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Re: Married Men And Their Wooing Palaver by pinkpebbles(f): 9:45am On Dec 08, 2016
Geez. Weldone Man. But what you need to understand is that what is good for the goose is also good for the gander cheesy
CorGier:


Men would always be men nah. We can't help ourselves.
Re: Married Men And Their Wooing Palaver by pinkpebbles(f): 9:47am On Dec 08, 2016
Eh! That is the trend now. Like i said, they are married but want to enjoy singlehood. I dont know how that works for them sha.
lefulefu:
haha wat sort of married man would want to take his mistress to a cinema or dinner.such courtesys are meant for his wife.
Re: Married Men And Their Wooing Palaver by Nobody: 9:54am On Dec 08, 2016
pinkpebbles:
Ok, let me ask you a quick one. How then do most of these women end up becoming the man's second wife if it were purely lust.
cos then he won't need to be playing hide and seek but then polygamy its only possible in certain groups in Nigeria that allow it.And pls take note that a man who engages in polygamy would find it difficult to share that deep love that he has with his first wife with the other wives.Anyway any young man who still practice polygamy in this modern age is just digging his grave.We are not in things fall apart era.
Re: Married Men And Their Wooing Palaver by Bizibi(m): 9:54am On Dec 08, 2016
pinkpebbles:
I beg to differ. An average lady wants to be independent and self- sufficient not necessarily date a ready made man. A below average girl falls into that category. Most of the married men do not even offer money to the girls. They offer availability. They want a regular relationship. So it is not like they are paying the girls. So i do not think it is about the money
only few nigerian single ladies reason like that......many are liabilities only few are assets

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Re: Married Men And Their Wooing Palaver by Nobody: 10:01am On Dec 08, 2016
pinkpebbles:
Eh! That is the trend now. Like i said, they are married but want to enjoy singlehood. I dont know how that works for them sha.
hmm na wa....cheesy.Could be maybe such a married guy was probably forced to marry his wife for him to act like that.The common infidelity is a sort of business leve.He provides the girl with material things and she provides her body in exchange.To be on a romance date with a single babe that's way beyond funnycheesy.He can do dat with the wife.
Re: Married Men And Their Wooing Palaver by Nobody: 10:02am On Dec 08, 2016
pinkpebbles:
Geez. Weldone Man. But what you need to understand is that what is good for the goose is also good for the gander cheesy

Peebles, no even go there.
The gander has got that thing between his legs for a reason.
Geese should stick to laying eggs, matrimonially.

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Re: Married Men And Their Wooing Palaver by pinkpebbles(f): 10:02am On Dec 08, 2016
And you think all men love their wives? Some are jst conveniently married. Not becoz they have deep love for her. They keep their wives at home and go insearch of that deep love
lefulefu:
cos then he won't need to be playing hide and seek but then polygamy its only possible in certain groups in Nigeria that allow it.And pls take note that a man who engages in polygamy would find it difficult to share that deep love that he has with his first wife with the other wives.Anyway any young man who still practice polygamy in this modern age is just digging his grave.We are not in things fall apart era.
Re: Married Men And Their Wooing Palaver by pinkpebbles(f): 10:04am On Dec 08, 2016
Like i said, these days, it has gone beyond just her body. Its not an affair. It is a relationship. I have a friend that left her husband because he is inlove with another woman. It must have been a relationship. Not jst a love affair
lefulefu:
hmm na wa....cheesy.Could be maybe such a married guy was probably forced to marry his wife for him to act like that.The common infidelity is a sort of business leve.He provides the girl with material things and she provides her body in exchange.To be on a romance date with a single babe that's way beyond funnycheesy.He can do dat with the wife.
Re: Married Men And Their Wooing Palaver by pinkpebbles(f): 10:05am On Dec 08, 2016
Kai. I give up on u grin
CorGier:


