for.

Does she chat online? WhatsaPp? texts?

Calling alone won't do the trick

Boss of life longest time make we get group chat na where djboosting Gan

xxxtedyxxx

tomzee2:
Yea she is on WhatsApp but don't normally come online this period CU's she is a tailor nd have lot of sewing to finish up for people before xmas

oh I see. Just keep tracking her and keeping in touch...so u can be the first thing on her mind...once she is free to hookup. Don't push it tho, limit the calls, be unpredictable- that will make her miss you. You can sms her smtimes too, esp late in the night.