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Sunky200:
i once told my bae that "there is no such thing as a perfect relationship", i was suprised when she agreed that i was right and even further emphasise my with examples.

You're right toks, very right.

mutual understanding and tolerance always do the magic

Yeah! sure

I actually opened this thread thinking op is looking for a lady to marry so that i can throw some jabs at him but oooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooops, so disappointed.

Toks2008 model, are you married ?

These your epistles make little sense to me if you are still single..

Naughtysite:
Toks2008 model, are you married ?

These your epistles make little sense to me if you are still single..

How does my marital status affect the exchange rate of the naira against other currencies?

Please run out of this thread before i descend on you...busy body.

cique:
When most people talk about decency in partners, it's usually about issues bothering or revolving around morality. That's the much I know on that subject.

Yeah

dollyjoy:
I actually opened this thread thinking op is looking for a lady to marry so that i can try my luck with him but oooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooops, so disappointed.

Eyaah sorry but its not a bad idea o..as long as you can cook very well and also ready to learn the big role in the other room in case you are naive about it and less i forget, you have to be pleasing to my eyes too as in having a sexually appealing figure cos my taste is very very high.

selfmadeLX:
Love Love Love.. On everyone's lips
As for me sha

Wettin do you?

Omotayor123:
You said it well toks. For me I just Look out for Someone who loves me and vice versa. Every other thing is secondary.

Cool

Really insightful.

Has lalasticlala seen this insightful piece?

decent in monetary terms.......if you're a guy , seek ye money first, and the decency will be added.

If you want to marry an Angel, Pls make your home Heaven..

Is love enough?



Pray u dont marry someone who will pour u acid 20 years into ut marriage

That word 'decent' is relative.. you shouldn't use it anyhow

what litmus test can you take to confirm someone as decent? choosing a partner is one of the toughest things to do considering the ways humans are wired. we tend to change like weather w.r.t situation on ground.

Reason why d likes of Onyeka onwenu, Genevive and co chose to remain single

just live, do your thing and let others live.. that's all you need to be happy and fulfilled

What the fvck is it with y'all and relationship talks tonight yo!!

Nma27:
At last, sheen you are searching for a decent partner to marry huh; I have one sweet caring lady to hook you up with. Holla at me to match you guys up. P.S she's based in Abuja

I wont mind d hook up... Am an Engineer based in Abuja too... Smiles

Makes sense

Regardless, decorum, courtesy, the fear of God, modesty and common sense will never be sacrificed! You MUST have these qualities before we can...

well am looking 4 the female version of me, she will naturally know me & I her, cause we shall always be on dsame wavelength

Can I get a decent partner on nairaland?

What scientific backing do u have for ur claims?. While ur opinion may be sometimes or even many times true it will be fallacious to make a generalisation of it.. Personally I beleive if ur requirements nd standards are not unrealistic and ridiculously inordinate some one out there is available who will meet them.. Ur job is to find her/him out.. Meanwhile I also do not beleive that relationship should be endured but enjoyed

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Toks2008:
Often times we hear the single and searching use this phrase and I tend to wonder what it means to be decent?

Decency means a different thing to different people but according to the English dictionary, the word decent is an adjective used to describe an acceptable or satisfactory standard of a person which brings to mind this simple question;"Can one ever find a partner who has a total satisfactory and acceptable persona?"

The answer is a BIG NO.

You say Tony is a dude but he is too stingy,Jude is romantic but too lousy,Dele is caring but talks too much,Stephen is focused but too possessive and you just broke up with Tade because he is too arrogant.

You say Abigail seems ok but she is dirty, you like Mary but she is too dry,Mayowa would have been your ideal lady but she lacks manners and kaffy is so calm but she can't speak good English.

No matter how hard you try, you will never find a "decent" partner that meets all your standard and there will always be a reason to leave that partner of yours because every one of us have one or two indecent character which may not be too obvious at first but will usually come crawling to the surface in due time and when such nature becomes obvious,we tend to wonder where it has been hiding in that person and we usually tag it "irreconcilable differences" then we break up with that person just to be on a wide goose chase with another presumably better partner.

The bottom line is that we should stop looking for a partner that will pass the decency test and learn to take people for who they are. You may never see all you want in one person and if you think you have then be prepared for a rude shock when you eventually discover the indecent side.

Have an open mind when searching for a partner and look for the top most quality you want and be prepared to tolerate him or her,learn to celebrate the good sides and overlook the bad sides because no one is really totally decent and that includes you.

N.B:The act of physical violence against your partner transcends beyond an indecent act but a beastly one hence this write up does not encourage anyone to tolerate a partner who is violent.

