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Re: Married Men And Their Wooing Palaver by torres89: 8:49am On Dec 08, 2016
pinkpebbles:
Like i said, there are girls out there lookimg for watever from men. I am talkin abt a normal girl goin about doing her business. Trust me, d push is almst the same measure as a gun on the head

we all have choices in life

even the normal gal does too

it's her decision to date the married man

she secretly craves for him at night

like a quote says it's wat u wanna see that's wat u get....

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Re: Married Men And Their Wooing Palaver by dacblogger: 8:50am On Dec 08, 2016
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pinkpebbles:
You get ba. grin
so that if thunder go fire am, may the thunder get weight and occupy space

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Re: Married Men And Their Wooing Palaver by Nobody: 8:50am On Dec 08, 2016
dacblogger:

what you dnt know is that those ladies that jump from one sugardaddy to another are the ones that marry on time, so those ones you see in church looking for husbands are the good ones... and I have solid proof 2 back up my claim, do u
So why is both Genivieve and Cossy not married.We all know Genivieve at one time Atiku was her sugar daddy plus a number of sugar daddies she had and Cossy the big breasted lady we all know the trade she really does.so why are they still single?

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Re: Married Men And Their Wooing Palaver by torres89: 8:51am On Dec 08, 2016
lefulefu:
just last week here four young ladies were fighting in the street over our landlord who is over 80 yrs old.One of the girls was warning the other ladies to keep off her man and that our landlord is her boyfriend and she will not allow any other girl to pour sand in her garri.just looking at this girl she had be around 19 or 20.And when i say they were fighting they were actually throwing punches and slaps and pulling each others hair cheesy.

your story or claim is hard to believe o

80year old man ?

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Re: Married Men And Their Wooing Palaver by dee02(m): 8:53am On Dec 08, 2016
pinkpebbles:
I expected nothing less. Mediocre

People, please chip into the piggy bank so this little slag can get a much needed brain transplant! undecided

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Re: Married Men And Their Wooing Palaver by dee02(m): 8:53am On Dec 08, 2016
pinkpebbles:
I expected nothing less. Mediocre

People, please chip in generously so this little slag can get a much needed brain transplant! undecided

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Re: Married Men And Their Wooing Palaver by Nobody: 8:56am On Dec 08, 2016
torres89:


your story or claim is hard to believe o

80year old man ?
when u come top edo state u go see things for ursef cheesy

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Re: Married Men And Their Wooing Palaver by pinkpebbles(f): 8:56am On Dec 08, 2016
Do you know the law of falling inlove? If a person consistently show you care and support for a stretch of 20days, you are likely to fall inlove with the person. A normal girl can become powerless and fall prey. It could happen. Like i said, it takes the grace of God to overcome. They live with women. They know all tricks to win a woman's heart.
torres89:


we all have choices in life

even the normal gal does too

it's her decision to date the married man

she secretly craves for him at night

like a quote says it's wat u wanna see that's wat u get....

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Re: Married Men And Their Wooing Palaver by torres89: 9:00am On Dec 08, 2016
pinkpebbles:
Do you know the law of falling inlove? If a person consistently show you care and support for a stretch of 20days, you are likely to fall inlove with the person. A normal girl can become powerless and fall prey. It could happen. Like i said, it takes the grace of God to overcome. They live with women. They know all tricks to win a woman's heart.

Na wa o

falling in love as a law

I actually understand your point

ladies are generally weak vessels

some men are go getters, ruthless and mean

speaking from experience.

I just wanted you to outline solid points to support your hypothesis

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Re: Married Men And Their Wooing Palaver by pinkpebbles(f): 9:02am On Dec 08, 2016
I am glad we av agreed on something. Thank you for coming up with valid points. *respect*
torres89:


Na wa o

falling in love as a law

I actually understand your point

ladies are generally weak vessels

some men are go getters, ruthless and mean

speaking from experience.

