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annayawchee:
You are old enough to know what you want in life, You have choices, qualities you want in a woman irrespective of been a working class or an undergraduate...

SirJeffry:
If that your income per YEAR isn't a typo error and you didn't mean to type per MONTH, then my brother, focus more on building yourself for now.

I will not even encourage my sister to marry you at this stage with this recession.

Obodo999:
Please marry a working class lady with a good job and high salary.
Stay away from the undergraduate ladies. They are leeches and liabilities.

Thank me later.

digitite:
Well, I have a thriving career and stable income that would average 100 to 150k in one year and I am 30. Live in a self Contain and planning toward having a family. If you were to recommend between a working class lady and undergraduate between 20 to 25. Who would you ? Please candid advice needed.

Softorgasm:
Seriously bro, that your annual income is too too too too small for a 20years old guy not to talk of a 30years old man...
Bro face your financial life and forget about marriage for now...

digitite:
Per month income. So what do you say ? Are you marrying her off to someone because of the money ?

adewumiopeyemi:
baba i prefer a workingclass because u wount spend much on her but of u will understand each other while undergraduate u will continue to spend both feeding and other stuff u need to spend ina lady and rember there is some that all she want is ur money so u need to beware of themetc..

dingbang:
what the fvck did you just type?

SirJeffry:
Bro, I'm a realist. A man earning N100k per year which is less than N20k per month isn't fit for marriage yet. A good wife can turn bad at the face of extreme hardship.

I advise you go for a working class woman. A lady that maanages her own money is fit to manage a home unlike an adventurous undergraduate on campus.

lefulefu:
If she is an undergraduate and u both knew each other while u were in school then sure u can move the nxt level with her.But bros if u already working and its now u wanna date i honestly advice u date a working class lady.

Oyenike01:
Under graduate nah wahala biko.

digitite:
Well, I have a thriving career and stable income that would average 100 to 150k in one year and I am 30. Live in a self Contain and planning toward having a family. If you were to recommend between a working class lady and undergraduate between 20 to 25. Who would you ? Please candid advice needed.

BabaRamota1980:
In love and in marriage there values and there are skills.

Hopeful
Compassionate
Embracing
Empathic
Patience


these are all values and you cannot train it, its just part of the personality and nature of the individual. This is what a person acquire in gene from a pedigree.

Good cook
Cleans house
Educated
Working class

these are skills and any girl can be trained to acquire and perfect competencies in these skills. This is what parents knock into us and make habits.

How do i know these things? I hang with old people. Find some very old people in your family or neighborhood to buddy with. The problem with us youths is we dismiss these old people as uneducated and uncredible for counseling. They are the best counselors i have found in my life and haanging around them has paid off tremendously.

Oyenike01:
Under graduate nah wahala biko.

digitite:
I hear you loud and clear . So, can you be my Alice in wonderland ?

wHyyyyyyyyyY:
which of the girls in your dp is you?

adewumiopeyemi:
baba i prefer a workingclass because u wount spend much on her but of u will understand each other while undergraduate u will continue to spend both feeding and other stuff u need to spend ina lady and rember there is some that all she want is ur money so u need to beware of themetc..

Oyenike01:
I'm an under graduate o, I pirry your salary.

digitite:
Well, I have a thriving career and stable income that would average 100 to 150k in one year and I am 30. Live in a self Contain and planning toward having a family. If you were to recommend between a working class lady and undergraduate between 20 to 25. Who would you ? Please candid advice needed.

Ayemileto:
So, which one did you eventually marry?