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Re: She Said She Can't Date Me But She Is Now Begging Me For 5k by samsam2019: 8:20am On Nov 29, 2016
MamaTej:
My brother, if you truely have it ... Please, give her and save her family from dying of hunger.
Na recession.
lol
Re: She Said She Can't Date Me But She Is Now Begging Me For 5k by sats: 8:53am On Nov 29, 2016
crazymommy:
Are u saying a lady cannot request help from a guy because she is not ready to date him or interested in a relationship??can't they be friends??can't you help your friends whether male or female??assuming she was rude to you when you were asking her out then that is when I can say you should not answer her...but if she was not then give her If you have and if you do not have then just tell her straight..
My sister you cannot Request help if you did not Provide help, every mmm participant knows that

OP no look uche face, keep your money, you are probably maga number 17, guy bone her side
Re: She Said She Can't Date Me But She Is Now Begging Me For 5k by makelove2m(m): 9:09am On Nov 29, 2016
MamaTej:
So what if I'm "the very girl".
That still doesn't stop him from assisting "the very girl".
Iya mi, Na true talk shaah...............
Re: She Said She Can't Date Me But She Is Now Begging Me For 5k by MamaTej(f): 9:31am On Nov 29, 2016
makelove2m:
Iya mi, Na true talk shaah...............
Ose baba mi.
Re: She Said She Can't Date Me But She Is Now Begging Me For 5k by bashtee09(op): 10:51am On Nov 29, 2016
Thanks all, I really appreciate your comment
Re: She Said She Can't Date Me But She Is Now Begging Me For 5k by Solmax(m): 11:38am On Nov 29, 2016
hahaha I have a similar experience.
a lady I was toasting for months keep on turning me around without giving a straight answer, considering I always treat ma ladies well and had taken her as a Queen. She was enjoying the gifts attention and Money, after sometime I came back to my senses and stated withdrawing, I then discovered a school mate of hers has booked space there. The next time she asked for money from me, I asked her why she did not go for it from that other guy, she said don't she know he exist before asking me for the money, That she asked me as a FRIEND. I gave her the money but ended the friendship. Till today when she sees me she's always uncomfortable...although I always say hi and talk.
I can't be sowing where I would not reap aii
Re: She Said She Can't Date Me But She Is Now Begging Me For 5k by Malayy(m): 1:48pm On Nov 29, 2016
uwagimboo:
Since u ve the morning to give, don't, but give her night..
Back to ur story; Tell her u don't give ur money to people with less regard.
shut your trap. mr I too know. it was an auto correct issue..
Re: She Said She Can't Date Me But She Is Now Begging Me For 5k by QuietHammer(m): 1:55pm On Nov 29, 2016
MrCork:
...is she Nigerian? (No oofease) angry
Mr. Man, you don't have to always pollute every thread your eyes sees with your moronic_ comments. Save them for your silly threads.
Re: She Said She Can't Date Me But She Is Now Begging Me For 5k by rhymesnoni(m): 3:00pm On Nov 29, 2016
forget abt da fact dat u tried to woo her, if u av da money. y nt help herhuh?
Re: She Said She Can't Date Me But She Is Now Begging Me For 5k by MrCork: 3:00pm On Nov 29, 2016
QuietHammer:
Mr. Man, you don't have to always pollute every thread your eyes sees with your moronic_ comments. Save them for your silly threads.
^^^^ see this homebase young nigeria boy talk in to a whole Londoner like am on his levul undecided
Re: She Said She Can't Date Me But She Is Now Begging Me For 5k by zeestunner(m): 3:07pm On Nov 29, 2016
Very soon we sef guys go just wake up one morning and start asking our female "FRIENDS" .... Jessica hwfa how are u? Ehem I really need help from u o pls konji de catch me and I just need one shot like just a quickie plss help a friend in need. Na once all the girls go insult your life and unfriend you. Some girls wetin una get boyfriend for ? And una guys make una de give una sista money once in a while so dem no go de beg anyhow.
Re: She Said She Can't Date Me But She Is Now Begging Me For 5k by zeestunner(m): 3:17pm On Nov 29, 2016
crazymommy:
Are u saying a lady cannot request help from a guy because she is not ready to date him or interested in a relationship??can't they be friends??can't you help your friends whether male or female??assuming she was rude to you when you were asking her out then that is when I can say you should not answer her...but if she was not then give her If you have and if you do not have then just tell her straight..
Make una no worry very soon we sef go de call our female friends like....hi crazymommy ,how are u doing hope good o ehem plss I really need help from u o. At the moment I don't hav a girlfriend and konji de hold me hostage bad bad can u plss give me and shot...like a quick one I promise I won't do too much. Plss help a FRIEND in NEED. Now if a guy ask u for this what will u do? Would u giv witout any qualms?
Re: She Said She Can't Date Me But She Is Now Begging Me For 5k by Nobody: 3:27pm On Nov 29, 2016
Just tell her you can't give her the money and don't give her any reason.... then go and look for a girl that is willing to date you and spend your N5000 on her when you are in a relationship with her.

bashtee09:
There was this lady I met sometimes last year which I ask out but she said she can't date me with no reason to give for it, we do chat on whatsapp since then and anytime I brings up the dating stuff she won't chat with me for like a week but she has been disturbing me since last week that I should borrow her 5000 naira, although I have the morning to give her but I think she is up to something, please advice me should I give her the money or I shouldn't.
Re: She Said She Can't Date Me But She Is Now Begging Me For 5k by TashaGirl: 3:30pm On Nov 29, 2016
MrCork:
^^^^ see this homebase young nigeria boy talk in to a whole Londoner like am on his levul undecided
angry
Re: She Said She Can't Date Me But She Is Now Begging Me For 5k by uwagimboo: 4:23pm On Nov 29, 2016
Malayy:
shut your trap. mr I too know.
it was an auto correct issue..
Auto correcthuh