Peebles, no even go there.
The gander has got that thing between his legs for a reason.
Geese should stick to laying eggs, matrimonially.
Re: Married Men And Their Wooing Palaver by Nobody: 10:08am On Dec 08, 2016
Truth be told married men are worse when. It comes to getting single ladies to lay .
What the op is saying is true.
Married women should start dealing with their longer throat husbands.
I was telling a friend that any married woman who dares come to my doorstep to attack or threaten me, cause of her husband that am. Not even dating o, but possibly she feels am dating him due to false information.. She should just know that Lagos will Not contain, she and her family anymore..
Cause I hate embarrassment and I always tell married men, hell no! Go back to. Your wives. But if the wives body dey hot, and na me she one face? She go know say my own sef na Volcano grin

But seriously, married men doing this runz.. I just shake my head. U guys should just stop and be faithful to your wives sad

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Re: Married Men And Their Wooing Palaver by Nobody: 10:08am On Dec 08, 2016
pinkpebbles:
Kai. I give up on u grin

Now dats a good girl.
Catch u later.

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Re: Married Men And Their Wooing Palaver by pinkpebbles(f): 10:12am On Dec 08, 2016
Well spoken. I think it is a case of long throat as you have clearly stated
Amelian:
Truth be told married men are worse when. It comes to getting single ladies to lay .
What the op is saying is true.
Married women should start dealing with their longer throat husbands.
I was telling a friend that any married woman who dares come to my doorstep to attack or threaten me, cause of her husband that am. Not even dating o, but possibly she feels am dating him due to false information.. She should just know that Lagos will Not contain, she and her family anymore..
Cause I hate embarrassment and I always tell married men, hell no! Go back to. Your wives. But if the wives body dey hot, and na me she one face? She go know say my own sef na Volcano grin

But seriously, married men doing this runz.. I just shake my head. U guys should just stop and be faithful to your wives sad
Re: Married Men And Their Wooing Palaver by Nobody: 10:14am On Dec 08, 2016
pinkpebbles:
Well spoken. I think it is a case of long throat as you have clearly stated


Yes oooo.. It is! angry

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Re: Married Men And Their Wooing Palaver by ipain: 10:14am On Dec 08, 2016
pinkpebbles:
Married men are the most desperate men. They can go any length to get a girl. Infact eh, if a married man means you, it will take the Grace of God for you to not fall. They have all kinds of tricks down their sleeves.
When I see married women cursing on girls who fall for their husband, I actually feel sorry for them. They are attacking the wrong people. You do not know how many times the girl has said no but your desperate husband does everything withing his humanly power. Things single men dont do. Once you tell a single man no, he moves on already. So this is cheers to all the sisters that have not fallen prey to all the married men's tatics. You guys are strong and I commend you for that. And for those that fell, I cant blame you, but I urge you to be stronger and they will not succeed again. And for the wives, pls try and start apportioning more blames to your husbands .They are actually the problem.

That's is why I can't marry and ugly lady. It's all about knowing what makes one cheat, which seem to be the issue with most of these men plus the fact that they are selfish and greedy, never satisfied with what they have.
Re: Married Men And Their Wooing Palaver by pinkpebbles(f): 10:17am On Dec 08, 2016
Yea. Its all about being content. Coz if you like beautiful women, you will always see one more beautiful than the one you have.
ipain:


That's is why I can't marry and ugly lady. It's all about knowing what makes one cheat, which seem to be the issue with most of these men plus the fact that they are selfish and greedy, never satisfied with what they have.
Re: Married Men And Their Wooing Palaver by ipain: 10:30am On Dec 08, 2016
dacblogger:

what you dnt know is that those ladies that jump from one sugardaddy to another are the ones that marry on time, so those ones you see in church looking for husbands are the good ones... and I have solid proof 2 back up my claim, do u
lol. So in your reasoning, the bad girls get married, leaving the good ones behind right? It's true in a way though.
Re: Married Men And Their Wooing Palaver by ipain: 10:32am On Dec 08, 2016
pinkpebbles:
Wow. I cannot believe you just asked that. Anyways it is because you are a guy. Infact when you tell them pls leave me you are married. They will ask you if being married is a sickness lipsrsealed
LWKMD
Re: Married Men And Their Wooing Palaver by ipain: 10:46am On Dec 08, 2016
pinkpebbles:
Yea. Its all about being content. Coz if you like beautiful women, you will always see one more beautiful than the one you have.
lol. I am never greedy. Just be beautiful enough for me. Besides, beauty with stupid manners does not hold me.

