vani86:



Like i said, you are a big, irresponsible, immature bigot.

Out of the 2 of us, who came up with a comment that smells of lunacy.

Conjure nature and your voodoo thing.

Keyboard warrior

lol.... I wasnt even competing who had the best comment. If your grey matter was really functioning, you'd see that.

Oh. I see, you seem like an atheist. No wonder you act like your ape ancestors.

I'd insult your mother for your lack of sense and focus on your business but no... I'm not like you. I respect people mothers.

Sule. Lol.

MizFrances:

Are you okay

Ehn? Another slap.

This is serious! And I thought all along that women generally love money more than sex!

I hahahaha u just made me forgot my atm pin

Elnino4ladies:
Send me your number let me continue from where he stopped

EgusiSoup:


If you quote me again again i will pour hot Egusi on someone's head

I will pour Urhobo pepper soup on yours, you'll probably need another set of eyes after that

Rhea:


For now, focus on baby and yourself. Trim those pregnancy fat off (no offense, but we all get them after birth). Tighten up the V with Kegel exercises. Nothing radical...simple pushups and ab crunches everyday. Eat whatever you like as long as you work out 3X a week. In 3 months, he will be drooling over you. Men notice things like that. Then you can start your own shakara aloje.

Men can be ironic some times. When you want to give up on child bearing and focus on regaining your prenupt body physique, they get all Hot and booom....you're laid again and counting down to 9 months.

Apt comment dear

psalmistkakah:
My wife gave birth 11 months ago..and till date I Neva touch her..

E be like this one na the brother of Op husband oo

Whoelse can imagine how she's going to respond when the man finally turn up for sex

Pidgin2:
Your husband is cheating on you.

yes. Meb are useless

pocohantas:


Hypocrite.
Why didn't you advise the man getting twice a way to change his dressing? Get someone to reduce the burden on his wife.
Get a hotel room...
Or you think women don't stop finding men unattractve.



This was your advice to him.
Some of you are on a mission to break homes.

Hahaha so you carry the other matter come here

Pidgin2:
Your husband is cheating on you.

yes. Men are so useless

Crashing of MMM caused his MOOD to crash too

That's why is not good for your husband to be around while you give birth. I personally will not feel comfortable again.
But if he was not there while you gave birth then it might be you don't take good care of yourself. Bath regularly to get breast milk smell off your body, apply perfume after bath.
Am talking as a man ooo (as in what can make my wife unattractive after birth)

kinibigdeal:
Maybe you gave birth in is presence

u re very correct, it do happen to me when my babe gave birth to my first child in my presence ,I almost lost interest in sleeping wit her for a while, but not up to seven months shaa ooo
Lol

EgusiSoup:


you want to be screwing after 7 months?

I think you should respect yourself for a while.

what is this one saying?

EgusiSoup:


you want to be screwing after 7 months?

I think you should respect yourself for a while.

I guess you are not married.
Most women who deliver vaginally and through CS start having s.x after about four weeks from the date of delivery.
Medically, its advised that a newly delivered woman should avoid sex for about three weeks to allow the Veeejay heal properly or the CS wound to heal well.
@Op, its possible your husband was in the delivery room with you and saw the pain you went through and this has created 'a psychological guilt' within him, which makes him think that he had caused you so much pain and does not want to hurt you again.
I will advise that you go for marriage counselling classes on the above issue as it has happened to many other men before.

africanusvu:
.Just 7mnths old.he may be spacing conscious.But pls alow me to go a bit raw.as a maried man.i observe most of our women gives up on their physique.hygience.etc after 1st child.they alow d breast to go flat.alow d pusy to sag.the tommy got swolen wit cracks.too weak to aply make ups.go out of shape.after 1st and 2nd born.u began to wonder if this is that ur BABY 3yrs back.some loose all their romantic characters and turn to naggin.somtimes my wif wil just tel me'Nnaa IF U WANT TO DO ANYTHING BE FAST JOO.I WANT TO SLEEP.sometimes i wil be in action and nest thing i wil hear is.JUDE.THEY DRIVE THESE KIDS FRM SCHOOL TODAY.ANUOFIA.SO OTU KA IMA KA ESI ARA.,My dick wil just go limp inside her.then she wil say.OZU NWOKE.U MUST AV OVER DRUNK AND CANT EVEN PERFORM

Funny comment sir . Chai marriage!