Hope this makes sense.

women will love this rubbish because it favor them...


ask the svpid women themself! were they not fvking every tom and diccck just to get money

and later in life those apes will be searching for decent men to marry!

life don't work like that....


your writeup sometimes (in fact most times just look childish)

Even if she's promiscuous?

E no easy to see better babes to love dis days....

I decided to give my babe... 3k that year to cook better soup 4 me... Na so she carry 3k... Use am plait hair... Cum dey tell me say she dey owe them sef for saloon...

I just weak.... I cum dey imagine if I marry dis babe put for house... Na so she go dey beautify herself.. Forget him man belle....

Chai.... Love hard to find oool

As for me, all dis looking for perfect or d one we can tolerate is non sense, our fathers and mothers at dt time don't look @ dt, all they were looking for was d family background and d rest is secondary.

The problem of we youths now are day, we critize a lot, condemm each other a lot, can't tolerate, always seeing ourselves to be Right most time, we don't look @ nature has it flows, how every matter accept one another, we lack d ability to understand people, dt y we re always condemming.

If we can love each other and stop looking at our differences, d world will be totally clear to us and we begin to love one another.

Getting a suitable partner is not difficult is just dt u re diffcult.

Am in abuja too

Nma27:
At last, sheen you are searching for a decent partner to marry huh; I have one sweet caring lady to hook you up with. Holla at me to match you guys up. P.S she's based in Abuja

Diplomaticbeing:
Yes, one can find a decent partner. This is so because attitude (persona or superfication) is not always direct reflection of attribute. The former can be learned or faked but the latter is innate.

So, one who is able to differentiate attitude from attribute can sure find a decent partner. Using standard-base of 100 percent, any partner that possesses from 70 percent upwards of the attributes one desires in a partner can lay claim of having a decent partner.

However, tell me that one cannot find a perfect partner and I will agree with you 100 percent.

Attitude is different from attribute,I'm learning,it seems nice to me.

Well said, may you never die young. Alot of girls out there today are mofos who believed going to cinema, taking them to eatery and giving them money is love. I haven't experienced what they call true love or decency before from a girl.

Seamareggae:
E no easy to see better babes to love dis days....

I decided to give my babe... 3k that year to cook better soup 4 me... Na so she carry 3k... Use am plait hair... Cum dey tell me say she dey owe them sef for saloon...

I just weak.... I cum dey imagine if I marry dis babe put for house... Na so she go dey beautify herself.. Forget him man belle....

Chai.... Love hard to find oool

lol

Nma27:
At last, sheen you are searching for a decent partner to marry huh; I have one sweet caring lady to hook you up with. Holla at me to match you guys up. P.S she's based in Abuja

just say you want to hook yourself up

did she tell you that she is looking for someone to hook up

how did you know she is caring and sweet? and what make you think that she (you) will he caring and sweet to the opposite sex



look at them. where were you when guys are coming ya way? now you are looking for someone to hook up


hypocritic set of naija woman.

Toks2008:
Often times we hear the single and searching use this phrase and I tend to wonder what it means to be decent?

Decency means a different thing to different people but according to the English dictionary, the word decent is an adjective used to describe an acceptable or satisfactory standard of a person which brings to mind this simple question;"Can one ever find a partner who has a total satisfactory and acceptable persona?"

The answer is a BIG NO.

You say Tony is a dude but he is too stingy,Jude is romantic but too lousy,Dele is caring but talks too much,Stephen is focused but too possessive and you just broke up with Tade because he is too arrogant.

You say Abigail seems ok but she is dirty, you like Mary but she is too dry,Mayowa would have been your ideal lady but she lacks manners and kaffy is so calm but she can't speak good English.

No matter how hard you try, you will never find a "decent" partner that meets all your standard and there will always be a reason to leave that partner of yours because every one of us have one or two indecent character which may not be too obvious at first but will usually come crawling to the surface in due time and when such nature becomes obvious,we tend to wonder where it has been hiding in that person and we usually tag it "irreconcilable differences" then we break up with that person just to be on a wide goose chase with another presumably better partner.

The bottom line is that we should stop looking for a partner that will pass the decency test and learn to take people for who they are. You may never see all you want in one person and if you think you have then be prepared for a rude shock when you eventually discover the indecent side.

Have an open mind when searching for a partner and look for the top most quality you want and be prepared to tolerate him or her,learn to celebrate the good sides and overlook the bad sides because no one is really totally decent and that includes you.

N.B:The act of physical violence against your partner transcends beyond an indecent act but a beastly one hence this write up does not encourage anyone to tolerate a partner who is violent.

Hope this makes sense.

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