Dude u get patent for daftness..
Re: She Said She Can't Date Me But She Is Now Begging Me For 5k by Tyviv(f): 5:50pm On Nov 29, 2016
Give her if you have it, if you don't, then tell her you can't help her.... Maybe she is not attracted to you cheesy
Re: She Said She Can't Date Me But She Is Now Begging Me For 5k by numericalguy(m): 6:20pm On Nov 29, 2016
Tyviv:
Give her if you have it, if you don't, then tell her you can't help her.... Maybe she is not attracted to you cheesy
See the crapy mentality of most Nigerian girls. She's not attracted to him but attracted to his money.
Re: She Said She Can't Date Me But She Is Now Begging Me For 5k by dingbang(m): 6:23pm On Nov 29, 2016
UniQuegrACE:
none of them ever lasted?........ grin grin,i'm not GRACE tho cool
yes none of them ever lasted.







really? So wat name should I call u then?
Re: She Said She Can't Date Me But She Is Now Begging Me For 5k by Tyviv(f): 6:28pm On Nov 29, 2016
numericalguy:
See the crapy mentality of most Nigerian girls. She's not attracted to him but attracted to his money.
Well he is just helping a friend, so smiley
Re: She Said She Can't Date Me But She Is Now Begging Me For 5k by torres89: 6:30pm On Nov 29, 2016
numericalguy:
If the guy is not good enough for her, his money should also not be good for her.

Why ask him for help when she has a boyfriend or other admirers. The guy is neither her father nor her mother. She should go and meet her father who's responsibility is to take care of her.
Does she not have female friends? She should go and meet them for help na. The girl is a very wicked person. You deny someone a relationship and you still want to be chopping the guy 's money. Habba! Na only she waka come?

I would strongly advise the guy not to give her a penny for the following reasons :
1) He should use the money on himself to look good for the next girl that will accept his proposal.

2) Girls are notorious for not returning back borrowed money. Infact she can insult the living daylight out of you the day you request for your money back.
dude u are so ruthless...

nice one
Re: She Said She Can't Date Me But She Is Now Begging Me For 5k by Nobody: 1:06pm On Nov 30, 2016
dingbang:
yes none of them ever lasted.







really? So wat name should I call u then? yeah...everlasting grace cool
Re: She Said She Can't Date Me But She Is Now Begging Me For 5k by Nobody: 2:46pm On Nov 30, 2016
bashtee09:
There was this lady I met sometimes last year which I ask out but she said she can't date me with no reason to give for it, we do chat on whatsapp since then and anytime I brings up the dating stuff she won't chat with me for like a week but she has been disturbing me since last week that I should borrow her 5000 naira, although I have the morning to give her but I think she is up to something, please advice me should I give her the money or I shouldn't.
I ezperienced same thing last week... one of ma ex that i wanted to kontinue erritin with again afresh was misbehavin.. i bullshited her for a yr and months. She came last week that she need money to travel somewhere bla bla bla sheep, but for her mind shes gat a working class dude and shes broke.. i just sent her the kudi for old time sake..Just give her, theres no biggy, money will come and go, but legacy lives on.
Re: She Said She Can't Date Me But She Is Now Begging Me For 5k by phiszo(m): 3:19pm On Nov 30, 2016
bashtee09:
There was this lady I met sometimes last year which I ask out but she said she can't date me with no reason to give for it, we do chat on whatsapp since then and anytime I brings up the dating stuff she won't chat with me for like a week but she has been disturbing me since last week that I should borrow her 5000 naira, although I have the morning to give her but I think she is up to something, please advice me should I give her the money or I shouldn't.
Don't be a maga bro.
Re: She Said She Can't Date Me But She Is Now Begging Me For 5k by Nobody: 4:17pm On Nov 30, 2016
bashtee09:
There was this lady I met sometimes last year which I ask out but she said she can't date me with no reason to give for it, we do chat on whatsapp since then and anytime I brings up the dating stuff she won't chat with me for like a week but she has been disturbing me since last week that I should borrow her 5000 naira, although I have the morning to give her but I think she is up to something, please advice me should I give her the money or I shouldn't.
Bros don't give her shi-shi, That remind me of a girl like that ( Kay) she said we can't date but asked me to help her with #5000 to fix her hair since October 7th.I said I will give her but is not available. She changed it to you keep disappointing me after you say you love me. in fact, I have stopped replying her once she brings the money up. For this recession I will throw away money like that instead I use am do MMM
Re: She Said She Can't Date Me But She Is Now Begging Me For 5k by joyfit: 5:08pm On Nov 30, 2016
bashtee09:
There was this lady I met sometimes last year which I ask out but she said she can't date me with no reason to give for it, we do chat on whatsapp since then and anytime I brings up the dating stuff she won't chat with me for like a week but she has been disturbing me since last week that I should borrow her 5000 naira, although I have the morning to give her but I think she is up to something, please advice me should I give her the money or I shouldn't.
On your own
Re: She Said She Can't Date Me But She Is Now Begging Me For 5k by ufuosman(m): 8:05pm On Nov 30, 2016
If you have the 5k, give it to her, but don't ask her out again.......
Re: She Said She Can't Date Me But She Is Now Begging Me For 5k by Fourwinds: 9:04pm On Nov 30, 2016
MamaTej:
My brother, if you truely have it ... Please, give her and save her family from dying of hunger.
Na recession.
nonsense..!!! OP don't give....d girl iz a thief
Re: She Said She Can't Date Me But She Is Now Begging Me For 5k by Fourwinds: 9:09pm On Nov 30, 2016
Tyviv:
Well he is just helping a friend, so smiley
a friend ko.. a fridge ni...
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