I just wanted you to outline solid points to support your hypothesis

Re: Married Men And Their Wooing Palaver by torres89: 9:02am On Dec 08, 2016
lefulefu:
when u come top edo state u go see things for ursef cheesy

shey Na konji cause am abi Na money


I don't understand ?
Re: Married Men And Their Wooing Palaver by Nobody: 9:05am On Dec 08, 2016
Peebles,

You forgot to mention that, most women only want what another woman has.
They feel that since Mrs A is married to Mr A, then they too should be good enough for Mr A.
They would go to any lengths to conquer a married man JUST for the sake of it.

They even see it as a thing of pride to get to wreck a home. To them, it shows they are not only desirable but it makes them feel superior to the wife of the man in question.
They be like "Hey, see I fūcked your husband, I'm definitely better than you."

It's the same ego boost we guys get when we get to seduce and fūck another guy's girl.

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Re: Married Men And Their Wooing Palaver by Nobody: 9:05am On Dec 08, 2016
pinkpebbles:
Wow. I cannot believe you just asked that. Anyways it is because you are a guy. Infact when you tell them pls leave me you are married. They will ask you if being married is a sickness lipsrsealed
but with most ladies at a married man's beck and call i don't see any reason why he would want to force himself on a gal who is clearly not into him.The average lady in Nigeria wants to date a ready made man.That is a man who already has a steady very high paying with a big car and a big house and most married men tend to fall in such category hence the reason many ladies run after them.Yes there are single men with good jobs but their salary scale may not be as fat as that of the older married fellow.So why would lets say a university prof or a political big wig be begging a young lady to date him when he clearly has the financial muscle to sway that young girls world.

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Re: Married Men And Their Wooing Palaver by torres89: 9:07am On Dec 08, 2016
pinkpebbles:
I am glad we av agreed on something. Thank you for coming up with valid points. *respect*

pebbles

is that your name

have a gal named that too
Re: Married Men And Their Wooing Palaver by pinkpebbles(f): 9:07am On Dec 08, 2016
crywow. This is another dimension. I totally get you. But lets focus on the ones that do not want but are pressurized and tempted to do it. What is your take on that? Are you going to blame the man or the girl?
CorGier:
Peebles,

You forgot to mention that, most women only want what another woman has.
They feel that since Mrs A is married to Mr A, then they too should be good enough for Mr A.
They would go to any lengths to conquer a married man JUST for the sake of it.

They even see it as a thing of pride to get to wreck a home. To them, it shows they are not only desirable but it makes them feel superior to the wife of the man in question.
They be like "Hey, see I fūcked your husband, I'm definitely better than you."

It's the same ego boost we guys get when we get to seduce and fūck another guy's girl.
Re: Married Men And Their Wooing Palaver by pinkpebbles(f): 9:08am On Dec 08, 2016
Yea that is my name smiley
torres89:


pebbles

is that your name

have a gal named that too
Re: Married Men And Their Wooing Palaver by torres89: 9:11am On Dec 08, 2016
pinkpebbles:
Yea that is my name smiley
very few gals bear that
send me an invite 7AD1AE06
Re: Married Men And Their Wooing Palaver by pinkpebbles(f): 9:11am On Dec 08, 2016
I beg to differ. An average lady wants to be independent and self- sufficient not necessarily date a ready made man. A below average girl falls into that category. Most of the married men do not even offer money to the girls. They offer availability. They want a regular relationship. So it is not like they are paying the girls. So i do not think it is about the money
lefulefu:
but with most ladies at a married man's beck and call i don't see any reason why he would want to force himself on a gal who is clearly not into him.The average lady in Nigeria wants to date a ready made man.That is a man who already has a steady very high paying with a big car and a big house and most married men tend to fall in such category hence the reason many ladies run after them.Yes there are single men with good jobs but their salary scale may not be as fat as that of the older married fellow.So why would lets say a university prof or a political big wig be begging a young lady to date him when he clearly has the financial muscle to sway that young girls world.
Re: Married Men And Their Wooing Palaver by Nobody: 9:16am On Dec 08, 2016
torres89:


shey Na konji cause am abi Na money


I don't understand ?
wich yeye konjicheesycheesy.wat i even heard is dat the old man places his young sugar girls on monthly allowance.If the girl is darkskinned he places her on 40k and if she is a tenant she stays rent free.If she is light skinned he places her on 60k and rent free as well if na tenant plus some other miscellaneouscheesy.According to wat some of the girls say they don't have to have sex with him.All they do is massage his back and romance himcheesy.Guy u tell me wich young girl would resist such an offer .Even the OP of this thread will find such offer irresistible.

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Re: Married Men And Their Wooing Palaver by Nobody: 9:21am On Dec 08, 2016
pinkpebbles:
I beg to differ. An average lady wants to be independent and self- sufficient not necessarily date a ready made man. A below average girl falls into that category. Most of the married men do not even offer money to the girls. They offer availability. They want a regular relationship. So it is not like they are paying the girls. So i do not think it is about the money
All what u saying does not happen in Nigeria.i am talking with a nigerian perspective.Lol a nigerian lady with the mind to be independent? Are u located outside Nigeria?

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Re: Married Men And Their Wooing Palaver by Nobody: 9:24am On Dec 08, 2016
pinkpebbles:
crywow. This is another dimension. I totally get you. But lets focus on the ones that do not want but are pressurized and tempted to do it. What is your take on that? Are you going to blame the man or the girl?

See that Cognitive Dissonance there?
Reminds one of the Biblical Eve and the snake, doesn't it.
Like her, you ladies are never accountable for anything. It's always someone else's fault.
You can blame Mr A all you want. Mrs A is the one hurting, and she knows who she would rather go after.

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Re: Married Men And Their Wooing Palaver by pinkpebbles(f): 9:24am On Dec 08, 2016
OMG! I cannot believe this is how low women have sunk. There are so many Nigerian girls that are working hard as to be independent. Look around, I am sure you will see one.
lefulefu:
All what u saying does not happen in Nigeria.i am talking with a nigerian perspective.Lol a nigerian lady with the mind to be independent? Are u located outside Nigeria?

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Re: Married Men And Their Wooing Palaver by ujudiaz(f): 9:24am On Dec 08, 2016
Most married men, chase after young ladies,or will I say 85% of married men are not faithful in their marriages! Reasons best known to them,i avoid them like a plague! But most times they don't wear their wedding bands,and they swear to heavens that they are single, just to lure single ladies! Marriage is now a sham! In most cases, these married ladies are nt aware of the monsters they marry as husband's! The blame d single ladies and forget to caution their husband's! Even tho u go and pour acid on d lady! He has a thousand and one of them, single ladies should just be careful! Men are dangerous,shekina

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Re: Married Men And Their Wooing Palaver by pinkpebbles(f): 9:27am On Dec 08, 2016
If you want to go Biblical, then I need to remind you that your quote totally speaks of Adam who could not take responsibilty for eating the apple. He had to blame the woman for giving him the apple.
CorGier:


See that Cognitive Dissonance there?
Reminds one of the Biblical Eve and the snake, doesn't it.
Like her, you ladies are never accountable for anything. It's always someone else's fault.
You can blame Mr A all you want. Mrs A is the one hurting, and she knows who she would rather go after.
Re: Married Men And Their Wooing Palaver by Nobody: 9:34am On Dec 08, 2016
ujudiaz:
Most married men, chase after young ladies,or will I say 85% of married men are not faithful in their marriages! Reasons best known to them,i avoid them like a plague! But most times they don't wear their wedding bands,and they swear to heavens that they are single, just to lure single ladies! Marriage is now a sham! In most cases, these married ladies are nt aware of the monsters they marry as husband's! The blame d single ladies and forget to caution their husband's! Even tho u go and pour acid on d lady! He has a thousand and one of them, single ladies should just be careful! Men are dangerous,shekina
some of u ladies would just be blaming married men.if not i see what these married men go through frm single ladies then maybe i would agree with this ur post but then i see what they go through and sometimes i even feel for them.NO married man would just just wake up one day and be looking for single girls to devour except if he is a seasoned Aristo.And the aristoes prefer hooking up with professional runz girls.The thing is girls who hang out with married men are either full time or part time runz girls.

