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Re: Why I Won't Marry A Lady that Can't Cook by Nobody: 1:34pm On Dec 10, 2016
Okay undecided
Re: Why I Won't Marry A Lady that Can't Cook by Nobody: 1:54pm On Dec 10, 2016
Mutuwa:


To be honest,I have tried learning how to cook for long.but rather I wasted food stuffs which someone somewhere was in dire need of.so I just quite.

Back in school I had to hire a cook in my second year,before my friends who could cook moved in with me.

It has never been easy with me and hunger. smiley
The internet has made things easier for people, you can surf for recipes to dishes and how to prepare them, that's if you're willing to learn...a man should know how to cook at least a dish, though i prefer your types.

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Re: Why I Won't Marry A Lady that Can't Cook by Mutuwa(m): 1:57pm On Dec 10, 2016
Benita27:
The internet has made things easier for people, you can surf for recipes to dishes and how to prepare them, that's if you're willing to learn...a man should know how to cook at least a dish, though i prefer your types.

I have lot interest jare! Why would you prefer my type,when I would be glued to you for food 247? 3 square wit even side chops. smiley
Re: Why I Won't Marry A Lady that Can't Cook by Genea(f): 2:09pm On Dec 10, 2016
KissChrix:
Two things I don't like : An over dependent Lady and a Lady that doesn't know how to cook


For a Lady not knowing how to cook, one or more factors must have come into play. It's either :
- She has been cuddled and fed all through ..... Something which I personally dislike
-She was never taught how to cook and therefore just figured that teaching Herself something so necessary and worthwhile was just not ... well ... worthwhile.
-She was and is still too lazy to learn how to cook


Just one question before I proceed : How can someone in this modern day and age navigate life without ever learning one of the most fundamental, useful, and creative skills known to man? undecided


Well, I won't mind if a Lady can't cook, but is willing to put in the required effort to learn. smiley
What I do mind is a Lady not knowing how to cook, but refuses to learning and suggests hiring a maid or living off take-out food


Sure I can cook a bit, will learn new recipes and will cook when She's inconvenienced, but why turn it into a full-time job or hire a maid when I have a wife?
If She doesn't cook for Me, what then does She have to offer?


Think about this for a second. If you have reached the age of 25 and you don't know how to whip up a decent meal for yourself, what do you think that says about you as a person, much less a potential relationship partner? Does it indicate that you've just been so busy with your education and your worklife that you haven't had the time to learn to create a basic dish for yourself to eat?


You might hate it. But if you do hate it, then it's my opinion that you lack a certain type of romance , plain and simple.
Cooking requires heart. It demands that you give a damn about someone else, the person or person(s) you are cooking for


You might as well say : " Well, I don't have much heart or interest in fundamental things that show people I care about them!"
If you want a guy to bend over backwards for you, be willing to do the same for him. Learn how to cook for Him smiley



cc : Lalasticlala smiley
don't be stupeeed!!!! Get a house help to cook for yo ass

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Re: Why I Won't Marry A Lady that Can't Cook by Genea(f): 2:12pm On Dec 10, 2016
Tallesty1:
A lady who doesn't know how to cook will have a hard time explaining what she spent her childhood days doing.


She's either an over pampered spoilt baby elephant or a very disobedient lazy child.
r u marrying a chef or a house help U sef cook na... Rubbish

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Re: Why I Won't Marry A Lady that Can't Cook by Nobody: 2:15pm On Dec 10, 2016
Genea:
don't be stupeeed!!!! Get a house help to cook for yo ass

undecidedundecided

Shoroniyen?
Re: Why I Won't Marry A Lady that Can't Cook by Genea(f): 2:16pm On Dec 10, 2016
KissChrix:


undecidedundecided

Shoroniyen?
oro gidi le le, shogbo!!! Get a maid...
Re: Why I Won't Marry A Lady that Can't Cook by Nobody: 2:18pm On Dec 10, 2016
Genea:
oro gidi le le, shogbo!!! Get a maid...

Ki lo n so bayii?


Did you read the post? undecided
Re: Why I Won't Marry A Lady that Can't Cook by Genea(f): 2:20pm On Dec 10, 2016
KissChrix:


Ki lo n so bayii?


Did you read the post? undecided
sure I did, wasted 3mins on it

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Re: Why I Won't Marry A Lady that Can't Cook by Nobody: 2:22pm On Dec 10, 2016
Genea:
sure I did, wasted 3mins on it
Home truth

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Re: Why I Won't Marry A Lady that Can't Cook by Tallesty1(m): 2:24pm On Dec 10, 2016
Genea:
r u marrying a chef or a house help U sef cook na... Rubbish
Once I get a chef and a house help then the next lady is coming in as a baby mama and will be discharged once she gives me a baby or two.




Spoilt brats.

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Re: Why I Won't Marry A Lady that Can't Cook by Genea(f): 2:26pm On Dec 10, 2016
Tallesty1:
Once I get a chef and a house help then the next lady is coming in as a baby mama and will be discharged once she gives me a baby or two.