I am very contented with what I have and no, time is of essence here. Why should I spend my time running after ladies, will their pussies be any different from my wife? Will their boobs be any different or any element that gives sexual sensation? What I see its just a sense of accomplishment on number ladies bedded by them, nothing else.

in my life, I can still count the number of ladies I have been with, not up to 6 and that's me.

So, women who marry these men should have themselves to blame because they can hardly resist the aura of a "bad boy", hence they fall prey into den of lions like the NDDC staff who stabbed to death by her "bad boy" boyfriend, while she might turned down mr "nice guy"

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Re: Married Men And Their Wooing Palaver by Nobody: 10:55am On Dec 08, 2016
You'd think it would be an obvious piece of information to mention but apparently not with a lot of Nigerian men in particular. That's why asking them if they're married should be a fundamental part of initial introductions if they approach/woo you I swear lol
Re: Married Men And Their Wooing Palaver by drnoel: 10:58am On Dec 08, 2016
pinkpebbles:
So that is all you could deduce from this post. Your orgasm is not just soft, I think your brain is too. sad

Madam sorry but ur post screams of ignorance. The knife cuts acrross both single and married, across both men and women. U are female so u won't understand but ask urself why would a married man be desperate for punny outside his home? The answer is not farfetched. I don't approve the BS neither to I propagate it but to come and start generalizing on all married men that very low and silly (take it anyhow u feel it was meant). Its just like me saying all women are bitches. That would be very wrong and low of me cos I know its a lie.
Anyway ur opinion is flawed and thank god its just ur opinion and not a fact.
But be advised lot of ladies esp single ladies prefer married men cos of little colateral damage and no drama unlike single guys.

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Re: Married Men And Their Wooing Palaver by pinkpebbles(f): 10:59am On Dec 08, 2016
They even hide it. I met one that refused to give up his marital status until one day he calld me and i heard daddy welcome at the background. If you see the way he cut the phone eh. My dear when he called back I told him to carry his wahala and go
1bkaye:
You'd think it would be an obvious piece of information to mention but apparently not with a lot of Nigerian men. That's why asking them if they're married should be a fundamental part of initial introductions if they approach/woo you I swear lol

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Re: Married Men And Their Wooing Palaver by Nobody: 11:00am On Dec 08, 2016
1bkaye:
You'd think it would be an obvious piece of information to mention but apparently not with a lot of Nigerian men. That's why asking them if they're married should be a fundamental part of initial introductions if they approach/woo you I swear lol


They don't like the question. . .The good ones always put der rings on.


#YOLO
Re: Married Men And Their Wooing Palaver by Nobody: 11:02am On Dec 08, 2016
pinkpebbles:
They even hide it. I met one that refused to give up his marital status until one day he calld me and i heard daddy welcome at the background. If you see the way he cut the phone eh. My dear when he called back I told him to carry his wahala and go
Loool
richommie:

They don't like the question. . .The good ones always put der rings on.
#YOLO
Lool there was one I came a across that didn't even bother to hide the ring, or he forgot to take it off, whichever, I was like :/ Lmaoo
Re: Married Men And Their Wooing Palaver by Nobody: 11:06am On Dec 08, 2016
pinkpebbles:
They even hide it. I met one that refused to give up his marital status until one day he calld me and i heard daddy welcome at the background. If you see the way he cut the phone eh. My dear when he called back I told him to carry his wahala and go

Lol I don't know why, dey don't want us (fresh bloods) to enjoy our ladies.
I can't fight over a girl with a married man.
I could recall back vividly. . .wen a girl asked me. .if my room-mate is married. .,i told her yes..with 3kids.
He came back and was mad at me. . .shouting. ..threatened to deal with me.
I was befuddled. . .