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Re: Married Men And Their Wooing Palaver by Nobody: 9:35am On Dec 08, 2016
pinkpebbles:
If you want to go Biblical, then I need to remind you that your quote totally speaks of Adam who could not take responsibilty for eating the apple. He had to blame the woman for giving him the apple.

Nah, let's not go there. But advice your girls to stay off married men. Temptation is no excuse.

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Re: Married Men And Their Wooing Palaver by pinkpebbles(f): 9:37am On Dec 08, 2016
Well, they are tryin their best. Advice your men to stick to their wives. Dat is what marriage is all about afterall smiley
CorGier:


Nah, let's not go there. But advice your girls to stay off married men. Temptation is no excuse.

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Re: Married Men And Their Wooing Palaver by pinkpebbles(f): 9:39am On Dec 08, 2016
Please stop saying no married man comes afer single girls. Infact being married does not stop them. They want a regular relationship. The one attainable were they single. They want to take you to d movies, go on dinners and do evrything like a boyfriend.
lefulefu:
some of u ladies would just be blaming married men.if not i see what these married men go through frm single ladies then maybe i would agree with this ur post but then i see what they go through and sometimes i even feel for them.NO married man would just just wake up one day and be looking for single girls to devour except if he is a seasoned Aristo.And the aristoes prefer hooking up with professional runz girls.The thing is girls who hang out with married men are either full time or part time runz girls.
Re: Married Men And Their Wooing Palaver by Nobody: 9:42am On Dec 08, 2016
pinkpebbles:
OMG! I cannot believe this is how low women have sunk. There are so many Nigerian girls that are working hard as to be independent. Look around, I am sure you will see one.
Sure pebbles i agree there are a few nigerian ladies who are independent and i admire and respect them.But what i am saying is that in Nigeria a young lady who dates a married man does so for comfort and money and the married man who is doing it does it for sex.Eh doesn't need any love frm the girl cos he can get all that love frm his wife.Have u not heard cases of married men who are not financially buoyant would use the money meant for their children's school fees on their mistress or use the family savings to buy a car for the mistress.Its not love that pushes such a man to take such drastic step but Lust.

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Re: Married Men And Their Wooing Palaver by Nobody: 9:44am On Dec 08, 2016
pinkpebbles:
Well, they are tryin their best. Advice your men to stick to their wives. Dat is what marriage is all about afterall smiley

Men would always be men nah. We can't help ourselves.
Re: Married Men And Their Wooing Palaver by pinkpebbles(f): 9:44am On Dec 08, 2016
Ok, let me ask you a quick one. How then do most of these women end up becoming the man's second wife if it were purely lust.
lefulefu:
Sure pebbles i agree there are a few nigerian ladies who are independent and i admire and respect them.But what i am saying is that in Nigeria a young lady who dates a married man does so for comfort and money and the married man who is doing it does it for sex.Eh doesn't need any love frm the girl cos he can get all that love frm his wife.Have u not heard cases of married men who are not financially buoyant would use the money meant for their children's school fees on their mistress or use the family savings to buy a car for the mistress.Its not love that pushes such a man to take such drastic step but Lust.
Re: Married Men And Their Wooing Palaver by Nobody: 9:45am On Dec 08, 2016
pinkpebbles:
Please stop saying no married man comes afer single girls. Infact being married does not stop them. They want a regular relationship. The one attainable were they single. They want to take you to d movies, go on dinners and do evrything like a boyfriend.
haha wat sort of married man would want to take his mistress to a cinema or dinner.such courtesys are meant for his wife.

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