See my dear u have to always look very clean at all times and dress d way u use to when he first meet u make sure u ar always looking sexly, an anytime his at home dress well an d baby retend as if u want to go out, he will wander why u want to go out while his around in house.trust me he wil get jealous an want come back to you.

until you know the reason for the sudden lost of interest on your man's part, you may know the solution to the issue on ground. just try to find out what could be responsible for his lack of interest in sex.

MizTyna:


I will pour Urhobo pepper soup on yours, you'll probably need another set of eyes after that

hahahaha, u ppl wan kil peson wt laf oh, na so i memorise all the insult i got here take go insult 1 yeye girl for fb, now the girl reply me she's consedering suicide, na NL teach me oh no be my fult,

Pidgin2:
Your husband is cheating on you.

but she didn't mention it's her husband

wristbangle:


Apt comment dear

why is it when u seek advice on important isue on NL, u hav to read at least 100 coments b4 u can get just 1 good advice, 99% wil even be fighting themself somwhere else,

BiafranBushBoy:
But I thought girls don't like sex!!

Nawa oo...

EbereHopewell:
yes. Men are so useless

women are soo worthless

johnsonjosbles:
hahahaha, u ppl wan kil peson wt laf oh, na so i memorise all the insult i got here take go insult 1 yeye girl for fb, now the girl reply me she's consedering suicide, na NL teach me oh no be my fult,

When you spend too much time on NL, your "insulting skills" sharpens so bad that you automatically become an offensive drill for anyone who wants to attack you offline and other social media.

That aside, I read through the comments and I have learnt few things about marital challenges and new things about ladies.

goingape1:
why he is not in the mood?

reasons!


after you give birth you start wearing rag as cloth!




you don't do exercise to keep you in shape.




you talk anyhow!





you started developing some kind of smell after birth.




your hole is still large after given birth.



are not romantic... ( you don't initiate move. keep expecting him to tell you to open your yansh for him)

U just capped it,some of them don't know that Its their behaviour that make men lose interest in sex

johnsonjosbles:
why is it when u seek advice on important isue on NL, u hav to read at least 100 coments b4 u can get just 1 good advice, 99% wil even be fighting themself somwhere else,

My brother, I just don't understand neither. Some people here said those who are saying irrelevant/immature statements are kids but don't be surprise that most of them are actually adult with fish brain. Age is not reciprocal with maturity.

Pidgin2:
Your husband is cheating on you.

Chai..... Endtime Comment. Ur username should be "Beanspeppersoup01".

airminem:
I have a 7 month old baby. Ever since the birth, my guy won't get close to me in any sexual way. I have tried everything, but he says he's not in the mood. I don't know what to do or what to think. Please help.

op go tru ur thread agin and see what u'v cus, now my ribs hav broken wt laughter

eagleonearth:
don't say that. We should not be quick to pass judgement unless we've walked in d person's shoes. The wife might have a high libido and the hubby running away from a widened vagina maybe. I only hope the husband is not collecting the thing from outside. Communication is key in marriage.

You dey mind the babe? U no see her username? EgusiSoup

airminem:
I have a 7 month old baby. Ever since the birth, my guy won't get close to me in any sexual way. I have tried everything, but he says he's not in the mood. I don't know what to do or what to think. Please help.

how many times did you turn him down during pregnancy? My wife refused me sex throughout her pregnancy. A year After her delivery I am still not attracted to her sexually. I have been celibate for almost 2 years now.

tochivitus:


did she say they ain't married before ?

What married woman in Nigeria refers to her husband as - "my guy"?