#YOLO

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Re: Married Men And Their Wooing Palaver by pinkpebbles(f): 11:09am On Dec 08, 2016
Firstly, there was no place I generalised all men. I am specifically talking about married men who chase girls and their desperation. I do not see where this concerns the men who do not. And for why a man will be desperate to cheat on his wife. It is only logical to say that if you keep doing the same thing for so long, you get bored. Some men find ways to spice it up while others opt to look outside. This post is about the latter and not men in general. Thank you
drnoel:


Madam sorry but ur post screams of ignorance. The knife cuts acrross both single and married, across both men and women. U are female so u won't understand but ask urself why would a married man be desperate for punny outside his home? The answer is not farfetched. I don't approve the BS neither to I propagate it but to come and start generalizing on all married men that very low and silly (take it anyhow u feel it was meant). Its just like me saying all women are bitches. That would be very wrong and low of me cos I know its a lie.
Anyway ur opinion is flawed and thank god its just ur opinion and not a fact.
But be advised lot of ladies esp single ladies prefer married men cos of little colateral damage and no drama unlike single guys.
Re: Married Men And Their Wooing Palaver by Nobody: 11:15am On Dec 08, 2016
1bkaye:
LooolLool there was one I came a across that didn't even bother to hide the ring, or he forgot to take it off, whichever, I was like :/ Lmaoo


grin cheesy cheesy



Lol he's a good man. . .i guess IT'S his first time grin


#YOLO
Re: Married Men And Their Wooing Palaver by Nobody: 11:25am On Dec 08, 2016
dacblogger:
o.p I understand what you are saying..they will lure you with every possible means, they even shower more love and care than the so-called bfs...you ve 2 be very strong in other to resist their advances. one offered 2 get me a car just for me 2 sleep with him, they can call you day and night and so on..

So did you accept the car? I would have accepted the car tho. Who cares anyway undecided
Re: Married Men And Their Wooing Palaver by schumastic(m): 11:26am On Dec 08, 2016
dacblogger:

dearie, a man that will cheat will cheat whether you do it 2 another person or not, karma has nothing to do with the cheating behavior of men...

SO THE LADIES WHO ARE ALSO IN A RELATIONSHIP BUT GO AHEAD TO SLEEP WITH THE MARRIED MEN ARE NOT CHEATING RIGHT?

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Re: Married Men And Their Wooing Palaver by Nobody: 11:28am On Dec 08, 2016
Well, I think it's about time single girls stop whining about the attention they get frommarried men, even married women get such attention too(fact). I think if you stop making yourself so available to them, they wouldn't bug you...I mean, you give them your all your phone numbers, what's app, BBM pin, email sef, Facebook page name, IG ID, twitter handle etc...availability my dear sisters, availability. And you say you don't like the attention? You cannot put chicken on the table and expect no one to eat it or ask for it.

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Re: Married Men And Their Wooing Palaver by alaskido(m): 11:29am On Dec 08, 2016
Are you speaking from experience? Please do not spoil market for us o. Haba shocked
Re: Married Men And Their Wooing Palaver by mark666: 11:29am On Dec 08, 2016
Married men are tested! tried! and Confirmed!! -----I tell married guys chasing babes that they are more at risk because majority of the "pit" girls do NOT even know thier HIV status, talk more of going for HIV test....................Married Men be careful for the sake of the Innocent wife at home..............do NOT take home public "pit" to your wife. ABSTAIN and FLEE from pit oloshoe!!!!

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Re: Married Men And Their Wooing Palaver by ajasbaba(m): 11:30am On Dec 08, 2016
married me are experience in handling ladies because they stay with them 24/7.

married men also show much matured love that the single guy cant give you.

they can also spend on you much more than your single guy.

both of you also understand the colabo.you both know what you are into.

i dont blame the ladies that went for married men sha.nah love make in tokyo grin grin grin grin

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