Spoilt brats.
u sef u r spoilt undecided

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Re: Why I Won't Marry A Lady that Can't Cook by Genea(f): 2:26pm On Dec 10, 2016
KissChrix:


Home truth
u wish wink
Re: Why I Won't Marry A Lady that Can't Cook by Tallesty1(m): 2:27pm On Dec 10, 2016
A spoilt good cook.
Genea:
u sef u r spoilt undecided
Re: Why I Won't Marry A Lady that Can't Cook by Nobody: 2:28pm On Dec 10, 2016
Genea:
u wish wink
Can you cook?

I'm hungry tongue
Re: Why I Won't Marry A Lady that Can't Cook by Nobody: 2:29pm On Dec 10, 2016
Tallesty1:
Once I get a chef and a house help then the next lady is coming in as a baby mama and will be discharged once she gives me a baby or two.




Spoilt brats.

I owe you a bottle of vodka cheesy

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Re: Why I Won't Marry A Lady that Can't Cook by Genea(f): 2:29pm On Dec 10, 2016
KissChrix:


Can you cook?


I'm hungry tongue
I can only boil water wink
Re: Why I Won't Marry A Lady that Can't Cook by Nobody: 2:29pm On Dec 10, 2016
Mutuwa:


I have lot interest jare! Why would you prefer my type,when I would be glued to you for food 247? 3 square wit even side chops. smiley
Lol.
When a man knows how to cook too well it spoils the surprise meals from his wife.
Secondly, you just can't make shakara for them in the kitchen. grin

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Re: Why I Won't Marry A Lady that Can't Cook by Genea(f): 2:30pm On Dec 10, 2016
Tallesty1:
A spoilt good cook.
iffahear, be whyning yasef grin
Re: Why I Won't Marry A Lady that Can't Cook by firstking01(m): 2:31pm On Dec 10, 2016
herzern:
Can't Cook??

That qot me thinkinq,do we still have ladies who can't cook?

I thouqht the Society frowns at that.

Buh I'm very sure all ladies at the aqe 25 should be able to prepare Rice and Stew.


Most of em can prepare the white rice but a lot of em can't cook stew trust me.

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Re: Why I Won't Marry A Lady that Can't Cook by Nobody: 2:32pm On Dec 10, 2016
Genea:
I can only boil water wink
Eez nuh good like this o cry

What am I supposed to do with hot water?
Re: Why I Won't Marry A Lady that Can't Cook by Tallesty1(m): 2:34pm On Dec 10, 2016
Genea:
iffahear, be whyning yasef grin
You can ask my mother.



She raised us well.


And learning to cook was compulsory for both male and female.

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Re: Why I Won't Marry A Lady that Can't Cook by Genea(f): 2:34pm On Dec 10, 2016
KissChrix:


Eez nuh good like this o cry


What am I supposed to do with hot water?
prepare EBA na, egusi soup dey
Re: Why I Won't Marry A Lady that Can't Cook by Genea(f): 2:35pm On Dec 10, 2016
Tallesty1:
You can ask my mother.



She raised us well.


And learning to cook was compulsory for both male and female.
lolx, oya I give up wink
Re: Why I Won't Marry A Lady that Can't Cook by Nobody: 2:36pm On Dec 10, 2016
Genea:
prepare EBA na, egusi soup dey
Oya I go prepare Eba cheesy

Hope the egusi is not from one restaurant?

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Re: Why I Won't Marry A Lady that Can't Cook by herzern(m): 2:36pm On Dec 10, 2016
firstking01:
Most of em can prepare the white rice but a lot of em can't cook stew trust me.


Haha..

Are yhu kiddinq me bruh??

No be to pour qroundnut oil and pepper be stew??
Re: Why I Won't Marry A Lady that Can't Cook by Tallesty1(m): 2:36pm On Dec 10, 2016
Genea:
lolx, oya I give up wink
tonguetonguetongue
Re: Why I Won't Marry A Lady that Can't Cook by firstking01(m): 2:49pm On Dec 10, 2016
herzern:



Haha..

Are yhu kiddinq me bruh??

No be to pour qroundnut oil and pepper be stew??


Na so you think...some of em would either pour excess of the perper or excess of the oil, which ever way they must make mistake trust me.
Re: Why I Won't Marry A Lady that Can't Cook by soberdrunk(m): 4:22pm On Dec 10, 2016
Me i kukuma dey addicted to "Mamaput", i have like 4 different mamaputs" on speed dial, infact on special occasions like xmas, new year and my birthday nah mamaputs dey first send me text so if the future Mrs like, make she nor sabi boil water as long as she nor carry "wahala" come angry angry
Re: Why I Won't Marry A Lady that Can't Cook by beckytunde(f): 4:24pm On Dec 10, 2016
good for you

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Re: Why I Won't Marry A Lady that Can't Cook by Chukazu: 4:28pm On Dec 10, 2016
"village mentality "
any law that requires your wife to be the cook not talk of been a good cook?

people with this kind of reasoning end up been abusers and wife beaters, just check it!

if you grow up in a home where chores are not left for the girl-child, you won't think this way

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